j****i
发帖数: 496 | 1 really sorry to hear that. reminds me of my father who passed a month ago
also from cancer and lung infection. if you PM me, i can share with you my
experience if that may help you go through the tough time.
the number one priority right now is trying to get him off ventilator. the
docs may say something different to you, but from patient's point of view,
breathing through a machine is a very dreaded and traumatic experience. his
recurrent infection is also most likely related to the ventila |
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g*****j
发帖数: 1211 | 2 There are multiple types of anxiety, including general anxiety disorder,
panic disorder, specific phobia, post traumatic disorder etc. With
different treatment, different medications can be used. Several
psychotherapy has been proven effective, particularly for phobia disorder. |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 3 If your friend is fully conscious he is not a 植物人(i.e. persistent
vegetative state), but severely disabled due to a traumatic brain injury.
Has the family sought good rehabilitation & assistive technology inside
China yet? |
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g********u
发帖数: 8891 | 4 Thanks. I think cancer is very individual, one never knows what one's gets.
It is traumatic. |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 5 GM1 was once considered with great hope to be the magic drug for spinal cord
injury. unfortunately the results show it is useless in either spinal cord
injury or traumatic brain injury. it was also tested in a number of other
conditions without any good results. |
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R****y
发帖数: 411 | 6 Absolutely not. MRI has much better soft tissue resolution than CT. In a non
traumatic patient, MRI provide so much more information than CT.
Of course, I hope your daughter's is negative. Good luck. |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 7 when you say motor neuron injury, it usually means chemical injury by
poisoning (less often it can also refer to a component in traumatic brain/
spinal cord injury). if this is the case, we should try to figure out what
poison was used. i am not sure if this is what you meant. |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 8 panniculitis is a collection of many diseases. the common feature is that
the primary pathological changes are in the adipose tissue, not the fibrous
tissue. this is why the pathology report is not consistent with panniculitis.
this could be a poor tissue sampling. panniculitis cannot be ruled out.
if panniculitis is diagnosed, it should also indicate the type or cause:
infectious, traumatic or secondary/as part of another disease. they are all
very different.
things against panniculitis: the pa... 阅读全帖 |
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W********r
发帖数: 158 | 9 You can't say all his organs are healthy. He is in irreversible respiratory
failure due to an incurable cancer. Intubation is a very traumatic and
painful experience. The longer a patient is intubated, the more complication
is going to occur, the more suffering the patient will have. Patients are
usually suffering but too weak to tell. It is not about what you or your
family want. It is about what do you think your father will want. Does your
father have a health proxy (to make decisions for him... 阅读全帖 |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 10 as you already know, it is a serious condition.
just from the symptoms, it is likely acute myocardial infarction (AMI). it
could also be severe angina without infarction. in the majority of cases,
the primary cause is vascular. alternatively, in certain circumstances,
problems in the conduction system can cause hemodynamic disturbances severe
enough to cause heart attacks.
AMI, depending on where it occurs, can damage the conduction system too.
my first experience with AMI in young people was qu... 阅读全帖 |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 11 1. get a copy of the delivery note and the neonate evaluation.
2. read the MRI carefully to determine whether it's a stroke, a traumatic
injury or a dysplasia.
3. if it's a stroke, don't ignore other possible causes, such as coagulatory
diseases.
4. don't wait for an answer from the above before starting functional
training. do it asap. |
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t*****0
发帖数: 156 | 12 Did anyone who had a traumatic vaginal delievery choose to have a c-section
for the second baby? I am very frustrated with the doctors and the medical
articles. Some say planned c-sections are as safe as vaginal delieveries.
Some say c-sections are riskier than vaginal deliveries.
Anyone in this board is as frustrated as I am for the same reason? Please
share! |
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x*l
发帖数: 178 | 13 还没有生，看了一些母乳喂养的书，做了些笔记摘要，和大家分享。
Signs of a Good Latch
• Baby’s lips curled outward and firmly applied to your breast.
