l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 1 By John Watson
Let us start with a simple premise: It is one thing to emote to an ideology,
yet it is quite another to live out its reality. Generally, liberals tend
to rely upon emotion to push their agenda, while conservatives tend to rely
more on pragmatism. Raising the minimum wage to theoretically provide a "
living wage" to the poor sounds good, but the reality has generally been
higher unemployment of the lower-wage-earners.
A prime example is California. For many years, California gov... 阅读全帖 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 2 1, Isolates you Emotionally abusive spouses want you all to themselves. They
do not understand that you have a life outside of the relationship - one
that includes family and friends. It is healthy and normal for you to hang
out with other people as well, so if your partner prevents you from doing so
, this may be a sign of an emotionally abusive relationship.
2, Verbally abusive
If someone calls you derogatory names, even if they say they are joking,
they mean to hurt you and keep you in line. ... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****l
发帖数: 252 | 3 SYSTEMS FOR INDUCING CHANGE IN A HUMAN PHYSIOLOGICAL CHARACTERISTIC
United States Patent Application, August 18, 2011
By Bank of America
Patent Abstract
Systems and methods for inducing a change in a human physiological
characteristic. The physiological characteristic may correspond to an
emotional state of a dialogue participant. The dialogue participant
may be
an individual participating in a conversation. The outcome of the
conversation may be related to a business objective, such as providin... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****8
发帖数: 17722 | 4 If you can estimate the next peak or bottom in advance,
the picture looks a lot prettier.
It is then not a question of how to survive, but rather
how to exploit and profit from the emotional excesses.
Instead of worrying about the emotional excesses, you not
only welcome them, you wish for them.
That difference is the difference between a novice and a
pro. When you don't mind emotional excesses, you're on
your way to be a pro who welcomes and prays for emotional
excesses.
A pro sees a short-sque... 阅读全帖 |
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c****h
发帖数: 4968 | 5 什么是“focus on sad, irrelevant facts.”？这个国女和马里兰的那个是一路货色
啊。自己不了解情况，就对着中国开口大喷，因为失踪的不是丫家里人？！一家人就这
么一个希望，每年来美的留学生人数中国第一……无辜女生被美国人掠走，这还不
RELEVANT，什么是RELEVANT?这样还不够emotional?丫忘了美爹小天使杯警察击毙了，
美爹媒体是怎么“emotional"的？
http://www.news-gazette.com/news/local/2017-06-21/day-12-search-yingying-zhang.html
"The Chinese media is trying to make it more emotional," Shan Shan So, a UI
international student from China, said Tuesday on campus, giving an example
of how stories often reference the missing person's family or... 阅读全帖 |
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m******1
发帖数: 19713 | 6 Douglas County Republican supports civil unions in emotional speech
POSTED: 02/28/2013 01:41:54 PM MST
UPDATED: 03/01/2013 11:00:33 AM MSTBy Lynn Bartels
The Denver Post
A Republican lawmaker from one of Colorado's most conservative counties
voted Thursday to support civil unions, the latest signal that attitudes
toward gays have changed drastically in recent years.
Rep. Carole Murray of Castle Rock said some might be surprised that a
politician with a voting record that she said has been de... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****g
发帖数: 1128 | 7 First, I already admitted on my previous post that I made a mistake by
calling the big river bet because I didn't expect the back door flush draw
or straight draw. Second, I was pot committed. Yes, it would be a really
easy fold for you because you were not in the hand, but after you already
put 130 in the pot, then it was not that easy. For that player, he could've
made that kind of bluff too because he thought I didn't have a good hand. If
the river was a 7, he might've made the same bet becau... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1621 | 8 Hey, take it easy on MM. She is the very few female player who actively
participate in poker discussion and she is a great asset to this board.
On the other hand, since the topic is emotion control, MM, why don't you
just treat it as an emotion control exercise.
Just imagine you sit at poker table, you just lost a big pot, and heard
somebody say to you: "You suck, you are the worst player I ever see, you
play that hand like a complete moron! " What do you do?
