m****o
发帖数: 114 | 1 I have been really busy with my project, so didn't get chance to comment on
this.
I think it partially true that "selfish gene塑造了我的人生观世界观", and
here is why.
Being selfish, disregarding the word itself contains negative implication,
is a natural demand for any living being able to survive. A human, just
like any animals, needs to eat and has desire for sex, that's the way to
make speciece to carry on through natural selection.
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m*****n
发帖数: 667 | 2 写的很好，分享一下
http://bbs.wenxuecity.com/rdzn/1447125.html
支持围观同学一下，说说我和老公的婚姻感悟
明年三月就结婚九年了，比起这里很多人，我们一点不算资深。
我老公是中国人（北京人），十岁来美国。我自己的经历也很特殊，长沙妹子，国中去
台湾，高中去加拿大，大学来美国。我不算外嫁，但是家里的文化的确是比较美式的。
我喜欢晒幸福，觉得老公是世界上最好的人。但是婚姻里当然不是一帆风顺。这些年来
，体会到婚姻最大的敌人就是自己的自私。爱一个人，就是
－－ 好吃的berries 不一下子全吃光了，留给他至少一半。
－－ 陪他看他喜欢的sci－fi电影。
－－ 为了他，对婆婆，我忍！
结婚快九年了，我很懒，老公更懒，这样两个人在一起，哈哈，特别是有了小朋友后（
还有两个以后），家务事以exponential的程度增长，累得我们四脚朝天。不过这还是
小事情，除了家务事，还有其他七七八八的事情，像婆媳关系，让我们为了各自利益，
立场相左。
有一次我和他大吵一架，气到冲出门外，在外面走了一圈才回家。老公急的要命。等孩
子们都睡了，他道歉，我只记得最后他说... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 383 | 3 No. I don't think she is selfish. I don't think it's a matter of selfishness
or selflessness. It's a matter of taking life's bitterness head on or
swerving around in seeking a better life (as far as we could see at the time)
for ourselves. There is no fault in either, and both require courage and
wisdom.
There are so many inspirational people with birth defects out there. We all
know Hellen Keller. I recently found out about a professional storyteller
with a facial disfigurement, David Roche: ht... 阅读全帖 |
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h*******s
发帖数: 327 | 4 http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2008/10/obamas-new-atta.html
Obama's New Attack on Those Who Don't Want Higher Taxes: ‘Selfishness’
October 31, 2008 10:58 AM
On the stump this week, Sen. Barack Obama, D-Ill., has pushed back against
Sen. John McCain's description of his tax policies.
"The reason that we want to do this, change our tax code, is not because I
have anything against the rich," Obama said in Sarasota, Fla., yesterday. "I
love rich people! I want all of you to be rich. Go for |
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q**x
发帖数: 1636 | 5 seinfeld is always selfish, so does george, elaine, and cramer.
Also
days
our
doesn' |
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j******n
发帖数: 2206 | 6 都是教练安排好的。你放心。不是他想selfish就可以的。 |
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f********e
发帖数: 144 | 7 http://www.elconfidencial.com/deportes/2013/05/16/el-messi-mas-
Barcelona need to Leo Messi. 's the imagination and the soul of the Catalan
team. Without the Argentine game, Barca team suffers, is a different one, is
mutated in a team to vulgar, but everything has a limit and some are
beginning to tire of enduring vagaries and situations that lead to one and
measure of differently. Leo Messi is showing his selfish side in recent
weeks, which has led to berate fellow technicians and attitude.
In ... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 8 This position is quite good for men in a worldly sense. A men with this
configuration is usually impersonal in his judgment of the world around him,
but he is very selfish regarding his own aims and ambitions. He seldom
makes intimate friends, and lays his plans systematically. He seldom makes
intimate friends, and usually confides in nobody. His interests are in the
commercial world, and politics offer other fertile fields for the type of
ability found in this personality.
