c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 1 正相反，作者认为differentiation必须是在connected的情况下的，否则就只是
individualism, 只有既存在emotional conneted，又能保持自我，才算是
differentiation。
但是emotional connected不等于emotional fusion, 举个例子吧，我是有点
emotional fusion倾向的，当我不开心的时候，LD有时也会跟着不开心，可是有
时还能振作起来安慰我开解我哄我开心，可是当LD不开心的时候，我几乎无一例外
的跟着就不开心了，这个就是emotional fusion。以前自己也很困惑啊，觉得
emotional connected的intimate的人就是会这样啊，我有什么办法呢，我自己很
不开心的时候也的确没有余力再去安慰别人了啊，我能怎么样呢？最近渐渐在想，
我就是把emotional fusion当成了emotional connected, 把dependency当成了
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littleice (家有两宝：狗娃猪仔) 于 (Thu Jul 29 16:58:01 2010, 美东) 提到:
今天去图书馆，偶尔在书架上发现这本书。
positive pushing--how to raise a successful and happy child，by Jim Taylor,
Ph.D.
我一看这个题目就笑了，心说不借来看看，咋对得起推妈的虚名？
看了看目录，貌似还可以。
等我看完了再来汇报。
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onlooker11 (onlooker) 于 (Fri Jul 30 15:34:14 2010, 美东) 提到:
看完了没？
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heleniry (瘦哥胖妹) 于 (Fri Jul 30 15:51:04 2010, 美东) 提到:
等的你读书笔记了。。。
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发帖数: 1197 | 3
跟这帮自称理科的文科生物wsn实在纠缠不清楚。给丫们上点洋大人自己的说法吧，而
且都是学术圈的，已有reference一堆，其中一份是著名的兰德公司的报告。
另外，美国和澳洲已立法限制使用脑波扫描仪，拿脑波扫描仪扫本国公民已是联邦法的
重罪。不过这个比较难的是你无法证实谁接收了你的脑信号。所以立了法跟没立一个样。
Remote Mind Control Technology
Reprinted from SECRET AND SUPPRESSED: BANNED IDEAS AND HIDDEN
HISTORY, edited by Jim Keith, $12.95, available from
1-800-680-INET.
There had been an ongoing controversy over health effects of electromagnetic
fields (EMF) for years (e.g., extremely low frequency radiation and the
Navy's Project Sea... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 19242 | 4 昨晚去听Dr。Gottman的讲座 （Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child）
分享一下，印象深刻的东西.
Two principles of communication:
1. Messages need to preserve both parents' and child's self respect;
2. Words of understanding must PRECEDE words of advice
medaemotion: emotion about emotion,how one feels/sees about different
emotions;
how we "respond"/see to our own emotion, to our child's emotion, has a lot
to do with our medaemotion.
宗旨：it is ok to feel any kind of emotions；it is totally fine to express
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发帖数: 13571 | 5 好好和孩子坐下来平心静气地谈谈，关心他一下，看看是否有啥在困扰他。
昨天刚开始读以前买的书，里面很多话都很有益：
"For parents, this quality of 'emotional intelligence' - as many now call it
- means being aware of your children's feelings, and being able to
empathize, soothe, and guide them. For children, who learn most lessons
about emotion from their parents, it includes the ability to control
impulses, delay gratification, motivate themselves, read other people's
social cues, and cope with life's ups and downs."
"We have found that most parents fa... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 343 | 6 真正的好文啊！ 把苏亚雷斯咬人事件当笑话看看太可惜了。 对他行为深层次的分析发
人深省。
一年多前的文章就预见了今天的悲剧。
The Psychology of Luis Suárez's Flawed Genius
24 Apr 2013 By Paul Waring
Luis Suárez is once again in the news for the wrong reasons. The latest
incident involving Suárez allegedly biting Chelsea's Branislav Ivanovic was
captured by TV cameras at Anfield and has led to a media furore. There have
been calls for the severest possible action by both Liverpool and the FA.