• If you pull slightly on your baby’s lower lip while he is
suckling, you should see that his tongue is curled up on each side and
cupped around your breast, forming a trough to the back of his mouth. A
large area of his tongue should be in direct contact with the underside of
your breast, massaging it in a wavelike motion that brings the milk into his
mouth with... 阅读全帖 |
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L*******7
发帖数: 14902 | 14 你问问你OB吧
Sit-ups are generally not recommended during pregnancy. This is because
the movements involved may traumatize the uterus or abdomen.
Sit-ups are of particular concern after about the 4th month of
pregnancy. Any time you are on your back after this point, you run the
risk of the uterus compressing the vena cava (a major blood vessel)
which in turn would reduce your blood pressure. Generally, any exercise
that must be done in the "supine" (on your back) position is not
recommended durin... 阅读全帖 |
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z*****9
发帖数: 256 | 15 from http://www.lovenaturalbirth.com/lotus-birth.html
Lotus birth is a relatively new evolution of birth for humans. We talked
with Dr. Sarah Buckley, mother of four, with three lotus births under her
belt to help us understand more about the process, the history, the how to’
s, the whys and joys.
More and more is being understood about the process of “cutting the cord”
and the benefits of leaving the cord intact than the “normal” 3-30 seconds
, by normal we do not mean natural. We are seeing th... 阅读全帖 |
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az
发帖数: 16686 | 16 http://www.bostonherald.com/news/regional/view.bg?articleid=132
A 4-year-old Dudley boy died of his injuries Saturday after plunging from an
escalator onto a glass case inside a Sears department store, authorities
said.
The boy fell Friday evening about 6:35 p.m. while riding the escalator with
family and a friend at the Auburn Mall, said Worcester County District
Attorney Joseph Early in a statement. Police told the Telegram & Gazette of
Worcester the boy grabbed onto the escalator railing and ... 阅读全帖 |
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L******i
发帖数: 124 | 17 Sorry for the English, can type Chinese at work.
First of all, I feel great relief that the baby is doing alright after
reading the update. As mentioned in the update, the baby only has a few
small hemorrhages located at the center portion of the retina, what we
called posterior pole. The parents have much greater chance being cleared
after careful evaluation. Reason for that, I will discuss in a short moment.
Secondly, could people on the board refrain from using generalization
comme... 阅读全帖 |
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p**t
发帖数: 75 | 18 英国医学杂志社论
http://www.bmj.com/content/328/7442/719.full
The phrase “shaken baby syndrome” evokes a powerful image of abuse, in
which a carer shakes a child sufficiently hard to produce whiplash forces
that result in subdural and retinal bleeding. The theory of shaken baby
syndrome rests on core assumptions: shaking is always intentional and
violent; the injury an infant receives from shaking is invariably severe;
and subdural and retinal bleeding is the result of criminal abuse, unless
proved othe... 阅读全帖 |
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r******l
发帖数: 240 | 19 Comfort ......MM, you are not alone.
My father passed away and my whole family did not let me know and kept it as
a secret from me for about three months. When my sister told me this, she
also told me that she and my brother-in-law got a divorce. The two
traumatic things haunted me for about two or three years. At a time, I felt
I was really depressed -- always want to cry for no reasons and want a hug
from my father. Since then, I believe in that there is heaven for good
people and my fathe... 阅读全帖 |
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m****a
发帖数: 6567 | 20 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 烦死我了 我小时候家里高压锅放地上，我还一屁股坐在一个正在发动的高压锅上面。估计太
traumatized,什么都不记得了................... |
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p*******m
发帖数: 3059 | 21 太罕见了吧，至今还没听说过一个，而且大部分都好这个多过intercouse。如果不好也
是咱们中国姑娘家保守，技术欠佳，不像洋妞从小就练。
就是小心别孕吐吐在上面，不然lg就被traumatize了，哈哈。 |
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Y*******n
发帖数: 4646 | 23 lZ mm, you have every right to be angry. personally I thiknk you husband is
a wuss , can't protect his wife and kids from a lousy bitch. yes people, I
said bitch, she deserves a worse name!
