u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 1 Brittany Cheng, Gunn High Class of 2010
I'm not sure what kind of answer the asker is looking for, because when
someone asks about suicide, there are often deeper underlying questions than
purely objective facts that they're looking for. As a member of the Gunn
High graduating class of 2010, I'd like to provide an answer that gives more
than purely objective fact. Perhaps it's not the answer you're looking for,
but it's an answer that, as a representative of our community, I feel
compelled to pr... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 25234 | 2 宝马杀人案前两天判了，两个终身监禁，不得假释。
South China Morning Post: Parents of murdered Chinese students Wu Ying, Qu
Ming tell of their grief (By McClatchy-Tribune in Los Angeles) Fathers of
two Chinese students shot dead as they sat in a car in Los Angeles tell
court of their grief as one of the accused pleads guilty. Bryan Barnes
admitted the first-degree murders of Wu Ying and Qu Ming, both 23 and
students at the University of Southern California, in 2012. He will instead
serve two consecutive life terms in pr... 阅读全帖 |
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T*****o
发帖数: 53 | 3 http://www.sacbee.com/2011/12/22/4139299/investigation-continues-into-death.html
He was 7 years old and loved to ski, a child described as simply "happy out
on the slopes."
Now members of the Sugar Bowl Ski Team are being comforted by grief
counselors and are offering their own condolences and support to the family
of John Henderson, who was a second-grader at North Davis Elementary School.
The boy, a member of the ski team, fell Sunday from a chairlift he was
riding with two of his teammates.... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5873 | 4 马克吐温真是狠。接下来还有四五章讲new orleans的，无不令人捧腹。
Chapter 41 The Metropolis of the South
THE approaches to New Orleans were familiar; general aspects were
unchanged. When one goes flying through London along a railway propped
in the air on tall arches, he may inspect miles of upper bedrooms
through the open windows, but the lower half of the houses is under
his level and out of sight. Similarly, in high-river stage, in the New
Orleans region, the water is up to the top of the enclosing levee-rim,
the flat c... 阅读全帖 |
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R******k
发帖数: 4756 | 5 据说创作力强的人（AKA 文青）容易得抑郁症。
"There has been a continuing discussion of whether neurological disorders
and mood disorders may be linked to creativity, a discussion that goes back
to Aristotelian times.[300][301] British literature gives many examples of
reflections on depression.[302] English philosopher John Stuart Mill
experienced a several-months-long period of what he called "a dull state of
nerves", when one is "unsusceptible to enjoyment or pleasurable excitement;
one of those moods when what i... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 558 | 6 Pain has an element of blank
Emily Dickinson
Pain has an element of blank;
It cannot recollect
When it began, or if there was
A time when it was not.
It has no future but itself,
Its infinite realms contain
Its past, enlightened to perceive
New periods of pain.
痛把心掏空；
它不能记得
何时开始， 可否有过
它不存在的一刻。
痛没有未来，
它无尽的领地包容
它的过去， 唤醒去体味
又一轮的痛。
Dickinson is speaking about two aspects of pain, its timelessness and its
irresistible dominance. The poem is structured by references to time (the
past in lines 1-4; the... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4091 | 7 音乐剧之旅二: Music of the Night还没完全学好又爱上了Michael Ball唱过的这首
Empty Chairs at Empty Tables. 恰好之前找到了一盘Les Mis的卡拉OK伴奏CD 就现学
一下. 电脑风扇很吵 手机的收音效果大受影响 先这么地吧 轻拍...
歌名:
Empty Chairs at Empty Tables
歌词:
There's a grief that can't be spoken.
There's a pain goes on and on.
Empty chairs at empty tables
Now my friends are dead and gone.
Here they talked of revolution.
Here it was they lit the flame.
Here they sang about tomorrow
And tomorrow never came.