Despite the temperame... 阅读全帖 |
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s**d
发帖数: 787 | 9 记得那还是在上初中的时候，有一天上英语课，老师问我们知不知道selfish是啥意思
。我和我同桌说：“咳，这有啥不知道的呀。不就是卖鱼的嘛。” |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 10 In a recent interview with Rolling Stone, President Obama had the following
to say about novelist and philosopher Ayn Rand:
Ayn Rand is one of those things that a lot of us, when we were 17 or 18
and feeling misunderstood, we'd pick up. Then, as we get older, we realize
that a world in which we're only thinking about ourselves and not thinking
about anybody else... is a pretty narrow vision.
I can almost one hundred percent guarantee something right here and right
now. President Obama's only... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****9
发帖数: 9501 | 11 Melo says that he’s called selfish because of Linsanity
Matt Moore
Aug 4, 2012, 2:30 PM EDT
Carmelo Anthony apparently thinks that the whole idea of him being “selfish
” started with Linsanity. Yeah. From USA Today:
But he pinpoints exactly when the “Anthony is selfish” meme began.
“Let’s be frank about it,” he said. “When it comes to the Knicks, we’re
talking about one particular point in time. We’re talking about the whole
‘Linsanity’ thing. That’s when it started. That’s when it started to
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l*****a
发帖数: 408 | 12 Yes, selfish people normally get more. How to be selfish? Many people are
not selfish at first, but after being hurt, they change to be selfish. Or
when facing the one who is not love, the girl or guy is selfish. |
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a*****e
发帖数: 911 | 13 这篇和MM你其它篇的风格不太一样啊，感觉有点negative。
what happened (today)? is it because of no counseling during weekend? or about
ur hubby?
sure everyone is selfish, but as a group they also help others too. Even
selfish has right selfish and wrong selfish, the boundary is whether the
selfish hurts others.
all of the best.
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 14 https://hk.news.yahoo.com/%E9%BB%83%E4%B9%8B%E9%8B%92%E7%B5%95%E9%A3%9F%E8%
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What? Only 4 days? In spite of guzzling down glasses of glucose
everyday, he can't take it any longer and calls it quits? Thousands of HK's
citizens lost a lot of income and many lost their livelihood because of this
despicable idiot... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 15 Richard Cohen Explains Conservatives
By Dennis Prager
January 8, 2013 12:00 A.M.
On the last day of 2012, Washington Post columnist Richard Cohen
inadvertently clarified two huge matters regarding the Left.
The first was the ignorance about conservatives and conservatism that
permeates the Left. The second was the primary reason decent people identify
with the Left: the effective caricaturing and demonizing of the Right. Were
it not for caricature and demonization, most otherwise intelligent and... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 16 selfish?
have you read a book named 'selfish gene'? how is a person not selfish
if their genes are selfish.
back to our topic. the reason why a man lives or tolerate with a woman,
is not because of the love he gives to her, but because of the marriage
certificate.
As a man, we must comply with the law and cherish the family, but we don't
need
to show our love if there is really no love. |
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s**********h
发帖数: 436 | 17 Your parents-in-law didn't fulfill their "parents" responsibility when your
LG was young (your LG was brought up by his grandparents). Now they want to
enjoy their "parents" privilege. Very interesting.
I think your LG can support them financially, assuming that your PIL
supported your LG when he was staying with his grandparents. I really don't
think you'd lead a happy life if you live with them. Some people are just
selfish. When young selfish people grow old, they don't get less selfish,
they... 阅读全帖 |
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l***o
发帖数: 194 | 18 First, please forgive me not able to write Chinese at this moment. Yes, my
English is not that good, just want say something.
Wow, I rarely speak up about anyone else's business since it is not my place
to say anything about a family matter without two sides stories. But after
I have nothing else to read on this site and read your complain, I am
socked.