Angry? Sure, start arguing with ppl?... 阅读全帖 |
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N****O
发帖数: 4202 | 9 我读的管理学书上也会提到emotional intelligence.
其中的self-management我觉得很有用：
Handling our emotions so that they facilitate rather than interfere with the
task at hand; being open and honest in one's pursuit of goals; and being
flexible in overcoming obstacles or adapting to changing situations.
Specific competencies include emotional self-control, transparency (
displaying honesty and integrity), adaptability, achievement, initiative,
and optimism.
书上还说the personality and mental health of top-level managers ar |
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l**k
发帖数: 419 | 10 有些emote太老，没什么用的，我们去掉，有些emote太老，表达
意思也太古板或者落伍了，有些emote我们还需要加进来。我很
少进聊天室，所以我不太清楚哪些常用，哪些不常用，我们大家来
改掉他吧，如何？
我的基本观点是：
1) action party部分可以多加一点，也就是hit,kick什么的。
2) action speak么，我看可以全去掉，没有多大意思，白白占help的地盘。
3) action condition可以多加点。
可以把一些网友的ID给加进来么，现在有了allen和ding的，可以加入greenfir，
写成什么“我是绿皮西瓜我怕谁”什么的。danielf“我在孵蛋，烦着呢，别理我”。
什么什么的。
我下面给出一个基本框架，大家补充和修改如何？
struct action party_data[] =
{
{"@@","用双眼盯着",""},
{"addoil","憋足了劲大喊：","加油挖啊！下面就是宝贝了！"},
不要。
{"bearhug","热情的拥抱",""},
{"bless","祝福","心想事成"},
{"bye","向","一拱手道：“青山 |
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f******e
发帖数: 6488 | 11 Don't get so emotional about investing
BY jonathan hoenig,
SmartMoney
© 2009 SmartMoney. SmartMoney is a joint publishing venture of Dow
Jones & Company, Inc. and HearstSM Partnership. SmartMoney is a registered
trademark. All Rights Reserved.
SmartMoney — 10/12/09
In the markets, a few simple steps can help keep one’s emotions at bay.
We don’t just battle the markets, but our own emotional stability and
mental health. Open trades are a relentless feedback loop. For six-and-a-
half hours a |
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l***o
发帖数: 1111 | 12 http://espn.go.com/blog/new-york/knicks/post/_/id/14366/lin-was
By Jared Zwerling
NEW YORK -- To Jeremy Lin, Mike D'Antoni was more than his Knicks head coach
. He was his career savior.
After going undrafted, not getting a real shot with three NBA teams (the
Mavericks, Warriors and Rockets), being sent down to the D-League three
times, Lin found himself at the end of the Knicks' bench -- wondering,
praying, hoping he would get a chance.
Then, on Feb. 4 against the Nets, at the mecca for basketb... 阅读全帖 |
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W********m
发帖数: 7793 | 13 don't blame the emotion control just yet. Think more about your play. Did you have a read on him at the river? Does your opponents bluff busted draw with donk bet often? You bet very strong on the turn. Does he bluff over strength? how much % of bluff does you put him on for your call to make your call +ev? I think you are over exaggerating the power of emotional control. Is it really the reason that you are not a winner? Poker players tends to find excuse for themselves when losing but tak... 阅读全帖 |
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p****t
发帖数: 1789 | 14 http://dongyubadminton.googlepages.com/emotionlol.mp3
I feel good
