h******n
发帖数: 3599 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: hutuxian (糊涂仙), 信区: Military
标 题: CNN 终于可以comments了，一边倒的评价啊
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 26 16:20:17 2014, 美东)
非常精彩啊
http://www.cnn.com/2014/11/26/justice/ferguson-grand-jury-react
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g*q
发帖数: 26623 | 2 Viagra and Cialis apparently have nothing on a BMW motorcycle seat.
According to a lawsuit filed last week in San Francisco Superior Court, the
seat left its driver with a two-year erection.
Henry Wolf filed suit against BMW North America and Corbin-Pacific, Inc. He
claimed in the lawsuit that the “ridged seat” of his 1993 BMW motorcycle
caused him mental and emotional anguish after it left him with a severe case
of priapism, aka a long-lasting erection.
Wolf said he rode the motorcycle in San F... 阅读全帖 |
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A***a
发帖数: 73 | 3 I don't think the behaviors of the two interviewers were appropriate.
However, as a candidate, you probably need to pay attention to how you can
do your best instead of complaining about them. The negative emotion will
come out no matter how well you think you can hide. It is not going to
escape from the interviewers' eyes.
In real life, as a professor, you will meet all kinds of students. If you
can not handle this kind of situation well, believe me, you will be very
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n*********0
发帖数: 1543 | 4 又看了一遍。
可怜的姑娘。
你压抑了很多很多非常非常 traumatizing and negative emotion. Being betrayed
by the loved one is the most devastating thing that can happen to a person.
I really hope you have some kind support to help you cope. Don't keep it all
inside. Internalization too much negative emotion such as anger, rage and
hatred is damaging to your mental well being. Repressing or
compartmentalizing your mind can be very exhausting.
I know you are a proud person and refused to disgrace yourself to descend to
their ... 阅读全帖 |
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n*********0
发帖数: 1543 | 5 又看了一遍。
可怜的姑娘。
你压抑了很多很多非常非常 traumatizing and negative emotion. Being betrayed
by the loved one is the most devastating thing that can happen to a person.
I really hope you have some kind support to help you cope. Don't keep it all
inside. Internalization too much negative emotion such as anger, rage and
hatred is damaging to your mental well being. Repressing or
compartmentalizing your mind can be very exhausting.
I know you are a proud person and refused to disgrace yourself to descend to
their ... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****r
发帖数: 304 | 6 Of course! They ALL claim they are the BEST parents and you are the WORST
and Most ungrateful child! Otherwise, how can you feel so guilty?!
You feel guilty, because you still care. Deep down inside, you desperately
still want to maintain a good relationship with them, you still want to them
to love you by trying to please them because that is the only way you know
how to deal with them. However, you clearly recognize it is a TOXIC
relationship you have with your parents, and the price for th... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****r
发帖数: 304 | 7 Of course! They ALL claim they are the BEST parents and you are the WORST
and Most ungrateful child! Otherwise, how can you feel so guilty?!
You feel guilty, because you still care. Deep down inside, you desperately
still want to maintain a good relationship with them, you still want to them
to love you by trying to please them because that is the only way you know
how to deal with them. However, you clearly recognize it is a TOXIC
relationship you have with your parents, and the price for th... 阅读全帖 |
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m***x
发帖数: 788 | 8 Impact of Domestic Violence on Children
https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/factsheets/domestic_violence/impact.cfm
A growing body of literature shows that children who have been exposed to
domestic violence are more likely than their peers to experience a wide
range of difficulties. These difficulties fall into three main categories:
Behavioral, social, and emotional problems. Children in families
experiencing domestic violence are more likely than other children to
exhibit aggressive and ant... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 9 Everything under the sun has its pros and cons. No human being is perfect
but very few is pure evil. "Good person" in a specific situation can be a "
bad person" and vice versa - no need to label anyone as "good" or "bad" here.
The first warning sign is that it's a pure negative post - the fact that u
listed only the the negative attributes while mentioning none of the
positive generally means the problem lies with you - or at the very least,
equally to blame.
To your credit, you have tried an... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 10 Everything under the sun has its pros and cons. No human being is perfect
but very few is pure evil. "Good person" in a specific situation can be a "
bad person" and vice versa - no need to label anyone as "good" or "bad" here.
