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o**********e
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 中印校园惨案汇总:当书呆子信任半瓶醋
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Aug 28 23:44:37 2014, 美东)
中印友好地成群结队是校园常见的一景.
不过老中父母应该好好想想,多学美国
法律游戏规则, 否则老中孩子误以为自己
身在印度,有无所不知的烙印死党, 有可能
会死得很惨.
首先说说烙印孩子的优点:
1. 印度孩子情商比老中孩子高几倍.
2. 烙印孩子有无比的自信神吹,很容易
忽悠书呆子渴望社交的老中孩子的信任和友情
3. 烙印孩子实际上并不真知道老美游戏规则(不比老中多知道多少,
但是表现地却是无所不知无所不晓)
4. 烙印孩子可能继承了烙印的传统家教,包括一切
优点和恶习.
5. 烙印孩子有social safety network,出了事,
很容易自己脱罪,或者族人包庇,改名换姓又是一条好汉.
老中老实孩子没有这个奢侈品. 不信你参照Ajai Martoma的
故事。 http://... 阅读全帖
o**********e
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【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: 老中技术转管理的4大优势和4小建议
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Nov 1 12:19:01 2015, 美东)
有人说自己技术想转管理,大小领导都支持。
可是怕这怕那,怕以后技术荒废,或者
怕不会勾心斗角。
我来说说技术转管理的4大优势:
1. 物以稀为贵
老中管理少。 烙印五羊羊。
2. 买低卖高
老中人才,人脉,管理都被歧视,
所以以大白菜价收入,上升空间很大
3. 技术人员挑文科生的技术刺,易如反掌
老美应该明白,他们之所以上了烙印
文科生的当,就是因为他们歧视
技术人员。 所以老美老中都应该
支持老中技术转管理。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/JobHunting/33082503.html
4. 安于愚拙,不学巧诈
就是要不会勾心斗角,
才能抱慈守拙,厚德载物。
下面来4个小建议。
1. 要有魄力,决断。
不要瞻前顾后,心惊胆战, 这样显得
没有决断能力... 阅读全帖
A**d
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Yes, my English is really shabby, because I don't have to
modify almost EVERY post that's not copy+paste. I certainly
have trouble keeping my post "in tact". LOL
Seriously, Geisha barks much more fluent than you. You'd better
get out of China Town to get a real chance to watch a real
baseball game.
ps: why Dalai was brought into the topic? You don't know shit.
That's the real reason.

I
a****k
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来自主题: Basketball版 - 史上最脏的NBA球员就是帮主
Be like Mike? No thanks
Reilly By Rick Reilly
ESPN The Magazine
http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/colum...ick&id=4477759
Michael Jordan's Hall of Fame talk was the Exxon Valdez of speeches. It was,
by turns, rude, vindictive and flammable. And that was just when he was
trying to be funny. It was tactless, egotistical and unbecoming. When it was
done, nobody wanted to be like Mike.
And yet we couldn't stop watching. Because this was an inside look into the
mindset of an icon who'd never let anybody ... 阅读全帖
H**U
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来自主题: Basketball版 - 有人说老骗子馋得流口水了
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/nba-ball-dont-lie/does-phil-jacks
Does Phil Jackson want to coach the Los Angeles Lakers? Who knows? Wouldn’t
you want to?
By Kelly Dwyer | Ball Don't Lie – 2 hours 22 minutes ago
Email
Would Phil Jackson love a chance to coach the Los Angeles Lakers again?
Probably, under certain circumstances. Maybe for home games, only. Maybe
starting after St. Patrick's Day. Only if Dwight Howard promises to stop
acting like that. Perhaps if Steve Nash agrees to lose the side pa... 阅读全帖
t********e
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来自主题: Cycling版 - 请帮忙看一下哪个自行车好些
新手打算开始骑车,主要是到trial骑,身高178。在当地的craigslist上找了些车,请
帮忙看一下哪个车比较靠谱,谢谢。
(1) 2005 Cannondale Chase - $450
Chase 2 dirt jump bike. Excellant condition, Disc brakes, single speed,
American made. New disc brakes freshly rebuildt manitou from shock. You will
also be getting 2 sets of tires, 2 seat posts, and 2 seats so you can set
it up for off road or park riding.