What a selfish person you are. Forgive me about my lauguage. Life is never
what you plan. Do your best is what you can do at all time. This i... 阅读全帖 |
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r***u
发帖数: 1272 | 19 William Deresiewicz 2010年在斯坦福大学的演讲：
我的题目提出的问题，当然，是一个传统地面向人文科学的专业所提出的问题：学习文
学、艺术或哲学能有什么实效价值（practical value）？你肯定纳闷，我为什么在以
科技堡垒而闻名的斯坦福提出这个问题呢？大学学位给人带来众多机会，这还有什么需
要质疑的吗？
但那不是我提出的问题。这里的“做（do）”并不是指工作（job），“那(that)”并
不是指你的专业（major）。]我们不仅仅是我们的工作，教育的全部也不仅仅是一门主
修专业。（We are more than our jobs, and education is more than a major.）教
育也不仅仅是上大学，甚至也不仅是从幼儿园到研究生院的正规学校教育。我说的“你
要做什么”的意思是你要过什么样的生活（what kind of life are you going to
lead?）？我所说的“那”指的是你得到的正规或非正规的任何训练，那些把你送到这
里来的东西，你在学校的剩余时间里将要做的任何事。
我们不妨先来讨论你是如何考入斯坦福的... 阅读全帖 |
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f**l
发帖数: 1666 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 WorldNews 讨论区 】
【 原文由 fuel 所发表 】
the magic term "free will" doesn't justify anything.
if you abandoned your country and your people for your own good,
that's only because you are selfish enough to do so.
it's selfishness, although some decorate it as "free will".
i'm not saying that selfishness is bad, no, it's a neutral thing as long
as you don't sacrafice others' behalf to fulfill it.
i'm just saying that selfishness doesn't make you morally superior than others.
some old generals an |
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k***n
发帖数: 11247 | 21 of course people are all selfish, that's why we can't trust a country to a
few selfish people, all the selfish people should have a equal right to
decide the overal direction of the country. |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 22 Human are selfish. This kind of selfishness will make a person
vote for himself for ever.
If Republic party have a better plan for the U.S., can a democrat
change his or her mind to vote for his or her opponent party?
have Never heard of that.
Is there a republic president nominee's wife who votes for
democrat party?
have never heard of that.
our human's selfishness defintely hinders the freedom and democracy
of the voting system. Makes it very weak and ineffient actually.
random head and tail b... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 23 Human are selfish. This kind of selfishness will make a person
vote for himself for ever.
If Republic party have a better plan for the U.S., can a democrat
change his or her mind to vote for his or her opponent party?
have Never heard of that.
Is there a republic president nominee's wife who votes for
democrat party?
have never heard of that.
our human's selfishness defintely hinders the freedom and democracy
of the voting system. Makes it very weak and ineffient actually.
random head and tail b... 阅读全帖 |
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C****n
发帖数: 2324 | 24 Agreed.
So what I am saying is:
1. At least 38% Americans think that raise the TAX on top 2% is not a good
idea. Either because it won't benefit themselves, or because they simply
think it's WRONG!
2. Democratic IDEAL has foundamental flaws. Greedy and selfish will destroy
human being itself. I mean, greedy and selfish are good. But greedy +
selfish + democracy = BAD!
Raising the TAX of top 2% is different than raising the TAX for TOP 49%? Be
careful!
As a matter of FACT, USA is not a democratic... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 40 | 25 Now, there's one thing you might have noticed I don't complain about
suck. Well, where do people think these politicians come from? They don'
t fall out of the sky. They don't pass through a membrane from another
reality. They come from American parents and American families, American
homes, American schools, American churches, American businesses and American
universities, and they are elected by American citizens. This is the best
we can do folks. This is what we have to offer. It's what our s... 阅读全帖 |
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m****8
发帖数: 627 | 26 Everyone is selfish.
Selfish parents ( who value themselves more than their kids ) will choose to
-> 不愿要小孩抚养权。
我父母以前也都劝我不要小孩，搬到其它城市去 -> Your parents care about you a
lot more than your children, so don't blame them.
If you want to act like a MAN, you need to know where your bottom line
is, everyone knows that you can not cut yourself loose from your
children.
