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a*******g
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lesbian – A female- identified person who is attracted romantically,
physically, or emotionally to another female-identified person.
Gay – A person, mainly a male-identified person, who is attracted
romantically, physically, or emotionally to another a person of the same sex.
Bisexual – A person who is attracted romantically, physically, or
emotionally to both men and women.
Transgender – A person who is a member of a gender other than that expected
based on anatomical sex.
Queer – An umbrella t... 阅读全帖
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2017 Minnesota Statutes
609.3451 CRIMINAL SEXUAL CONDUCT IN THE FIFTH DEGREE.
Subdivision 1.Crime defined. A person is guilty of criminal sexual conduct
in the fifth degree:
(1) if the person engages in nonconsensual sexual contact; or
(2) the person engages in masturbation or lewd exhibition of the genitals in
the presence of a minor under the age of 16, knowing or having reason to
know the minor is present.
For purposes of this section, "sexual contact" has the meaning given in
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来自主题: USANews版 - LGBTQI又要添新成员P
What Does LGBTQIA mean?
Lesbian – A female- identified person who is attracted romantically,
physically, or emotionally to another female-identified person.
Gay – A person, mainly a male-identified person, who is attracted
romantically, physically, or emotionally to another a person of the same sex.
Bisexual – A person who is attracted romantically, physically, or
emotionally to both men and women.
Transgender – A person who is a member of a gender other than that expected
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来自主题: Living版 - 跟邻居斗法
刚才我妈告诉我,我家门口的两个南瓜是对面的邻居送的。我吃了一惊。我妈说“她对
我们这样还送南瓜”,我家老公说了:“送南瓜就送呗,可能是想道歉吧,我们接受了
”。 我感叹,唉,人生就是这么戏剧性呀。
这个邻居,当初来这里看房子的时候,就跑过来恶狠狠地说不能把车停在她家门口的路
边。很奇怪,不就是10分钟的事情吗? 当时就觉得这邻居故意找茬。
我们搬进这个房子后,一天,一个朋友晚上在路边停了1分钟不到,人还在车里呢,她
就跑出来,说不能停车,朋友真生气,不就是1分钟的事情吗?
然后,好多次骚扰。 我每次都记下来了。
Harrassment Logs
1.
August 21, 2014 night at 11:12pm
My friend was standing by at the side of the street for 15 seconds, LXXXXXX
came out of her house and criticised my friend parking there and ordered my
friend to move his car. My friend ... 阅读全帖
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知足吧。没让你割地、赔款、道歉就不错了
发信人: jadeg898 (jade), 信区: Living
标 题: 跟邻居斗法
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 13 11:56:01 2014, 美东)
刚才我妈告诉我,我家门口的两个南瓜是对面的邻居送的。我吃了一惊。我妈说“她对
我们这样还送南瓜”,我家老公说了:“送南瓜就送呗,可能是想道歉吧,我们接受了
”。 我感叹,唉,人生就是这么戏剧性呀。
这个邻居,当初来这里看房子的时候,就跑过来恶狠狠地说不能把车停在她家门口的路
边。很奇怪,不就是10分钟的事情吗? 当时就觉得这邻居故意找茬。
我们搬进这个房子后,一天,一个朋友晚上在路边停了1分钟不到,人还在车里呢,她
就跑出来,说不能停车,朋友真生气,不就是1分钟的事情吗?
然后,好多次骚扰。 我每次都记下来了。
Harrassment Logs
1.
August 21, 2014 night at 11:12pm
My friend was standing by at the side of the street for 15 seconds, LXXXXXX
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s**i
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"刀子嘴豆腐心",横竖过来的是刀子,割着一样痛。
你割完了,不修补解释,你那“豆腐心”,人根本不知道。
女人自我娇惯,一味要求对方宽容自己的任性。
是,感情还在的时候,男方会看做是撒娇,容忍度高,也就不计较了。
但是,你任性的嘴刀戳多了,感情就会受损,容忍度下降,对方也就开始计较了。
离婚,提一次,伤一次感情,会弄假成真。
所以,愚蠢的女人,会真相信“刀子嘴豆腐心”一说。
教孩子基本礼貌,都是negative comment不要轻易说,it hurts.