(2) 2007 Kona Front suspension mt. bike with DISCS!! -$400
all Shimano gearing and rapid fire shifters, front and back disc brakes,
front and ba... 阅读全帖
f****a
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - 巴西警察摆拍水平很低啊
这个和以前的那个tact cool的有一拼。
h*********r
发帖数: 1943
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既然提到了S&B,我觉得在这个级别上现在有三个镜子可以选
Kahles K624i
我认为的光学水准最上级四家(Zeiss、Leica、Swarovski & Kahles)中spec最完整的
远射狙击镜(明年Hensoldt 3.5-26X56出货之前),两个reticle选项都挺好的,25mil
调节程
官网
http://www.kahles.at/eng/products/competition-k/models/
测评
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZF2jn0_6kg
http://www.opticstalk.com/kahles-k624i-vs-everything-else_topic
Schmidt Bender 5-25X56 PMII
http://www.schmidtundbender.de/en/products/police-and-military-
http://www.schmidtundbender.de/en/products/police-and-military-
极度耐用,产品线被世界最多国家的军队和特... 阅读全帖
h*********r
发帖数: 1943
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既然提到了S&B,我觉得在这个级别上现在有三个镜子可以选
Kahles K624i
我认为的光学水准最上级四家(Zeiss、Leica、Swarovski & Kahles)中spec最完整的
远射狙击镜(明年Hensoldt 3.5-26X56出货之前),两个reticle选项都挺好的,25mil
调节程
官网
http://www.kahles.at/eng/products/competition-k/models/
测评
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZF2jn0_6kg
http://www.opticstalk.com/kahles-k624i-vs-everything-else_topic
Schmidt Bender 5-25X56 PMII
http://www.schmidtundbender.de/en/products/police-and-military-
http://www.schmidtundbender.de/en/products/police-and-military-
极度耐用,产品线被世界最多国家的军队和特... 阅读全帖
f********t
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - TPS TSR镜环的问题
刚才试装了一下,发现一个镜环上了螺丝环合不上,环右边有3/16“的空,镜子一圈有
缝隙,打电话找客服,说可能是scope out of spec
NND,坑爹呀,这个周末没法测试镜子了。教训是以后高档的东西少买,换个Burris XTR如何?
http://www.midwayusa.com/product/148716/burris-30mm-xtreme-tact
n****e
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - 新人冒个泡。
嗯,从来没见过tact lever。。。
h*********2
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - HK----对你爱不完!
枪展上试过USP Tact, 非常顺手,看到网上有买USP Rail adapter的,不大明白,USP
的Rail和P30的不一样么?
l****c
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l**n
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来自主题: GunsAndGears版 - 昨天军区活动。。。太棒了。。。
早上6:30起床收拾出发。7:20到ClarkKent兄的公园跟hiwaycruiser会合。7:31分
ClarkKent兄拉上我们一起杀奔靶场。
9:40几分,在AUV/StupidMIT/oldben之后,我们到了。在AUV的指挥下,大家交了钱,
登了记,占了旁边的手枪场地。
9:40-11:0X,我帮着登记枪支。乖乖~40只手枪。20大几条步枪。十来条霰弹。还有8-
9000发子弹。太XXX火爆了。
步枪:
灰猫的Mosin真是宝啊。机枪的barrel,门把手枪栓,carbon糊的枪身,简直就是传奇
。跟厉害的是这枪指哪儿打哪儿。papertiger和我打了一百码,再打两百码,实在是不
过瘾,连300码也打了3发。有一发还上了靶。
Marlin 1894 SS。StupidMIT的宝贝太多了。虽然我没打他的Mauser,在Marlin上的5发
相当舒服。瞄准铁靶,喀嚓,叮,喀嚓,叮,喀嚓,叮,喀嚓,叮,喀嚓,叮。。。。
这快感,手上剌开了一道都没发现。
Sig 516。这是webhero兄弟的神枪。抵肩,右手食指卡住扳机,左手握住枪管下的
forestock轻轻一推。。。子弹们... 阅读全帖
H******S
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w**d
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http://www.ncaa.com/news/football/article/2015-12-13/ohio-state
"Meyer had no patience for tact. As former Irish wideout Bobby Brown said, "
He told us, 'I don't need a bunch of 18- and 19-year-old friends.' ".... LOL
, Meyer was probably an axxhxxxx in some player's eyes. And the one below...