Your GF is a human being, she can be selfish as well, thus her requests to
ask you not to see your kids regularly, you don't have to
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 27 I am male, but i agree w/ most female's point of views here.
first of all, you and your wife both seem decent. And obviously you care
about your daughter; and so does your wife.
but it takes more than good intention to keep up a marriage (or raise a kid
right for that matter). as a guy i completely understand everything you
said, however at the same time what i see from you is a total lack of EQ, a
very rigid and self-righteous way of thinking, and deep down you are a very
selfish character.
i... 阅读全帖 |
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f******m
发帖数: 440 | 28 What if the husband never get responsible? Why women always find excuses for
men? Selfish is selfish. That's some men's nature. Just admit this if you
are unlucky to have such a selfish LG and find some smart way to educate him.
help
affect |
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c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 29 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
kaixinbb (kaixinbb) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:46:26 2012, 美东) 提到:
恩， 你还没ready. 你应该40岁后再要孩子， 生不出来问题也不大，因为你的生活已
经很充实了。
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HoH (HoH) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:47:56 2012, 美东) 提到:
也有过类似想法，不过自己决定的事情就要自己承担。生下来就好了，看着孩子觉得其
他什么都不再重要。现在反正也不能退货，干脆放宽心吧。
我们以为拥有昨天和明天，我们以为世界上有假如和意外，其实我们拥有的只是当下，
而事情的发生只有一种可能，那就是你所经历的那一种。如果有什么错了，那不是现实
错了，而是我们的想象错了。
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leeking (life is drama) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:48:11 2012, ... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******l
发帖数: 4637 | 30 儿子竞选student council。一个班冒出来9个候选人，只有两个可以当选。
小人早就做了准备，写了讲稿在家和我反复练习，上油管学习别人演讲。好朋友帮着画
竞选传单，poster，学校里乱贴。
昨天去接他，看他有点儿闷闷不乐，旁边好朋友和我说，他落选了，不高兴，然后转头
和儿子说：”This is just the first time. You will do better in next election
.".好朋友很义气，和儿子一路幼儿园上来，一直好得和啥一样。就她画的poster最仔
细精致，比儿子画得强多了。见过儿子难过的时候她安慰他，揽着肩膀密密谈心，直到
儿子好起来...我心甚慰，有这样的朋友。
有点儿跑题哈。
然后安慰孩子几句，上了车问说差几票？说不知道。然后告诉我每人可以投4个人，允
许自己投自己。
我就问，你给自己投票了么？
No. I didn't.
Why!!!???
I thought that would be selfish.
&^%$#!*...
我还没想好这是不是个问题，需要不需要和孩子掰扯一下。孩子做错了么？怎么让他知
道有时候人需要 sel... 阅读全帖 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 31 selfish 的定义错了。 原因在家长，自己先想通再教孩子 －－ 你已经要undo一些以
前的teaching了，不要将来再undo今天的teaching
:)
但总体来讲，是个很可爱的小事儿，所以啥都不说也没啥。 孩子会永远记住这个事儿
的 －－ 成长的一部分。
http://ifat-glassman.blogspot.com/2010/02/what-is-selfishness.h
==quote===
If one misidentifies what selfishness is, one can experience unearned guilt
or live a life which is not as good as one could have.
