e*******d
发帖数: 461 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Prose 讨论区 】
发信人: echofield (飞), 信区: Prose
标 题: Valerian Ocean - Chapter Four (2)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jan 3 07:01:38 2010, 美东)
After a while, my mom came back from work. She saw Wenyan was standing
outside the door. She let Wenyan in and asked me why I let my classmate
standing outside. She had thought that Wenyan was mistreated and then
decided to invite Wenyan to have dinner with us. Wenyan looked at me without
blinking her eyes. I decided to say noting. I knew Wenyan wouldn’t stay, |
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A******u
发帖数: 1279 | 2 改改玩。标介意哈～
A while later, my mom came home from work. She saw Wenyan stand outside
the door. She let Wenyan in, asking me why I had not done so. She
thought that Wenyan was mistreated and decided to make it up to her by
inviting her to have dinner with us. Wenyan did not respond immediately
and instead looked at me without a blink. I said nothing. I had thought
Wenyan wouldn’t stay, since she belonged to the Hui ethnic minority. A
Hui person would not eat at a Han house because Hui people are Mus |
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e*******d
发帖数: 461 | 3 After a while, my mom came back from work. She saw Wenyan was standing
outside the door. She let Wenyan in and asked me why I let my classmate
standing outside. She had thought that Wenyan was mistreated and then
decided to invite Wenyan to have dinner with us. Wenyan looked at me without
blinking her eyes. I decided to say noting. I knew Wenyan wouldn’t stay,
since she was a minority, Huizu. They never ate at majority people’s home.
To my surprise, Wenyan agreed to stay and she looked into my e |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 4 Forgive for Good, by Fred Luskin, a psychiatrist from Stanford
Forgiveness needs not to be Christian, Buddhism stresses forgiveness and
loving kindness as much. In fact we don't need to be religious to forgive.
For psychological health, we all need to let go of negative feelings or
thoughts generated by mistreatment or abuse. To get rid of these things can
make you live life more fully, and much more happily and peacefully.
http://www.amazon.com/Forgive-Good-Frederic-Luskin/dp/006251721X/ref=pd_ |
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h*********i
发帖数: 121 | 5 谢谢你，pricket，能来这里分享你的原生家庭经历。你说你妈妈的时候，我却看到了
我妈妈的影子。这两个母亲的暴戾、粗鲁、极强的控制欲和自我中心还真不是一般的相
像，而且对我们的控诉和愤怒的反应也几乎一模一样。我觉得你很有勇气，反复地跟母
亲进行沟通，坚持护卫你作为一个被mistreated的孩子的权利，最后让你母亲意识到她
对你犯下的过错。我也试过一次，但就像你第一次尝试那样，我的控诉都被妈妈deny了
，而且她反复地讲述我幼小时候她照顾我的那些细节，洗尿片、背我上班什么的，大概
她没意识到这些是一个母亲的职责，根本没有拿出来justify她的violence的资格。而
且她根本拿不出来在我进入青少年期之后关心我照顾我的证据，因为那些年我这个女儿
已经从她的生活里消失了，她根本看不到。
我现在和你曾经的状态差不多，很害怕再次depress，所以对自己的情绪很警惕，而且
找一些心理学的书来看，并且积极地进行心理咨询，来work on自己的过去。我不知道
我能不能等到我妈妈跟我道歉的那一天，因为她到现在也没有这个意识而且没有这个意
图。关于她的性格来源，我也做过一些小的research， |
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h*********i
发帖数: 121 | 6 yung，看到你受过的折磨，真的很难过。。。我觉得你的父母对你施行的暴力真的超出
了一般的范畴。体罚是最严重的mistreat，孩子从体罚里得到的不光是身体的伤害，更
多是心灵上的，还会延续到成年后。。。你说的躲在closet里哭的例子，我深有同感！
父母对我们的伤害不光在我们无法反抗的童年少年，还会延续到成年！在成年后的生活
里，他们仍然可以扮演伤害者的角色！因为无论他们多老、隔得多远，都注定了是我们
生命里最亲的人，亲情可以成为他们所掌握的最可怕的武器，而我们的弱点都掌握在他
们手中。
你所说的刺猬性格，我也有。对不那么近的朋友反而很好、很阳光，但却往往无法控制