From the table in the corner
They could see a world reborn
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l****t
发帖数: 1454 | 9 转自校长的信
Dear Carolina community:
I am writing in regard to the tragic loss of a member of the Carolina
community. As many of you know, Dr. Feng Liu, a research professor in the
Eshelman School of Pharmacy, passed away this morning in what the Chapel
Hill Police Department is calling a robbery/homicide. This is a tremendous
loss to Carolina, and I am heartbroken over this horrible tragedy. My
thoughts and prayers are with Dr. Liu’s family, colleagues and friends
during this difficult time.
Dr. Liu... 阅读全帖 |
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r*****t
发帖数: 2860 | 10 on't think people loved her, they did have an affinity with her though. What
happened to her, the way she was treated by her husband, his family and his
floozy. She was young and naive, she had no idea what she was in for, or
who she was and would be up against when she married and when things started
going wrong, she had all of those very powerful people in the Royal court
against her. Brits love an underdog and when the underdog died in really
very tragic circumstances, leaving two young sons,... 阅读全帖 |
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M****N
发帖数: 16093 | 11 【 以下文字转载自 Music 讨论区 】
发信人: Enterlight (:-), 信区: Music
标 题: 【翻唱】Lighty 音乐剧之二 Empty Chairs at Empty Tables
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 19 16:24:35 2014, 美东)
音乐剧之旅二: Music of the Night还没完全学好又爱上了Michael Ball唱过的这首
Empty Chairs at Empty Tables. 恰好之前找到了一盘Les Mis的卡拉OK伴奏CD 就现学
一下. 电脑风扇很吵 手机的收音效果大受影响 先这么地吧 轻拍...
歌名:
Empty Chairs at Empty Tables
歌词:
There's a grief that can't be spoken.
There's a pain goes on and on.
Empty chairs at empty tables
Now my friends are dead and gone.
Here they talked of revolution... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 34403 | 12 Young I was，and ignorant of the taste of care；
Alone I loved to mount the stairs，
Alone I loved to mount the stairs，
And in new verses my imagined woes declare．
Now I’ve learned all the bitterness of life’s care，
Never would I hint my despair，
Never would I hint my despair，
Murmuring instead：Ah autumn，how cool and fair．
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While young, I knew no grief I could bear;
I'd like to go upstair.
I'd like to go upstair
To write new vreses with a false despair.
I know what ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*e
发帖数: 6785 | 13 1)
I look for what I miss;
I know not what it is.
I feel so sad, so drear,
So lonely, without cheer.
另一个版本的翻译：
So dim, so dark,
So dense, so dull,
So damp, so dank, so dead.
2)
A flat－top forest stretches far in embroidered mist,
A cluster of mountains cool is tinged with heartbreak blue.
3)
How much sorrow, pray, can a person carry?
Like the spring torrent flowing eastward without tarry.
4)
The boundless forest sheds its leaves shower by shower,
The endless river roll its waves hour after hour.... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 172 | 14 (A self reflection many years. To the old times.)
Today a casual reading on the train unexpectedly offered me a tip about
grief which sounds surprisingly true. It states that there is such a single
definition of the grieving process that has permeated our modern cultural
consciousness, the five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining,
depression and acceptance. People are not meant to feel them in that order
and for a prescribed amount of time. Yet I do think it provides an accurate
account o... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3402 | 15 凤栖梧——柳永
伫倚危楼风细细，
望极春愁，
黯黯生天际。
草色烟光残照里，
无言谁会凭阑意。
拟把疏狂图一醉，
对酒当歌，
强乐还无味。
衣带渐宽终不悔，
为伊消得人憔悴。
“Phoenix Perching on Plane Tree”
----liu yong
I lean alone on balcony in light, light breeze;
As far as the eye sees,
On the horizon dark grief grows unseen.
In fading sunlight rises smoke over grass green.
Who understand why mutely on the rails I lean?
I'd drown in wine my parting grief,
Chanting before the cup; strained mirth brings no relief.