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 32
其实我觉得这孩子倒是没觉得自己不该当选，我猜可能是这两种情况的混合物 －－
（猜着玩儿，猜错了也正常）
１）这孩子潜意识和显意识里认为，公开争取自己的利益是selfish的行为，好人的美
德应该是谦让。我们中国文化本来就是这么认为的，所以孩子这么想也没错。
西方文化认为，自己的利益和权利，本来就是要大大方方的争取和坚持的，这不叫
selfish。 他们认为的selfish，是争取自己利益时，“无视/忽视”别人权益的。也
就是说，他们是鼓励人们去争取win-win结局的，即尽量兼顾双方利益搞折衷平衡的，
而不是把自己的房子拆了给别人盖房子的。
2） 被选进student council
a) 是个有面子、有地位的事儿
b) 是个辛苦为大众服务并且经常不落好的苦差事
c) 有些agenda自己强烈认可，所以需要自己被选进去推行
现实一定是这几个方面的mix，但这孩子可能给a)的分量偏重了，联系1）, 就不好意思
选自己了。
人都大孩子、搞竞选了，没大家想想的那么naive，觉得自己不该当选。
话说，真投了自己的票，也不见得会当选。 但投不投自己的票，跟当选与否是两个不
同的事儿， 我们看... 阅读全帖 |
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m******4
发帖数: 503 | 33 作为亚裔，我们不愿意大学招生的结果是和种族相关联的，我们也相信种族平等是美国
的国策之一，这就是这个官司的目的。就你说了一大堆话，如果你不是个种族主义者，
看来还是搞不明白这个道理。如果你是个种族主义者，那倒是很好理解你的行为。
“If they are white and non- Jewish, it might be more difficult for the kids
to get into Ivy League based
on the statistics” 这就是种族歧视，这也就是我们要去斗争的原因。
”unless you think test scores should be the only evaluation Criteria.“ 在
打官司的法庭上没人会去说这个傻问题，律师比你聪明的多。你这种用把申诉方想象得
比你还傻的方式来赢得辩论，确实比较好笑。我不是律师，也没有律师那么聪明，但即
使象我这种智商，我也可以这样说话：”我不在乎每个大学用什么条件来挑选学生，但
只要这个选择过程中严格照着那个大学自己的标准，没有参杂种族的因素，这就是个令
我满意的标准“。你... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 34 今天，读了一段散文，（显然， 工作不忙， 而刚刚过去的残忍繁忙的六月下旬， 此
时让人回首不堪）
觉得有小小收获。 字里行间， 仿佛有你的倩影浮现。
恨没有在遇见你之前， 对这些问题早早也有自己的体会和认知。
这样，我或许会做得更好。 或许最终不会辜负你的奉献。
讨论了3个古老哲句。 尤其是第三个， 时间上的问题。
不懂得掌握最好时间。。最终导致我失去人生幸福， 无比凄惨。
祝你一切美好如愿！！！
“If I am not for myself, who will be for me?
If I am only for myself, what am I?
And, if not now, when?” –Hillel
The meaning and interpretation of these questions, posed by Hillel (rabbi
and scholar) 2000 years ago, have long been the subject of discussion and
debate. They are questions that forc... 阅读全帖 |
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i*********r
发帖数: 5101 | 35 I am not a big kobe fan. But I dont hate him. I am so surprised that there are
so many guys hate him here. He is selfish,sure,well,NBA basically is a selfish
league. Especially if you expect yourself to be as great as MJ, you certainly
want to appoach the game as MJ did.Although kobe could not get all those
Champions without Shaq, to be fair,Shaq could not achieve those without Kobe
either. These two are still the best NBA one-two punch. However,this is
nowadays'NBA, a selfish league. |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 36 摩羯：
The Capricorn husband falls in readily enough with the domestic scheme, but
adds little to its spiritual success. This type of man usually marries, but
his reasons are supremely selfish. Of course selfishness has been ascribed
to plenty of other kinds of men, but the basic nature of Capricorn is
selfish.