This article considers how Suárez's genius is often accompanied by... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 177 | 7 http://www.refinery29.com/2014/03/64501/susan-miller-horoscopes
Sometimes, it's better to know what's lurking in the shadows, waiting for
you, than to be surprised. Especially if what's out there is kinda scary.
Okay, maybe we're being a tad dramatic, but we all know your horoscope
sometimes holds unpleasant things. And, it's best to be prepared. So, we
asked astrologer extraordinaire Susan Miller to do a deep dive into each of
your signs, and tell us what you need to watch out for when next mon... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2932 | 8 以前卡发卡的短篇小说我非常佩服。中篇看过汉译－－不知道是不是翻译的关系，觉得
很干涩。
最近也看看英译，发现中篇也是非常厉害。佩服佩服！
他给我印象最深的倒不是情节的荒诞，吸引我的也不是情节；而是写法。可惜我只能从
英译揣测了。
以前看到评价说kafka很少用修辞，比如说，很少会看到比喻；这我也有体会，另外修
饰都很简单，没有长句，没有反问。平铺直叙，用词全部通常－－喜欢看恐怖片的都有
体会，恐怖片中最可怕的都是日常镜头，因为这些日常镜头暗示观众－－那些恐怖离他
们自以为安全的生活并不远。不知道是不是kafka的写法也有类似效果，没有奇特的词
，修辞压缩到最简--总之，好像在将语言推到极限。
他的人物塑造我也觉得很有意思。个人妄词：有时候使我想起poe，他们的人物的特点
是没有鲜明特性。
比如在不同的小说里，很难区别那些主人公。
他们的人物在每本小说里有不同的名字和角色，有不同的遭遇；但是性格相似，行为相
似。
不过kafka的人物更像日常普通人，而poe的人物都比较奇特不像存在过的活人。
anyway，我也认为最重要的还不是语言本身，而是背后的东西比如情绪－－即使我容易
被语言本身吸... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 141625 | 9 卡夫卡是挺不动声色的。少修辞、少比喻，海明威也这样，他说得益于以前做记者，他
的编辑要求他不要用形容词副词，形成他以后的简洁文风。
卡夫卡和poe，我觉得他们的情节都挺离奇的。人物的确都是平常人，但因为情节离奇
，我就不当作平常人似的。文字是有点像，都挺不动声色。
这两句英语哪里来的？非常赞同用字的准确性，余华也认为这是文学最重要的：“对一
个作家来说，最重要的是准确，他一定要把自己要想写的东西，用一种最准确地方式表
达出来。那是最能够感人、最能够吸引人的一种手段。”pound这一段很体现他们现代
派的观点，他和t.s.eliot还有yeats都是这个观点，算是对浪漫主义的矫正吧，觉得文
学不该是感情用事、放纵沉溺于自我感情，是需要升华和理性控制的。这和当时二战背
景也有关。反正文学理论就在感情理性之间摇摆，随时代和思潮而异，谁都知道两者皆
不可缺，但身在江湖就有所倾向，呵呵。
他的人物塑造我也觉得很有意思。个人妄词：有时候使我想起poe，他们的人物的特点
是没有鲜明特性。
比如在不同的小说里，很难区别那些主人公。
他们的人物在每本小说里有不同的名字和角色，有不同的遭遇；但是性格相似... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 10 卡夫卡是挺不动声色的。少修辞、少比喻，海明威也这样，他说得益于以前做记者，他
的编辑要求他不要用形容词副词，形成他以后的简洁文风。
卡夫卡和poe，我觉得他们的情节都挺离奇的。人物的确都是平常人，但因为情节离奇
，我就不当作平常人似的。文字是有点像，都挺不动声色。
这两句英语哪里来的？非常赞同用字的准确性，余华也认为这是文学最重要的：“对一
个作家来说，最重要的是准确，他一定要把自己要想写的东西，用一种最准确地方式表
达出来。那是最能够感人、最能够吸引人的一种手段。”pound这一段很体现他们现代
派的观点，他和t.s.eliot还有yeats都是这个观点，算是对浪漫主义的矫正吧，觉得文
学不该是感情用事、放纵沉溺于自我感情，是需要升华和理性控制的。这和当时二战背
景也有关。反正文学理论就在感情理性之间摇摆，随时代和思潮而异，谁都知道两者皆
不可缺，但身在江湖就有所倾向，呵呵。
他的人物塑造我也觉得很有意思。个人妄词：有时候使我想起poe，他们的人物的特点
是没有鲜明特性。
比如在不同的小说里，很难区别那些主人公。
他们的人物在每本小说里有不同的名字和角色，有不同的遭遇；但是性格相似... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1197 | 11 学术界珍稀有限的原版外文资料，
Remote Mind Control Technology
Reprinted from SECRET AND SUPPRESSED: BANNED IDEAS AND HIDDEN
HISTORY, edited by Jim Keith, $12.95, available from
1-800-680-INET.
