w******y
发帖数: 4871 | 1 俺老婆的好像比你的多，其实都是俺给她买的。当然是买俺喜欢的味道啊。和你的好像
就J'adore相同，其它的没有交集。她好像最喜欢EL的pleasure exotic,嗯，家里好像
有四瓶pleasure exotic了，有一瓶到现在还没有打开包装。 |
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K****N
发帖数: 10783 | 2 Letters from Kilkelly
http://jeffsnow.net/Kilkelly_Letters.html
In 1855 John Hunt left his family's home in Kilkelly Ireland and came to the
United States. When he left Ireland, John Hunt was 13 years old. He
settled in Maryland, found a job, got married and had children. He never
returmed to Ireland and never saw his family again.
Without cell phones and the internet, communication was with the annual
family letter. In the 1970's these letters were discovered by songwriter
Peter Jones. He wrot... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 3 这首诗我很喜欢，看看原文和几个英译：
À une passante
La rue assourdissante autour de moi hurlait.
Longue, mince, en grand deuil, douleur majestueuse,
Une femme passa, d'une main fastueuse
Soulevant, balançant le feston et l'ourlet;
Agile et noble, avec sa jambe de statue.
Moi, je buvais, crispé comme un extravagant,
Dans son oeil, ciel livide où germe l'ouragan,
La douceur qui fascine et le plaisir qui tue.
Un éclair... puis la nuit! — Fugitive beauté
Dont le regard m'a fait soudainement renaître,
N... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 4 来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 落日以前 Traditional Japan embraced sexual delights (it is not a Shinto taboo) and
men were not constrained to be faithful to their wives. The ideal wife was a
modest mother and manager of the home; by Confucian custom love had
secondary importance. For sexual enjoyment and romantic attachment, men did
not go to their wives, but to courtesans. Walled-in pleasure quarters known
as yūkaku (遊廓、遊郭?) were built in the 16th century,[7] and in 1617 the
shogunate designated "pleasure quarters", outside of which ... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Poetry 讨论区 】
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: Poetry
标 题: Khajuraho, India: Religious Eroticism
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 3 01:23:02 2013, 美东)
看silverblade写Khajuraho的诗和照片，想起以前贴过的Khajuraho图片和其他相关的
书歌影的零碎感想：
上次说好要贴印度古寺庙Khajuraho的雕塑照片。后来连带又想起来Bernini的富有争议
的St Theresa雕塑，想起来小说《Da Vinci Code》和电影《Eyes Wide Shut》里面的
密教组织涉及eroticism的宗教仪式的镜头，还想起来enigma演唱组最早那盒专辑里的
主打歌曲，也涉及religious eroticism。
先贴Khajuraho——印度中部一寺庙，建于9-12世纪之间，其雕塑以eroticism著称。
画册为《Khajuraho》：Photographs by Raghu Rai, text by Louis Frédéric,
1992, ... 阅读全帖 |
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g**s
发帖数: 512 | 6 快到七夕了，她说要快乐，简简单单的就好：）
然而快乐是什么？我们从学校里学到，快乐是一种相对高级的心理活动。低等动物是不
知道快乐的，有人说鱼在水里游来游去，看起来很快乐啊？那只是一种假象罢了，你又
不是鱼你怎么知道它们很快乐？于是一小部分伪素食主意者就开始允许自己吃鱼，因为
鱼不知道快乐，应该也不知道痛苦。据说龙虾就是没有痛觉神经的，西式焗龙虾通常先
把活龙虾直接放到锅里蒸熟。但龙虾没有痛觉，不知道痛，所以这是没有关系的，吃它
们没有什么罪过。。。
不管你信不信鱼儿快不快乐，龙虾有没有痛苦，你得承认小孩子刚生下来是不会笑的，
他们只会哭。那么这是一个有力的证据说明快乐是一种相对高级的心理活动。人不是天
生下来就会快乐的，学会笑学会快乐需要一段时间，这并不一定很简单。可是人们还是
常说简单就会快乐，这似乎听起来也很有道理。就算快乐本身并不简单，你变复杂了就