The first warning sign is that it's a pure negative post - the fact that u
listed only the the negative attributes while mentioning none of the
positive generally means the problem lies with you - or at the very least,
equally to blame.
To your credit, you have tried an... 阅读全帖 |
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b**********5
发帖数: 7881 | 11 our fantasy life is about to get much richer, thanks to the wonders of
virtual reality.
The Oculus Rift virtual reality equipment began shipping Monday for those
who preordered or contributed to the original Kickstarter campaign. Oculus,
which is owned by Facebook, has called today “a historic moment” in a
release, adding, “soon, people all over the world will be experiencing
fully immersive VR in their own homes.”
By which they mean porn, of course.
Sure, there are plenty of VR experiences that... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********e
发帖数: 6149 | 12 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 英文临产常识 我是个懒妈，觉得下面的临产常识基本够用了。分享下。
========== Call your caregiver if:
you notice excessive or sudden swelling of your feet or ankles, more than
slight swelling of your hands, any swelling in your face or puffiness around
your eyes, or have a sudden weight gain. Also let her know immediately if
have severe or persistent headaches; visual changes (such as double or
blurred vision, seeing spots or flashing lights, light sensitivity, or a
temporary loss of vision), intense upper abdominal pain or tenderness,... 阅读全帖 |
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v*x
发帖数: 1370 | 13 When I am going to shout at my kid,
I just tell him that I need a time out (take a walk or do something else)
And I encourage him to do the same thing when he becomes emotional.
If parent is losing control (either emotion outburst or got lost while driving),
kid will feel extremely insecure and emotional, and things can go much worse,
if you don't get back in control quickly. |
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n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 14 RE:
it is ok to feel any kind of emotions；it is totally fine to express
any kind of emotions/feelings；all emotions are acceptable but not all
actions； |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 15 小的时候没有打过人？
立即抓住双手，直视孩子的双眼，冷静果断坚决地说：Stop！It hurts!
如果小孩子不是打着玩闹，那么一定是有什么事情不开心了，用打人的形式发泄
对应负面情绪的几个步骤：
recognize your child's emotions
listen with empathy and honor the emotions of your child
name your child's emotions (validation)
help your child find good solutions
你仔细想一想，每次打妈妈之前，都发生了什么事情？孩子是不是有负面情绪？
"打人“的行为，容易address/stop
引起负面情绪的事，或者如何发泄对应自己的负面情绪，才是更需要address的东东
我个人不觉着time out是个行之有效的办法
妈妈其实也一样，崩溃一定有它的理由，如果能自如地对应自己的负面情绪，处理/引
导孩子的时候就不会out of control
good luck! |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 16 昨晚，去听了一个讲座，给大家分享一下
http://www.gettingtocalm.com/
看blog，上面有case studies，这个比较针对如何self-control
对于家长不喜欢的行为，貌似最有效的办法是鼓励/支持/培养我们希望看到的行为，同
时让孩子承担负面行为的后果（越自然的后果越好）
比如，当孩子有负面情绪的时候，我们希望孩子能calm down，aware of their
emotions，constructively express their feelings，find a solution
lz的case，偶觉着孩子已经形成了在家里一有不满，就以大发脾气大搞破坏的形式来发
泄。改这个习惯之前，咱得帮着孩子想几个alternative 平静以及发泄的方式，且
positively reinforce 这些行为
比如，一旦孩子发脾气，可以要求孩子深呼吸，4(in)-7(hold)-8(out)，可以让孩子自
己数或者刚开始大人替着数；让孩子把不满情绪说（喊）/写出来，而不是以破坏东西
的方式发泄出来；可以教孩子说
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L*******8
发帖数: 404 | 17 “现在就希望我家二宝6岁时LG能有个工作机会回中国几年，那就太理想了。
有这样的机会，当然太理想了。祝心想事成!