There had been an ongoing controversy over health effects of electromagnetic
fields (EMF) for years (e.g., extremely low frequency radiation and the
Navy's Project Seafarer; emissions of high power lines and video display
terminals; radar and other military and industrial sources of radio
frequencies and micr... 阅读全帖 |
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t******n
发帖数: 6242 | 12 今天无聊，看到这篇无聊的文章，就给你无聊地翻译成英文吧。
探索星系的捷径
A Shortcut to Galaxy Exploration
1. 问苍天情为何物？
1. Ask what love is heaven?
有人类的历史以来，人类就不断地探索自然，扩展了解自然的疆界。哥伦布发现新大陆
就是最好的例子。人类探索自然的勇气是从哪儿来的呢？来自人类情感的力量。那么，
情感是什么东西呢？这是千万年来，文学家探索的主题。在有一些文学家的眼中，物理
学家是没有情感的冷血动物。我就是一个物理学家。但是，我一点也不埋怨这些文学家
。虽然物理学家在自然界的探索中做出了伟大的贡献，但是，物理学家从来就没有给出
情感的物理定义是什么，也没有找到自然界蕴含情感的丝毫证据。所以，虽然人类知道
自己的生存发展跟自然环境是密不可分的，但是，很少有人类表达出对自然环境感谢的
情感。在很多人的眼中，自然界是死亡无情的物质世界。中国有一句古语，叫做“天若
有情天亦老”。因为几乎所有人类相信天是不老的，所以，认为苍天是没有情感的，就
不足为奇了。我提出了一个宇宙生长衰老的模型。虽然这个模型及其简单，能解释大多
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发帖数: 1598 | 13 BY TINA AMIRTHA8 MINUTE READ
This story contains interviews with Christian Kästner, assistant
professor at Carnegie Mellon University; Amy Hirotaka, state policy and
advocacy manager at Code.org; and Janet Siegmund, researcher at the
University of Passau.
In order to expose more students to computer science, 17 states have passed
legislation to create basic math and science requirements in the curriculum,
rather than count them as electives. But lawmakers in Texas have made
computer program... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 14 The Wussification is Complete: Two College Students Called Police and Sought
Counseling After Seeing a Mouse in Their Apartment
Jesus H. Christ, what the hell is wrong with these people?
A year ago I received an invitation from the head of Counseling Services
at a major university to join faculty and administrators for discussions
about how to deal with the decline in resilience among students. At the
first meeting, we learned that emergency calls to Counseling had more than
doubled over the... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******n
发帖数: 1267 | 15 Irrational Thinking and Debilitative Emotions
"If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awarenes
, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have
empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are,
you are not going to get very far." -Daniel Goleman
Debilitative emotions detract from effective functioning. The level, or
intensity, of the emotion we're feeling, determines our response to the
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发帖数: 54 | 16 http://kidjacked.com/legal/spanking_law.asp
Alabama
[The Code of Alabama 1975]
Parent/guardian/person responsible for care and supervision of a minor/
teacher or other person responsible for care and supervision of a minor for
a special purpose may use reasonable and appropriate physical force when and
to the extent he reasonably believes it necessary and appropriate to
maintain discipline or promote welfare of the child.