I feel nice
I''ve never felt so
Satisfied
I''m in love
I''m alive
Intoxicated
Flying high
It feel like a dream
When you touch me tenderly
I don''t know if it''s real
But I like the way I feel
Inside
You''ve got me feeling emotions
Deeper than I''ve ever dreamed of
You''ve got me feeling emotions
Higher than the heavens above
In the morning
When I rise
You are the first thing
On my mind
And in the middle
Of the night
I feel your he |
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p***e
发帖数: 29053 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: poise (紧急下潜 . 。o O有事PM), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 女儿上daycare后，情绪很emotional，如何处理？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 15 16:06:22 2014, 美东)
女儿2岁，以前一直家都有老人看着，都很乖的，也很少哭
父母刚回国了，女儿开始上daycare，但是回家后很emotional,经常要人抱，很
容易哭，要什么东西都哭，而且哭的很惨烈，脾气也变坏不少，什么都no,不给就哭。
我和老婆都有点应付不来了。请问如何引导？
我7岁的儿子一直很乖，没有出现过这样的情况，所以没有什么经验。谢谢 |
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m*******s
发帖数: 758 | 16 今晚看一些trading 方面的书学习学习，发现 他们格外强调control emotion 坚持自
己的strategy的重要性。 从小就知道，常立志不如立常志。而自己或者很多人做不到
的原因，既有时局环境自然的变化，也有自己日常生活中个人情绪波动，不同程度自己
的心理视角发生扭曲。
从小被学校教育讲究 守纪律 讲究意志力 刻苦劲儿，却从来没有接触过专业科学的情
绪管理。作为独身子女，上小学乃至中学情绪不好，可以耍脾气哭闹或者故意冷漠、回
避来对付过去；而一个真正的成年人成熟的标志，最重要的应该是 自我情绪的调整和
管理，以及对他人情绪的感知和正确回应。那些虚无飘渺的人生活着为什么等特别玄乎
的问题都是跟当前的生活情绪波动很相关的。
emotion 变化多端，“时”过“境”迁，比较sensitive, random，正如基督教说说的
“任凭肉体和情绪行事”。 一个人可以通过言语、动作乃至表情隐藏自己的意图，但
是却无时无刻不在自我的情绪笼罩中，仿佛有时候自己的臭皮囊就是不受控制，真的是
理性的天敌。有时候，基督徒生活中有所谓圣灵感动，也是可以归结为特定环境渲染情
绪的强大影响力。如道 |
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a******o
发帖数: 1197 | 17 这种分法没有太大必要，这两种路子都可以称为political soc。为什么不在政治学系
？这是一个社会学问题，呵呵。这跟这门sub学科发展，知识与权力的相互作用，这部
分人identity等等都有关系，具体我也不知道。
我觉得应该是问题和理论思考是第一位的，而不是简单地进行劳动分工，分完了就不管
别人在做什么。不同视角相互参照和争论才能促进知识的生产。比如north korea的问
题，作为社会学家，我可能会研究mobilization of emotion，在目前情况下政府和媒
体如何把所谓innocent people和evil regime分开来，把对于人民的sympathy和对于
regime的hatred如何mobilization，研究这种political grammar。还有不同的群体的
emotional investment的不同，对于sympathy和politics的区分。比如humanitarian组
织会强调一种universal sympathy free from politics等等。这些都是有社会学意义
的问题，而且可以generalize到其他类 |
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c********n
发帖数: 46 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 Whisper 讨论区 】
【 原文由 cyprinodon 所发表 】
在绝大数情况下, emote里的参数对id和nick是等同的. 没有priority之分.
首先, emote里的参数对id和nick both有效. 比如: id=greenfir, nick=pipe
//hand greenfir 的功能相当于 //hand pipe, 而反映在屏幕上的则是nick,
在此例里, 效果都是:
tester 跟 pipe 热情地握握手!
可是如果聊天室里出现id和nick重复现象, 比如有id=pipe, nick=cy, 则系统
视哪个"either id or nick"先进入聊天室而决定priority. 比如, 顺序是
酱子的:
id(greenfir) nick(pipe)先进入
id(pipe) nick(cy)后进入,
则: //hand greenfir显示: tester 跟 pipe 热情地握握手!
//hand pipe显示: tester 跟 pipe 热情地握握手!
//hand cy显示: tester 跟 cy 热情地握握手! |
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r**********9
发帖数: 19633 | 20
对的，emotional appeal的煽情方法貌似有时候挺能打动人的呀 ：） 我个人感觉，用
passion比emotional appeal有效些？ |
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d*******y
发帖数: 322 | 21 Editor's note: C.Y. Leung is the chief executive of the Hong Kong Special
Administrative Region. The opinions expressed in this article are solely his.