As husbands, these men are good providers, for they are ambitious and
successful in business most of the time. They do not allow much freedom of
action to their wives, so that even if there ... 阅读全帖 |
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A*****a
发帖数: 1091 | 37 我断断续续看到，超级不喜欢russel，觉得这个人那么卑鄙
为什么还有那么多人愿意被他骗被他利用
Candice为什么要背叛自己的队友，她以为这样就能顺利晋级么？鄙视她，她根本不配
在heroes这个group
还有那个Colby,stupid stupid stupid!selfish selfish selfish
和他做队友真的很惨耶
不仅提议并实施把hidden immunity idol给自己的敌人，还不帮自己的队友抢夺下一个hidden
immunity idol的线索。heroes这个队伍完了。Amanda和JT都是间接被他给害掉的。
Amanda这么努力玩游戏的人被vote掉了，而Colby这样害队友的人还在，russel这样卑
鄙的人还流着，真的让人很绝望这个世道。。。（呵呵，最后一句话有点过头啦，不过
管中窥豹，从一个小小的游戏，也可以看出，善良的人努力的人不得好死，卑鄙的人两
面三刀的人安享天年，这个世界是不公平的，正不胜邪。) |
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发帖数: 21010 | 38 www.jonsavage.com/film
Bernard Sumner
[interview, April 1994]
Bernard onstage
Bernard Albrecht Sumner
I first met Ian at a gig at the Electric Circus. It might have been the
Anarchy tour, it might have been The Clash, or one of them punk groups. Ian
was with another lad called Ian, and they both had donkey jackets, and Ian
had “HATE” written on the back of his donkey jacket. I remember liking him
. He seemed pretty nice, but we didn’t talk to him that much. I just
remembered him. Later on, about... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 68152 | 39 2011 Ultra-pull personality signature, very calm and use Keguan remember!
Guide words: Many people are used to write in the signature
characteristics of their own statements, but the more traditional language
has been
OUT, now for everyone to send the signature 2011 ultra-pull personality,
like Take it!
1, "I love you," the acronym "WAN" just spell "end" word. This story
tells us that if
You love someone, you're finished.
2, Zheng name: surname is high, his girlfriend surnamed Guo, p... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3285 | 40 many people died of car accidents each year--> car onwers r selfish: if they
dont know how to drive they should never drive!!! I think u may know that
in many cities where the public transportation sucks, ppl have to buy a car,
and thats the outcome made by big car companies--they push ppl to buy cars
by making the local government abadon pulic transportation construction.
if u just want to ban guns, go ahead protest to the right ppl in the right
place, my dog is not used for protection and I ex... 阅读全帖 |
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h*******r
发帖数: 909 | 41 逐点批判吧。
** Based on your following reasoning, a better way to say is: the magic term
"free will" doesn't justify everything.
错！任何社会现象的本质都是selfishNESS. 不道德的行为，被唾弃的行为，错误的本质
不在于selfishNESS，而在于愚蠢。社会存在的原因就是人类通过合作获得个人无法得到
的资源从而有利于自身的存在，也就是你说的selfishNESS，合作就需要协同和约定，也
就是契约，表现为法律，道德等等。违反道德，法律，可以一时一地地有利于自己，但是
因为破坏了人类的合作而最终伤害到社会资源，从而最终伤害自己。所以，任何违法行为
和不道德的行为，本质上是愚蠢和短见，而非自私。比如，为老弱病残孕让座这个社会道
德，其自私基础就是，任何人及其亲人，都有可能成为老弱病残孕，都有特别需要坐座位
的时候。与其到了自己成为老弱病残孕后再去和别人抢座位，不如全社会达成共识，给老
弱病残孕让座，在自己健康的时候就算让了座也没有损失，自己老弱病残孕的时候就能够 |
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发帖数: 9057 | 42 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
ray (活在当下) 于 (Wed Jan 28 23:15:49 2004) 提到:
For persons think gene is selfish, he may also tell you robot can fell in love. :)
My view to this is just a global computation..winner=solution.l
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eigenvalue (慢词太慢) 于 (Wed Jan 28 23:18:15 2004) 提到:
