r*****5
发帖数: 512 | 1 申了20多个学校 等待中
之前几个月前还申了industry的一些research position
昨天电面了一个research associate 的职位电面还OK 但是对方说如果双方都满意要求
我这边一月一号开工
assume真的过几天给offer
是不是应该果断推掉然后认真等faculty的结果？虽然目前除了一个学校的据信啥都没有
我是不擅长做决定症患者
刚开始找工作 第一次电面
想听听意见 | r***r
发帖数: 153 | 2 拿到offer再头疼吧,什么事都可能发生,没看到白纸黑字就不算数.
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【在 r*****5 的大作中提到】
: 申了20多个学校 等待中
: 之前几个月前还申了industry的一些research position
: 昨天电面了一个research associate 的职位电面还OK 但是对方说如果双方都满意要求
: 我这边一月一号开工
: assume真的过几天给offer
: 是不是应该果断推掉然后认真等faculty的结果？虽然目前除了一个学校的据信啥都没有
: 我是不擅长做决定症患者
: 刚开始找工作 第一次电面
: 想听听意见
| s******y
发帖数: 28562 | 3 如果你觉得自己有实力拿到别的职位的话，就推掉。
没有
【在 r*****5 的大作中提到】
: 申了20多个学校 等待中
: 之前几个月前还申了industry的一些research position
: 昨天电面了一个research associate 的职位电面还OK 但是对方说如果双方都满意要求
: 我这边一月一号开工
: assume真的过几天给offer
: 是不是应该果断推掉然后认真等faculty的结果？虽然目前除了一个学校的据信啥都没有
: 我是不擅长做决定症患者
: 刚开始找工作 第一次电面
: 想听听意见
| r*****5
发帖数: 512 | 4 是的
现在assume还早
【在 r***r 的大作中提到】
: 拿到offer再头疼吧,什么事都可能发生,没看到白纸黑字就不算数.
:
: 没有
| c*******h
发帖数: 1096 | 5 It is too early for you to worry about making decisions.
Provided that you do get an offer that expects an answer before you have
other choices, and that you are not fully satisfied with the terms, I would
like to say that such kind of situations occurred to me before (in fact,
more than once). The closest instance was a faculty position not to the best
of my desire. My thesis advisor said that "If I were you, I would probably
take the offer." My postdoc supervisor, on the other hand, didn't give me an
explicit yes or no. Instead, he told me a few success stories of the big
shots who are renowned for their solid contributions to the field. They all
started from nowhere recognizable, "and besides," he added, "the school
offering you the position is far more distinguished than those places."
I agonized for quite a while and ended up listening to neither of them. I
passed this wonderful opportunity, because the resources I can possibly get
for conducting the research of my own standard do not meet my calculations.
Yes, a faculty position is a dreamed job for me, but I cannot take it only
for the sake of realizing a dream, by neglecting the future development. I
never regretted. In retrospect, thankful to those tough decisions I've made,
I am more clear about what I desire. I am very happy with my current
position.
I do not want you to follow my example, unless you are on exactly the same
shoes as was I. Everyone is unique. You may not be aspiring for the same
goal. The intent of my sharing the story, is only to tell that no one can
make a decision for you. You are gambling, and yes, whole of your life.
Whether you are willing to take risks and how much you can stand the
consequences of losing the bet shape your future. It is a golden opportunity
for you to reconcile what you truly want and where your potential stands.
My $0.02 | C***t
发帖数: 915 | 6 先拖着，等他给了offer再说。真的不能再拖的时候，就拒了。为何这么说？你虽然不
敢保证一定能拿到faculty职位，但我觉得类似的industrial职位再找个应该没问题吧
？到时候你也就不遗憾了。 | r*****5
发帖数: 512 | 7 感谢!
would
best
probably
an
all
【在 c*******h 的大作中提到】
: It is too early for you to worry about making decisions.
: Provided that you do get an offer that expects an answer before you have
: other choices, and that you are not fully satisfied with the terms, I would
: like to say that such kind of situations occurred to me before (in fact,
: more than once). The closest instance was a faculty position not to the best
: of my desire. My thesis advisor said that "If I were you, I would probably
: take the offer." My postdoc supervisor, on the other hand, didn't give me an
: explicit yes or no. Instead, he told me a few success stories of the big
: shots who are renowned for their solid contributions to the field. They all
: started from nowhere recognizable, "and besides," he added, "the school
| r*****5
发帖数: 512 | 8 谢谢!
【在 C***t 的大作中提到】
: 先拖着，等他给了offer再说。真的不能再拖的时候，就拒了。为何这么说？你虽然不
: 敢保证一定能拿到faculty职位，但我觉得类似的industrial职位再找个应该没问题吧
: ？到时候你也就不遗憾了。
| m****a
发帖数: 435 | 9 小马过河，只有自己对自己的情况最了解。
既然现在申请了公司，说明你对自己的实力可能不是百分百的有信心。而且，即使实力
再强，这年头也不能保证拿到faculty的offer，还要看运气。
另外，好的公司职位对很多专业来说也并不总是信手拈来的，过了这个村可能就没有这
个店了。你现在能拿到，并不能保证你以后一定能拿到。
我是你的话，先接下来这个offer，一月一号先去公司干着，同时继续申请学校，参加
面试。如果真的拿到faculty的offer的话，一般还有大半年报到，到时候可以考虑辞掉
公司去学校。有个公司的工作保底，别的可以慢慢谈。如果最后拿不到faculty的话，
就安心在公司干着，也挺好。
没有
【在 r*****5 的大作中提到】
: 申了20多个学校 等待中
: 之前几个月前还申了industry的一些research position
: 昨天电面了一个research associate 的职位电面还OK 但是对方说如果双方都满意要求
: 我这边一月一号开工
: assume真的过几天给offer
: 是不是应该果断推掉然后认真等faculty的结果？虽然目前除了一个学校的据信啥都没有
: 我是不擅长做决定症患者
: 刚开始找工作 第一次电面
: 想听听意见
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