§ 13A-3-24. [Criminal Code]
[See also: Endangering welfare of child. Secti... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 383 | 18 这里有个极好的方法，一个幽默滑稽的手段。
作者Patty Wipfler是个有几十年幼教经验的老师，专门叫parenting也有20多年了。
她网站上还有很多好的文章。
出自：
http://www.handinhandparenting.org/news/168/64/Picky-Eater-Gett
Picky Eater: Getting Beyond "Yuck!"
by Patty Wipfler
Q. I've been struggling with my child's picky eating for a long time now. It
seems that the list of things he wants and really will eat is narrowing
down over time. I don't want him to grow up with the experience of daily
battles over food. But I do want him to eat more than Cheerios and peanu... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 19 楼帅的帖子里最误导的是，那个事件，对小小娃来说，是 “emotional
compromised with a valid cause”。
但是很多事件，对大人/大娃来说，是 “emotional compromised
without a valid cause”。
楼帅所说的 emotion coach / emotion dismissing，仅仅对
“emotional compromised with a valid cause” 才有合理的
意义。
很多的自然成长过程中，在 emotional 方面的自然的 training，
是一个 simulation of future reality。任何一个 simulation，
都是让 trainee 有 certain rate of failure，一个不会让
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RedLeaves (Red Leaves) 于 (Mon Oct 7 10:32:57 2013, 美东) 提到:
发信人: RedLeaves (Red Leaves), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 三岁半的男孩无理哭闹，求解
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 7 00:38:35 2013, 美东)
早晨醒来就开始哭，怎么哄也不行，一直哭。问他为什么哭，也不说。吃饭哭。玩得好
好的，也会突然哭。跟他说一句话，比如“XX，肉肉吃不吃？”他也会哭。晚上准备睡
觉，也会突然躺地上翻滚大哭。他要抓弟弟的脸，大人不让，又是哭。每天断断续续哭
几十回，加起来能有三四个钟头。大人们这脑袋里全是他的哭声在回荡。这种状况已经
持续个把月了。几个月前刚勉强训好知道上厕所，现在一哭就肆无忌惮的尿裤子上。
他以前就爱哭。现在是变本加厉了。以前还玩一玩，也跟人说说话的。现在也不怎么玩
了，就躺缩在地上，不怎么主动说话，也不回答大人的问话。做父母的都被他弄疯了。
见一次儿医抱怨一... 阅读全帖 |
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yonghehong (yonghehong) 于 (Tue Nov 26 16:00:05 2013, 美东) 提到:
我儿子3岁7个月,今年9月正式上pre school.之前都是我自己在家带.
我儿子说话很晚2岁半左右才开始说话,现在能说很简单的句子和父母简单的对话,复杂
的还是说不来.
我们在家说汉语,老公也让我在家推汉语.孩子会认几十个汉字和背几首唐诗.我们在家
基本没有交过孩子英语,除了简单的几个单词,比如食物和上厕所.
现在孩子在学校表现很不好,我每天接孩子都被留下跟老师谈话.孩子表现不好主要是
behavior的问题,比如上gym课总是到处跑不听话,玩gym里面emergency exit的门.老师
跟他说了很多次no,他都不听.(我儿子英语不好,但是知道No的意思).今天学校搞活动,
换了地方上课,我儿子就大哭.老师今天跟我说经过一段时间的观察,她觉得我儿子特别
不喜欢change,喜欢consistency和routine.
我一听这个我就马上想到儿子是不是有点autism,因... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3714 | 22 如果一个人被别人形容成：经常情绪化（emotional）, 那个应该EQ不高了吧。一个情
商高的人往往是：calm, composed.
EQ definition:
n.noun
Intelligence regarding the emotions, especially in the ability to monitor
one's own or others' emotions and to interact effectively with others.