At one practice his first year, Meyer became enraged as a younger player
struggled to recognize the defensive coverage.
"And then we get into the meeting room and the player can't demonstrate on
the board ... 阅读全帖
b*****f
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来自主题: Pingpong版 - 终于成功调制胶水
这种纸的名字叫“Clear Transparent", brand name is Con-Tact.白色的一卷,上面
有浅绿色的格子。
我感觉用这种膜可以使胶皮在半年以内保持新鲜。它类似于粘性保护膜,可完全隔绝空
气。
r*******1
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不知你说的是单个的bump,还是蘑菇地。无论如何,共同的要领是膝盖,脚踝放松,要
辅助上身的转动去带动雪板的快速转弯。
可以参照AASI的方法:
Many riders avoid these things like a case of the Plague. I actually enjoy
them and while not nearly as good as I would like to me, I can navigate any
mogul run successfully with some of my dignity in tact. Like anything in
Snowboarding there is more than one way to deal with these things. AASI has
their method and I certainly promote it, but often a slightly amended method
actually works better for most people and I will i
S****y
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为什么送走IB,输给国米很大一部分原因就是在IB的使用不当上
http://www.zonalmarking.net/2010/04/20/inter-3-1-barcelona-tact
IB不能进一步成为先生级别不是因为球技,是因为个性,个性这东西不近距离接触球探
能看出来?
这笔买卖最后差价那么大,错不在瓜一人,再说人知错能改,赶紧割肉,第二年就拿了
两冠
还有瓜踢的不是无中锋战术,只是巴萨的中锋位置更活

高兴
h***9
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来自主题: TVGame版 - FIFA UT 的平台好像不一样阿
有。比如consist什么的,貌似
就是在有对方球员压迫的时候的表现什么的
tact aware看得见不?我不确定
你在编辑球员的那里可以看见
j**n
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来自主题: astrology版 - 处女男人
那你要珍惜哦
他们不容易爱上别人,但爱火一旦点燃会燃烧很久很久
我转个英文的处女座描述(一个超准的网站)
Actually, Virgos are deeply involved with love from earliest childhood, but
not the Romeo-Juliet kind of love. His chief way of expressing the word is
concerned with unselfish devotion to family, friends and those weaker or
more disorganized than himself. He was born with an instinctive love of work
, love of duty and discipline and devotion to the helpless. Even the
unevolved Virgo, ,who doesn't quite reach such heights, feels slightly
guilty... 阅读全帖
j**n
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Now that you know what you're in for, if you're still in love with that
Virgo man, you can look forward to a pretty contented future. You'll have a
husband who's alert and well-informed, who won't expect you to wait on him
hand and foot or expect you to run around looking sexy all the time with a
dab of perfume behind each ear and a rose in your teeth. (Although he may
expect you to go around with a cake of soap in each hand.)
Hell be reliable and pleasant, if you're tactful about his faults. He... 阅读全帖
H*H
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来自主题: astrology版 - Quiz: which Zodiac Sign are you...?
oh my god. I did not believe it at all. But the result is 100% correct! The
first one. I thought I am not a typical libra at all.