I find my gown too large, but I will not regret;... 阅读全帖 |
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a***k
发帖数: 1038 | 16 I
The way led along upon what had once been the embankment of a railroad. But
no train had run upon it for many years. The forest on either side swelled
up the slopes of the embankment and crested across it in a green wave of
trees and bushes. The trail was as narrow as a man's body, and was no more
than a wild-animal runway.
Occasionally, a piece of rusty iron, showing through the forest-mold,
advertised that the rail and the ties still remained. In one place, a ten-
inch tree, bursting through... 阅读全帖 |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 17 there are grief and depression, and there is great difference between them.
you will recover soon from grief, even without actually doing anything. but
for depression, even chronic depression or dysthymia, you still need to seek
help from a therapist or/and psychiatrist. |
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发帖数: 1435 | 18 you are in the stage one of grief, you are in denial of your mother's death,
you can not believe it actually happened to you, it is so shocking, you
need to give your time to face up the reality not to push yourself too much,
you can see a thearpist who could help you relive the days where your
mother lived and gradually find activities through which you can memorize
her, you need to develop new hobbies to kill your time. The above info is
centered around grief therapy, call your insurance to fi... 阅读全帖 |
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x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 19 you are in the stage one of grief, you are in denial of your mother's death,
you can not believe it actually happened to you, it is so shocking, you
need to give your time to face up the reality not to push yourself too much,
you can see a thearpist who could help you relive the days where your
mother lived and gradually find activities through which you can memorize
her, you need to develop new hobbies to kill your time. The above info is
centered around grief therapy, call your insurance to fi... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 20 There are stages in grieving:
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html
It seems to me that you want to do one thing, that's that you want to know for sure that your mom's soul still exists so that she can still share your life somehow, or you can still sense her existence somehow, is it so?
I also liked the book "many lives, many masters", and Brian Weiss has a couple other books. I have also read "through time into healing" and "only love is real", and you may find them soothing... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 21 There are stages in grieving:
http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html
It seems to me that you want to do one thing, that's that you want to know for sure that your mom's soul still exists so that she can still share your life somehow, or you can still sense her existence somehow, is it so?
I also liked the book "many lives, many masters", and Brian Weiss has a couple other books. I have also read "through time into healing" and "only love is real", and you may find them soothing... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 22 Dear snmm, I agree that your mom had been your best therapist before to
overcome all other things in life.
Well, a therapist is like crutches to help people walk when they can't walk
freely, and crutches are not supposed to be leaned on for ever.
Your mom raised you, and she would leave you one way or the other. What she
taught you on how to live is the thing that will accompany you till the end
of your life.
If you are trying therapists, the therapy may take a while till you see the
effects, an... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 23 Dear snmm, I agree that your mom had been your best therapist before to
overcome all other things in life.
Well, a therapist is like crutches to help people walk when they can't walk
freely, and crutches are not supposed to be leaned on for ever.
Your mom raised you, and she would leave you one way or the other. What she
taught you on how to live is the thing that will accompany you till the end
of your life.
If you are trying therapists, the therapy may take a while till you see the
effects, an... 阅读全帖 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 24 看的话可以找找有没有specialty在grief, breavement方面的心理医生，没有的话
specialty在depression方面的或者普通的也可以. 你现在不一定是已经depress的
状态，不过看看心理医生帮助自己处理下内心没有机会好好处理的grief，就能帮自
己避免这些东西转化为depression了. |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 25 看的话可以找找有没有specialty在grief, breavement方面的心理医生，没有的话
specialty在depression方面的或者普通的也可以. 你现在不一定是已经depress的
状态，不过看看心理医生帮助自己处理下内心没有机会好好处理的grief，就能帮自
己避免这些东西转化为depression了. |
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c****t
发帖数: 19049 | 26 HALF-LIVES
the first luisa rey
mystery
I
Rufus Sixsmith leans over the balcony and estimates his body’s velocity
when it hits the
sidewalk and lays his dilemmas to rest. A telephone rings in the unlit room.
