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发帖数: 11968 | 3 http://singlemindedwomen.com/womens-health/learn-how-to-be-happ
Learn How to Be Happy with Yourself
By Elizabeth R. Lombardo, Ph.D., M.S., P.T
My grandmother was an amazing piano player. In fact she was so good that,
despite only have a few university credits, she taught piano at the college
level. One of the courses she instructed was entitled “How to play the
piano DESPITE years of practice.”
Grandma used to talk about the bad habits people had picked up- either on
their own or from poor instr... 阅读全帖 |
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f**d
发帖数: 768 | 4 很有趣的研究
ScienceDaily (May 2, 2011) — People who look at the past through
rose-tinted glasses are happier than those who focus on negative past
experiences and regrets, according to a new study published in the
journal Personality and Individual Differences. The study helps
explain why personality has such a strong influence on a person's
happiness. The findings suggest that persons with certain personality
traits are happier than others because of the way they think about their
past, present and ... 阅读全帖 |
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T****r
发帖数: 22092 | 5 先把英文版本的找到了：
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMTc4MDA5NTI=.html
The more we get together,
Together,together,
The more we get together,
The happier we'll be.
For your friends are my friends,
And my friends are your friends.
The more we get together,
The happier we'll be!
The more we get together,
Together,together,
The more we get together,
The happier we'll be.
For your friends are my friends,
And my friends are your friends.
The more we get together,
The happier we'll be! |
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f**d
发帖数: 768 | 6 很有趣的研究
ScienceDaily (May 2, 2011) — People who look at the past through
rose-tinted glasses are happier than those who focus on negative past
experiences and regrets, according to a new study published in the
journal Personality and Individual Differences. The study helps
explain why personality has such a strong influence on a person's
happiness. The findings suggest that persons with certain personality
traits are happier than others because of the way they think about their
past, present and ... 阅读全帖 |
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c****x
发帖数: 6601 | 7 牛肉姐应该很喜欢这篇文章
http://ihateasianmen.wordpress.com/
I have never been happier in my entire life than the moment I was freed from
my chink husband, never been happier, than the moment when I can finally be
who I really want to be.
My chink husband had oppressed me for all those years, trying to make me
into something that I was not, that he desired, and he never asked what I
really wanted.
He, out of his narrow-minded Asian tradition and male-chauvinist pig Asian
ideology, wanted me to be chaste, ob... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g
发帖数: 21627 | 8 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: cccpwx (騽，雙羽四足), 信区: Military
标 题: Proud to be an Asian whore!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 2 02:30:50 2016, 美东)
牛肉姐应该很喜欢这篇文章
http://ihateasianmen.wordpress.com/
I have never been happier in my entire life than the moment I was freed from
my chink husband, never been happier, than the moment when I can finally be
who I really want to be.
My chink husband had oppressed me for all those years, trying to make me
into something that I was not, that he desired, and he never... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 9 I. The Modern Period
Once upon a time there was a universe. In this universe there was a planet.
On this planet there was virtually no laughter. Nothing like ``humor'' was
really known. People never laughed, nor jested, nor kidded, nor joked, nor
anything like that. The inhabitants were extremely serious, conscientious,
sincere, hard-working, studious, well wishing, and moral. But of humor they
knew nothing. All except for a small minority who had some feeling for what
humor was. These people oc... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 10 http://www-cs-faculty.stanford.edu/~uno/smullyan.html
[excerpted from This Book Needs No Title: A Budget of Living Paradoxes by
Raymund Smullyan (Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey: Prentice-Hall, 1980).
Copyright (c) 1980 by Raymond M. Smullyan; all rights reserved.]
I. The Modern Period
Once upon a time there was a universe. In this universe there was a planet.
