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woshixiaogou (woshixiaogou) 于 (Wed Nov 10 09:30:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
有家庭后，就不再是为自己一个人活了，不可能再沉溺于自己喜欢做的事情中了。——
自私的、喜欢享受生活的人要先为自己活，腻了，准备settle down了，才应该结婚，
不然会觉得很亏，心理一旦不平衡，对自己对他人都不好。
主要难关有三点：
1. 父母的压力：我是这样处理的，多和他们沟通，告诉他们，婚姻并非会给每个人都
带来幸福。举一些身边真实的亲戚朋友的反面例子：最后如果离婚，还不如单身会经历
那么多伤害。多向他们展示自己现在快乐的生活！
2. 孤单：想通过婚姻来逃避孤单本身就是错误的！研究显示男人在结婚后更孤单（具
体数据我懒得找了），如果你是个loner，结婚后一样还是个loner。真正解决孤单的方
法是多交朋友，培养健康的心态。我忘了哪本心理学教材有专门一章讲孤单的。
3. 性：这个可以通过找男女朋友解决——但是一开始就要告诉对方，自己不想settle
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发帖数: 461 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Prose 讨论区 】
发信人: echofield (飞), 信区: Prose
标 题: Valerian Ocean Chapter 7 (2)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Aug 22 01:01:40 2011, 美东)
After we finished shopping and went back to campus, we ran into Professor
Chen, who was supervising the student union. He stopped Wenyan and told her
that he had something to tell her.
Professor Chen said: “Wenyan, I hope you stop running for the president of
the student union.“…Why?” Wenyan spent months on that race. She was
shocked to hear this suggestion.
“You a... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 461 | 3 After we finished shopping and went back to campus, we ran into Professor
Chen, who was supervising the student union. He stopped Wenyan and told her
that he had something to tell her.
Professor Chen said: “Wenyan, I hope you stop running for the president of
the student union.“…Why?” Wenyan spent months on that race. She was
shocked to hear this suggestion.
“You are very junior. You are only at your second year serving the Student
Union. Besides, you are a girl. I think it is more appropriate f... 阅读全帖 |
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l****g
发帖数: 5080 | 4 不喜欢可以不看。我就喜欢随便站公园里看人踢足球，或自己踢足球，球星的名字知道
的屈指可数，一向和喜欢谈论足球或体育的人说不上话，明星八卦也不晓得。
不过LD分析我这样的叫loner,不过俺不care，很典型不是。 |
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发帖数: 901 | 5 A 10-year-old boy shook when asked about being prostituted to two other men
by an adoptive father who regularly had sex with him, according to police,
who said the boy was fearful of talking because he didn't want to be taken
from his home or separated from his new siblings.
The adoptive father has been charged with raping three boys in his care and
compelling prostitution by hiring the 10-year-old out for sex. He and two
other men remained in jail Thursday on rape charges.
Federal and local law... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 7 【 以下文字转载自 GunsAndGears 讨论区 】
发信人: happyfrog (happyfrog), 信区: GunsAndGears
标 题: 几个teenagers在我家后院玩儿，手里有只长枪。。。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 1 18:21:50 2013, 美东)
我在Florida,家后院是草地，没上围栏。
刚才正在前厅陪两岁半的女儿跳舞玩儿，一身大汗，忽然老婆惊慌失措跑过来说后面几
个小孩在我家草地上，手里有枪！
我过去隔着后面落地窗一看，几个13，4岁的小孩在围着我家后院草地上的一株树干啥
，手里拿着高尔夫球杆，其中一个手上拿着一把长枪（看上去跟拴动相似）在草地上鼓
捣什么。
当时我没过脑子，拉开落地窗，快步出去“hei,what are you doing?"
只见那个拿长枪的一脸惊慌 “This is just a BB gun."
"Ok，don't do it here! Next time I see you I will call the police."
他们连忙鸟兽遁。
返身进屋。
老婆却立即连番数落我，”为什么这么光身... 阅读全帖 |
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A****s
发帖数: 932 | 8 说汉语有效率的，谁能把 Stanislaw Lem 这一段话翻译成中文？注意原文是用波
兰语写的，翻成英文一点问题都没有。这些词都是用词根词头拼凑的，但是逻辑严谨，
一看就懂。
For true intelligence demands choice, internal freedom. And therefore we
have the malingerants, fudgerators, and drudge-dodgers, not to mention the
special phenomenon of simulimbecility or mimicretinism. A mimicretin is a
computer that plays stupid in order, once and for all, to be left in peace.
And I found out what dissimulators are: they simply pretend that they're not
pretending to be defective. Or perha... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 10 It happened on the night of Paris massacre. Impact of senseless, sudden
violence on depression patients is hard to predict.
I wonder perhaps she was a little bit of a loner.
Depression or not, everyone can use a supportive social network.
It's a safety-net that can help at moments of crisis.
I am afraid lacking one is a major major problem for a lot of foreign
students.
Having depression just made it a lot worse, given the isolation.