大人都做不到。
其实就是emotional control不过关,本就不重视。看你自己孩子,如果他根本不懂得
控制自己的情绪,你有多frustrated.
反而成人了,女人这个群体又开始自怜纵容,自己任性真当做了天经地义。一味责备男
人宽容度不够。
男人心也不是别的物质做的,从小被教育要多宽容,但其实最biological, 最本能的
emotional response,都差不多。只不过被后天教育,social/cultural tradition要求
把negative emotion/anger repress了。男人沉默的时候... 阅读全帖
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newage123 (newage123) 于 (Wed Dec 21 21:12:51 2011, 美东) 提到:
如果在财产分隔和子女归属上意见不同的话?
现在刚开始讨论,娃爸表示要娃。我觉得如果我没有重大失误的话一般是娃跟妈妈吧?
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kongvita (巴西木木) 于 (Wed Dec 21 21:19:48 2011, 美东) 提到:
你要离婚??
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newage123 (newage123) 于 (Wed Dec 21 21:25:05 2011, 美东) 提到:
刚开始讨论,希望某人不会反悔。
以前想的是有啥不爽都为了娃忍了,熬到她18岁了还受不了再离,
现在娃爸貌似也想通了。但是他说他找他自己的律师,让我自己找自己的律师。我以为
一个律师就搞定了呢。

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l*********e
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hedge2007 (Life2010) 于 (Sat Dec 8 21:57:44 2012, 美东) 提到:
大妈们不要对号入座,把个人情绪放在客观事实之上。我的意图是作为社会经济现象来
探讨。让事实,数据说话,相信对有些在犹豫继续工作还是呆家里照顾小孩的妈妈们起
个参考作用。
如果你有更多的统计报告,数据,也欢迎补充,但请标明出处。尤其欢迎统计方面的专
家。个例就免了。
http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/p20-561.pdf
人口普查的结果:(与工作的职业女性妈妈(包括Single Mom)相比)
1。住家妈妈更年轻,孩子更小 (Stay-at-home mothers were younger and had
younger children than other mothers.)
2。住家妈妈受教育程度更低 (Stay-at-home mothers were less educated than
other m... 阅读全帖
n****w
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 分享一下
emotion感觉就是各种情绪吧,包括正面和负面的。感觉就是LET IT OUT,学会调节,
不给他人带来负面影响:)
刚好在给儿子读一本小书"WHEN I FEEL SAD",感觉就是把"it is ok to feel any
kind of emotions;it is totally fine to express any kind of emotions/
feelings;all emotions are acceptable but not all actions"一小人容易接受的
故事形式讲了出来。我也觉得很受益。
i**e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 问一个关于小孩EQ的问题
我中的毒,来自下面的大毒草们:
Emotional Intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-10th-Anniversary-Matter/dp/055380491X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1288992797&sr=1-1
Raising an emotionally intelligent child the heart of parenting
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Parenting/dp/0684838656/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1288992898&sr=1-1
其实,下面这本书也扯到不少关于EQ的东东
The sevent habits of highly effective people
http://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highl... 阅读全帖
i**e
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关于EQ,推荐
Emotional Intelligence:Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-10th-Anniversary-M
培养娃的EQ,推荐
Raising an emotionally intelligent child
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
有的人会觉着EQ也是天生的
欧觉着,temperament是天生的,比如外向内向,好动好静,争强好胜etc
欧对EQ的理解就是 知己知彼 游刃有余
所以,这种EQ是可以培养的,就是说不管是脾气暴躁的还是脾气温和的
都可以认识自己的脾性,根据自己的脾性对自己的生活习惯等等做些调整让自己活得更
写意;
也可以学习认识了解别人的能力,在不触犯自己原则的前提下,与别人一定程度上和睦
共处
i**e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 早上刚醒来就被无缘无故地骂
关于婚姻关系,欧再次推荐
Seven principles for making marriage work:A Practical Guide from the Country
's Foremost Relationship Expert
http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/
学习了解EQ,俺推荐
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-10th-Anniversary-M
how to learn/practice/improve EQ:
Emotional Intelligence 2.0
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-2-0-Travis-Bradber
花点时间读一读吧,虽然不需要事事具到,有个概念,就会有个大方向
好多事情就可以step back而不是觉着stuck,... 阅读全帖
i**e
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欧已经推荐过好多回了!有木有,馒头都木有吃过,有木有!!!