地伤害跟我最亲近的人。我在学习了解自己、解脱往事对我的诅咒。但仍然做得不够好
。。。
我和cher有一样的疑问，关于你说的控制暴躁脾气的问题。我知道你对待孩子的时候会
很小心，但如果出现你无法控制的时候，你也许想要寻求心理上的帮助，和therapist
谈谈，让他们来帮助你，他们是受过专业训练的，也许能和你一起找出解决问题的关键。
让我高兴的是，你有一个幸福的小家庭！祝福你，也祝福你的宝宝！ |
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h*********i
发帖数: 121 | 7 elle0704，我很喜欢你写的！！！呵呵，虽然你叫你妈妈bitch，爸爸bastard，但你是
真的知道你恨他们，而且你敢于发泄这种愤怒，这就是一个很好的recovering的sign！
我当然相信你现在活得很好，因为你很勇敢！
对啊，如果一个家长在我们小时候没有给过我们多少温暖，反而一再mistreat我们，
ignore我们，甚至对我们施行语言的身体的暴力，凭什么我长大了要对他（她）感恩戴
德？就因为她（他）生了我？不对！只有爱过小时候的我们的人，我们长大了才会爱他
们，这是自然使然。没有办法的。
你真的很棒，很相信自己的感受！mm，你和你妈妈不一样，你已经走出来了，你明白是
与非，你明白爱和不爱的区别，你会拥有一个比她的要光明得多的人生！就让她后悔去
吧！
至于要不要孩子，我和你有一样的担心，这里很多和我们有类似经历的人都提到了。没
关系，既然我们都肯面对过去了，过去一定不能控制我们的。我们都还年轻，有时间来
打开心灵的枷锁。我们一起努力！孩子，就当作上天的礼物吧！得，我幸，不得，我命
。我只要我自己快乐！！！
I |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 8 http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/20/health/20mind.html
When Parents Are Too Toxic to Tolerate
By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.
You can divorce an abusive spouse. You can call it quits if your lover
mistreats you. But what can you do if the source of your misery is your own
parent?
Granted, no parent is perfect. And whining about parental failure, real or
not, is practically an American pastime that keeps the therapeutic community
dutifully employed.
But just as there are ordinary good-enough parents w |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 9 http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/20/health/20mind.html
When Parents Are Too Toxic to Tolerate
By RICHARD A. FRIEDMAN, M.D.
You can divorce an abusive spouse. You can call it quits if your lover
mistreats you. But what can you do if the source of your misery is your own
parent?
Granted, no parent is perfect. And whining about parental failure, real or
not, is practically an American pastime that keeps the therapeutic community
dutifully employed.
But just as there are ordinary good-enough parents w... 阅读全帖 |
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h*******o
发帖数: 189 | 10 sounds like delusional disorder, persecutory type. typical symptoms include:
patients have nonbizarre delusions/beliefs that they are being cheated,
spied on, drugged, followed, slandered, or somehow mistreated.
need to see a psychiatrist right away for medication.
treatment can be challenging, such as patients' frequent denial of any
problem, especially of a psychological nature. |
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x**c
发帖数: 1435 | 11 she would have received treatment for her disability if she was in the U.S.
The treatment include a disability check from government, counseling and
psychiatric evlautions. Respecting the disabled is not a fashion in China,
slow people got discriminated and mistreated to the point they want to shut
down and stay home to avoid humiliation.
的。 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 12 feel wronged? mistreated? treated unjustly? an injustice is done to sb? 可以
开个主帖问。 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 13 上次有人问委屈，我找出几个相似的词：
feel wronged
mistreated
treated unjustly
an injustice is done to sb
不服气语气更强，还有个recalcitrant. |
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G*****b
发帖数: 72 | 14 Do not mistreat an alien or oppress him, for you were aliens in Egypt.
