f*****y
发帖数: 709 | 1 I have been reading all your posts and reflecting on my own problem.
Throughout last few years, I was getting so close to seeing a shrink, but
backed out in the last second.
I had a couple of episodes of depression in the last few years, and I know
the reason for that. I was facing a lot of difficulties with my job and
some family issues as well. Sometimes, I wanted to give up on everything,
just come in for the job, make the money for a living, and raise the kids,
and then wait to die. Eve | i*****a
发帖数: 7272 | 2 what on earth is your issue? I cannot tell from what you said....what are
the things you wanted to but were not be able to give up? expectations on
your career?
"Sometimes, I wanted to give up on everything, just come in for the job,
make the money for a living, and raise the kids, and then wait to die. "
simply
care
【在 f*****y 的大作中提到】
: I have been reading all your posts and reflecting on my own problem.
: Throughout last few years, I was getting so close to seeing a shrink, but
: backed out in the last second.
: I had a couple of episodes of depression in the last few years, and I know
: the reason for that. I was facing a lot of difficulties with my job and
: some family issues as well. Sometimes, I wanted to give up on everything,
: just come in for the job, make the money for a living, and raise the kids,
: and then wait to die. Eve
| t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 3 Sounds like you are trying to re-evaluate your life goals. Not sure if that
is a pathological condition or not -- personally, I think it's a sign of
growth.
According to the humanistic astrologer Dane Rudhyar (who is interested in
integrating psychology with astrology, and had close collaboration with Carl
Jung), a person's life is symbolically divided into 28-year periods:
Age 0-28: physical birth, independence, establishing a social identity,
procreation.
Age 29-56: psycho-mental rebirth, fin
【在 f*****y 的大作中提到】
: I have been reading all your posts and reflecting on my own problem.
: Throughout last few years, I was getting so close to seeing a shrink, but
: backed out in the last second.
: I had a couple of episodes of depression in the last few years, and I know
: the reason for that. I was facing a lot of difficulties with my job and
: some family issues as well. Sometimes, I wanted to give up on everything,
: just come in for the job, make the money for a living, and raise the kids,
: and then wait to die. Eve
| f*****y
发帖数: 709 | 4 I really don't know. I think I am having some mental problem. Been always
shy in public, or maybe timid is the right word. I think this is what has
been cauing the problem. And I am expecting more than what I received, or
in other words, I deserve more than what I have now, which is a big reason
for my depression/anxiety.
Been trying to position myself in the right spot at workplace, but seeing so
many unfair and dirty politics, sort of in a hopeless and helpless mood.
that
Carl
physical
【在 t*******n 的大作中提到】
: Sounds like you are trying to re-evaluate your life goals. Not sure if that
: is a pathological condition or not -- personally, I think it's a sign of
: growth.
: According to the humanistic astrologer Dane Rudhyar (who is interested in
: integrating psychology with astrology, and had close collaboration with Carl
: Jung), a person's life is symbolically divided into 28-year periods:
: Age 0-28: physical birth, independence, establishing a social identity,
: procreation.
: Age 29-56: psycho-mental rebirth, fin
| t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 5 Let's see-
Being timid can be embarassing, although everybody feels timid at least in
some circumstances. It also depends on how one looks at it -- lots of timid
people are NOT terribly bothered by it. If you've always been that way,
most likely you already know how to live with and adapt to it. So why it
becomes such a big issue in recent years? Change in life/work/associates?
Higher personal expectations?
You've mentioned difficulty and dissatifcation with jobs. How did you feel
about t
【在 f*****y 的大作中提到】
: I really don't know. I think I am having some mental problem. Been always
: shy in public, or maybe timid is the right word. I think this is what has
: been cauing the problem. And I am expecting more than what I received, or
: in other words, I deserve more than what I have now, which is a big reason
: for my depression/anxiety.
: Been trying to position myself in the right spot at workplace, but seeing so
: many unfair and dirty politics, sort of in a hopeless and helpless mood.
:
: that
: Carl
| t*******g
发帖数: 1301 | 6 good analysis !
haha
the world is neither white nor black
it'gray
from white to black
timid
feel
about
【在 t*******n 的大作中提到】
: Let's see-
: Being timid can be embarassing, although everybody feels timid at least in
: some circumstances. It also depends on how one looks at it -- lots of timid
: people are NOT terribly bothered by it. If you've always been that way,
: most likely you already know how to live with and adapt to it. So why it
: becomes such a big issue in recent years? Change in life/work/associates?
: Higher personal expectations?
: You've mentioned difficulty and dissatifcation with jobs. How did you feel
: about t
| p***l
发帖数: 196 | 7 you sounded fine to me~~~~
Don't ask too much from yourself. keep in mind all the accomplishment you
have had. top 1 person will be the saddest of them all..according to my
observation...haha.
simply
care
【在 f*****y 的大作中提到】
: I have been reading all your posts and reflecting on my own problem.
: Throughout last few years, I was getting so close to seeing a shrink, but
: backed out in the last second.
: I had a couple of episodes of depression in the last few years, and I know
: the reason for that. I was facing a lot of difficulties with my job and
: some family issues as well. Sometimes, I wanted to give up on everything,
: just come in for the job, make the money for a living, and raise the kids,
: and then wait to die. Eve
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