学习当然重要，social和emotion不可忽视。现在我们学区在猛推social和emotion平衡
，开一些课让孩子上。也许MM你不知道，两年前我们学区出了好几起自杀事件，就在
Meadows那个平交道口,到现在那个道口还有人全天候站岗。出事的几个孩子都是功课超
级好的，social和emotion出问题。其中有一个是朋友的儿子，那个孩子从小就是天才
儿童，功课超级好的, 弹得一手好钢琴，还会自己作曲, 非常可惜... |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 18 基本上就是
validate kiddo's emotion
name the emotion
help kiddo to express emotion in a different way
help kiddo find kiddo's own solution to the problem |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 19 i c, i c
推荐
Raising an emotionally intellegent child
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
it all boils down to POSITIVELY/CONSTRUCTIVELY express your feelings/
emotions
孩子在家说脏话的时候，validate 孩子的负面情绪，教孩子用别的话抒情
如果就是觉着好玩说脏话，以便provoke adults或者get adults' attention
可以考虑punitive consequences, 严格执行 |
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y***r
发帖数: 458 | 20 从对fiction和non fiction的分析来说，function和subfunction的区别，我认同，但
认为后一段夸大了critical thinking 的保护伞作用。
critical thinking和emotional reaction（empathy）两者是相扶相承的。对于重大决
定，critical thinking优于emotional reaction，但对于重大决定带来的周边影响，
emotional reaction一定要起作用，否则迟早会发现结果与预期相差太远。
至于fiction和nonfiction对于这两者的培养，各有侧重，但不是有绝对界限的。
fiction中成为名著的，一定有critical thinking的依托。 |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 21 SPECIAL EDUCATION是给CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEED提供的教育支持，以各种THERAPY
的形式为主。什么叫SPECIAL NEED? WIKI上的定义是：
"Common special needs include challenges with learning, communication
challenges, emotional and behavioral disorders, physical disabilities, and
developmental disorders.[1] Students with these kinds of special needs are
likely to benefit from additional educational services such as different
approaches to teaching, use of technology, a specifically adapted teaching
area, or resource room."
正常发育的孩子，绝... 阅读全帖 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 22 推荐 Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
简单地说
1.validate kiddo's emotion,identify kiddo's feelings
2.ask and let kiddo talk and LISTEN
3.help kiddo find kiddo's solution
"一回到家，女儿就告诉，爸爸说她是里面所有人最差的"
I'm so sorry that your feelings are hurt
tell me about it! Did daddy yell at you? Did daddy look very disappointed?
今天球踢的还开心吗？玩足球，让你最开心的地方是什么？
你觉着你自己在踢足球上，哪些方面有什么优势？哪些地方又有很大的进步的空间？
你想提高吗？有什么爸爸妈妈可以帮忙的地方吗？
你想跟爸爸谈谈么？需要妈妈帮忙吗？
同时也应该跟老公谈谈
今天在... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 23 strong-willed 娃，如果不是自己的娃，我觉得很容易被误判，即使
是老师。
俺觉得 strong-willed 娃，经常 pretend 自己没听见或者没看见
（pretend 自己的 sensory system 暂时不工作），或者 pretend
be emotional（pretend 自己大脑的 judgement 系统暂时不工作），
来 trick 大家，以达到实现自己的 will 的目的。但他们/她们这时的
sensory 和 judgement 实际上比平时更 active（因为要实现自己的
will 嘛），所以一旦你说到点子上，娃会立即 respond。
但即使是 strong-willed 娃，还是经常会 emotional 的。但
他们/她们往往是在 unprepared 的情况下，或者是 tired / sleepy
的情况下，或者是被 insult/bully 的情况下，才更容易 get emotional。
娃自己的父母，或者熟悉娃的老师，会比较容易鉴别。 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 24 strong-willed 的娃，更经常去 trick 父母双方中相对 emotional
unstable 的一方。因为 trick 到那一方 emotional compromised，
娃就更容易得逞。而对父母双方中相对 emotional stable 及 verbal
communication 的那方，娃会选择 verbal communicate 或者半
verbal 半 whining 的 communicate。。。
回忆一下有木有这种 pattern 。。。 |
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q***g
发帖数: 119 | 25 我觉得楼主的问题是她自己也很emotional。 你用emotional的方式和儿子交流， 很自
然他的反应也是emotional的。 什么把自己锁在房间里， 自己走在前面不理儿子等等
。 你倒是说说， 要换了你是一个四岁的小孩子， 你妈妈先是不理你， 然后回家又把
自己锁起来， 你是不是要嚎啕大哭， 感觉被遗弃？
试试冷处理看看， 比如下次他要求做什么你明显不可能作的事， 告诉他理由， 同时
做点其它什么他喜欢的事来转移注意力。 如果孩子嚎啕大哭， 首先把他抱离事发现场
， 同时好言好语的劝劝， 如果孩子继续哭， 大人要保持冷静。 告诉孩子他有两个选
择， 一个是继续哭， 一个是和妈妈一起读故事书/吃零食等等。 如果还哭， 大人大
可以在保证孩子安全的情况下置之不理，有时候孩子哭就是宣泄一下， 哭会儿有助于
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w*********y
发帖数: 7895 | 26 自己整理了一堆在2-3岁需要FOCUS的东西，本来以为就3样，结果数了数，远远大于这
个数啊。娃或者也累啊。
1. Emotional control - from other-regulated emotion to self-regulated
emotion (focus on anger control), and delay of gratification.