要了解EQ到底指的啥,可以看
Emotional Intelligence:why it can matter more than IQ
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-10th-Anniversary-M
结合小孩子EQ的培养,可以参阅
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child:The Heart of Parenting
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
鉴于夫妻关系是家庭和睦的灵魂,夫妻关系也是衡量成人EQ的一个方面
欧推荐Dr。John Gottman的
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/
如果需要比较实际的有细节的育娃书
欧推荐
Parent Ef... 阅读全帖
j**f
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这帖子,我直接FORWARD到LD信箱了。勒令他都给我网上下载下来免费的!
:)

欧已经推荐过好多回了!有木有,馒头都木有吃过,有木有!!!
要了解EQ到底指的啥,可以看
Emotional Intelligence:why it can matter more than IQ
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-10th-Anniversary-M
结合小孩子EQ的培养,可以参阅
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child:The Heart of Parenting
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
鉴于夫妻关系是家庭和睦的灵魂,夫妻关系也是衡量成人EQ的一个方面
欧推荐Dr。John Gottman的
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marria... 阅读全帖
i**e
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我知道的EQ
Emotional Intelligence
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Daniel-Goleman/dp/
养娃的
How to raise an emotionally intelligent child: The heart of parenting
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
i**e
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只要父母参与孩子从生下来到成人的成长过程
父母们就用们的实际行动在physical, emotional, social, congnitive and even
spiritual方面早早教,早教,中教,高教,晚教着孩子们 :)
其实就是影响着孩子们
physical/emotional/social/congnitive development都不太可能,单单把出一个来教育
这几个方面都是相互牵连的
去跑步踢球,看着是体育锻炼,可是欧们的孩子是带着heart/head去的,别的孩子们也
带了
父母去观战的时候,更是带了heart/head去地 :)
就是写作业认字,貌似就是congnitive development
孩子也是带着heart/heard, hence emotion 去做的
emotional coaching kiddo 的时候,也不能五中生有地座谈
我只是想说,多了解自己的孩子,跟着孩子的developmental pace给与合适的支持足已

out
s*******i
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Attachment Theory
依附理论”(Attachment Theory)
为什么一个平时很独立的女孩,恋爱后会对男友十分依赖?为什么小小的分手会使人做
出异常的事情甚至威胁生命?为什么有外遇时丈夫对元配会冷若冰霜、面若阎罗,但对
并不及元配的情人却曲意讨好、柔情似水?“依附理论”(Attachment Theory)他是
通过研究母亲与其1岁孩子的互动提出的,因为母婴关系与恋人关系有着很大程度的类
似:在一起时的心理满足和所谓的分离焦虑;“被无条件接纳”的心理需求和“最被重
视”的心理需求(如果婴儿发现母亲不理它,就会哭闹来引起母亲的注意,期望母亲产
生内疚来更好的满足自己)。所以有人戏称所有相爱的人心理年龄都会降到3岁以下,
退化成为父女或者母子关系。
下面介绍一下依附实验,将母婴引入一间有玩具的房间,观察母亲离开一会儿再回来过
程中婴儿的反应,发现了四种典型的表现:
a.安全型依附:母欲离去时婴欲挽留,表现出不快乐,母不在时无心玩玩具,母回来后
张手希望被抱,被抱一会儿后就要下地接着玩儿。这样的婴儿长大后在恋爱中表现较好
,包容、谅解、易相处,尊重爱人,不论你需要个人空间还是亲近时,他/她都可以给
你。
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 04:07:45 2012, 美东) 提到:
在这个帖子里面,我给大家提供一些关于ASD的resource。欢迎其他家长也跟贴进入讨
论。我们几个妈妈商量好了,会不断慢慢加进一些实用的东西。如果要讨论争议话题,
请在(上)篇跟贴。争论太多情绪失控的话,我们随时可能停止回那个贴。但是这个贴
,我们希望能够成为一个常驻贴,有空我们会来多放些有用信息。谢谢大家!