On this planet there was virtually no laughter. Nothing like ``humor'' was
really known. People never laughed, nor jested, nor kidded, nor j... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y
发帖数: 60932 | 11 Amazon has the Kindle edition of Achieve Anything In Just One Year: Be
Inspired Daily to Live Your Dreams and Accomplish Your Goals, for free. I
wasn't sure if this belongs in Hot Deals or Freebies.
Achieve Anything:
http://www.amazon.com/Achieve-Anything-Just-Year-ebook/dp/B004M
Product Description
The last self help book you will ever need!
This is a self improvement, motivational and personal development book that
is designed to be read on a daily basis. One page a day for one year. Each
pag... 阅读全帖 |
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w*p
发帖数: 16484 | 12 Top surgeon forced to resign after comment that semen makes women happier
By Rachel Quigley
Last updated at 4:51 PM on 18th April 2011
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Controversy: Dr Lazar Greenfield was forced to resign after his article
about semen
Controversy: Dr Lazar Greenfield was forced to resign after his article
about semen
A top surgeon has been forced to quit over comments he made regarding semen
and its effect on women's health, commenting on research that it made t... 阅读全帖 |
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g*********o
发帖数: 4653 | 13 哦，看来您很感激美利坚给了你happier life here 吧，
是不是可以为它流血牺牲啊？
您前中国大屎说，US is going to take China down,
您是不是要捍卫这个给您happier life的国家,也来take china down啊？ |
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发帖数: 1 | 15 Seven years after earning tenure at the College of Wooster, Judith C.
Amburgey-Peters is still working a "nonstop, crazy schedule on 6,000
different things." But she is not sure whether the 80 hours a week she
spends leading the chemistry department, advising students, and trying to
squeeze in time for research will ultimately qualify her for promotion to
full professor.
"When I asked a few years back who could help me with my five-year
professional plan, the looks I got back were: What planet a... 阅读全帖 |
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k********k
发帖数: 5617 | 16 http://sports.sina.com.cn/o/2013-12-02/19056914404.shtml
英国跳水金童戴利正式出柜：
我正与男人约会(图)
2013年12月02日19:05 新浪体育 微博 我有话说(2,962人参与)
新浪体育讯 北京时间12月2日消息，在今天的一段访谈中，英国跳水名将戴利[微博]
宣布出柜。
19岁的戴利在Youtube的访谈节目里，公开表示：“今年春天我遇到了一个人，他改变
了我的生活。我感到快乐而有安全感。那个人，是个男的。”
“刚开始我自己也觉得很吃惊。不过我脑中一直认为，这种事会发生的。”
“直到今天春天，它真的发生了！我感觉很棒，我的整个世界都改变了！”
他还说：“我现在依然喜欢女孩，但是现在正在和男人约会，我感觉不能更开心了。”
戴利长相英俊，被誉为英国跳水金童，近几年一直是中国跳水队的主要对手，他曾夺得
09年世锦赛男子十米台冠军，去年在伦敦奥运会上获得了铜牌。
在《Heat》杂志进行的评选活动中，戴利从101名候选人中脱颖而出，甚至击败了人气
一直很旺的贝克汉姆[微博]，成为2013年最性感健美的男性。
戴利曾经有一个叫库克... 阅读全帖 |
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D******e
发帖数: 1085 | 17 Capitalism has failed when greed takes over. Socialism is the way to go.
People are happier in France than in the US. I am happier after the health
bill has passed. So, there you go. |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 18 People who don't follow politics tend to believe that conservatives and
liberals are just flip sides of the same coin. In other words, conservatives
are pro-life, pro-gun, and fiscally conservative while liberals are pro-
choice, anti-gun, and want to tax and spend, but otherwise, there are no
real differences.
However, if you follow politics closely, you'll find that there's a gulf as
wide as the ocean between the average politically active conservative and
the average politically active libera... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******d
发帖数: 1283 | 19 I have a much better way. In China, our unemployment rate is almost 0. This
means
we should let city people go back to the country side, just like the
culture revolution in china. If we give these people a job on farms, Red
necks will be much
happier, and liberals mainly in big cities will be happier as well.