you did not hurt her, u apologized and moved your car, she has no loss what
so ever but she is a fucking bitch that jsut want to give you hard time.
typically some whtie trash loser that can't have her own life together so
she get it out on you!
you gonna take that shit? how much shit is enough for "weak as... 阅读全帖 |
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w***0
发帖数: 222 | 24 You may have a case. it really depends on how the consequences your son may
have afterwards. Listen very carefully to your urologist and have frequent
followup. If your son shows any consequences from such injury, lawyer will
help you win big money.
you may talk to a lawyer now.
it sounds like the foley tied a knot inside the bladder and traumatize the
urethra while the inexperienced nurse? withdrawing it. It could happen when
insertion is too long. infant foley has not air bladder/cuffed.
you h... 阅读全帖 |
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a***o
发帖数: 54 | 25 http://kidjacked.com/legal/spanking_law.asp
Alabama
[The Code of Alabama 1975]
Parent/guardian/person responsible for care and supervision of a minor/
teacher or other person responsible for care and supervision of a minor for
a special purpose may use reasonable and appropriate physical force when and
to the extent he reasonably believes it necessary and appropriate to
maintain discipline or promote welfare of the child.
§ 13A-3-24. [Criminal Code]
[See also: Endangering welfare of child. Secti... 阅读全帖 |
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n**********e
发帖数: 75 | 26 多一事不如少一事,舍财免灾, 下次小心.
You just got your 5 kids back from CPS. You should try and focus on them. It
must have been a traumatic experience for the kids. Instead of looking for
loopholes around the court decision yourself without a lawyer in order to
not pay the landlord, you should focus on providing a stable environment for
your kids, make them feel safe, help them recover from the ordeal and make
sure they are not going to be taken away from you again.
You already had problems with two landlords ... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 27 又钩起我最早的悲摧记忆了。 两岁多我爸教我分数，我总也不明白为什么１／２比１
／４大，明明４比２大嘛！我爸一生气，一拳锤在桌子上，吓得我把手里的玩具＂乒乓
＂给捏碎了。 我记得很清楚，＂乒乓＂上花着绿色的叶子，红的花。 当时我想，这么
薄的玻璃，还好不扎手啊。
后来看书上说，孩子很多最早期的记忆都是traumatized events。 所以我提醒自己，
将来不要以为孩子小将来记不得就不注意自己的言行，也许一不小心就成了孩子潜意识
里最初的烙印了。 |
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j******p
发帖数: 8333 | 28 我记得1岁多家里发大水，然后我被抱到2楼去躲洪水。
还有2岁多一点不睡觉在床上跳来跳去撞到桌子角上，头被撞破了一个大口子，送到医
院去缝针了。
你这么一说，还真是，我能记得的，都是比较traumatic的事情。 |
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s****r
发帖数: 94 | 29 我最早的记忆是坐在床上看我妈梳小辫。肯定是一岁半以前，因为在那之后的照片里我
妈就留短发了。感觉里母女都很高兴，我心里觉着妈妈很好看。如果那时候和家人失散
，那就是我记忆中模糊的母亲形象了。
traumatized也有一次，貌似是我妈要揍我，屋子很黑，妈很凶，吓得我一边哭一边满
床的爬。肯定很小。
不过也很难说小孩会记住哪次trauma。因为据说我小时候还磕到过，烫着过，生病不计
其数，但都不记得了。偏偏记住这次满床爬的。呵呵。 |
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G**i
发帖数: 99 | 30 If you can post a picture, I can take a look.
usually, it can heal itself, especially after one day.
Not necessary visit ER. suggest see pediatric dentist.
and take upper occlusal x-ray to evaluate front teeth. Sometime, the front
teeth have root fracture which can be seen in x-ray.
usually traumatic teeth might be discoloration or abcess (if severe) in
future. |
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T******1
发帖数: 158 | 31 From: Laser Dermatology by Christine C.Dierickx/David J. Goldberg
The management of giant congenital melanocytic nevi (GCMN) remains difficult
. It has been well proved that there is an increased risk of malignant
changes among patients with these lesions, although the amount of increased
risk for each individual patient is not clear.