(上)篇和(中)篇的链接在这里:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013295.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013315.html
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 04:08:43 2012, 美东) 提到:
权威的America... 阅读全帖
k****i
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 自闭历程
core problems in ASD只有三点:
1.is the child having trouble with establishing intimacy and warmth?
2. Does the child communicate with gestures and emotional expressions?Does
the child engage in continuous flow of back and forth emotional signaling
with smiles , frowns, head nods and other interactive gestures?
3. When the child begins using words, does he use them meaningfully? Are the
words or symbols invested with emotion or desire, such as "i love you", or
"i want that juice" rather than "this is... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 自闭历程
core problems in ASD只有三点:
1.is the child having trouble with establishing intimacy and warmth?
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how to measure the intimacy and warmth, especially with someone other than
family member?
2. Does the child communicate with gestures and emotional expressions?
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what if a child lacks gestures yet can cry, smile with expressions?
Does the child engage in continuous ... 阅读全帖
t*******r
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书的信息量当然大并且系统,俺也不是全盘否定书本。
但俺觉得主要的问题是,这么说,带娃,是一种 practice,
就好比开汽车,或者修房子修水管。。。
用开汽车的比方,开汽车,最最重要的是 handy/eye
coordination,三维空间判断能力,multi-task 的能力,
读路标能力,不断积累经验。。。不要告诉俺,那些开车不行
的女人,是有关开车技巧的书读得不够多。。。// run
或者用业余修房子修水管的比方。。。业余修房子修水管最最
主要的素质,就是 handy。够 handy 的话,一两本 Home
Depot 卖的大众书,外加 internet,足够了。不够 handy
的话,说句不客气的,给一个图书馆都是白给。。。
回到正题,俺觉得带娃最主要的素质,是:
(1)尽可能自己不会被娃搞得 emotional compromised。
底线是至少自己意识到自己是不是 emotional compromised。
(2)观察、洞察某个具体娃的行为及其心理。
(3)以平和的心态,理性思考具体娃的情况,制定长期战略方向,
并且结合目前具体情况,走小步、走一步、看一步。
如果有... 阅读全帖
i**e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 请推荐中文育儿书籍
EQ也就是心理情绪方面的
How to raise an emotionally intelligent child
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Got
A boy who was raised as a dog
http://www.amazon.com/Boy-Who-Raised-Psychiatrists-Notebook--Wh
Emotionally Intelligent Parenting
http://www.amazon.com/Emotionally-Intelligent-Parenting-Self-Di
大脑发育
Your child's growing mind:Brain Development and Learning From Birth to
Adolescence
http://www.amazon.com/Your-Childs-Growing-Mind-Development-eboo
Brain rules
http://www.amazon.com... 阅读全帖
x*****i
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再推荐一本:The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture
Your Child's Developing Mind
简单来说就是了解和帮助孩子脑子发育,控制冲动和情绪爆发,培养逻辑性和计划性,
所谓upstairs brain和downstairs brain
摘一个亚马逊的评论:
This short book gets right to the point and gives parents twelve key
strategies that will help them parent their kids without losing it. The
twelve strategies are:
1: Connect and Redirect: Connect emotionally, redirect logically
2: Name It To Tame It: Taming emotions through storytelling
3: Engage, Don't Enrage: Appea... 阅读全帖
i**e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 说一说我自己天天挨打的童年
pat pat
有一天,嫩会释然的
可以先积极地做些事情帮助自己走出来
比如看些心理学方面的书,看些如何培养乐观能力的书,看些情商方面的书
严重的时候,可以去看看心理咨询师,寻求一下外助
Emotional Intelligence
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/d
Raising an emotionally intelligent child
http://www.amazon.com/Raising-Emotionally-Intelligent-Child-Par
