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发帖数: 419 | 1 最近工作效率实在太差，逼了自己也没用，所以我就来灌水了。。。
故事来源：一天晚上，女儿与我的对话。
Daughter: 妈妈，I am very sad, because I have no friend at playground.
Mom: (马上专心听) honey, tell me what happened?
Daughter: N, M, and I are at playground. We played superhero. But N and M
do not want to share with me. So I talked to them: each friend shares with
each friend. But they said NO. So I keep following them. Then I sing a song
and played by myself. They still do not want to play with me. Mom, I was sad
. (crying) I do not have friend | l**********a
发帖数: 419 | 2 One sample From Raising an Emotional Intelligent Child, by John M. Gottman
A child disappears in a large department store and the parents are very
worried about the child.
After a while, a clearly upset child is found by a store employee, who helps
the child find the parent.
Wrong repsonse: "You stupid child! I am so mad at you, I am never taking you
shopping again."
Parent's agenda: The parent was scared and wants to keep the child safe and
prevent this from happening again.
Child's feeling: Fe |
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