You Scored as Libra the Scales
Libra, the seventh sign of the zodiac, is concerned with: * partnership, relationships * ideas, opinions,
politics, diplomacy * music, harmony, balance, romance * tact, argument, self-control * good manners,
personal appearance * refinement, sophistication, good taste. * rational thought, ideas for social well-being
Libra the Scales
100%... 阅读全帖
x******n
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F-L
Foamflower (Tiarella cordifolia) Tiarella enjoys the cool days of fall and
may remain evergreen throughout the winter. (USDA Zones 3 - 8)
Foxglove, Perennial (Digitalis purpurea) Since perennial Foxgloves are
usually pruned back after flowering and produce a rosette of basal growth,
nothing more is needed until a light cleaning in spring. (USDA Zones 3 - 8)
Fringed Leaf Bleeding Heart (Dicentra formosa / eximia) Although the crowns
like to be high enough in the soil to be protected from damp... 阅读全帖
x******n
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M-Z
Mums (Chrysanthemum) Leave the foliage in tact to protect the plant’s crown
. All the better to let the flowers bloom well into the fall. (USDA Zones 5
- 9)
Oriental Poppy (Papaver orientale) Poppies appear to be ephemeral,
disappearing or declining after the blooms fade. However a new flush of
foliage should emerge and can be left on the plants over winter, to act as a
mulch. (USDA Zones 3 - 7)
Pincushion Flower (Scabiosa columbaria) You can remove the old flower stems,
but this plant is so... 阅读全帖
i*********t
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 晓说流行音乐
references。。
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: WebRadio
标 题: Re: 来学习波哥的讲话
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Oct 7 14:07:37 2009, 美东)
他说的原文是这篇,很长:
发信人: iamwhatieat (我吃故我在), 信区: Reader
标 题: Fascinating Fascism
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 1 02:19:18 2009, 美东)
Fascinating Fascism
by Susan Sontag
New York Review of Books
February 6, 1975
republished in:
Under the Sign of Saturn
(New York, 1980), pp. 73-105.
First Exhibit. Here is a book of 126 splendid color photographs by Leni
Riefenstahl, certainly the most ravishing book of phot... 阅读全帖
m*****n
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我推荐tobias wolff, 用一个字来讲,就是好看。 他的短故事有趣,结构非常牛逼,
文字紧凑而不深奥。他讲的大多都是当代普通美国人的故事。不过,我觉得他可能还是
算比较masculine的作者,这些故事多半也在10页以下,很容易读的哦。
bullet in the brain
http://pov.imv.au.dk/Issue_27/section_1/artc2A.html
这篇讲一个文学评论人在银行正好碰上抢劫犯,他非得跟人顶嘴结果挨了一枪。子弹进
入大脑这个事件之后,时间停滞,然后他回忆过去的事情。这篇我非常非常喜欢。
smograsbord
http://classocar.net/hhs/AdEnglish10/catcher/6Smorgrasbord.pdf
这篇讲两个寄宿学校的穷孩子,被一个富孩子和他继母邀请去吃大餐,在这个过程中失
去纯真的事情。我挺喜欢这种少年的题材。
powder
http://www.zftrans.com/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=17198
我找了一下他的中文网页,发现这篇在大学英文课本里?讲... 阅读全帖
m****7
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http://www.wikihow.com/Sing-With-Vocal-Vibrato
在这有十个步骤给整出来。
Steps
1
Soften your jaw and raise your soft palate. Hollow the inside of your mouth
while realigning the tongue on the bottom of the mouth. Hold a rounded shape
in the lips and keep the inside space of your mouth as large as possible.
Maintain a 'U' shape in the back of your throat. For many, an indication
that the soft palate is correctly raised manifests itself as excessive
yawning, for proper soft palate placement occurs naturally wh... 阅读全帖
B***i
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不好意思, 没仔细调查就开骂。 这两个人其实和哈佛没啥关系。Don B. Kates 居然
还用一个@earthlink 的信箱。 民科把。
http://www.law.harvard.edu/students/orgs/jlpp/Vol30_No2_KatesMa
* Don B. Kates (LL.B., Yale, 1966) is an American criminologist and
constitutional
lawyer associated with the Pacific Research Institute, San Francisco. He may
be con‐
tacted at d*****[email protected]; 360‐666‐2688; 22608 N.E. 269th Ave.,
Battle Ground,
WA 98604.