Learned Optimism
http://www.amazon.com/Learned-Optimism-Change-Your-Mind/dp/1400
How to listen so kids will talk & talk so kids will listen
http://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Kids-Will-Listen/dp/1451663889/r
Unconditio... 阅读全帖
x*****i
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“Maybe you want people to have the same emotional reaction as you after
reading a story, but that doesn't make your reaction any more moral than any
other differnt reactions. “
---这是你自己的opinion。
在公共论坛上,一个成年人的emotional reaction的前提是应该使用文明语言回复别人
,尊重别人的话语权。自由与责任。。。永远都是并存的。节制自己的emotion使之“
皆中节”是在社会中使用自由权的同时应负的责任。在自己被正式授予“论坛审查员“
资格之前对转贴使用“垃圾”一词你觉得是中节的emotional reaction吗?
“心净国土净”。
深知对于morality这种概念的深度广度了解不够,不敢随便使用,所以转了。不知你是
如何轻易得出这一结论或感觉的。请指出有关具体语句。

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is
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t******l
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从你的 link 里 quote 的:
[quote]
Nurturing a talented child
“Setting out to raise a genius is the last thing we'd advise any parent to
do,” says Camilla Benbow, dean of education and human development at
Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tennessee. That goal, she says, “can
lead to all sorts of social and emotional problems”.
Benbow and other talent-development researchers offer the following tips to
encourage both achievement and happiness for smart children.
Expose children to diverse experiences... 阅读全帖
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一般来说,人们把依靠直觉或个人判断的交易称为直觉交易,而把那些依靠电脑系
统或算法软件的交易称为系统交易。当然这也不是非此即彼的,现在的许多软件可以做
到人机结合,成为mixture。
我们先来看一个投票,一共有182人 投票,认同系统交易或人机结合的达到68.68%。
http://www.trade2win.com/boards/trading-polls/14535-trading-sys
Which is better: Trading Systems or Discretionary Trading?
Systems 59 32.42%
Discretionary 48 26.37%
A mixture 66 36.26%
Don't know 9 4.95%
其中一个投票者列举了直觉交易的缺点:Trading with a system will dramatically
increase your chances to succeed in trading, because it eliminates five... 阅读全帖
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http://www2.tech.purdue.edu/cg/courses/cgt411/covey/48_laws_of_
The 48 Laws of Power
by Robert Greene and Joost Elffers
Law 1
Never Outshine the Master
Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to
please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you
might accomplish the opposite – inspire fear and insecurity. Make your
masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights
of power.
Law 2
Never put too Much Trust in Friend... 阅读全帖
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kelvinchufei (Kelvin) 于 (Mon Jan 30 16:01:38 2012, 美东) 提到:
The 48 Laws Of Power
by Robert Greene
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kelvinchufei (Kelvin) 于 (Wed Feb 1 16:22:45 2012, 美东) 提到:
http://www2.tech.purdue.edu/cg/courses/cgt411/covey/48_laws_of_
The 48 Laws of Power
by Robert Greene and Joost Elffers
Law 1
Never Outshine the Master
Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to
please or impress them, do ... 阅读全帖
f********n
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To Love and to Be Loved
Written on Dec 2 byRuì Róng
Native of Beijing/Tokyo/San Francisco living on plenty of Mobile Technology,
Tennis, Whiskey, and Romance.
This piece of writing is dedicated to those who I loved, those who loved me,
and those I shared love with. May we all continue our emotional education.