从这句来看，我认为你误会了selfish gene中selfish的含义。
这句不懂。呵呵。
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bestbuy (ＢＥＡＴＬＥＳ) 于 (Wed Jan 28 23:37:59 2004) 提到:
I won't get too excited |
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发帖数: 25615 | 43 This brings me to the first point I want to make about what this book is not
. I am not advocating a morality based on evolution. I am saying how things
have evolved. I am not saying how we humans morally ought to behave. I
stress this, because I know I am in danger of being misunderstood by those
people, all too numerous, who cannot distinguish a statement of belief in
what is the case from an advocacy of what ought to be the case. My own
feeling is that a human society based simply on the gene... 阅读全帖 |
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Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | 44 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
JeanIris (Iris) 于 (Sun Oct 9 06:13:28 2011, 美东) 提到:
以前经常看见一个问题“人生的意义是什么？”如果佛法所讲人生皆苦，修习佛法的终
极目的是为了解脱，不堕轮回，那我们今生到底有什么样的意义呢？我们单纯是因为业
力的原因不得不在轮回中继续打转麽？
佛法的核心四圣谛，讲得就是苦，集，灭，道。其实就是了知苦，如何灭苦，以及实践
灭苦。佛法的实践就是八正道。
今天早晨我突然觉得，其实正是因为我们在轮回里，我们是人，我们在不停地经历人生
，经历五蕴所构成的一切。这不恰恰是最好的让我们了知苦的机会麽？关键在哪里呢？
在用心，用心活着其实很重要，只有用心才能感知人生的诸多困惑，才能感知生命的不
圆满，才能感知原来无我，无常，才能感知苦。知苦才可以想到要灭苦。当苦的逼迫感
迎面而来挡也挡不住的时候，我们自然很想离苦，于是寻找解脱之道。发自肺腑想要灭
苦，才能认真学习和实践灭苦之道。也就是说，人生其实给我们提供了觉悟的机会和基
础。这样看待轮回和今生就会积极很多，... 阅读全帖 |
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e***a
发帖数: 464 | 45 Time 上封面文章来说独生子女好了. The only child myth
they're supposed to be selfish, spoiled and lonely. In fact they're just
fine-and on the rise.
其实我最担心的是娃lonely.
我是尽量不spoil我娃, 不过就是spoil, 也不能说她长大以后 品德或是礼貌就不好了.
娃这个长成Selfish 还是不selfish天知道.也不是跟生几个娃就有关的. |
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发帖数: 70028 | 46 Chinese women who are dating non-Chinese guys often express various issues which displease them – and the issues are mostly due to cultural differences. One of our forum readers sent us a list of what he considers the ten most common complaints of Chinese girlfriends.
那些和非华裔的男生交往的华人女孩常常会对各种事情吐槽，让她们的男友感到郁闷——她们吐槽的原因往往是出于文化差异。一位读者向我们的网络论坛寄了一份清单，列举了他认为中国女友最爱吐槽的十句话。
1. You don't carry my handbag!
你不帮我拎包！
Most foreign boyfriends believe that carrying a handbag of a girlfriend is basically the opposite... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 363 | 47 事件的起因：有人在youtube上发了一个视频，结果引起各地人民（多数为米国）大量
围观，点击量顷刻之间上百万之多。当然评论永远要比原视频有意思。
从各地 2000 多评论里挑了 130 条出来，选的标准基本是排除了重复的，纯表赞叹或
纯开骂无多少内容的、跑题跑太远的，还有那些虽然 ID 显示国外但看主页似乎咱自家
留学生或华裔的评论因为时间所限也没翻。被标注推荐比较多的基本都入选了。红色部
分是译文。有出错的地方请大家一定不吝指点 (*^__^*)~ ！
以下是视频和部分评论:
Ark Hotel Construction time lapse building 15 storeys in 2 days！！！
youtube源地址： http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ps0DSihggio&feature=player_embedded （需Fan墙）
评论：
wazham2 17 小时之前
everything is possible in Japan
在日本真是一切皆有可能 ~
allin1readerwriter 17... 阅读全帖 |
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A****W
发帖数: 7 | 48 So many people with so little resource. It is reasonable for Chinese to be
selfish. Indeed, I do think it is natural
and there is no need for us to look down upon ourselves. It is sure that if
half of the world belongs to China,
we Chinese do not need to be so selfish and take paper home from public
restroom. Resources per person is
the key point. |
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