Hong Kong (CNN) -- Hong Kong is in the midst of a passionate debate about
our constitutional development. It's a debate we must have. But it's a
debate that must be tempered with reason. Raw emotion -- for or against the
proposed political reform -- will get us nowhere.
It must also be a discussion based on the constitutional framework that
provi... 阅读全帖 |
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M****o
发帖数: 4860 | 22 外标题：Navy SEAL's widow gets emotional over Trump's words
内标题：Trump honors widow of fallen Navy SEAL
真是他妈的婊子 |
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x**m
发帖数: 637 | 23 对, 不应该骂CNN婊`子, 骂你是婊子, 行不?
发信人: anda2015 (笑看众生), 信区: USANews
标 题: Re: CNN: Navy SEAL's widow gets emotional over Tru
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 1 11:30:47 2017, 美东)
模棱两可？这成语用得不对吧？就因为里外不一样也要拿出来批，还骂人婊子？你们川
粉真是难伺！ |
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h*******y
发帖数: 864 | 24 JUST before the hovering finger clicks the mouse to trade, there is one
thing that online investors of the future might want to check: their “
Rationalizer”. The device, a prototype of which was unveiled this week, is
an emotion-sensing system designed to help investors keep a cool head when
buying and selling.
The idea was dreamed up by Philips, an electronics group based in the
Netherlands, and the Dialogues Incubator, an initiative sponsored by ABN
AMRO, a Dutch bank with intimate experience |
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p***e
发帖数: 29053 | 25 女儿2岁，以前一直家都有老人看着，都很乖的，也很少哭
父母刚回国了，女儿开始上daycare，但是回家后很emotional,经常要人抱，很
容易哭，要什么东西都哭，而且哭的很惨烈，脾气也变坏不少，什么都no,不给就哭。
我和老婆都有点应付不来了。请问如何引导？
我7岁的儿子一直很乖，没有出现过这样的情况，所以没有什么经验。谢谢 |
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l****n
发帖数: 66 | 26 看了那篇妈妈内疚的帖子，不禁想起我在家长会上的emotional breakdown。说来话长
。。。
上星期五接到通知开家长会。我也没多想，以为是例会，还想这么小小孩，估计就是吃
喝拉撒的问题。到了那里才发现就我们宝宝班的家长们，而且co-director和executive
director (director's boss)都来了，要和家长们沟通。
原来大宝班里最近老师换得比较勤，可能和刚开学有关系。再加上换了教室，很多事情
没和家长沟通好，导致家长意见不少。妈妈们连珠炮似的发问，我举些例子
“那个屋子怎么没有微波炉”-- 老师老去教室外面热，影响看孩子
“为什么老换老师”-- 其实是一共四个老师，其中一个老师的位置老不固定。有的孩
子对老师很sensitive，导致孩子不高兴
"为什么新老师记不住孩子名字，不能老问孩子'What is your name?',这个会导致孩子
不安全感和迷惑，我都看了两个儿童心里医生了”
“他们的屋子为什么那么小”-- 我看了，其实和原来的差不多，摆得有点不一样，玩
具也多一些
“他们怎么没cubby” -- 就是那个有点像健身房里的locker |
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l**********a
发帖数: 419 | 27 One sample From Raising an Emotional Intelligent Child, by John M. Gottman
A child disappears in a large department store and the parents are very
worried about the child.
After a while, a clearly upset child is found by a store employee, who helps
the child find the parent.
Wrong repsonse: "You stupid child! I am so mad at you, I am never taking you
shopping again."
Parent's agenda: The parent was scared and wants to keep the child safe and
prevent this from happening again.