I’ve been called many things when entangled with romance. The gradient has
been great, from “ideal boyfriend,” or “hopeless romantic,” to “callous
asshole,” and “womanizer.” Which one am I... 阅读全帖
j******8
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来自主题: Boston版 - 跟邻居斗法 (转载)
【 以下文字转载自 Living 讨论区 】
发信人: jadeg898 (jade), 信区: Living
标 题: 跟恶邻居斗法
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 13 11:56:01 2014, 美东)
刚才我妈告诉我,我家门口的两个南瓜是对面的邻居送的。我吃了一惊。我妈说“她对
我们这样还送南瓜”,我家老公说了:“送南瓜就送呗,可能是想道歉吧,我们接受了
”。 我感叹,唉,人生就是这么戏剧性呀。
这个邻居,当初来这里看房子的时候,就跑过来恶狠狠地说不能把车停在她家门口的路
边。很奇怪,不就是10分钟的事情吗? 当时就觉得这邻居故意找茬。
我们搬进这个房子后,一天,一个朋友晚上在路边停了1分钟不到,人还在车里呢,她
就跑出来,说不能停车,朋友真生气,不就是1分钟的事情吗?
然后,好多次骚扰。 我每次都记下来了。
Harrassment Logs
1.
August 21, 2014 night at 11:12pm
My friend was standing by at the side of the street for 15 seconds, LXX... 阅读全帖
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对这个80-20、还有百人会、街坊会、工程师协会之类的所谓亚裔/华裔名流一向没什么
好感。一些自诩的精英、自封的华人代表,打着为华人争权利的旗号,干着为自己谋私
利的猥琐勾当。
80-20号称要集中80%的亚裔选票给他们内定endorse的候选人,没看出他们的眼光有多
准确、多有利于亚裔。
他们的网站直言要利用大家的emotion: As a rule, people don't vote to elect a
particular candidate. They vote to fulfill their civic responsibilities and/
or to express their emotion. Of the two, emotion is ten times more powerful
than the sense of civic duty. When we have a simple, sound, and grand
strategy to show that "register and vote 80/20" is equivalent to "del... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: WashingtonDC版 - 莫言 讲故事的人 - 英语版(转载)
【 以下文字转载自 Reader 讨论区 】
发信人: wonderlich (左岸,遁去), 信区: Reader
标 题: 莫言 讲故事的人
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Dec 7 12:27:27 2012, 美东)
Nobel Lecture
7 December, 2012
Storytellers
Distinguished members of the Swedish Academy, Ladies and Gentlemen:
Through the mediums of television and the Internet, I imagine that everyone
here has at least a nodding acquaintance with far-off Northeast Gaomi
Township. You may have seen my ninety-year-old father, as well as my
brothers, my sister, my wife and my daughter, even my... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - 一种优越感油然而生
PRK最不缺的就是这种人,自己以为自己是个优等的
一下就先把自己放到一个相当的高度
http://mobile.calguns.net/calgunforum/showthread.php?t=746720
My views may be differnt than most of you but I am all for the 2nd
Amendment
I wrote a letter today for the first time ever about any subject to a bunch
of politicians. Including Boxser, Fienstien,Brown, Villaragosa, Waters and a
few more.
heres a copy let me know what you think. Keep in mind brothers and sisters
we must rally support on both sides of the aisle to keep our right from
being inf... 阅读全帖
c******i
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来自主题: loseweight版 - 胖得壮的人也会低血糖吧
版主你不是幼稚, 你的性格也很执着. 你有时候只是太emotional了.
Emotions (anger, sad, anxiety, shame,love, joy, etc)是自然产生的情感. 我们
遇到一件事情后可能会产生negative
emotion(比如anger, sadness,等等), 这是很自然的. 有各种各样的念头都不可怕, 可
怕的是不计后果感情用事地去做一些
事情, 说错一些话.