It's not easy for OTHERS to recognize the issue and come exten... 阅读全帖 |
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w*****s
发帖数: 2896 | 11 你屏蔽得挺多的，你是个loner，lol。我不知道中文怎么说这个词。 |
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发帖数: 6768 | 13 no loner hot water
__beijingren |
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s******r
发帖数: 5309 | 14 The discovery of five pipe bombs mailed to prominent Democrats, CNN and a
liberal billionaire put the country on edge Wednesday and sent law
enforcement officials scrambling to prevent any more packages from reaching
their targets.
The hunt for a serial mail bomber began late Tuesday night when Secret
Service personnel conducting standard mail screenings found a pipe bomb
inside a plain manila envelope with a bubble-wrapped interior addressed to
former secretary of state Hillary Clinton. A simil... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****r
发帖数: 11545 | 15 1000 years pass, Russia is still Russia, Japan is still Japan, Korea is
still Korea, China has changed a lot, but US no loner exists, France has
turned into a shithole, and Germany has been castrated. |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 16 Jayme Closs' Mom Tried to Protect Her with 'Bear Hug' During
Kidnapping and Murder
Chris Harris
Those who knew Denise Closs said she and her 13-year-old daughter Jayme were
inseparable. It was no different in the moments before Denise was fatally
shot, allegedly by a man intent on kidnapping her only child.
According to the criminal complaint against Jake Thomas Patterson, on Oct.
15 of last year, the 21-year-old suspect in Jayme’s kidnapping and the
killing of her parents allegedly went room to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 17 Despite receiving advanced degrees even from reputed institutions in the USA
, he failed to improve his social status. To add insult to injury, his wife,
who was merely a language graduate when he met her, had elevated her status
to that of future doctor, with earning potential greater than him.
According to her grandmother, she teased Mainak, and he didn’t take it well.
The oft-described loner, Sarkar, was already ill at ease, socially, and
neither took well to criticism or teasing. For an IIT ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 32122 | 18
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Durst
大富翁兜里有五百美元，车里有几万美元，仍然要到食品店偷三明治
我记错了，实际是尸体找到了，但是没有脑袋。黑人大妈陪审团员因为没有脑袋否认他
有罪
On October 9, 2001, Durst was arrested in Galveston shortly after body parts
belonging to his elderly neighbor, Morris Black, were found floating in
Galveston Bay. He was released on $300,000[43] bail the next day. Durst
missed a court hearing on October 16 and a warrant was issued for his arrest
on a charge of bail jumping. On November 30, he was caught inside a Wegmans
supermark... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 19 Stone Cold Word
Longboat Key, Florida4m ago
AG Barr investigating a missing Twinkie is a joke.
So I am reading all these comments laughing and calling out "conspiracy
theories". It's easy to "throw shade"..... getting "shade to stick" is
another story.
I know this. A high profile prisoner, who supposedly tried to kill
himself just two weeks ago, this guy could not get near a 6 inch piece of
thread. Now that's not a "conspiracy theory".
The "shade slingers" want us to believe that this ego ... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****r
发帖数: 21039 | 20 tamerlan tsarnaev就是蒙古猛人铁木耳的大名啊。
不过媒体似乎故意忽略铁木耳有个米国老婆，kathy russell和女儿, 并不是大家想象
的loner, 下室鲁管萎缩男。 kathy家境也很好，老头是医生。
帖木耳的弟弟就更不靠谱了，至今没有任何物证，更别说动机了。 19岁刚上大学的小
伙，没那么容易想不开。 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 22 By STEVE PEOPLES, Associated Press
November 1, 2012
Republican presidential candidate, former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney
holds on in the back of his campaign bus with aide Garrett Jackson, center,
and senior adviser Kevin Madden, left, after a campaigning at Meadow Event
Park in Richmond, Va., Thursday, Nov. 1, 2012. (AP Photo/Charles Dharapak)
BOSTON (AP) — Should he prevail Tuesday, Mitt Romney would bring a CEO's
eye to the White House and a policy agenda based on a general set of
princip... 阅读全帖 |
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d*****s
发帖数: 5610 | 23 他们大多数只能躲在电脑前YY。因为如果在华人的聚会上面，他们都是被嘲笑的对象。
其实支持romney没有问题，但是为GOP任何一个观点辩护的基本都是华人聚会中的loner
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 GunsAndGears 讨论区 】
发信人: happyfrog (happyfrog), 信区: GunsAndGears
标 题: 几个teenagers在我家后院玩儿，手里有只长枪。。。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 1 18:21:50 2013, 美东)
我在Florida,家后院是草地，没上围栏。
刚才正在前厅陪两岁半的女儿跳舞玩儿，一身大汗，忽然老婆惊慌失措跑过来说后面几
个小孩在我家草地上，手里有枪！
我过去隔着后面落地窗一看，几个13，4岁的小孩在围着我家后院草地上的一株树干啥
，手里拿着高尔夫球杆，其中一个手上拿着一把长枪（看上去跟拴动相似）在草地上鼓
捣什么。
当时我没过脑子，拉开落地窗，快步出去“hei,what are you doing?"
只见那个拿长枪的一脸惊慌 “This is just a BB gun."
"Ok，don't do it here! Next time I see you I will call the police."