1. (Psychology) emotional quotient, a (notional) measure of a person's
adequacy in such areas as self-awareness, empathy, and dealing sensitively
with other people
emotional quotient: skill in handling one's emotions, viewed as a factor in
achievement.
重新读，发现EQ 和社... 阅读全帖 |
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t*********r
发帖数: 2 | 23 Alabama
[The Code of Alabama 1975]
Parent/guardian/person responsible for care and supervision of a minor/
teacher or other person responsible for care and supervision of a minor for
a special purpose may use reasonable and appropriate physical force when and
to the extent he reasonably believes it necessary and appropriate to
maintain discipline or promote welfare of the child.
§ 13A-3-24. [Criminal Code]
[See also: Endangering welfare of child. Section 13A-13-6]
Alaska
[Alaska Statutes]
When a... 阅读全帖 |
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l******s
发帖数: 3045 | 24 在利物浦咬的时候已经有过类似的报道和判断，详情见http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Soccer/33705981.html
作为大赛型伪球迷，同意其下述精神分析的观点，果然小苏自己也提过“In those
moments, your heartbeat is very high and sometimes you don’t think about
what you are doing..” 。
有过舞台经验，或突然在众目睽睽下受到巨大压力的人应该有类似的体会，大脑空白，
精神极度紧张而容易做出异常的举动，或说出错话。
Biting is a child-like behaviour and is certainly not normal adult behaviour
. Psychological explanations of biting behaviour in children characterise
it as a reaction to stress and anger because the child lacks coping
str... 阅读全帖 |
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l******s
发帖数: 3045 | 25 真是兜圈子攒字数，直接看下面一段就行。跟我的判断类似，或有狂躁证。http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Soccer/33705277.html
Biting is a child-like behaviour and is certainly not normal adult behaviour
. Psychological explanations of biting behaviour in children characterise
it as a reaction to stress and anger because the child lacks coping
strategies to manage such emotions. However, children tend to outgrow biting
behaviour because, as they grow older, they tend to learn how to deal with
stress, frustration and anger.
Psychology h... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 871 | 26 Not long ago, a friend sent me a speech that the great civic leader John
Gardner gave to the Stanford Alumni Association 61 years after he graduated
from that college. The speech is chock-full of practical wisdom. I
especially liked this passage:
“The things you learn in maturity aren’t simple things such as acquiring
information and skills. You learn not to engage in self-destructive behavior
. You learn not to burn up energy in anxiety. You discover how to manage
your tensions. You learn that ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2264 | 27 By Laura Schaefer
Women have puzzled over it for years — why the heck do men do the things
they do? Why do they profess their love for you one minute, then ignore you
the next (say, when an Attila the Hun special turns up on TV)? Why can they
not remember our birthdays? Let science explain some of these conundrums —
and help you rev up your relationships!
1. Be patient with his memory
The hippocampus, where initial memories are formed, occupies a smaller
percent of the male brain than the fema... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******d
发帖数: 2570 | 28 列一下美国心理学学会关于性取向的FAQ吧。
对同性恋的了解市面上的误解很多，第一步是了解同性恋到底是什么样的。
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Sexual orientation and homosexuality
1. What is sexual orientation?
Sexual orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or
affectional attraction toward others. It is easily distinguished from other
components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the
psychological sense of being male or female), and the social gender role (
adherence to cultural norms for fe... 阅读全帖 |
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Others (小乙哥) 于 (Fri Apr 17 12:12:04 2009) 提到:
不知道应该不应该写，有的时候这个想法总在头脑里盘旋。
我跟她并没有恋爱，但是那确实超过初恋更多，甚至后者无法相比的一种感情。
只不过这里没有什么激动人心，荡气回肠，多的是一点一滴的碎片。
。。。。
而且是这样一个从小到大写文章没打过草稿的人，不管是中考还是高考，总是在考试铃
声响起之前才发现洋洋洒洒写就的东西离题万里，只好在后面加上一句话：该命题应该
修改。
什么叫青梅竹马，两小无猜。。。。还有那远去的童真年代。
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bhxy (薄荷薰衣) 于 (Fri Apr 17 12:15:20 2009) 提到:
嘿嘿，加油！搬板凳。
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Others (小乙哥) 于 (Fri Apr 17 12:17:29 2009) 提到:
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a*****e
发帖数: 911 | 30 well, being emotional can be changed, but being sensitive is built-in.