一定不快乐。那么快乐究竟是什么？没有快乐又有什么了不起？
英文里，快乐有两层含义：一层是hedonia (pleasure)，一层是eudaimonia (
satisfaction)。前者通过大脑释放多巴胺刺激情绪中枢获得，而后者... 阅读全帖 |
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R******k
发帖数: 4756 | 7 据说创作力强的人（AKA 文青）容易得抑郁症。
"There has been a continuing discussion of whether neurological disorders
and mood disorders may be linked to creativity, a discussion that goes back
to Aristotelian times.[300][301] British literature gives many examples of
reflections on depression.[302] English philosopher John Stuart Mill
experienced a several-months-long period of what he called "a dull state of
nerves", when one is "unsusceptible to enjoyment or pleasurable excitement;
one of those moods when what i... 阅读全帖 |
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e***e
发帖数: 3872 | 8 赞阅读和翻译！
就王尔德和他的这本小说，New Yorker的这篇文章颇值得一读：
http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2011/08/08/deceptive-picture
我认为这部小说，更多的是呈现了一种哲学的两难，甚于作出一种伦理／美学的论断。
1891年小说以单行本出版时，王尔德在序言中写道：
There is no such thing as a moral or an immoral book. Books are well written
, or badly written. That is all.
The nineteenth century dislike of realism is the rage of Caliban seeing his
own face in a glass.
The nineteenth century dislike of romanticism is the rage of Caliban not
seeing his own face in a glass.
The moral life of ... 阅读全帖 |
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 9 首先，请允许我冒昧地复述一个关于汉语方言的猥琐谜语：有个一辈子没和女人睡过觉
的老头临死前说了四个字，打一英国作家名。谜底是：莎士比亚。
你秒懂了？没错，这个段子是在暗指女人的那话儿。如果搁在以前，我大概也会像很多
爱好文学的年轻人一样，认为这个段子玷污了莎翁。但并非如此，若是能有机会把这个
段子当面讲给莎翁——假设他很懂汉语，他必定会心一笑，可能还要热心指点你，如何
将荤段子玩得更得心应手。因为，他正是这个领域的好把式。
如果你从没琢磨过莎士比亚台词和诗句里的隐喻，会觉得我这么说有点对诗人大不敬。
对于阅读中文版剧作长大的一代人，莎士比亚可能是深沉的、热情的、快乐的。与他同
时代剧作家本·琼森曾经称赞他为“时代的灵魂”，并为衷情献诗：“我的不列颠，你
有一个值得夸耀的臣民，全欧洲的舞台都应向他表示尊敬。他不属于一个时代，而是属
于所有的时代！”莎士比亚和他的戏剧被一代又一代文学史家和大众粉丝奉上了至高无
上的圣坛，被冠以“民族诗人”的殊荣。他的德国粉丝歌德在一篇莎士比亚纪念辞中曾
毫不掩饰地表白：“我读到他的第一页，就使我这一生都属于了他；当我首次读完他的
一部作品时，我觉得好像原来... 阅读全帖 |
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D******D
发帖数: 1022 | 10 for visual the last row, middle seats are best
for sound row 3or4 from the back are best
most people prefer more visual pleasure then sound pleasure |
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l***a
发帖数: 5114 | 12 是啊是啊，我也很喜欢jeff wall
最近我好喜欢laura letinsky
贴一个她的访谈：
http://www.aperture.org/blog/interview-with-laura-letinsky/
这个是从wiki那里扒下来的。。。。。 （我越发觉得静物摆拍的话，想表达什么一定
要事先有鲜明的企图心，没有想法的话，练也白练。但是养成自己的观点、思路、是多
么难啊。。。 ：{ ）
A recent exhibition of her work includes the following artist statement:
"Still life is unavoidably an engagement with and commentary upon society’s
material-mindedness. Laura Letinsky’s photographs of forgotten details
such as wrapping paper, plastic containers, Styrofoam cups, cans, leftover
f... 阅读全帖 |
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n*********n
发帖数: 5605 | 13 网上抄来的
It is a physical need, like sleeping or eating, or breathing. For a healthy
male, regular release of the prostate fluid is necessary to maintain good
prostate health.