人一个坚强的人, 是在任何情况下, 都能调节自己心情(emotion)的一个人.
现在网上流行的"要淡定"也不过就是这个意思吧.
t*******g
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来自主题: Running版 - 心情不好,计划也没完成
adjust emotion is everything befor u could do any thing...;)
i am also the person who is easy to be lead by emotion.
now we should learn to administrate the emotion.
we are the master of our emotion, be the slaver ...
j**n
发帖数: 13789
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1. Leave your insecurities at the door. We all have them, yes. But if
you’re going to handle this ride, you’re going to have to be as confident
and self-assured as possible. Though he may be flattering and complimentary
at times, he also has a tendency to be brutally honest, no matter whose
feelings it hurts. And he doesn’t see why it should bother you anyway. So
don’t even try to argue with him why it’s mean to ask you if your ass
got bigger. He was just asking an honest question. And... 阅读全帖
j**n
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This aritile was written by Kim
独家,谢绝转载
A significant trait to identify a pure Cancerian person is their extremely
sensitive and moody nature. This is because their ruling planet is the Moon
which keeps changing its appearance.
Similarly, these individuals have a very shiny and happy mood one day and a
depressive and annoyed mood the other day.
Cancerians can not bear criticism and are easily offended by minor insults.
It is very hard for cancer personality to stand someone's advice or
suggest... 阅读全帖
a***e
发帖数: 2094
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来自主题: Dance版 - Max new showdance - Avatar
我的本意不是想比较yulia and anasiasia. Max把自己捧得很高,我只是想指出,以前其实大部分功劳属于yulia. 换一个partner, 整个就没有多少看头了, 只是用来说明max的水平不够.
"软绵绵线条没拉开" is the key! 如果我给你看我的rumba showdance, 你也会说同样的话, 说我"软绵绵的" :) (当然我现在跳不到的anastasia水平). How to get rid of the "软绵绵的"感觉? 这里面有很多factors, for example: correct technique, linking body parts through your center, creating resistance to your own body, correct execution of timing, showing speed contrast, accent, musicality, emotions that are attached to the movements...... 平庸的dancers会一辈子"软绵绵... 阅读全帖
l****i
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 电影和现实(bos原创)
【 以下文字转载自 Movie 讨论区 】
发信人: bos (Bart), 信区: Movie
标 题: 电影和现实(原创)
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Wed Jan 21 13:43:14 2004) WWW-POST
电影和现实
--bos
经常听说什么某部电影不贴近生活,被认为这是一个缺点,什么与老百姓相差太远。我很
不以为然。
首先,人们花十个大洋去电影院,就不是去看生活的。要看实际生活,呆在家里瞅着自己
就得了,干吗大老远地花钱上电影院?花上十个大洋,走进铺着红地毯的装饰豪华的影院
,就是为了逃离现实,被转换进入另一个时空。要不然,为什么影院的装饰都充满了梦幻
色彩,红地毯,大吊灯,精美的壁画?电影公司都起名叫梦工厂之类的,摆明了告诉你,
电影就是脱离现实的,为了带者你的想象,去经历你平常经历不到的事情,去现实中不可
能达到的境界,去体验平常体验不到的emotion,去看“A hero's journey to his
destiny”,或者“love, passion, intrigue, and betral”的传奇故事的。一句话,去
得到... 阅读全帖
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CNN 刚发表这文章, very interesting..中文没找到。
http://www.cnn.com/2014/03/26/health/brain-moral-judgments/inde
How your brain makes moral judgments
By Elizabeth Landau, CNN
This image shows differences in brain activity between people who judge an
act wrong and others who say it's not wrong.
(CNN) -- Imagine a CEO wants to profit from a venture that, by the way,
involves emitting pollution toxic to the environment, but she doesn't care
because the goal is profit.
Is the CEO intentionally harming the envir... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 诗歌, lost in translation ?
诗歌, lost in translation ?