2. Shared reading: 但不教认字，也不点读，只读图片
3. Nature exploration: 水，沙子，贝壳，石头，树叶， 树枝，花，植物（e.g.,
growing plants), and ants work
4. 涂鸦： 我也不懂画画，所以啥都不指导，随便娃怎么画。只提供水彩笔，蜡笔，和
纸。
5. Cognitive games involve:
a. memory
b. fine-motor skills
c. inhibitory control
d. spatial skills
6. house chores : 收拾自己的玩具
7. Development of Theory o... 阅读全帖 |
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s***l
发帖数: 2236 | 27 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
qingqingfeng (qingqingfeng) 于 (Fri Jan 18 15:39:56 2013, 美东) 提到:
儿子11了，4岁半来美，现在初中一年，去年8月刚搬家到新的学区。在新学校总是出现
问题，以前小学不这样的。刚开始不会打开locker之类的事，就是手忙脚乱也过来了。
有时会为了小事，他就急。
最大的问题是说话不合时宜，经常说出让人意外话。一次，他说他的钢琴老师，你
smell like a Burger，我立刻打住他，可是已经说了，我很尴尬，后来老师就不在教
他弹琴了。我们已经发现他这个问题，总是在教他，可是，这好像是天生的，他改不了
。在新学校，一次，他见几个孩子在闲聊，他问在旁边的老师，他们在说什么，老师忙
，就说not your business,他就很生气，追上老师说，你为什么这么rude，老师当然不
会高兴，把他教育了一顿。另一次，他在课上举手想回答问题，第二个问题，又举手，
最后老师叫他了，结果他站起来问老师问什么才叫他，老师就发飚了，儿子就哭了。
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a****g
发帖数: 3027 | 28 她的问题，把生活中的问题，一古脑都算到她婆婆头上
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``
同感。按照LZ的描述，婆婆是极其不好。但是，LZ主线基本上就是“要是换了个像妈妈
似的婆婆就好了”，即使芝麻细节都能扯到婆婆的不好（有少数李子俺觉得婆婆没有那
么处处坏吧），这就是我前一个帖子说的“assume bad intention ...”
按完全理解LZ不喜欢婆婆的各种做法，但是无法理解always assume bad intention.根
据我上的各种seminar看也不奇怪，人都是emotional. 在没有火气
的时候，才可能比较中直一些。
我自己过去好些年，也是这么走过来的，基本上也处于一直emotional过程中。作为当
爹的，虽然理性，都忍不住有些本质类似的想法(就是外人如何做好点自己就好多了。
。。)。等到抗过压力放松了很多之后，才意识到这点。
自身的经历吧，俺以前从心里对俺爹从来是真的没有啥说的。但是在他第二次一个人单
独来美国时，小孩子一岁多点，各个专家纷纷给小孩子该戴自闭帽子，治疗师天天上门
家教，LD... 阅读全帖 |
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a****g
发帖数: 3027 | 29 她的问题，把生活中的问题，一古脑都算到她婆婆头上
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``
同感。按照LZ的描述，婆婆是极其不好。但是，LZ主线基本上就是“要是换了个像妈妈
似的婆婆就好了”，即使芝麻细节都能扯到婆婆的不好（有少数李子俺觉得婆婆没有那
么处处坏吧），这就是我前一个帖子说的“assume bad intention ...”