Child's feeling: Fe |
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k******s
发帖数: 237 | 28 很多人推荐，读完了，很好 一些摘要 非常有意思。
The toddler years (ages 1 - 3)
P196 While toddles may be extremely attracted to one another, they don't yet
have the social skills needed to play together. Indeed, attempts at
cooperative play and sharing are often problematic, given the "toddler rules
of ownership,", which are (1) if I see it,k it is mine (2) If it's yours
and I want it, it's mine. (3)If it's mine, it mine forever. Parents should
realize the such attitudes are not based on meanness;they are simply an
ex... 阅读全帖 |
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U********f
发帖数: 2482 | 29 I have to admit that your get the point.
we make money from other people's account, without emotional excesses, there
will be not huge profit for MM. |
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l***o
发帖数: 1111 | 30 http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/basketball/knicks/harvard-coa
“It’s going to be, including the D-league, like my sixth or seventh system
in the last year and a half. It’ll be all right,” Lin said with a smile
after the game. “We’re not going to change everything. Some things will be
the same.”
“I was surprised,” Lin said of D’Antoni’s resignation. “I know some
people were talking about it and what-not, but I didn’t know the reality of
it. I figured after shoot-around he’d definitely be here to... 阅读全帖 |
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w********o
发帖数: 1621 | 31 看了他以前在微软的时候的I love this company的视频。然后听说昨天和KD的见面会
上还哭了！
到底是一个emotional的人，还是演技满分？ |
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O****e
发帖数: 3290 | 32 With a perfect lead out from Renshaw, Cavendish proved again he is the
fastest man. Pressure from criticism must be very high for Cavendish this
morning. He cried with such an emotion (almost like a child) on podium. Hopefully his spirit is back after this victory. |
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h******1
发帖数: 1930 | 33 Emotional 的来了
放鱼视频。 所有鱼都release了，只有两条大的是我自己放的。 |
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m********n
发帖数: 2995 | 34 感觉这行文是很久以来版上最引人入胜的，没有之一，不是真的emotional是写不出来的
！很多时候不是要钓多少鱼，而是这种consistency pays off的感觉，的确是一种非常
感激大鱼感激自然的涕零，特别对于一个自己不是很熟的tactic，这种坚持是需要勇气
和足够的自信的。拟饵钓鱼对人的积极意义，也就在这里吧。 |
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l*x
发帖数: 14021 | 35 following tweeters of both Giants and Packers reporters.
On the Giants side, players are on fire, come out and guarantee one thing
after another.
On the Packers side, it's all about grief and prayers on the coach's son.
both teams seem to be emotional. the contrast strikes me. |
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l*x
发帖数: 14021 | 36 no, not about football, but at awe what life throws at you, success,
opportunities, loss, tragedy, etc.
looking at both teams situations, emotion wise, that's about as high or low
your life can be in your lifetime. |
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a********k
发帖数: 11445 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: almondmilk (80后有娃大妈), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: emotional eating
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 22 01:28:59 2012, 美东)
最近天气热，事情多，压力大，每天累得要死，小朋友还不听话。而且他长高了，自己
点着脚尖可以开始拿我们经常放东西的地方了，开门开灯都拦不住了。
我心情烦躁，经常乱吃东西，搞得自己现在就是个黑胖子，还天天中暑。
求开导。 |
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w**********5
发帖数: 1741 | 38 Boris Becker: ´Roger Federer doesn´t show his emotions because of
money´
Tennis - In his book, the former Wimbledon Champion criticizes the Swiss,
also speaking about his relationship with Djokovic specifically ..
Tennis Interviews 22 Dec 2015 - 09:30 / by Gatto Luigi / reads 1632.
Source: www.puntodebreak.com
Federer becker
1 of 2
Next page
Boris Becker published his book a few months ago, but there is still much
talk about its contents. The former Wimbledon champion not only sp... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****g
发帖数: 1128 | 39 Good point, but sometimes it is so hard to do it. For example, last weekend,
I bought in for $200. After about 2 hours, my stack was over $400. I stole
a lot of pots and I never showed down a hand during that two hours. I always
took action when I knew everyone was weak. Anyway, here is the hand that
put me on tilt and changed everything. I had A 9 suited diamonds on the MP.
