L****i
发帖数: 379 | 1 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。 |
K****n
发帖数: 5970 | 2 展开说说具体啥要求,干部家庭,城市户口,行不行?
【在 L****i 的大作中提到】
: 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
: 扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
: 主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 3 也好。让你知道一下不是什么人都混进阶级队伍里面来
【在 L****i 的大作中提到】
: 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
: 扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
: 主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。
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l***5
发帖数: 3433 | 4 怎麼老是你!
【在 L****i 的大作中提到】
: 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
: 扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
: 主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 5 how old are you?
【在 l***5 的大作中提到】
: 怎麼老是你!
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l***5
发帖数: 3433 | 6 我說他挺坎坷的
一肚悶氣都發到版上來了
呵呵!
【在 T*****n 的大作中提到】
: how old are you?
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 7 俺是说翻译：how=怎么；old=老；are=是；you=你
how old are you = 怎么老是你
【在 l***5 的大作中提到】
: 我說他挺坎坷的
: 一肚悶氣都發到版上來了
: 呵呵!
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l***5
发帖数: 3433 | 8 所以我說你牛唄!
翻的這麼精準!
【在 T*****n 的大作中提到】
: 俺是说翻译：how=怎么；old=老；are=是；you=你
: how old are you = 怎么老是你
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 9 呵呵，这个是老笑话了
how are you？怎么是你？
how old are you？怎么老是你？
【在 l***5 的大作中提到】
: 所以我說你牛唄!
: 翻的這麼精準!
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 10 You wrote, "和大陆都有很大差距。"
I do not know, because I have never been to China.
But how can it be possible? Chinese parents (By chinese, I mean those from
PRC) are as bossy with their children--even adult children--as Taiwanese
ones? Can it be that Chinese parents intervene in everything but choice of a
son- or daughter-in law?
【在 L****i 的大作中提到】
: 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
: 扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
: 主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 11 Definitely, absolutely NOT true.
In Taiwan, I made several observations. One is most marriages were unhappy.
Another is ALL children (men and women) fought with their parents to the
verge of complete disruption of parents-child relationship, if the marriage
were to be consummated. Parents of men and women in Taiwan are assholes.
That is why I disowned mine and adopted black parents.
My conclusion? I do not have. However, I suspected and still suspect that
from the beginning, there was no love in |
B****n
发帖数: 11290 | |
K****n
发帖数: 5970 | 13 这家子估计也是苦日子过怕了,你要不发奋发奋多赚点儿?
【在 L****i 的大作中提到】
: 女儿确定的丈夫还不行，必须通过她父母的那一关：要见面，评谈吐，挑工作，论工资
: 扽等等一大堆。这都什么年代了，还搞这个。落后的很，和大陆都有很大差距。什么民
: 主社会，女权主义，台湾很象清朝的遗老遗少。
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 14 人都有over-generalize的倾向，容易推一及万，也不必太在意 |
T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 15 那就拿录音机录下来，多放几遍听听
【在 B****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 已經很久沒聽到相好這個詞了 呵呵
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T*****n
发帖数: 18811 | 16 也是个招儿。
【在 K****n 的大作中提到】
: 这家子估计也是苦日子过怕了,你要不发奋发奋多赚点儿?
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 17 Well, nobody is generalize anything! Taiwanese parents are BAD. They are
dying, due to old age. Hopefully the younger generation of Taiwanese parents
, who were oppressed when they were (adult) children will samrt up and treat
their children better.
It is POSSIBLE that leticiatsai's parents are different--after all, her
parents are about my age, or former Pres. Chen Shui-bian's age (60). But all
parents I observed who have children in marriageable age are looking for
money and power only, rather
【在 T*****n 的大作中提到】
: 人都有over-generalize的倾向，容易推一及万，也不必太在意
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 18 One may challenge me, then, now that I said there was no love in a Taiwanese
marriage, why did children fight with their parents in order to get married?
This WAS my theory (when I was in Taiwan): Adult children THOUGHT about
dating somebody--not to mention dating somebody actually--and gradually
found out that his or her parents vetoed EVERYBODY he or she met. Eventually
the child discovered the truth that if he or she was going to get married
at all, he or she would have to fight, even to brea
【在 c**i 的大作中提到】
: Definitely, absolutely NOT true.
: In Taiwan, I made several observations. One is most marriages were unhappy.
: Another is ALL children (men and women) fought with their parents to the
: verge of complete disruption of parents-child relationship, if the marriage
: were to be consummated. Parents of men and women in Taiwan are assholes.
: That is why I disowned mine and adopted black parents.
: My conclusion? I do not have. However, I suspected and still suspect that
: from the beginning, there was no love in
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