，提高劳动技能的课，不能选乱七八糟的课。只能去指定的州立大学或社区大学，学费
用不了多少钱。而且，进了校门就不算失业了，失业率马上到0了。 |
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发帖数: 1 | 20 Just went through Mr. Trump's latest tweets, and the more I read the more
it strikes me how unhappy this man is! In his tweets, there is no shortage
of anger, mockery, blame, complaints, attacks, bitterness, and is dotted
with braggings, as if he's been longing for approval so much so that he had
to self-approve himself when he can't get it. The whole sentiment there was
nothing but "negative energy" -- from negative, negativer, all the way to
the negativest! I mean, jeez, what has this job, thi... 阅读全帖 |
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z****i
发帖数: 523 | 21 hahahahaha. Me too! But I feel happier and happier! |
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t******y
发帖数: 891 | 22 I am so touched by this post...
everybody of your family is so good and strong
bless your family be happier and happier. |
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c****t
发帖数: 156 | 23 I suggest that you stop opening another thread online for now.
You both need time to calm down.
You both need to realize that things can't be solved in a day.
You both need to realize that neither one can win.
But you both should realize that you can make the current feelings,
atmosphere,conversations and so on 100 times better in a day, if you decide
to be happier.
Both should realize that you can put the large problems aside and start to
make some deposit to your love bank and to make each oth... 阅读全帖 |
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p*****2
发帖数: 21240 | 24 The way Microsoft’s review system works, a whole bunch of Microsoft
employees just got their annual performance reviews. The September 15
paystub will reflect their new “numbers”. If they got a merit increase
the paystub will show it. If they got a bonus, it will show up there too.
This post is for those Microsoft employees who are not happy with their
review…
That September 15 date is what motivates managers to finally get busy
delivering the bad news to employees who didn’t fare so well in s... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******c
发帖数: 5161 | 25 好像limit是25磅。
如果打算还想再生的话建议弄一个，娃在里面好欢乐的说。。。
我记得好像有个育儿书上面说推荐那种jumperoo之类的玩具，娃他爹就下指示说要买个
。。。
书上的图片是这么说的：Few babies can resist a bouncer's all-around view and
amazing gift of independent movement.
A delightful freedom to dance and twirl and jump...
Makes miserable babies happier and happy ones happier still.
好像around we go也挺好，能用的时间更长久，娃在里面也想蹦跶。。。。 |
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发帖数: 4651 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Sande710 (SD主妇), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 【哈佛大学推荐】20个快乐的习惯
关键字: 快乐 智慧
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Mar 19 13:57:53 2015, 美东)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 22 | 27 well said, thanks for your comment.
because I do not get used to life in US, I missed China a lot. However,
everyone said that I will be happier if you stay here longer. My ld is
afraid that if we went back, then it will be difficult to go back to US.
The reason why I asked here, just want to know are these two options are
comparable options or one if way better than the other one.
I know we will be happier within two years if we go back, but does not know
whether we regret or not after two year... 阅读全帖 |
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n****8
发帖数: 23 | 28 I suggest you divorce. You deserve a much happier life. The bottom line of
marriage is: if two people together are less happier than one alone, you
should separate.
My mother is very similar to your case. I felt so pity for her since she
didn't enjoy life at all, except that she has me. You are still young at 30s
. You don't want to bury your youth and life for your marriage. |
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w*******i
发帖数: 987 | 29 世界很大啊，四海为家都可以。来一个地方有综合的考虑，来了以后由陌生变成
熟悉，形成各种观点都很正常。网上都是平时工作累了上来说几句。
职业选择的时候城市，收入都是很重要的因素，但是生活起来的满意度，学界的
发现是受很多因素影响，但恰恰薪水的作用，在过了一个并不高的水准之后就
不起什么作用。研究也发现富人的生活满意度，远比普通人想象的低，当然这个
也有很多人不知道。
下面这段研究综述，建议读读：
Controlling for her own income, a person's happiness is decreasing in
her comparison income, which Clark and Oswald (1996) define
as the average wage of those working in similar jobs with similar
backgrounds. Surprisingly, controlling for income and health, education
decreases happiness.