按完全理解LZ不喜欢婆婆的各种做法，但是无法理解always assume bad intention.根
据我上的各种seminar看也不奇怪，人都是emotional. 在没有火气
的时候，才可能比较中直一些。
我自己过去好些年，也是这么走过来的，基本上也处于一直emotional过程中。作为当
爹的，虽然理性，都忍不住有些本质类似的想法(就是外人如何做好点自己就好多了。
。。)。等到抗过压力放松了很多之后，才意识到这点。
自身的经历吧，俺以前从心里对俺爹从来是真的没有啥说的。但是在他第二次一个人单
独来美国时，小孩子一岁多点，各个专家纷纷给小孩子该戴自闭帽子，治疗师天天上门
家教，LD... 阅读全帖 |
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u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 30 Three-year-old Sally was playing happily in the kitchen while her mother
cleaned up the dinner dishes. As Sally's mom turned to collect another plate
from the table, she noticed a puddle on the floor under Sally's feet. "
Sally, honey, did you wet your pants?" Sally shook her head and said, "My
shoes did it."
Clearly, Sally has told her mother a lie. Like most parents, you might feel
shocked — angry, hurt, or even betrayed — when you first discover your
child has lied. But if you can step back a... 阅读全帖 |
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v**d
发帖数: 574 | 31 Hold back娃上学也不好，孩子会在智力发展上缓慢。
成熟的孩子，早点也没关系
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/25/opinion/sunday/dont-delay-you
Delay Kindergarten at Your Child’s PerilBy SAM WANG and SANDRA
AAMODTPublished: September 24, 2011
Sam Wang is an associate professor of molecular biology and neuroscience at
Princeton. Sandra Aamodt is a former editor in chief of Nature Neuroscience.
They are the authors of “Welcome to Your Child’s Brain: How the Mind
Grows From Conception to College.”
Related in Opinion
Room For Debate: Wh... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 32 老师不干了～Two teachers, two cities, second year.
Monday, July 27, 2015
A fond farewell
Having just sent my resignation to the nyc dept of ed, I breathe a huge sigh
of relief and allow the past few years of memories to flood my current mind
. I've heard before that after a break-up, your brain allows you to keep the
happy memories, but the negative ones are stored away somewhere else. You
want to remember the good times, so much so that those negative memories
seem to fade in comparison and you start... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 116 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Lady Gaga参加耶鲁情商峰会
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 27 13:28:18 2015, 美东)
右一是耶鲁校长Peter Salovey，情商理论是他首创的吧？左一是耶鲁情感智力研究中
心（Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence）主任Marc Brackett，也是心理系和
儿童成长研究中心的研究人员。他们仨在上周六在耶鲁相会，主持“情感革命一日峰会
”（Emotion Revolution daylong summit ）！现在的会议名字都那么可怕。
Lady Gaga和她妈妈开了个帮助青少年健康茁壮成长的基金会，叫Born This Way
Foundation。这个峰会大概是Gaga基金会和耶鲁智力中心一起搞的，参加的人还有高中
生和教育/社会政策决策者。Gaga同学不错啊，很有公益心。
那位智力主任做了个网上调查，问高中生们精神状态如何、为什么会有这些心情、以及
他们希望自己有什么样... 阅读全帖 |
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t******l
发帖数: 10908 | 34 如果 emotional connection 能解决大部分问题，那人类为啥还没有消灭战争，那美帝
为啥还需要选举，那本拉登为啥要扔红海喂鱼？。。。
上面那些大事娘们不关心也就算了。小事上面，如果 emotional connection 能解决大
部分问题，那世上为啥还有大乃和小三不得不说的故事？。。。
所以我就一句话，对于养娃而言，少看点象牙塔里的破书，多在实际生活（四年级以下
内容不算）里摸爬滚打，才是降低 collective hallucination level 的正道。。。
：emotional connection is the very basic.
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 35 话说回来，多贵的幼儿园，都是些高中将将毕业的幼儿园老师？
咱们都是高学历的，我是不放心他们教。。
四岁的时候，要教，教的是“engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication,
emotional range, self-awareness, internal discipline, creativity and vision,
logical thinking and moral integrity.”
教ＡＢＣ是小事儿。。
很多学校幼儿园老师能一边教ＡＢＣ，一边杀“engagement, empathy, curiosity,
communication, emotional range, self-awareness, internal discipline,
creativity and vision, logical thinking and moral integrity.”