Sixsmith dares not
answer. Disco music booms from the next apartment, where a party is in full
swing, and
Sixsmith feels older than his sixty-six years. Smog obscures the stars, but
north and south
along the coastal strip, Buenas Yerbas’s billion lights simmer. West, the
Pacific eternity East... 阅读全帖 |
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c****t
发帖数: 19049 | 27 AN ORISON OF SONMI~451
On behalf of my ministry, thank you for agreeing to this final interview.
Please remember, this
isn’t an interrogation, or a trial. Your version of the truth is the only
one that matters.
TRUTH IS SINGULAR. ITS “VERSIONS” ARE MISTRUTHS.
… Good. Ordinarily, I begin by asking prisoners to recall their earliest
memories to provide a
context for corpocratic historians of the future. Fabricants have no
earliest memories,
Archivist. One twenty-four-hour cycle in Papa Song’s is i... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 28 UNHAPPY mortals! Dark and mourning earth!
Affrighted gathering of human kind!
Eternal lingering of useless pain!
Come, ye philosophers, who cry, "All’s well,"
And contemplate this ruin of a world.
Behold these shreds and cinders of your race,
This child and mother heaped in common wreck,
These scattered limbs beneath the marble shafts—
A hundred thousand whom the earth devours,
Who, torn and bloody, palpitating yet,
Entombed beneath their hospitable roofs,
In racking torment end their stricken l... 阅读全帖 |
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G*M
发帖数: 6042 | 29 Bible Course - Christian Doctrine
Lesson 8
God the Holy Ghost
Lord's Day 20 - 22
God the Holy Ghost
In Lord's Day 11-19, on the basis of articles 2 - 7 of the Apostles' Creed,
there is spoken of Jesus Christ and His work. In Lord's Day 20-22, on the
basis of the last five articles of the Creed, there is spoken of the Holy
Ghost and His work, who He is and what He does in order that we may be
partakers in the deliverance which Christ has merited for us.
Lord's Day 20
Q. 53. What dost thou believe... 阅读全帖 |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 30 CHAPTER XI
Of Justification
I. Those whom God effectually calleth, he also freely justifieth:[235] not
by infusing righteousness into them, but by pardoning their sins, and by
accounting and accepting their persons as righteous; not for anything
wrought in them, or done by them, but for Christ’s sake alone; nor by
imputing faith itself, the act of believing, or any other evangelical
obedience to them, as their righteousness; but by imputing the obedience and
satisfaction of Christ unto them,[236... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******e
发帖数: 6802 | 31 发信人: whiterose (抱抱熊和胖胖鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: Re: 【7月查经---续】箴言 第17章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 13 18:38:02 2011, 美东)
Proverbs 17
1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet
than a house full of feasting, with strife.
2 A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son
and will share the inheritance as one of the family.
3 The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold,
but the LORD tests the heart.
4 A wicked person listens to deceitful lips;
a liar pays attention to a destructive ton... 阅读全帖 |
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g****m
发帖数: 996 | 32 Religion and Psychiatry
Irvin Yalom
宗教与精神病学
欧文亚隆
The American Psychiatric Association awarded Irvin Yalom the 2000 Oscar
Pfister prize (for important contributions to religion and psychiatry.) Here
is his acceptance speech delivered at the American Psychiatric Association
annual meeting in May 2000 at New Orleans. A version of this lecture has
been published in the American Journal of Psychotherapy (number three –
2002)
美国精神卫生协会将2000年奥斯卡菲斯特奖颁给欧文亚隆，奖励他在宗教与精神病学方
面做出的重要贡献。下面是他在2000年5月新奥尔良举行的美... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 33 Thomas Jefferson, (1743-1826) 3rd American president, author, scientist,
architect, educator, and diplomat. Deist, avid separationist.