Orgasm (ejaculation) is much like eating. One of the most pleasurable
necessities of life! (OK. You may rate this pleasure above eating!) |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 14 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
maomaocong (linyun) 于 (Fri Apr 12 11:42:35 2013, 美东) 提到:
一抓一个准
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CleverBeaver (Clever Beaver) 于 (Fri Apr 12 11:48:07 2013, 美东) 提到:
我猜我猜我猜猜猜一下，是不是有个圈子，只要其中一人搞活动，其他的都要来声援一
下?
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airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌) 于 (Fri Apr 12 11:50:11 2013, 美东) 提到:
她列出了所有参加活动的20个华人公益机构，没有任何的倾向性 （除了倾向于华人机
构之外），这有什么问题吗？
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publix (where shopping is a plea... 阅读全帖 |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 15 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
maomaocong (linyun) 于 (Fri Apr 12 12:05:12 2013, 美东) 提到:
巨额善款帐目不清，卷款跑路的慈善专业户现在也出来挺康妈
好热闹
发信人: goodlaok (神气活现的老K), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: Re: 康妈事件就是慈善专业户们和穷吊丝的火拼
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Apr 12 12:01:20 2013, 美东)
你是说我是OSCCF的骨干么？那我正式答复你一下，我是旧OSCCF现A Life A Time的支
持者，那篇新旧OSCCF双子案的调查报告就我写的。至于支持者是否等于骨干，你随便
定义。
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publix (where shopping is a pleasure) 于 (Fri Apr 12 12:06:02 2013, 美东) 提到:
理直气壮的OSCCF的支持者！赞一下
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n**e
发帖数: 2026 | 16 张纯如精神障碍的正式诊断是抑郁症。根据美国精神病诊断权威标准DSM-5（附件1），
抑郁症是没有妄想表现的。也就是说，如果一个人被诊断为抑郁症，就不应该有妄想表
现。如果一个人有妄想表现，就不应该诊断为抑郁症。
那么确诊为抑郁症的病人是否可以出现妄想呢？回答是肯定的。但是，当一个抑郁症病
人出现妄想症状，原来的“抑郁症”就不再适用于病人。这种情况下就要改变诊断为“
精神病性抑郁症”。这种病人往往同时会出现幻觉症状。相应的治疗和保护措施也要作
出改变。相关学术依据见附件2。
有些人说张纯如有精神病。所谓的日本右翼极端势力对她不断发出暴力威胁其实是她的
妄想。起码从医生给她的正式诊断来看，张纯如没有妄想症状。
附件1 ：Criteria for Major Depressive Episode: DSM-5
A. Five (or more) of the following symptoms have been present during the
same 2-week period and represent a change from previous functioning; a... 阅读全帖 |
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b********e
发帖数: 431 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: byebyetime (再见 时间), 信区: Military
标 题: 500张史上最伟大的音乐专辑，菌斑将军听过几张？我估计一张算多的了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 25 23:48:23 2015, 美东)
01. The Smiths – The Queen Is Dead
02. The Beatles – Revolver
03. David Bowie – Hunky Dory
04. The Strokes – Is This It
05. The Velvet Underground – The Velvet Underground & Nico
06. Pulp – Different Class
07. The Stone Roses – The Stone Roses
08. Pixies – Doolittle
09. The Beatles – The Beatles
10. Oasis – Definitely Maybe
11. Nirvana – Nevermind
1... 阅读全帖 |
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n****n
发帖数: 492 | 18 The peasant celebrates with song and dance
The pleasure of the rich harvest,
And full of the liquor of Bacchus
They finish their merrymaking with a sleep.
All are made to leave off singing and dancing
By the air which now mild gives pleasure
And by the season which invites many
To enjoy a sweet sleep.