I raised to $13. Two LP and EP called. Flop 3 9 10 with two hearts and one
spade. EP checked, I bet $35, and two LP folded... 阅读全帖 |
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p****r
发帖数: 9164 | 40 On the river , your hand is pure bluff catcher. QJ got there, and hands
like pr with back door flush got there. If you think your opp is not the
kind of person that bluff missed draw often , it is not really a tough
laydown. Your hand strenth (2 pr) is still strong, but your relative hand
strenth is weak since you can only beat bluff.
Do not really blame yourelf much for going on tilt after such a sick bad
beat. Everybody has emotion problem. I remember many timse that I played
bad after b... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****t
发帖数: 817 | 41 是人就会有on tilt的时候。是人就不可能说是开了两小时的车，到赌场上来输了一个
大锅就说I cannot play my A game any more, I leave。玩嘛，顺其自然就好了。
Emotion control的那些所谓诀窍就是些永远正确的废话，没用的。就好比足球教练每
场比赛都就再三教育队员要减少失误，这也是废话。队员也不想失误。说一万遍到时候
该失误多少还是多少。 |
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p****r
发帖数: 9164 | 42 Good point. I think it is all about making quick adjustment. Tilt is
unvoidable. Everybody will go on tilt once a while. It is very hard to
avoid any emotion change after losing a big pot. You just need to remind
youself do not get out of control and go back your normal game quickly.
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r****r
发帖数: 1394 | 43 this is a great "emotion control" example.
for help, you need to be humble even though I am impressed that you only
lost 2k in 2 years. If you want to hear it, i can say it "good work, you are
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p****r
发帖数: 9164 | 44 Agree. When I play HU, ego is one of my major weakness. sometime , even I
know I should not rematch some reg , coz edge is very small or no edge at
all, still keep doing that coz I do not want to lose. It just takes time and
some displine to get away.
I used to fight with a reg playing regular speed HUSNG a lot. we were
talking a lot sh*t as well. I said my roi is much better, he said I can only
beat fishes, then I said " you are one of them", then we were getting
emotional and played many m... 阅读全帖 |
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w**m
发帖数: 4061 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 PhotoGear 讨论区 】
发信人: misssunshine (辣妈), 信区: PhotoGear
标 题: Re: 女儿上daycare后，情绪很emotional，如何处理？ (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 15 16:55:54 2014, 美东)
安全感的问题！
突然没有全部attention了，daycare老师很Professional的，你哭，她们可不会动情。
你女儿突然有了落差，然后年龄小，不懂得发泄情绪，或不知道表达情绪，只能哭闹来
发泄，或表达，或者不听你们的引起你们的attention.
这方面我比较专业，每次接你女儿回来，跟她多聊聊积极的东西，比方说，在daycare
还愉快吧，又这么多小朋友一起玩，你长大了，自己上学了，爸爸妈妈very proud of
you， 等等积极的话。
女儿闹得时候，不要跟她讲道理，就是帮助她用语言说出她的情绪，如果要东西不给，
她哭。你就说，我知道你非常upset，你想要什么，爸爸／妈妈没有给，所以你哭。。
。总而言之，帮助她用语言表达她的情绪。 |
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w**m
发帖数: 4061 | 46 发信人: misssunshine (辣妈), 信区: PhotoGear
标 题: Re: 女儿上daycare后，情绪很emotional，如何处理？ (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 15 17:00:40 2014, 美东)
专业词汇，叫做共情。跟大人一样，发脾气的时候，不需要你讲道理，只要你理解我。
小朋友你要帮助她怎么表达情绪，然后教她怎么发泄情绪，她发脾气的时候，你就共
情，这段时间多抱抱她，肢体接触可以增加安全感。
但是注意，家里规矩还是不能变，不是宠爱，不要让她觉得你们这是宠她，让她为所欲
为。 家里以前什么规矩还是什么规矩，不能给的还是不能给。 |
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m*****t
发帖数: 1956 | 49 啊？都是童话里的故事？ T_T 听你这么说我整个人都不好了，mentally disabled，需
要一个emotional support doggie。。。。 |
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