I am sensitive, but I am not emotional, because I tend to pretend to be strong
and think and act according to sense, and tend to hide my emotions such as
sad, angry for I thought they are negative.
But now I realize it is not good for me to hind my emotion, so I will try to
make myself express my emotion better latter. See, I can alway switch from
emotional to sense or vice visa, but I can't change my sensitive
personality/ch |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 31 Highly Religious People Are Less Motivated by Compassion Than Are Non-
Believers
Apr. 30, 2012 — "Love thy neighbor" is preached from many a pulpit. But new
research from the University of California, Berkeley, suggests that the
highly religious are less motivated by compassion when helping a stranger
than are atheists, agnostics and less religious people.
In three experiments, social scientists found that compassion consistently
drove less religious people to be more generous. For highly religi... 阅读全帖 |
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f*******8
发帖数: 3612 | 32 When in a deep meditation status,
a person can clearly see the rising of emotion.
when he feels the emotion of angry or fear, he know he "feel" the emotion,
but he will not identify himself as the emotion.
so he will not say I "am" (the emotion of) angry or afraid when actually he
just feel (the emotion of) angry or fear.
but in the daily life, people are not aware of that these two expression
represent two different things.
their cognition go directly from frist to second,
the cognition totally... 阅读全帖 |
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F*******I
发帖数: 200 | 34 如果你有时间，请你读一读下面的文章，你就知道你是怎么样的一个人了！
我把最重要的两段摘在前面供你参考.
这两段里面最重要的一句话，我再摘出来放在最前面：
“Don’t forget that the liar lacks empathy: As hard as it is to believe, it
is true.”
empathy[`emp[Wi]
移情：对他人思想、感情和行为(甚至那些悲痛和纷乱的感情和行为)的理智性和感情上
的认识和理解。移情(empathy)强调理解而同情(sympathy)强调分担他人的感情和体验。
翻译： 一个说谎者（这里指病态的）缺乏同情心。虽然难以置信，但这是一个事实。
Don’t forget that the liar lacks empathy: As hard as it is to believe, it
is true. The liar does not have any moral consciousness of how the lying
behavior may make you feel. The liar does not ... 阅读全帖 |
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s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 35 Moving on from life's little (and large) lapses
Big decisions make me nervous. I'm okay when it comes to ordering dinner or
buying a new pair of jeans, but if I'm selecting a house, a job, or even a
mate, some part of me always wonders whether I'm making the best choice. It'
s not that I'm a slave to perfection (honest!). It's just that I'm simply
trying to steer clear of future regrets and the anger, frustration, grief,
and self-blame that accompany them and make regret such an unwelcome, energ... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****r
发帖数: 1032 | 36 Got this from a group email:
Where Have All the Smart Girls Gone?
Does your daughter…
Demonstrate heightened sensitivity and empathy?
“Dumb herself down” or otherwise act inauthentic to fit in?
Dismiss her success, especially in math and science and amplify her “
mistakes” or “shortcomings”?
Try to cover up when she doesn’t know how to do something for fear of
looking bad?
If any of these sound familiar, the reason may be that your daughter is “
gifted”.
Helios New School presents a free panel d... 阅读全帖 |
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g********n
发帖数: 2314 | 37 Spanking Laws
State by State — United States statutes as they pertaining to spanking and
child abuse.
Editors Note: This page is continually being updated. This information has
been posted here in order to allow parents to read the state statutes for
themselves and find other pertinent code sections. I could use some help. If
you have the time, please look up the code for your state and e-mail them
to me, I'll add them as soon as they come in. Thanks for any help you can
offer!