** Gary Mauser (Ph.D., University of California, Irvine, 1970) is a Canadian
crimi‐
nologist and unive... 阅读全帖
v*****t
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Hehe.
1. The tact that the motive to lie is there
2 The fact that government SSC benefit is based on no kid with autism.
3. The fact that no evidence of autism was provided to public even after
repeated requests.
4. The fact many other unethical / fraudulent tactics were used in this
public funding raising campaign.
5. There are others in the posts on this topic.
With above facts, I say the kid doesn't have autism, BEYOND REASONABLE DOUBT.


have
lied
S*******l
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来自主题: GenderEquality版 - 男人——真正的没安全感
PLUS,智商作为一种先天特征,如果人们不能证明女性获得这种特征的能力弱于男性,这
种女性智商的论调根本不能成立.
最能解释女性智商看似低于男性的就是REPRODUCTION(最原始/最基本 的动力).如果女
性在职场上的表现(这种表现貌似于智商相关)并不能提高她本人对异性的吸引力甚至会
削弱她的生殖吸引力如果工作已经有害于她的生殖能力的话,一个TACTFUL的女性大抵是
不会过分投入于职场角色了.对于男性,职场表现影响他作为PROVIDER成功与否,与之密
切相关的就是他能被女人们挑选成为合作伙伴的能力,结论是很明显的.
所以说,如果一位男性把男性的职业表现看成男性智商优势的话,他就要好好重新审视自
己的智力,要不然,就努力克服CONVINENT THINKING的坏毛病了.
O**J
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LZ's situation is very common in marriages: a failure to communicate.
It's very important to understand when LD complains, it is just the symptom,
not the root cause.
DON'TRY TO REASON with her. She just needs you to acknowledge her feeling.
Once you saying something like, 'you want to have the car for Monday, that'
s ok.', "you don't want me to be online as much.' she would have the
emotional release needed to calm down.
in the heat of a confrontation, it's important not to debate, discuss,
r... 阅读全帖
r*s
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来自主题: Joke版 - 这个警察没有蛋?
The Florida deputy who waited outside as a gunman targeted staff and
students at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, killing 17, was twice
nominated as the School Resource Deputy of the Year and won the award in
2014。
Deputy Scot Peterson resigned following his suspension Thursday, after being
accused of doing nothing to stop last week's massacre. An internal
investigation is pending.
One of the nominations for the deputy of the year award, written by a
supervisor in March 2017, noted that Pet... 阅读全帖
d********f
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来自主题: Joke版 - 这个警察没有蛋?
He is "dependable and reliable," a sergeant wrote, "and handles issues that
arise with tact and solid judgment."
就是倒糨糊高手。左x做了领导手下都是这种捣糨糊的。

being
the
q*******1
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I stepped out of the shower one morning to find my bath towel cut into a
series of neat strips, about 12 in all. ‘What’s happened here, Mum? I’d
called, holding the pieces up for her inspection.
‘Ask Aunt Peggy,’ she said. ‘That’s just the kind of thing she’d do.’
‘Aunt Peggy’s been dead for years,’ I replied. Mum looked at me if I’d
hit her. ‘How could you say such a thing?’ she said, tears springing to
her eyes. ‘I spoke to her only yesterday.’
That was the brutality of ignorance on my part. L... 阅读全帖
r*********n
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来自主题: Piebridge版 - 一大早我就想发飙
A few tips,
1. Find out what is right in others opinions
2. Don't be defensive
3, Be tactful with your words
4. You can not be always right, sometimes there is no absolute right or
wrong, it really depends on where you look from.
5. When you just join a group, speak less and listen more.
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No much difference.
To the one I love, I suppose I will have more patience and be more tactful
with my words and timing.
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