Exodus 22:21
Exodus |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 15 Acts 14:1-6 In Iconium
1At Iconium Paul and Barnabas went as usual into the Jewish synagogue. There
they spoke so effectively that a great number of Jews and Gentiles believed
. 2But the Jews who refused to believe stirred up the Gentiles and poisoned
their minds against the brothers. 3So Paul and Barnabas spent considerable
time there, speaking boldly for the Lord, who confirmed the message of his
grace by enabling them to do miraculous signs and wonders. 4The people of
the city were divided; s... 阅读全帖 |
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p****y
发帖数: 23737 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 Vegetarianism 俱乐部 】
发信人: purity (purity), 信区: Vegetarianism
标 题: 能导入向善宣传和平思想的宗教才是好宗教
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 22 01:01:14 2010, 美东)
这个世界大大小小各宗各派很多，宗教之间的争议非常多，谁也不服谁，
谁都认为自己所选择的宗教门派才是正教，才是正道，才是真理。还没
见到天堂地狱，没见到佛陀上帝，就先信心满满，傲慢心比须陀山还大。
大多数宗教都有其闪光点，有导人向善的言论。可惜，不是每个人都能
领会教主最初的教导，发展到后来宗教间各种恶劣的行为甚至连战争也
出现了。也难怪圣经说，人是有罪的，罪人什么样的坏事不敢做？
天堂地狱我等肉眼凡胎的俗人无法看到，但是衡量宗教好坏有一个很简单
的方法：能教化人心，导人向善，宣传和平精神的宗教，是个对世界有益
的宗教。反之，哪怕套上名门正派的名堂和光环，哪怕信徒众多，要小心。
看下面这则新闻，我就想起孟子的一句话，而某些教派是反着做，宣传暴
力行为。
孟子曰：君子之于禽兽也，见其生，不忍见其死，闻其声，不忍... 阅读全帖 |
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s**i
发帖数: 4448 | 17 是被造的又怎样？被造的就可以mistreat么? 永远的痛苦。没有比这个更恶毒的作为了。
我们人类都知道对罪大恶极的罪犯最终极惩罚是-人道毁灭。
一个“全善”的being连人类都不如。称什么善，什么爱。那不是人类文字定义的爱和
善。
长脑子的JDT不会强辩屠城杀婴，地狱永火，越辩越丑。
你想不明白为什么越辩越丑？其实就是这个信仰去人性。你已经把人性放在一个虚幻的
神性下面了。
child |
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b********g
发帖数: 1562 | 18 "是被造的又怎样？被造的就可以mistreat么? 永远的痛苦。没有比这个更恶毒的作为
了。" -----补充一点，虽然根据其教义，人是被造的。但既然是由人来承受各种各样
巨大的痛苦，那人就有资格发出质疑，我们人类为何要受这些苦难。
了。 |
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s**i
发帖数: 4448 | 19 好人才琢磨监狱有没有不人道的虐待。自我欺骗的人才转过头视而不见。有良知的人暴
露了虐囚water boarding种种不人道的mistreatment。是出于compassion 和 empathy
来关注是否存在不能 justified suffering, even in the name of righteous
punishment. What
's wrong with that?
地狱是基督教核心教义之一，你怎么能不琢磨一下呢？因为让你不舒服么？
prevalent 传统教义的地狱就是 eternal torment,随便摘抄一段儿关于永狱永火的：
“http://carm.org/hell-eternal
Unquenchable Fire
Some believe that the fires of hell are symbolic and/or temporal. But the
following verses show that they are not.
Matt. 3:12 says, "And His winnowing fork is in His h... 阅读全帖 |
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x****u
发帖数: 12955 | 20
Blame your fellow Muslims who do commit acts of terrorism for whatever
mistreatment, real or imagined, that you receive.
it's just too damned hard and tedious for us normal people to tell you apart
. |
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p****y
发帖数: 23737 | 21 【 以下文字转载自 Vegetarianism 俱乐部 】
发信人: purity (purity), 信区: Vegetarianism
标 题: 能导入向善宣传和平思想的宗教才是好宗教
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 22 01:01:14 2010, 美东)
这个世界大大小小各宗各派很多，宗教之间的争议非常多，谁也不服谁，
谁都认为自己所选择的宗教门派才是正教，才是正道，才是真理。还没
见到天堂地狱，没见到佛陀上帝，就先信心满满，傲慢心比须陀山还大。
大多数宗教都有其闪光点，有导人向善的言论。可惜，不是每个人都能
领会教主最初的教导，发展到后来宗教间各种恶劣的行为甚至连战争也
出现了。也难怪圣经说，人是有罪的，罪人什么样的坏事不敢做？
天堂地狱我等肉眼凡胎的俗人无法看到，但是衡量宗教好坏有一个很简单
的方法：能教化人心，导人向善，宣传和平精神的宗教，是个对世界有益
的宗教。反之，哪怕套上名门正派的名堂和光环，哪怕信徒众多，要小心。
看下面这则新闻，我就想起孟子的一句话，而某些教派是反着做，宣传暴
力行为。
孟子曰：君子之于禽兽也，见其生，不忍见其死，闻其声，不忍... 阅读全帖 |
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 22 did you write to yisu about your mistreatment by BF? |
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Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | 23 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
SeeU (See you) 于 (Mon Oct 17 12:09:58 2011, 美东) 提到:
发信人: SeeU (See you), 信区: board
标 题: Re: 请即日解除Wisdom版版副JeanIris的职务
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Oct 17 12:06:39 2011, 美东)
Yisu 一下说要辞职，一下不辞要罢免版副，说话没有信用，没有担任版主的资格。
现在谁看得起她？
Yisu 自已为是毛泽东，想搞阳谋？
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
SeeU (See you) 于 (Mon Oct 17 12:14:25 2011, 美东) 提到:
Yisu, 出来解释一下为什么出尔反尔吧。
你学佛持戒嘛？
不妄语、不两舌，你当真嘛？
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
akju (金斗爸) 于 (Mon Oct 17 12:21:00 201... 阅读全帖 |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 24 Okay. Give it a try. Follow your own consciousness. You can never please
everyone, but at least if you are fair to all, the ones that should be
banned at certain times won't be upset for what they get.