At dawn the hunters
With horns and guns and dogs leave their homes.
The beast flees; they follow its trace.
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c****e
发帖数: 20 | 19 but i've never heard people say "my pleasure" in responding thanks, though
that's what we've learned in china... my pleasure, ummm... feels like a
waiter. :P
anyway, you are welcome, sure, no problem are more commonly used and safe. |
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t*********e
发帖数: 1136 | 20 强身。
悉尼大学科学家Anthony Santella发文承认自撸强身。男防前列腺癌。女防尿道炎宫颈
炎。预防膀胱炎，糖尿病。增强免疫力。降血压，减少忧郁，增强自信。
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2518802/Masturbation-
Anthony Santella, a public health scientist at the University of Sydney and
his colleague Spring Chenoa Cooper, a senior lecturer, say self-pleasuring
can ward off a host of illnesses, from cystitis, diabetes to prostate cancer.
They say that 94 per cent of men admit to masturbating, as do 85 per cent of
women - and that it's something even babies d... 阅读全帖 |
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z***i
发帖数: 8285 | 21 小撸怡情，大撸强身？
强身。
悉尼大学科学家Anthony Santella发文承认自撸强身。男防前列腺癌。女防尿道炎宫颈
炎。预防膀胱炎，糖尿病。增强免疫力。降血压，减少忧郁，增强自信。
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2518802/Masturbation-
Anthony Santella, a public health scientist at the University of Sydney and
his colleague Spring Chenoa Cooper, a senior lecturer, say self-pleasuring
can ward off a host of illnesses, from cystitis, diabetes to prostate cancer.
They say that 94 per cent of men admit to masturbating, as do 85 per cent of
women - and that it's something ev... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 22 By the definition in Webster dictionary, here it goes
1. the quality or aggregate of qualities in a person or thing that gives
pleasure to the senses or pleasurably exalts the mind or spirit
2. a beautiful person or thing; especially : a beautiful woman
3. a particularly graceful, ornamental, or excellent quality
4. a brilliant, extreme, or egregious example or instance
a beauty>
Synonyms: aesthetics, attractiveness, beauteousness, beautifulness,
comeliness, cuteness, fairness,... 阅读全帖 |
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L**********t
发帖数: 58 | 23
the purpose of having pleasure
woman did the same, especially
对待ONS的态度我觉得跟性别关系不大，完全在于对sexual pleasure独立存在本身的看
法，这个在性别上确实有偏差。很多人debate这是否真的只是biological差异还是文化
约束，没有定论。无可否认男人会对女人追求纯粹的性愉悦感到被intimidated。女人
之间还是少点judgment吧。 |
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R*****G
发帖数: 1665 | 24 我觉得爱情真是一件奇怪的事儿。--------相爱的人将自己最柔软的部分彼此相示，
于是不再有退路。
呼啸山庄说到爱情：My love for Heathcliff resembles the eternal rocks beneath
a source of little visible delight, but necessary. Nelly, I am Heathcliff!
He's always, always in my mind: not as a pleasure, any more than I am always
a pleasure to myself, but as my own being。
另外，看到那些花里胡哨的所谓爱情，就觉得这个说得不错： If he loved you with
all the power of his soul for a whole lifetime, he couldn’t love you as
much as I do in a single day
当年轻的激情退却，爱情会褪去情欲的阴翳，呈现其岩石本质。--------... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1938 | 25 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
woshixiaogou (woshixiaogou) 于 (Wed Nov 10 09:30:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
有家庭后，就不再是为自己一个人活了，不可能再沉溺于自己喜欢做的事情中了。——
自私的、喜欢享受生活的人要先为自己活，腻了，准备settle down了，才应该结婚，
不然会觉得很亏，心理一旦不平衡，对自己对他人都不好。
主要难关有三点：
1. 父母的压力：我是这样处理的，多和他们沟通，告诉他们，婚姻并非会给每个人都
带来幸福。举一些身边真实的亲戚朋友的反面例子：最后如果离婚，还不如单身会经历
那么多伤害。多向他们展示自己现在快乐的生活！
2. 孤单：想通过婚姻来逃避孤单本身就是错误的！研究显示男人在结婚后更孤单（具
体数据我懒得找了），如果你是个loner，结婚后一样还是个loner。真正解决孤单的方
法是多交朋友，培养健康的心态。我忘了哪本心理学教材有专门一章讲孤单的。
3. 性：这个可以通过找男女朋友解决——但是一开始就要告诉对方，自己不想settle
down，这... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 315 | 26 She's showing affection. Some cats nip and also knead (blankets or laps) as
a sign of contentment and pleasure. Both behaviors stem from interactions
with their mother as kittens.