从开始读诗到写诗, 大概有一年半的样子。 该是中年危机闹的鬼。 开始时读的
都是英文诗, 心痒了, 就开始试着翻译, 这时才发现自己中文退步的厉害。 有时一
个英文词, 头脑里英文的定义很清楚, 却想不出中文词是什么。 大概翻译了十几首
后, “心就胀满了诗意”, 不得不泄到键盘上。 很尴尬的是自己的中文和英文都是
半瓶子水。 两者势均力敌, 常常会起笔时想的是中文, 终了却成了英文, 那个赢,
完全是哪种语言对了当时的感觉。 也许是距离产生美感, 或是我对声音和语调的敏
感, 虽然我不懂法语, 却觉得那是诗的语言, 英语, 似乎硬朗了些, 欠悠扬, 而
中文则更加硬一些, 更适合豪情。 因为我自认是一个平淡的人, 对豪情没有诗感,
写诗时又总是边写边读, 结果涂鸦的英文诗反倒多于中文的。

对自己没有信心, 只敢把诗交给陌生人读。 于是找到了这个网站 “allpoetry”
。 这里你可以贴诗, 但有个条件, 你每贴一首诗, 必须评论两首其他作者刚刚贴
的诗, 而且不能少于设定的字符。 我哪里真正懂得诗, 只好... 阅读全帖
a*f
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趁着人多,搞个版面活动。我的语文不好,诗意这个词也许不恰当。我的意思是说一张
照片让你产生某种emotion(什么样的emotion都可以),但这种emotion你又并不能完
全用文字说清楚为什么或者甚至讲清楚究竟是什么样的emotion。
什么照片都可以,糖水也行,淡水也行,商业也行,名家拍的,自己拍的,家人朋友拍
的,阿猫阿狗拍的,一概不限。
a*f
发帖数: 5682
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趁着人多,搞个版面活动。我的语文不好,诗意这个词也许不恰当。我的意思是说一张
照片让你产生某种emotion(什么样的emotion都可以),但这种emotion你又并不能完
全用文字说清楚为什么或者甚至讲清楚究竟是什么样的emotion。
什么照片都可以,糖水也行,淡水也行,商业也行,名家拍的,自己拍的,家人朋友拍
的,阿猫阿狗拍的,一概不限。
b*****e
发帖数: 14299
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居然有争议说这部自传是虚构的,一大段讨论,自己看吧。
Guy Sajer's book THE FORGOTTEN SOLDIER is rather notorious in the historical
community; the book purports to be the memoirs of an Alsatian who served
with the Division for the last years of the Second World War. Much has been
written on the subject of whether or not the book is a true story or not.
Two articles are presented here, plus an exchange of letters to the editor
to an American military journal. Those curious may wish to obtain a copy of
their own, and to inv... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: PhotoGear版 - 住如下地方的考虑下发包子吧
America’s Happiest States
Charles B. Stockdale, March 2, 2012
10. Montana
Well-being index score: 68.0
Life expectancy: 78.4 (24th lowest)
Obesity: 23.0% (6th lowest)
Median household income: $42,666 (11th lowest)
Adult population with high school diploma or higher: 91.7% (3rd highest)
Residents of Montana are generally happy. They rate themselves among the
highest in the nation in both Gallup’s life evaluation and emotional health
categories. Montana has among the most educated adult population... 阅读全帖
R**o
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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 同性戀的起源:天生抑或後天
我还没有在任何权威学术期刊看到犯罪也有基因的论文,如果你觉得如此,请给出引文
出处。
你指摘人们忽略社会学心理学家,而事实反倒是你忽略了心理学家的观点。美国最权威的心理学协会
APA明确指出同性恋不是心理疾病,请看:
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Is homosexuality a mental illness or emotional problem?
No. Psychologists, psychiatrists, and other mental health professionals
agree that homosexuality is not an illness, a mental disorder, or an
emotional problem. More than 35 years of objective, well-designed
scientific research has shown that homosexuality, in and itself, is not
as... 阅读全帖
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