Before that, for this recent or ongoing mistreatment, I suggest you to
release all the IDs, spell out exactly what you don't want on this board in
your "rules", ban yourself for some days to show your apology, and start
afresh.
suppose. |
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 25 Okay. Give it a try. Follow your own consciousness. You can never please
everyone, but at least if you are fair to all, the ones that should be
banned at certain times won't be upset for what they get.
Before that, for this recent or ongoing mistreatment, I suggest you to
release all the IDs, spell out exactly what you don't want on this board in
your "rules", ban yourself for some days to show your apology, and start
afresh.
suppose. |
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P******A
发帖数: 126 | 26 修持禅定，对出家在家的行者来讲，都非常重要。如果一刹那也没有入过禅定，心很散
乱，那即使一天到晚在理论上划来划去，也无法真实改变相续。《菩提资粮论》云：“
众生诸烦恼，皆以乱心生，是故胜智者，旷修诸禅定。”
--《前行广释》
智悲佛网
学佛的最究竟目的，并不是为了保佑“我”，而是明白这个“我”并不存在。有了“我
”，才会招致“我”的各种痛苦；只有断除了对“我”的执著，才能从根本上拔除痛苦。
索达吉堪布微博
有的人觉得在家里学不了、修不成，必须要找一个寂静的地方，到某个寺院、某个道场
才能学修，才能成就。其实寂静处是可以创造的，若是自己会创造，哪里都是寂静处，
包括你自己的家都可以成为寂静处。你将各种事情做好，各种关系处理好，家里具备了
修行的条件，修行没有障碍，自己的家就变成寂静处了。
达真堪布微博
迁徙的鸟，洄游的鱼，高峰时段的城市，都能让人直观地见到业的力量。个体汇入群体
的洪流，不知所以，不由自主，又那样执著，不知疲倦，耗尽生命也在所不惜地向前向
前，为到达某个地方；然后，离开那里，原路返回，然后再去，再回，不尽往复。
希阿荣博堪布微博
发表了博文 《建造喇嘛仁波切舍利塔的功德利... 阅读全帖 |
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P******e
发帖数: 2223 | 27 maybe its time for you to choose the oath and become Uncle Sam's mistreated
child.
that way, you can qualify for security clearances and work in the DOD/DHS
space.
shit, what else job fields do we have in this countryside town.... ... |
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l****c
发帖数: 838 | 28 我是有证据在手，比如克扣工资，没按签过字的offer letter 发工资，学校已经查到
，我是想让所有的人都知道她的罪行！ |
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n*********b
发帖数: 140 | 30 Mistreating a postdoc who has made a mistake under supervision is also a
misconduct. |
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s******c
发帖数: 331 | 31 闲着没事，再加上好心规劝居然被说拉偏架，有点闷气，不如来较较真。
首先，你最惊人是根本没有自己的solid的论点，所做的大部分事情就是像你所说的，
“不过对于有明显错误的理论，我可以立即从逻辑或者事实上加以批驳”，典型的网上
愤青做法，不会综合性的思考和归纳，所做的只是从别人的话里挑刺夹杂一些谩骂。
然后，我不太想去仔细的review你的之前的帖子，就这么一小段，不如来辩驳辩驳。
你第一段说直系血亲结婚和人兽结婚首先是“为传统伦理所不容”， 然后是“对于生
育都有不利影响”，所以拿来类比，这是哪门子的逻辑？不是你google了几个关于逻辑
的terms就代表你有逻辑，稍微科普一下，做类比不是随便花个圈就可以比，要看你的
结论。按照你的逻辑，我说不同人种之间通婚，女性可以主动提出离婚都是“为传统伦
理所不容”，有不育症或过了menopause的女性可以结婚，也是“对于生育都有不利影
响”，那么前两个合法了是不是就可以推出同性婚姻也应该合法？异性结婚和一夫多妻
都符合“传统伦理”，那么前一个合理是不是就可以推出后一个也合理？况且，直系血
亲结婚过去正是传统伦理的一部分，不管中国还是欧洲。你... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****l
发帖数: 244 | 32 It is unfortunate that FBI has the incentive to do this kind of BS. By
making it big, the local FBI get a boost and this event was on the News
everywhere, giving people an impression that Asian are spy even no solid
evidence was presented. But now, when the judge made the ruling, most people
don't know he has been mistreated since the beginning- the previous bias
was not corrected at all for the general population.