Removal of superficial nevus cells is possible by dermabrasion, curettage,
shave excision, or laser. High energy CO2 laser therapy is less traumatic
and can produc... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********t
发帖数: 3958 | 32 小宝喝了一口后就拒绝，小嘴也被这奶弄得臭臭得的，缓了半天才缓过来，晚上用同样
的小小瓶喂母乳的时候因为有 traumatic memory，半天都不愿意接受，后来逗了半天
人家才意识到这不是恶心的奶
后来逼迫LG尝了以后，人家说味道想以前做试验培养细菌用的药剂。。。 |
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e****e
发帖数: 472 | 33 基本上决定捐了,不过也咨询过private bank,baby center上有篇文章是说how to
choose a private cord blood bank http://www.babycenter.com/0_how-to-choose-a-private-cord-blood-bank_1354934.bc?page=1, 我非常jerk的按照那上面列的事项,问了CBR,下面是他们给的回答,和考虑存脐带血的mm分享.
(1)Does CBR pass a voluntary accreditation standard specific to laboratory
processing of cord blood ?Like from AABB or FACT, and if it does, when?
We have accreditation from the AABB, ISO, BBB, FDA and CLIA (which is the
private version of FACT. FACT is for public banks only) a... 阅读全帖 |
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e****e
发帖数: 472 | 34 发给我的additional information:
"Thank you for your interest in CBR. Many expecting parents are interested
in the medical potential of cord blood stem cells. As you may know, cord
blood has been used successfully for more than 20 years to treat many
serious diseases.Today, clinical trials are investigating new therapies
using a child’s own newborn stem cells for conditions that currently have
no treatment.
Several FDA-regulated trials only use stem cells from CBR, as a way of
ensuring consistent qua... 阅读全帖 |
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t**i
发帖数: 3283 | 35 背景：
娃9个多月，这是第四周送daycare
情况：
每天放下如果不是她favorite的两个老师抱过去，还是要大哭。
在daycare不吃奶（白天在家也会这样），辅食倒是来者不拒
不睡觉，每天总共睡30分钟到一小时，在家nap一共可以睡4-6小时
lg的感觉：
他说要是几周下来娃还不能back to schedule，我们就应该考虑换daycare。问题是几
周是几周呢，另外小娃的schedule也是经常变的。我觉得他是因为有一次3点钟提前去
接她，看到她一个人在mat上哭，没人管，做爹的有点traumatized了。当时老师说她刚
睡醒
我的感觉：
娃在daycare还是开心的，学到些新本领，咿咿呀呀的话也多了，见生人还会招招手。
她本来是个敏感粘人的娃，哭我觉得也正常
总之我觉得大部分老师都还很好，各种情况也在normal范围内
不过她睡不好我还是很担心的。大家觉得呢？ |
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p*******b
发帖数: 163 | 36 我忍着痛和泪把她放下，出了她的房间嗷嗷大哭。
从出生她就只含我的乳头，没有把乳晕都含进去，可是我不痛，她也吃得开心，我就没
有纠正她，现在尝到苦果了，只是纠正会不会太晚了，已经七个月大了。
妈妈们有什么建议么，我已经traumatized，不敢喂奶了。。。 |
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b**s
发帖数: 908 | 37 可是你孩子应该还不会说话吧，要不你回去问问你那研究neurology的老公，traumatic
events的影响怎么量化？用EEG还是别的啥？还是等你孩子说话，弄个问卷，然后找个
对比组？你既然这么专家，那就专家到底好了... |