Select your state... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********w
发帖数: 23432 | 38 中英文艾未未微博选登（2009.6~2010.7）
Ai Weiwei（ @aiww ）Tweet Quotes 1 （June 2009—July 2010）
1. 孩子们肾结石、大头娃娃、被拐卖、被活埋、被开苞、被毒害，但是要让他们保持
纯洁。
1. It does not matter children suffer from kidney stones or abnormally big
heads, and it does not matter children have been abducted, buried alive,
poisoned or lost their virginity, what matters is they remain mentally pure.
June 10, 2009 12:30:31
2. 我郑重的宣布，一个开骂的时代开始了，我们要轻声的骂死敌人。
2. I solemnly declare that here comes a name-calling era, and we would curse
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c*********2
发帖数: 3402 | 39 《法治周末》：方舟子涉嫌抄袭总调查
作者：李秀卿 文章发于：法治周末 点击数：17247 更新时间：2011-3-30
方舟子涉嫌抄袭总调查
http://www.legaldaily.com.cn/index/content/2011-03/30/content_2
【编者按】：在中国，方舟子是一个知名度极高的公众人物，他被冠以"打假英雄"
、"打假斗士"，他在新浪的微博博，"粉丝"高达57万之众，具有强大的影响力。任何一
个不带偏见的人都承认，他对学术打假作出过贡献。与此同时，对方舟子本人涉嫌抄袭
的指责一天也没有停止，但他他始终不承认自己存在任何形式的学术不端行为，并时常
为此与学界人士爆发激烈论战，这使得他的形象颇受争议。本着公正客观的立场，本报
将陆续披露对方舟子子涉嫌学术不端行为的调查。
"打假斗士"的另类记录
“他反差很大，双重标准明显———看别人的毛病很清楚，自己的缺陷不觉察。他
有洁癖，又不是一个完美的人，活得也不轻松。”中国社科院学者易华对方舟子这样评
价说。
正是在这种正反两方的严重争议中，方舟子不时出现在公众视野。而他的每一次出
场... 阅读全帖 |
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g****t
发帖数: 31659 | 40 【 以下文字转载自 ChinaNews 讨论区 】
发信人: powershadow (敏感词○敏感瓷), 信区: ChinaNews
标 题: 中英文艾未未微博选登（2009.6~2010.7）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 24 19:56:17 2011, 美东)
中英文艾未未微博选登（2009.6~2010.7）
Ai Weiwei（ @aiww ）Tweet Quotes 1 （June 2009—July 2010）
1. 孩子们肾结石、大头娃娃、被拐卖、被活埋、被开苞、被毒害，但是要让他们保持
纯洁。
1. It does not matter children suffer from kidney stones or abnormally big
heads, and it does not matter children have been abducted, buried alive,
poisoned or lost their virginity, what matters is they remain mentally pure.