For us, there are two things to think about in the long run:
1. How to remove the... 阅读全帖 |
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y******n
发帖数: 298 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: yzjinjin (阿鱼), 信区: Parenting
标 题: [Serious Help needed]Updates about accidents from daycare
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 10 16:24:09 2011, 美东)
Hi, all,
Here's the beginning of the story:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t0/Parenting/31747879.html
And later on, they started mistreat my son by keepping himself in a small black
classroom with just one toy car without telling us till we found it out --
that is also why I said this to the other parent with kid injured in dayca... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********m
发帖数: 2098 | 34 seriously? r u really interested in that piece of token resolution that will
change nothing status quo?
tell me which major news channle reported this
i'd rather see a bill compensating those mistreated Chinese |
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c**d
发帖数: 3888 | 35 I agree that we'd rather see monetary compensation. But this is better than
nothing. We do what we can. If you think the mistreated deserve more, you
should join the cause and help.
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t*********m
发帖数: 360 | 36 Shocked to know this.
Feel very sorry for Dr. Toor and Dr. Wang.
It is absolutely wrong to kill, no matter what.
Without doubt, because of the huge language and cultural barrier, many
Chinese residents have the experience of being mistreated or abused.
At the time when there is no strong Chinese medical community to offer help,
as an individual, the best way is not to fight back, with a gun, instead,
the best way is to avoid confrontation and to protect yourself.
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m********4
发帖数: 607 | 37 This is what I have read this morning. Share with you. Have a good day to
you all.
(1) " But I tell you who hear me: Love your enenmies, do good to those who
hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you."
(2)If you love those who love you, what credit it is to you? Even"sinners"
love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you,
what credit is that to you? Even "sinners" do that. And if you lend to those
from whom you expect repayment, what credit ... 阅读全帖 |
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D********r
发帖数: 119 | 38 "其实关键之处，在于 职称的评审"
The most strong feeling when you are angry is unfairness, feeling of being
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s*******w
发帖数: 1879 | 39 查是肯定能查到的，看你到时候怎么说了。
要说医院不在意，那是不可能的，但是如果解释的合情合理，有些医院倒是也是会给第
二次机会的。都是人，能理解。
当然啦，指望所有的医院都好像你第一次申请一样完全不在意那是不可能的，但是肯定
能有肯给第二次机会的地方，就看你现在如何努力，到时候面试怎么说了。
不过从行文来看，lz倒是需要好好想一下给第二次机会了之后自己会怎么样，以自己对
自己的了解给自己一个大概的评估，会不会又要崩溃了？有机会的话，仔细想想当年心
理崩溃到底是为啥，是因为被mistreated了，因为好久没出门实在不适应工作的环境了
（我从原文猜的），还是因为自己对自己的的水平和分数太自信了，还是真的有mental
illness。
如果是mental illness，可能还得去看看医生。如果是真的确诊了的MDD，太高强度的
工作可能就不适合，至少在没有治疗控制到一个比较好的情况下。高强度的工作，尤其
是性命攸关的事，对MDD病人刺激还是很大的。医院说实话不是个休养生息的地方，精
神压力大，工作强度高，人际关系复杂。如果真是MDD，还是先治病，治到一个病情比
较缓的程度再考虑下一步。
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c********d
发帖数: 85 | 40 Funny that Asians are so into defending racism against Asians!!
Who says the blacks are Americans? Didn't the original post say they have an
accent, and one Korean is a native?
This case is blatant racism against Asians!! Nowadays white Americans are
obsessed with blacks, and they think treating blacks disproportionately well
will prove they are not racists, no matter how much they mistreat Asians.