An interesti... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******w
发帖数: 2257 | 30 哈佛大学推荐20个快乐的习惯 (中英双语）
(2015-07-31 20:01:22)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that is appreciative of life’s beautify,
wonder and blessings, you’re automatically filled with happines... 阅读全帖 |
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C**********s
发帖数: 1282 | 31 News flash: Attractive people are happier.
And it all boils down to simple economics, say researchers who get paid to
study such things.
If you've been blessed with good looks, you're more likely to be blessed
with a bigger bank account, according to new research by economists at The
University of Texas at Austin, who've made a career out of examining the
interplay of looks, success and money.
"Personal beauty raises happiness," said Daniel Hamermesh, a Texas professor
who co-authored the study ... 阅读全帖 |
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L******k
发帖数: 33825 | 32 最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。Bron
nie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最后悔
的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么。
1. 我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活，而不是别人希望我过的生活。
这是所有后悔的事中最常听到的。
心理学上有个理论，较之那些我们做过的事，人们后悔的往往是那些没做的事。所以当
人们在生命尽头往回看时，往往会发现有好多梦想应该实现，却没有实现。你的生活方
式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侣，... 阅读全帖 |
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 33 快乐的童年，接受双文化教育...
but u said that those that are not our race, must be against us. so u want
to raise ur kids in such a hostile enviroment?
how do u know that ur kid would be happier here among other races? shouldn't
he be happier amongst his own ppl?
so are u placing materialistic things before his/her emotional well being? |
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j**4
发帖数: 10425 | 34 快乐的童年，接受双文化教育...
but u said that those that are not our race, must be against us. so u want
to raise ur kids in such a hostile enviroment?
how do u know that ur kid would be happier here among other races? shouldn't
he be happier amongst his own ppl?
so are u placing materialistic things before his/her emotional well being? |
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m*******o
发帖数: 1065 | 35 来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - 很鄙视自己 断断续续花了两年时间（其间各种狗血，省略一万字），准备考试，申请。终于拿到还
不错的offer。然后为了签证，身份，又折腾了一个暑假（又是各种狗血，省略五千字
）。
终于，告别阳光明媚的加州，告别所爱的人，飞了10个小时（两次转机），来到这里。
一周之后的现在，我做出了一个让我自己都很鄙视的决定：我要回加州了。
我知道任何理由都无法减轻我对自己的鄙视。
只是觉得在终于做了这个决定后，慢慢有胃口能吃下东西了，晚上能睡着了，想跟父母
聊天了，看到微博上的段子能笑出声了。
在这一周的某个时候，觉得自己难受得快要死掉时，感谢我的advisor发现了我，并跟
我谈心。还送我去了counseling center。
感谢我的counselor，在我极端矛盾和犹豫中，说了很多让我豁然开朗的话。
事情经过就不再累述了，写出来也是拿给人做鄙视材料的。
摘录一些advisor和counselor跟我说的话，权当自我安慰吧。或者如果正好你看到也有
共鸣的话。
当然，请尽情鄙视我。
We make choices. We decide to do things, and we also decide not ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*****2
发帖数: 21240 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
发信人: peking2 (myfacebook), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: Got a 4? You Were Just Fired from Microsoft
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Sep 2 11:33:06 2012, 美东)
The way Microsoft’s review system works, a whole bunch of Microsoft
employees just got their annual performance reviews. The September 15
paystub will reflect their new “numbers”. If they got a merit increase
the paystub will show it. If they got a bonus, it will show up there too.
This post is for those Microsoft employees who are... 阅读全帖 |
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n******h
发帖数: 2482 | 37 I didn't say I like it, but whining about it everyday isn't going to make
you happier.