很多学校幼儿园老师特别好，特别扶持“engagement, empathy, curiosity,
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S******t
发帖数: 8388 | 37 通过从饮食，锻炼，良好情绪和环境意识的提高，促进“革命”的本钱---健康！
悼念一位与脑癌奋斗19年的医生，并分享他通过饮食和平衡的生活方式与疾病斗争的故
事，与大家共勉。
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/30/world/europe/30servan.html
这本书可能挺适合古板网友的,INNER PEACE 呀！！！
“Healing Without Freud or Prozac: Natural Approaches to Curing Stress, Anxiety and Depression”
The book focuses on what Dr. Servan-Schreiber called the “emotional brain,” as distinct from the “cognitive brain” of rational thought.
“The emotional brain controls the physiology of the body: heart rate, blood pressure, appe... 阅读全帖 |
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j***b
发帖数: 5901 | 38 1. A and B don't need to adjust their portfolio.
2. C can use a shit barrel to manage his portfolio. No emotion involved.
3. Even is emotion is involved, the future movement of BM is independent of
that emotion. It's still going to be martingale.
why
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p****n
发帖数: 6 | 39 I am not talking about "反日青年心里到底想的是什么", I am talking
about what they do, or on this BBS, what they say.
They have strong emotions against Japan, and I certainly believe
these emotions are at least partially justified.
Japan had a pretty evil history in the early 20th century, and
its government is not doing its best to face that history.
However, you can not use these emotions to justify everything.
One example is the UN security council bid.
If you want to pick on Japan's evil past and not
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 40 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Lady Gaga参加耶鲁情商峰会
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 27 13:28:18 2015, 美东)
右一是耶鲁校长Peter Salovey，情商理论是他首创的吧？左一是耶鲁情感智力研究中
心（Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence）主任Marc Brackett，也是心理系和
儿童成长研究中心的研究人员。他们仨在上周六在耶鲁相会，主持“情感革命一日峰会
”（Emotion Revolution daylong summit ）！现在的会议名字都那么可怕。
Lady Gaga和她妈妈开了个帮助青少年健康茁壮成长的基金会，叫Born This Way
Foundation。这个峰会大概是Gaga基金会和耶鲁智力中心一起搞的，参加的人还有高中
生和教育/社会政策决策者。Gaga同学不错啊，很有公益心。
那位智力主任做了个网上调查，问高中生们精神状态如何、为什么会有这些心情、以及
他们希望自己有什么样... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********5
发帖数: 5637 | 41 朱老师最近和Qualcomm其他朋友成立了个fellowship，这是他刚刚给我们职场讨论班的
朋友发的newsletter：谦虚是否会负面影响我们的工作。我转贴在这里个给有兴趣的朋友看吧。
Dear All, Recently we started our Qualcom Fellowship in San Diego, we are
studying the book "God in Market Place" by Henry and Richard Blackaby. The
first topic we are discussing is " Is humble will hurt our career?" The
reason we select this topic from Blackaby's book is because most time we,
Chinese was posed as " too humble, too quiet, sometimes weak", which does
hurt our career in the real situ... 阅读全帖 |
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c********1
发帖数: 5269 | 42 Thank you for you remind.
I get some excellent ideas for how to fight from this forum and people sent
private email to me.
One can fight even suffering [Emotional distress].
sick out for [Emotional distress] -- not total disabled. It is real, not a
fake. It is backed up by medical records.
I drove her to work place today to present the case.Full of energy and very
sharp when present the case.
I think It is reasonable. [Emotional distress] -- unable to work, but is
able to present the case. HR p... 阅读全帖 |
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y**i
发帖数: 1471 | 43 Attention-seeking personality disorders，insecurity and centre of attention
behaviour
The need for attention
Human beings are social creatures and need social interaction, feedback, and
validation of their worth. The emotionally mature person doesn't need to go
hunting for these; they gain it naturally from their daily life, especially
from their work and from stable relationships. Daniel Goleman calls
emotional maturity emotional intelligence, or EQ; he believes, and I agree,
that EQ is a much b |
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S****e
发帖数: 1063 | 44 https://jobs.pflugervilleisd.net/WINOCULAR/Jobs/Jobpost.exe
Job Posting
JOB CATEGORIES > Certified POSITION TYPES > Teachers & Campus Profess.
POSITIONS
JOB STATUS: OPEN
POSTING DATE: 05/17/2011
CLOSING DATE:
POSTING NUMBER: TH14411
LOCATION: Connally High School
POSITION TITLE: Teacher, Mandarin Chinese 2011-12 / Part Time
QUALIFICATIONS:
Bachelor's degree and valid Texas teaching certificate.