"Millions of innocent men, women, and children, since the introduction of
Christianity, have been burned, tortured, fined, and imprisoned, yet we have
not advanced one inch toward uniformity. What has been the effect of
coercion? To make one half of the world fools and the other half hypocrites.
" [Notes on Virginia]
"I do not find in orthodox Christianity one re... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8336 | 34 When We Misinterpret God
by C Michael PattonJuly 14th, 201411 Comments
There have been times, too numerous to count, when I went one way,
suspecting the Lord was heading in the same direction, only to find out the
heart-breaking reality that God was going a different direction.
People seek to confirm their worldview (belief system) in their experiences.
Christians are no different. I am no different. I’m constantly looking for
events, I call them “God-sightings”, that evidence what I already bel... 阅读全帖 |
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s****r
发帖数: 736 | 35
The Necklace
by Guy de Maupassant
She was one of those pretty and charming girls born, as though fate had
blundered over her, into a family of artisans. She had no marriage portion,
no expectations, no means of getting known, understood, loved, and wedded by
a man of wealth and distinction; and she let herself be married off to a
little clerk in the Ministry of Education. Her tastes were simple because
she had never been able to afford any other, but she was as unhappy as
though she had marr... 阅读全帖 |
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m******n
发帖数: 6673 | 36 Outpouring of grief for third Boston victim, Chinese university student
By Bill Dedman and Matthew DeLuca, NBC News
An outpouring of grief from friends and strangers across two countries
followed the news Wednesday that the third victim of the Boston Marathon
bombings was a Boston University graduate student from China.
Lingzi Lu was identified as the third person who died after twin explosions
tore through the air near the marathon's finish line Monday. Lu was watching
the race with two friends... 阅读全帖 |
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c****b
发帖数: 1194 | 37 lz的心情有点像grief的第二阶段。抑郁症那么顽固，不是简单的关心就能解决的。lz
节哀啊，千万不要再出现二次伤害。你还有家人，孩子和妈妈。
http://www.cancersurvivors.org/Coping/end%20term/stages.htm
Five Stages Of Grief
1. Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from
our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
2. Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt
(even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be
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s*******l
发帖数: 4870 | 38 以前光知道我姐姐的大女儿天才来的，
三年级进了集中营里的集中营还游刃有余
这个是妹妹写的，才二年级！
看来我姐姐从一年级就给她找writing tutor，实在是太明智了！
Unconditional Love
He had the softest pelt with brown, white, and caramel fur. He had floppy
ears, pink front paws and dark brown hind paws. He had the most adorable
almond shaped eyes which still seem to stare into my own eyes, as if saying,
“You’re giving me a home? Giving me a chance? Giving me love?” As I
slumped in my chair, my mind suddenly swirled.
I felt really sad when my pet guinea pig, Buck, died. H... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******e
发帖数: 6802 | 39 Proverbs 10
Proverbs of Solomon
1 The proverbs of Solomon:
A wise son brings joy to his father,
but a foolish son brings grief to his mother.
2 Ill-gotten treasures have no lasting value,
but righteousness delivers from death.
3 The LORD does not let the righteous go hungry,
but he thwarts the craving of the wicked.
4 Lazy hands make for poverty,
but diligent hands bring wealth.
5 He who gathers crops in summer is a prudent son,
but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******e
发帖数: 6802 | 40 Proverbs 17
1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet
than a house full of feasting, with strife.
2 A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son
and will share the inheritance as one of the family.
3 The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold,
but the LORD tests the heart.
4 A wicked person listens to deceitful lips;
a liar pays attention to a destructive tongue.