Move. If that makes you happier.
: 我不认为西雅图有三百万人喜欢长期阴雨的气候。绝大多数人都是没办法。你，
我就不
: 知道了
: life.
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g**********r
发帖数: 1654 | 39 This one is hilarious! Typical British dark humour, so dry. =D
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-10965608
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Flashy sports cars are out, now no mid-life crisis is complete without a
souped-up road bike. Why?
Every weekend, across the nation's rolling countryside, watch out for the
Mamils: middle-aged men in lycra.
And ladies, if you have a man at home taking an unusual interest in how you
shave your legs, you may have a Mamil in th... 阅读全帖 |
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z*i
发帖数: 58873 | 40 yes, the simplest way to make the world better and happier is to make
ourselves better and happier (not at the cost of the others of course). |
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a***n
发帖数: 5520 | 41 wish you happier and happier in big 10
current
today. |
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 42 I would say running is happier than life. (or life itself is supposed to be
happy).
or at least running makes my life happier :) |
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e*******s
发帖数: 119 | 43 的确，作为德迷，能看到德国队打破“逢意不胜”的魔咒，这届欧锦赛也就算是“功德
圆满”了。作为球迷，只要我们真心地体验过，那么不论自己支持的球队是输是赢，我
们都是“人生赢家”！
我的一位网球球友曾经说过一句让我感触很深的话：“I am happier winning than
losing, but I am much happier playing tennis than not playing tennis.” |
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M********s
发帖数: 24729 | 44 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Sande710 (SD主妇), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 【哈佛大学推荐】20个快乐的习惯
关键字: 快乐 智慧
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Mar 19 13:57:53 2015, 美东)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that... 阅读全帖 |
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a***e
发帖数: 2094 | 45 在youtube上看了一下午, 感觉 Elena danced better with Sergey than with Slavik
. Very strange.
She was thinner, softer, slower, but somehow more beautiful for the sake of
herself. Watch their 2005 WSS - each dance speaks for her own character. In
rumba, her mood was happier, compared with her rumba with slavik in 2007。
Maybe i should use the word 'more positive' instead of happier, as the rumba
with slavik was designed to carry a shade of sadness. I mean, in her rumba
with sergey, she looked at him; she da |
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G***a
发帖数: 27294 | 46 说起来巧了，我今天早上起来看书，恰好看到这样一段话。
是法国哲学家Charles de Montesquieu说的，我觉得很有趣味
“If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy;
but we want to be happier than other people,
and that is almost always difficult,
since we think them happier than they are”
－－－幸福易得，过人难求；无他，心魔使然。 |
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发帖数: 6275 | 47 转自偶的邮箱：
WHY MEN ARE NEVER DEPRESSED:
Men Are Just Happier People --
What do you expect from such simple creatures?
Your last name stays put.
The garage is all yours.
Wedding plans take care of themselves.
Chocolate is just another snack...
You can be President.
You can never be pregnant.
You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.
You can wear NO shirt to a water park.
Car mechanics tell you the truth.
The world is your urinal.
You never have to drive to another gas station restroom because th... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3305 | 48 专辑18《OK Computer》– Radiohead （电台司令）
1. "Airbag"
2. "Paranoid Android"
3. "Subterranean Homesick Alien"
4. "Exit Music (For a Film)"
5. "Let Down"
6. "Karma Police"
7. "Fitter Happier"
8. "Electioneering"
9. "Climbing Up the Walls"
10. "No Surprises"
11. "Lucky"
12. "The Tourist"
Radiohead是又几个来自牛津郡的几个从小天天抱着个收音机听歌的年轻人组成，他们
管自己叫Radiohead，挺贴切，和他们做出来的音乐挺符合的。“电台司令”显得有点
高大上。
1992年，他们发行了debut 单曲《Creep》，简直就是史上最成功debut... 阅读全帖 |
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