JOB DESCRIPTION:
Provide students with appropriate learning ... 阅读全帖 |
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o**y
发帖数: 1466 | 45 表扬一下妹妹,叙事有条有理,做事板有眼.
我的感觉,这事你要告的话你不赢没有天理.
但是,但是,你的代价会很大,不是经济方面的代价,而是emotional cost.这个cost最后
弄下来肯定大于750刀.
我的建议:
1. 如果750刀对你来说不是那么重要,暂时放一放,做自己重要的事去,把这事放一边,有
空的时候再来理.当然放久了你最终可能过了追索时限最后不得不放弃.我这么说并不意
味着要你放弃自己的权利,只是暂时搁一搁.
2. 能不走诉讼还是不走,试试以下办法:
1). 跟manager约一下,面对面讨论一下这件事,把你的道理都陈述出来.你文中提的证
据很扎实,尤其是那个没有排水管道的,这个应该是违反code的,你甚至可以报告到code
enforcement机构去.有这一点足以把他们打趴下.你可以google一下"Report A Code
Violation" + 你的city name或者county name. 顺便看一下这个链接,http://www.ehow.com/list_6948282_texas-codes-hot-water-heater.html 这里... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 46 Not necessarily true.
Vincent van Gogh did not sell ANY of his paintings to an appreciative buyer
except for his own brother who bought one out of sympathy. If what you said
were true, then van Gogh should have had millions of diehard admirers like
today and his thousands of paintings should have been flying off the shelf
like iPhones. Instead, he lived a miserable life and committed suicide to
relieve from his own despair. Therefore, the appreciation for 帅和美 is
more subjective than objective... 阅读全帖 |
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M***0
发帖数: 1180 | 47 昨天比赛结束后，他对热队和老北京的看法：
"I've never seen a team more criticized in my life and a guy in LeBron
criticized for doing what was legal," Celtics coach Doc Rivers said. "He
didn't break the law, he didn't do anything wrong. The preseason parade may
have been a little much, but other than that, I just told him good luck and
keep going. He was very emotional, and good for him. I don't think you can
play this sport and be a winner without emotion."
相比皮蓬、Magic、特别是巴大嘴这些喷子，河文档的气量过人, 在自己球队被淘汰的
当晚能说出这样的话。相反，皮蓬和... 阅读全帖 |
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u*********r
发帖数: 2735 | 48 lydia ko, only 15, is beating everyone on lpga tour. she is not a pro yet.
tiger might learn from this kid...
Q. I guess you’re not similar in how you approach it, like on the 6th there
for an eagle, she was pretty emotional about it and showed a lot of emotion
, and what about yourself, you’re the opposite.
LYDIA KO: Yeah, I don’t really like showing my exhibitions a lot unless it
’s pretty big, yeah, I mean, because sometimes there has been in the past
where I’ve shown emotion or expression a... 阅读全帖 |
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A***a
发帖数: 3603 | 49 如果你觉得你是emotional eater.那你首先要找出是什么issue trigger你的这种
emotion.比如用1，2礼拜写下每次吃东西的时间和原因。正常的应该是肚子饿了，到饭
点了，要吃了。除此之外的emotion eating是怎么发生的呢？
不要光简单的说，因为压力大，烦恼啊。而是问自己是什么事情让你觉得压力大，烦恼
。trigger stress的原因各人是不同的。有人会因为有明天是deadline了认为是压力，
有人因为要见未来公婆觉得有压力。有人觉得很多事情都不构成压力。
等你找到了自己的trigger issue后。就要找怎么deal with these issue 的办法。最
好的当然是不让trigger有机会发生。比如提前完成任务，不让明天就是deadline,我还
没干完呢，这类事情发生。
有些trigger不能避免，比如上面说的要见公婆了。 这时候你需要的是positive
support.比如surround yourself with你的男友，好朋友,他们就是你的positive
support. 给你confidence.从而你的stress降... 阅读全帖 |
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w**********p
发帖数: 559 | 50 Interesting.
Swimming
To dream that you are swimming, suggests that you are exploring aspects of
your unconscious mind and emotions. The dream may be a sign that you are
seeking some sort of emotional support.....
To dream that you are swimming underwater, suggests that you are completely
submerged in your own feelings. You are forcing yourself to deal with your
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