5 Whoever mocks the poor shows contempt for their Maker;
whoever gloats over disaster will not go unpunishe... 阅读全帖 |
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k***k
发帖数: 499 | 42 men like bitches.
dont grief just because u dont get ur piece of bitch pussy |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 43 not everyone deals with grief, frustration or guilt the same way. |
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e****i
发帖数: 2152 | 44 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: erkuai (三天不上bbs,赶得上刘少奇), 信区: Military
标 题: On the Jews and Their Lies, 1543
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 12 23:21:23 2011, 美东)
by Martin Luther (1483-1546)
Translated by Martin H. Bertram
copyright © 1971 Fortress Press & Augsburg Fortress - On the Jews and
Their Lies is from Luther’s Works Volume 47. Augsburg Fortress is the
publishing ministry of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
Funded through sales revenue, Augsburg Fortress is called to provide
produ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*****e
发帖数: 7299 | 45 房泡没破的时候都说你看都这么久了。。。
知道历史趋势并不等于是能预言准点。
大夫让你准备后事也说不准几分几秒。
共产主义文明大趋势只是yy宣传吧，有任何历史事实和逻辑支持么？目前人类社会的物
质和文明发展，哪一点支持共产主义是人类文明大趋势了？
而且目前后清中共玩的早已不是共产主义了，而是门阀权贵买办原始资本主义。
金盾大火墙维稳基金超军费千万网评员非法字符敏感词两少一宽亚克西实名制买菜刀打
折卖叉补贴洋大人政治菊权贵子孙入质米国带路上炕，这种种后清独裁壮举，你用哪种
“逻辑”能证明是可以稳定持续维持的大趋势呢？
你现在已经不是按照事实和逻辑来讨论问题了，为了逃避事实，已经进入了seven
stages of grief了，看到你陷入了和教奴相同的困境，真是令人唏嘘啊。。。 |
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p*****e
发帖数: 7299 | 46 你从一开始挑战事实和逻辑，然后明智转进，现在变复读机了，呵呵
seven stages of grief... |
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t******e
发帖数: 2009 | 48 英文版露梁海战，相信是韩国人写的。
你的第一人好了不起啊。
The Final Battle and Admiral Yi's Death
See also: Battle of Noryang
A map showing the movements of the navies in the battle.
On December 15, 1598, a huge Japanese fleet under the command of Shimazu
Yoshihiro, was amassed in Sachon Bay, on the east end of Noryang Strait.
Shimazu's goal was to break the allied forces' blockade on Konishi Yukinaga,
join the two fleets, and sail home to Japan. Admiral Yi, meanwhile, knew
exactly where Shimazu was, after receiving report... 阅读全帖 |
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這幾年來的確一直在做一個夢：假如我是1945年時的蔣公我會怎麼辦？苦撐了八年
，換來了衛國戰爭的勝利，下一步怎麼走？什麽是工作重點？經濟上是滿目瘡痍，黃金
十年的積蓄已被抗戰消耗殆盡，通貨膨脹，債臺高累；政治上共黨在蘇聯支持下向東北
膨脹，華北大片地區被非法接收，鐵路、公路、橋樑被匪嚴重破壞，更甚者是我同胞未
死於日本人之手，卻死於匪煽動的階級仇恨和血腥土改中。目前的重中之重是什麽？剿
匪還是行憲？還是兩者兼顧？
時光倒流65年，我是蔣公，我的選擇是剿匪為第一任務，而不是匆忙行憲。不要被
勝利沖昏頭腦，中華民國還沒有真正完成統一，東北還在蘇聯手中，華北、西北、江南
部份地區還有共匪作亂，在蘇俄紅色法西斯直接指揮下陰謀搞顛覆。我將採取以下幾條
措施，分條論述.
1. 日本投降后短暫慶祝后，立刻宣佈緊急狀態，憑與共匪打了20多年的交道的經
驗，丟掉對共匪之任何之幻想。
2. 嚴格控制經濟命脈，牢牢掌握住鐵路、銀行、能源、國防工業等要害部門。尤
其是嚴控貨幣發行，禁止匪幣在任何地方發行流通，維護金融穩定。澄清并徹查匪在抗
日期間的非法種植、販賣鴉... 阅读全帖 |
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