June... 阅读全帖 |
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h*****r
发帖数: 1052 | 41 http://www.legaldaily.com.cn/index/content/2011-03/30/content_2
【编者按】：在中国，方舟子是一个知名度极高的公众人物，他被冠以"打假英雄"、"
打假斗士"，他在新浪的微博"粉丝"高达57万之众，具有强大的影响力。任何一个不带
偏见的人都承认，他对学术打假作出过贡献。与此同时，对方舟子本人涉嫌抄袭的指责
一天也没有停止，但他始终不承认自己存在任何形式的学术不端行为，并时常为此与学
界人士爆发激烈论战，这使得他的形象颇受争议。本着公正客观的立场，本报将陆续披
露对方舟子涉嫌学术不端行为的调查。
"打假斗士"的另类记录
“他反差很大，双重标准明显———看别人的毛病很清楚，自己的缺陷不觉察。他
有洁癖，又不是一个完美的人，活得也不轻松。”中国社科院学者易华对方舟子这样评
价说。
正是在这种正反两方的严重争议中，方舟子不时出现在公众视野。而他的每一次出
场，都是舆论关注的焦点。
流水的朋友
北京大学哲学系教授刘华杰是最早欢迎方舟子加入国内科普圈子的人之一。1999年
，刘华杰在网上采访了方舟子，文章发表在《科学时报》上。他还为方舟子... 阅读全帖 |
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f******s
发帖数: 541 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Midelu (57710), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 方舟子涉嫌抄袭总调查01zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Feb 19 10:43:35 2012, 美东)
【编者按】：在中国，方舟子是一个知名度极高的公众人物，他被冠以"打假英雄"、"
打假斗士"，他在新浪的微博"粉丝"高达57万之众，具有强大的影响力。任何一个不带
偏见的人都承认，他对学术打假作出过贡献。与此同时，对方舟子本人涉嫌抄袭的指责
一天也没有停止，但他始终不承认自己存在任何形式的学术不端行为，并时常为此与学
界人士爆发激烈论战，这使得他的形象颇受争议。本着公正客观的立场，本报将陆续披
露对方舟子涉嫌学术不端行为的调查。
"打假斗士"的另类记录
“他反差很大，双重标准明显———看别人的毛病很清楚，自己的缺陷不觉察。他
有洁癖，又不是一个完美的人，活得也不轻松。”中国社科院学者易华对方舟子这样评
价说。
正是在这种正反两方的严重争议中，方舟子不时出现在公众视野。而他的每一次出
场，都是舆论关注的焦点。
流水的朋友
北京大学哲学... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 523 | 43 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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C****S
发帖数: 129 | 44 http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/02/11/jimmel-kim
China-born New Jersey resident says he suffers emotional distress since skit
aired.
(Photo: AP)
Story Highlights
A skit on Kimmel's late-night show featured a child suggesting killing
everyone in China as solution to the U.S. debt problem
Cao Guoliang alleges negligence and infliction of emotional distress in
lawsuit
Lawsuit says Kimmel failed to suppress 'hateful and offensive remark'
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发帖数: 1 | 45 鏀惧眮銆br />
鏀惧眮
Dialectic or dialectics (Greek: 未喂伪位蔚魏蟿喂魏萎, dialektik岣, also
known as the dialectical method, is a discourse between two or more people
holding different points of view about a subject but wishing to establish
the truth through reasoned arguments.
The term dialectic is not synonymous with the term debate. While in theory
debaters are not necessarily emotionally invested in their point of view, in
practice debaters frequently display an emotional commitment that may cloud
rational j... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 46 Emotional Intelligence (EI) - The ability to monitor his/her own emotion and
the emotion of others and to use emotional information appropriately.
我的理解就是察言观色，就是能相对正确地感知别人和自己的情绪，并且在脑中
Interpret，能正确区分不同的情绪，获得信息用于进行判断，该如何行为以便让对方
快乐，并且自己也快乐。一个情商很高的人，对自己在世界上的定位会很准确，较少的
发怒和嫉妒，自省能力很强，充分认识自己的优缺点，并能进行扬长避短，任何口舌之
争都是一种浪费。情商高的人往往不会做马马虎虎的决定，能正确给予他人同情，关怀
，明白自己和他人的需求以及立场观点。对自己和周围人的评价会尽量做到客观，不带
有主观刻板映像或者任何不理性的预判。
推荐大家去看看 Daniel Goleman的一本书：Emotional Intelligence：Why It Can
Matter More than IQ.
高情商表现如下：
1. 能正确感知... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 523 | 47 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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C****S
发帖数: 129 | 48 http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/02/11/jimmel-kim
China-born New Jersey resident says he suffers emotional distress since skit
aired.
(Photo: AP)
Story Highlights
A skit on Kimmel's late-night show featured a child suggesting killing
everyone in China as solution to the U.S. debt problem
Cao Guoliang alleges negligence and infliction of emotional distress in
lawsuit
Lawsuit says Kimmel failed to suppress 'hateful and offensive remark'
SHARE 6 CONNECT 26 TWEET 1 COMMENTEMAILMORE
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