White politicians do anything to please blacks/latinos to get their votes.
And media follow the sa... 阅读全帖 |
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c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 41 http://www.quora.com/How-long-will-coders-salaries-remain-as-hi
与数据科学的关系不大，与数据科学家的关系比较大。文章分析了一直困扰我的一个问
题：为什么老板都是外行？答案是：我们被外行殖民了。
This is an odd question, because software engineers' salaries aren't that
high. I wrote a blog post on this, here: Software engineer salaries aren't
inflated-- at least, not for the 99%. Relatedly, I wrote a Quora answer on
the topic: see Michael O. Church's answer to Why do software engineers make
so much?
That said, I certainly have no illusions about the impossibili... 阅读全帖 |
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p****y
发帖数: 23737 | 42 这个世界大大小小各宗各派很多，宗教之间的争议非常多，谁也不服谁，
谁都认为自己所选择的宗教门派才是正教，才是正道，才是真理。还没
见到天堂地狱，没见到佛陀上帝，就先信心满满，傲慢心比须陀山还大。
大多数宗教都有其闪光点，有导人向善的言论。可惜，不是每个人都能
领会教主最初的教导，发展到后来宗教间各种恶劣的行为甚至连战争也
出现了。也难怪圣经说，人是有罪的，罪人什么样的坏事不敢做？
天堂地狱我等肉眼凡胎的俗人无法看到，但是衡量宗教好坏有一个很简单
的方法：能教化人心，导人向善，宣传和平精神的宗教，是个对世界有益
的宗教。反之，哪怕套上名门正派的名堂和光环，哪怕信徒众多，要小心。
看下面这则新闻，我就想起孟子的一句话，而某些教派是反着做，宣传暴
力行为。
孟子曰：君子之于禽兽也，见其生，不忍见其死，闻其声，不忍食其肉，
是以君子远庖厨也。
Activist Relies on Islam to Fight for Animal Rights
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/11/22/world/africa/22egypt.html?_r=2&hp
CAIRO —... 阅读全帖 |
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G**B
发帖数: 371 | 43 〔每日靈修〕
【全年讀經進度】民數記 Numbers 20
【今日默想禱讀經文】民 20:11-13
摩西舉手，用杖擊打磐石兩下，就有許多水流出來，會眾和他們的牲畜都喝了。
耶和華對摩西、亞倫說：因為你們不信我，不在以色列人眼前尊我為聖，所以你們
必不得領這會眾進我所賜給他們的地去。
這水名叫米利巴水，是因以色列人向耶和華爭鬧，耶和華就在他們面前顯為聖。（
米利巴就是爭鬧的意思）
【今日信息】人生必經的三項考驗 By Rev. Andrew Tsai
在這一章的聖經中，摩西遇到他人生的三項考驗，
這三項考驗都是他生命裡的軟弱，雖然他已經服事神那麼久了，但是他仍然必須來面對。
這三個考驗，是我們每個人都要面對的，在我們人生的不同階段，都有可能出現這
些考驗，你是否能通過這些考驗呢？
(1) 尊榮的考驗：Dishonor
首先是百姓因為缺水，又再度鬧情緒問題，開始埋怨摩西，導致摩西心裡非常厭煩他
們，他失去了耐性。所以在執行神的旨意時，動了怒氣，沒有完全按照神的吩咐。神要
摩西拿著杖，但是要用口來吩咐盤石出水。但是摩西卻拿著杖，用力擊打盤... 阅读全帖 |
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i*e
发帖数: 859 | 44 Snow White
The child with skin as white as snow, lips as red as blood, and
hair as black as a raven's wing or an ebony window frame,
appears in many guises.
In "The Juniper Tree", the child as red as blood and as white as snow is a
son, who is again mistreated by his stepmother, killed, and fed to his
father in a stew. His half-sister buried his bones with his dead mother, at
which point he turns into a bird, and eventually kills his own murderer.
From Mother to Stepmother
The tale of the girl d |
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j******g
发帖数: 101 | 45 The last sentence is cool.
Love-hatred is just like a double-edged sword, and sometimes it hurts too
much.
Especially true when sober overseas chinese people look upon the homecountry.
But I don't think those people, who were mistreated in china (50's-80's) then
left the country, still have that love in their hearts. I was lucky to grow up
in 70's-80's and never been abused, so i still have the love and nostalgia,
but not the so-called patriotism, which has been exaggerated.
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