他们连忙鸟兽遁。
返身进屋。
老婆却立即连番数落我，”为什么这么光身... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 772 | 25 要是有好几个 gunman 应该是恐怖袭击了，如果是白人发疯杀人的一般都是一个loner. |
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发帖数: 6571 | 26 她就一个loner，当什么班长排长？
班长总得带几个兵吧？ |
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l****r
发帖数: 637 | 27 Idy一个人就是一个排，sweetsister排长啊。
吃空饷，跟妖婆拉力一个德性。
: 她就一个loner，当什么班长排长？
: 班长总得带几个兵吧？
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发帖数: 6034 | 29 就是买了一个踢馆，然后去dealer修，dealer不给loner car，问咋办，版主说丰田有
，然后你就跳出来说这辈子只买丰田了。
明白了吗，静芬姐。 |
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a******n
发帖数: 1714 | 30 lol，我本地的修车铺子非dealer都给loner car。而且是被大家唾弃的2手烂牌子。
比不来toyota。都换toyota吧 |
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发帖数: 4964 | 31 Or different types of MB loner cars |
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x**********i
发帖数: 4964 | 32 Or different types of MB loner cars |
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b******7
发帖数: 8200 | 33 本地honda 和 bmw一样，一天只能的给你个shuttle。bmw的没坐过，honda的是全新大
气的odyssey。负责接送。
超过1天的活也许会有loner car，完全取决于dealer。 |
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发帖数: 1766 | 34 Minivan/van. Minivan drivers tend to have a weaker pro-high density
attitude. They tend to be calm, and not to be loners.
In terms of demographics, minivan drivers are more likely to
be Concord residents, females, homemakers, or age 41–64.
They also tend to have higher household incomes as well as lower personal
incomes. Minivan drivers are overrepresented
in multi-vehicle households or larger households with children.
www.uctc.net/papers/721.pdf |
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b******7
发帖数: 8200 | 35 其他不值一提，对PHD的蔑视是我的不对，在此道歉，我也希望我全家是PHD。。。如果
觉得伤害了你，请跟帖我送一个安慰包子。
如果从First Edition来讲，任何车都没有任何性价比可言。只有1000多辆，美国分到
不到一半。能不能卖出去都不好说。
大家更关心的显然是量产高配版本。英语不错，比我强。中文也不错，比我强。
但是对于去dealer那段，我觉得你衍绎的太邪乎了。不会你的车都必须在dealer等，
dealer不给送回家或者给你个loner开吧。如果实在帕，可以lease3年再说。
3年后出了新款可以继续lease。说秀车修到耽误工作影响人生，真的是奇谈。
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p*****J
发帖数: 12 | 36 各位懂行的帮忙看看这个deal划算吗?
2014 c300 sport with P1 and multimedia package, demo/loaner car(6k miles on
it already). $2000 down, $350/month for 27 months, 7500 mile/year.
谢谢啦! |
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发帖数: 1470 | 38 $2000 down 里不包括tax和各种fee吧。
加上fee和tax， due at signing 至少再加2000。
(2000 + 2000 + 27 * 350) / 27 = 498月付
如果是2015新C系的话还行，2014旧款的话就太贵了（而且还是demo car...）
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y*****y
发帖数: 2948 | 39 别的不说，就那个7500 mile / yr,要这车干嘛？
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p*****J
发帖数: 12 | 40 谢谢各位的意见！原贴我没说清楚，2000 down已经包括全部费用了。 |
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l*****e
发帖数: 32 | 42 无限纠结中，请各路高手抒发高见。谢谢：）
自家情况：东北农村冬天冰天雪地，需要四驱。暂时无娃，现在准备要一个。未来3年
应该不会考虑要第二个。双方父母一年各自来住一个月左右。有娃了估计会长驻。年底
之前需要要搞定。
要求：安全+可靠性较好，希望不要整天修
LD 要求６缸四驱 ＋ 皮座 ＋ 基本的倒车摄像头 +（有blind spot detection) 更
好。其他内饰屏幕大小天窗nav都无所谓。
最近试驾了一圈，主要锁定volvo xc60 和Q5/Q7. XC90觉得比较大，但是也在考虑范围
内。由于新手车盲第一次尝试德系，不知道维护怎样，所以决定先lease 3年再说。
XC60:2016 T6 优点是很安全，很多设计比较family friendly，坐起来比q5 舒服.这款
车比较新，最近在我们村看到越来越多的新volvo. 缺点有太公四驱，口碑是经常容易
坏，也不知道坏的时候dealer给loner car 爽快不？就怕哪天road trip, 坏在半路了
，方圆百里没有dealer就惨了。
XC90: 现在还没有小孩，买这个3座的是不是超级浪费呀。虽然大家都说3座的第三... 阅读全帖 |
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e*******e
发帖数: 9616 | 46 自己换油打气，省时省力，还保质保量
换油如果换来loner车开那就是搞笑了。 |
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发帖数: 7220 | 47 前几年我开个panamera的loner car来回LA-SF大概8-900迈，没人计较 |
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A****h
发帖数: 258 | 48 就买了卷胶带，账号就被干掉了
里面还有100多rewards呢 |
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