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l*********e
发帖数: 5385 | 38 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
BeeBeeWu (BuzzBee) 于 (Sun Mar 31 22:47:04 2013, 美东) 提到:
老大三岁了，两岁半开始上幼儿园，现在上了大概7个月左右。他喜欢跟大人玩，不喜
欢，或者可以说是害怕跟同龄的小朋友玩。在幼儿园，群体活动的时候他总是跑到一边
，自己一个人玩。他只跟一两个玩的熟的小朋友玩到一起。 上个星期，幼儿园老师跟
我说怀疑他有自闭倾向，让我找个医生评估一下。
我自己不觉得他自闭，在家里总是拉着爸爸妈妈，或者爷爷奶奶跟他玩。玩的时候他还
很喜欢安排别人应该做什么，例如应该妈妈应该坐在那里，爸爸应该跟在他后面等等。
他也很喜欢唱歌，经常跟着电视大声唱。他体力很好， 我们住在Atlanta. Atlanta的
石头山（stone mountain）,他已经能自己爬到山顶，而且下山。 他平衡能力也很好，
喜欢玩走独木桥的游戏，而且走的很稳。他也很喜欢爬高爬低，经常爬到幼儿园的柜子
或者沙发上，弄得老师很头痛。
老大从小对环境也很敏感，应该说比较易受到惊吓。一旦受到惊吓，要安慰... 阅读全帖 |
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m******t
发帖数: 184 | 39 孩子的的大夫是Tribeca， 他们有一本书叫The Bew Basics
刚看到一个部分是关于训练孩子睡眠的。
简单说
一般是从四个月开始，但他们发现其实从两个月开始更加有效。这时间训练孩子独立睡
眠只需要三天。
晚上喂饱孩子时候把孩子扔床上，然后离开不要再打搅孩子，第二天早上再来看孩子。
孩子大概第一天和第二天会哭的比较厉害，第三天第四天就没事了。
具体文章参见下面。因为我对这便不熟悉，觉得有点夸张。他们说的是否真的这么简单
有效。当然，我逻辑上同意他们的说法，越早训练，孩子依赖性越容易摆脱，有可能事
半功倍。但不知道大家看法如何？
The First Couple of Months
This period is your best opportunity to make your baby a night sleeper. Here
’s how.
After a couple of weeks, anna is sleeping more at night than during the day.
Each waking period ends with a feeding,... 阅读全帖 |
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T******t
发帖数: 420 | 40 “A BOY WHO WAS RAISED AS A DOG"
- What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love and Healing
这本书是一个儿童心理医生Bruce Perry和一个记者的合著。里面收录的都是这个医生
亲手治疗过的案例。
我自从知道有“为人父母",就想来推荐此书，但是一再犹豫。因为收录的这下案例非常
非常的extreme。有幼童亲见母亲被杀，或是遭遇性侵，还有冷血少年杀手，遭邪教洗
脑的孩子，和如书名所诉，被和狗一起圈养的孤儿。这绝对不是一个“容易”读的书。
我一直认为我的心里承受能力很不错，但是两次读此书，我都经常要take a break，我
觉得很多有孩子的人都会觉得这本书读不下去。
但是，我从这本书里学到很多。这个曾是神经学专家的儿童心理医生通过他这些极为特
殊的病人在这本书中案例分析不仅提供了如婴幼儿大脑发育这样的学术问题的分析，也
解释了如何对这样身心受损的孩子进行治疗。
虽然貌似这些案例对大多数的孩子的日常生活都不applicable，但是我觉得其实很多
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T******t
发帖数: 420 | 41 zkss是神马意思呢？
我来解释一下先：书中的一个重要的思想是大脑是身体的总指挥。如果一个孩子的脑部
的发展因为外界环境的原因滞后或是受挫，势必影响到孩子的身体发育，行为习惯等等
。又比如，书中还提到如果孩子under stress，他的大脑中的“报警”系统就很发达，
但是这种不平衡会导致孩子日后对外界良好正常的刺激失去应有的灵敏度。
所以，书中举的案例中的孩子虽然多是极度暴力的受害者，但是不要忽视subtitle所蕴
藏的信息：What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love and
Healing
对于孩子来说，Loss不一定是象书中孩子那样失去至亲，也可能是家里又多了一个孩子
，因此失去了一些attention。 Stress不一定来自于直接的暴力，生病住院，在一个
陌生的环境下接受正常的治疗（intrusive的抽血）的孩子也需要心理上的healing。
书中分析的孩子的语言，社交，甚至是饮食和睡眠障碍也都是父母的日常话题。 |
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z*******u
发帖数: 831 | 42 Big thank you to Thisthat who recommended this book here.
