h********0
发帖数: 440 | 1 请假各位faculty member：
收到一封email来自面试过的一个学校，说想要跟我谈一下，让我给他们合适的时间。
我觉得可能是一个offer。
但是我已经接受了另外一个offer了，这种情况下我如何做才比较合适？
(1) 直接回email说我已经不available了？
（2）回email说我available的时间，等他们告诉我说给我offer的时候，我再说不
available？
没有show off的意思，给offer的学校都是一般的tier。
只是自己从来没有处理过这种事情，都是一个领域的，
以后还要抬头不见低头见，而且可能有合作的机会。
所以请教一下各位，这种情况怎么处理合适。
多谢先。 |
h*****t
发帖数: 1478 | 2 since you are not sure whether it's an offer, I would suggest that you set
up a time to talk to them first. When they extend the offer, you can tell
them that you've accepted another one.
【在 h********0 的大作中提到】
: 请假各位faculty member：
: 收到一封email来自面试过的一个学校，说想要跟我谈一下，让我给他们合适的时间。
: 我觉得可能是一个offer。
: 但是我已经接受了另外一个offer了，这种情况下我如何做才比较合适？
: (1) 直接回email说我已经不available了？
: （2）回email说我available的时间，等他们告诉我说给我offer的时候，我再说不
: available？
: 没有show off的意思，给offer的学校都是一般的tier。
: 只是自己从来没有处理过这种事情，都是一个领域的，
: 以后还要抬头不见低头见，而且可能有合作的机会。
|
h********0
发帖数: 440 | 3 Thanks for the suggestions, hypoact.
Anything else that I need to be aware?
【在 h*****t 的大作中提到】
: since you are not sure whether it's an offer, I would suggest that you set
: up a time to talk to them first. When they extend the offer, you can tell
: them that you've accepted another one.
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h*****t
发帖数: 1478 | 4 1. talk to them ASAP, so they can make other arrangement promptly.
2. be polite and appreciate their effort.
3. be frank: if they ask you where you are going (they likely won't ask),
tell them the truth. They will know anyway in future, so no point to hide
anything.
【在 h********0 的大作中提到】
: Thanks for the suggestions, hypoact.
: Anything else that I need to be aware?
|
h********0
发帖数: 440 | 5 Thanks a lot hypoact.
Very helpful information! |
h********5
发帖数: 102 | 6 If you have already taken an offer, why don't you just withdraw your
application now? |
h********0
发帖数: 440 | 7 I took another one not long time ago.
For this one, I thought they already gave it to somebody else.
I don't know that you can still withdraw your application after onsite
interview.
I feel strange to tell them that I take an offer already before they contact
me.
【在 h********5 的大作中提到】
: If you have already taken an offer, why don't you just withdraw your
: application now?
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j******n
发帖数: 1727 | 8 我也觉得你该先让他们知道
contact
【在 h********0 的大作中提到】
: I took another one not long time ago.
: For this one, I thought they already gave it to somebody else.
: I don't know that you can still withdraw your application after onsite
: interview.
: I feel strange to tell them that I take an offer already before they contact
: me.
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h********0
发帖数: 440 | 9 My first offer is not finalized yet, I just gave out my words.
In this case, do you think that I need to let them know first?
【在 j******n 的大作中提到】
: 我也觉得你该先让他们知道
:
: contact
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c*********d
发帖数: 99 | 10 It's up to you. If you haven't signed the letter, you could still talk to #2. However, if you intend to sign regardless of the potential offer from #2, then you better decline the phone conversation and let them know that you have accepted an offer from another institution. |
d***a
发帖数: 13752 | 11 等你正式接受offer之后，给去面试过，还没有消息的地方的系主任发个email，告诉他
们你的去向。别人会appreciate的。 |
h********0
发帖数: 440 | 12 Thanks cyberfriend and digua for your suggestions.
Don't know this before... |