When a kitten is feeding from her mother, she will knead the teat to
stimulate milk flow. She will also suck and nip the nipple. While feeding
her kits, a mother will usually purr. This associates purring with
contentment and pleasure. It also associates kneading and nipping with those
same emotions.
簡而言之,就是你的貓親你到無以復加,... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 496 | 27 每天包办家务，老公还不给办身份的家庭妇女，还有征婚的女同胞们，尤其注意了哦！
英国封建社会的一个女人尚且能有这样的思想，写出这样的文章。而在现代民主的美国
，我们受过的教育胜她百倍，还不能为女权站起来做些力所能及的事情吗？
AFTER considering the historic page, and viewing the living world with
anxious solicitude, the most melancholy emotions of sorrowful indignation
have depressed my spirits, and I have sighed when obliged to confess, that
either nature has made a great difference between man and man, or that the
civilization which has hitherto taken place in the world has been very
partial. I have turned... 阅读全帖 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 28 【 以下文字转载自 Poetry 讨论区 】
发信人: wh (wh), 信区: Poetry
标 题: Khajuraho, India: Religious Eroticism
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 3 01:23:02 2013, 美东)
看silverblade写Khajuraho的诗和照片，想起以前贴过的Khajuraho图片和其他相关的
书歌影的零碎感想：
上次说好要贴印度古寺庙Khajuraho的雕塑照片。后来连带又想起来Bernini的富有争议
的St Theresa雕塑，想起来小说《Da Vinci Code》和电影《Eyes Wide Shut》里面的
密教组织涉及eroticism的宗教仪式的镜头，还想起来enigma演唱组最早那盒专辑里的
主打歌曲，也涉及religious eroticism。
先贴Khajuraho——印度中部一寺庙，建于9-12世纪之间，其雕塑以eroticism著称。
画册为《Khajuraho》：Photographs by Raghu Rai, text by Louis Frédéric,
1992, ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 29 【 以下文字转载自 TrustInJesus 讨论区 】
发信人: JasonYang (Jason), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: Re: 有关世间的苦难
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Aug 11 21:53:44 2013, 美东)
从基督教的角度讲，到底什么是Justice？上帝给了以色列人摩西法典，守法的上帝会
保佑他们，凡是违法的上帝都要惩罚。但是上帝在惩罚罪人时并不好受。
Ezekiel 33:11
11Say to them, As I live, declares the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the
death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live; turn
back, turn back from your evil ways, for why will you die, O house of Israel?
以 西 結 書 33:11
11 你 对 他 们 说 ， 主 耶 和 华 说 ： 我 指 着 我 的... 阅读全帖 |
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F**D
发帖数: 6472 | 30 【 以下文字转载自 Sex 讨论区 】
发信人: mmjjoo10 (L.H.O.O.Q.), 信区: Sex
标 题: Re: 大家谈谈吧，和女人在一起的时候，有哪些困难或疑惑的场景
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 30 04:10:51 2011, 美东)
Woman like water, often flow aimlessly. She likes to be followed, not
contained, to be supported, not lectured, to be guided, not directed. It is
a balance act for man. she enjoys aimlessly flow, yet always wishes a place
come back to, where love is. If all woman wants is love, often love makes
woman miserable.
Through her vagina, man can reach her heart. bu... 阅读全帖 |
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