读书—《那个像狗一样被养大的男孩》
The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist
's Notebook --What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love, and
Healing
by Bruce Perry, Maia Szalavitz
在 mit上看到有人推荐的，在夏威夷玩的时候每天晚上看一点。趁着新鲜，写点读后感
＋笔记。
总的来讲是大大的推荐。作者是一个儿童精神医生，从大脑结构发育过程的角度来解释
孩子的经历对他们的行为和心理的影响，以及如何帮助曾经收到过巨大心里创伤的孩子
走出阴影。作者每章以1－2个孩子的故事为中心，辅以相应的专业知识，慢慢展开对于
大脑发育方面的讨论。虽然书里面的故事都是来自作者经历的及其悲天悯人的事件，但
是所阐述的知识却是可以用来帮助每个家长和老师来更好的理解孩子 |
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r*****n
发帖数: 3014 | 44 同意。 我有很多同学都没上过幼儿园直接上小学的，没看出啥区别来；但是我认识的
一些在美国长大的中国人，印度人，越南人小时候在家妈妈或者老人带到好几岁，突然
一下上幼儿园或k，现在回想起来都有不是很好的回忆，刚开始比较shock甚至
traumatized。
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g******t
发帖数: 236 | 45 我觉得最可怜的，还是国内带到3-5岁，过来直接扔幼儿园的那些孩子，环境巨大改变
，经常家里还多了弟弟妹妹，老师小朋友的话全听不懂，完全符合traumatize的过程了
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发帖数: 8613 | 46 http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2532918/
Paediatr Child Health. 2008 July; 13(6): 520–521.
PMCID: PMC2532918
Copyright © 2008, Canadian Paediatric Society. All rights reserved
Biting in child care: What are the risks?
No parent wants to hear that their child has been bitten (or has bitten
another child) while in child care, but it does happen. Young children are
very active, and bites can happen by accident when they are playing. Some
children may become aggressive or anxious, a... 阅读全帖 |
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r*d
发帖数: 750 | 47 不巧我们也正好有这个问题，医生给了点药让自己抹了在翻。效果不错。wiki来得。
Non surgical methods include:
* Application of topical steroid cream, such as betamethasone, for 4-6
weeks to the narrow part of the foreskin is relatively simple, less
expensive than surgical treatments and highly effective.[20][26][27] It has
replaced circumcision as the preferred treatment method for some physicians
in the British National Health Service.[28][29]
* Stretching of the foreskin can be accomplished manually, with balloons
[30] or wi... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******h
发帖数: 184 | 48 A good read from journal today - we need to teach kids to be patient.
When my daughter was 18 months old, my husband and I decided to take her on
a little summer holiday. We picked a coastal town that's a few hours by
train from Paris, where we were living (I'm American, he's British), and
booked a hotel room with a crib. Bean, as we call her, was our only child at
this point, so forgive us for thinking: How hard could it be?
We ate breakfast at the hotel, but we had to eat lunch and dinner at t... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****a
发帖数: 152 | 49 我是研究 traumatic brain injury的，诚恳的说一句，橄榄球真是很容易受伤，而脑
袋多次受冲撞（multiple concussion) 是真的影响大脑的。当然这都是统计学上意义
上的，所以肯定有特列。其实不止橄榄球，足球也是比较容易脑袋受伤的。请三思。 |
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s*****v
发帖数: 145 | 50 想看看special education有多广范围的进来
http://nces.ed.gov/fastfacts/display.asp?id=64
人数上，Autism占了0.8%。其中还包含各种受到health impairments和traumatic
brain injury的孩子，这些是意外伤害和疾病后移症的孩子。
所以有些用心恶毒的人在攻击special education的时候，可能还有保佑自己的孩子不
要一不小心掉到这些categories里。 |
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