f********m
发帖数: 8405 | 1 http://alittlenudge.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/dont-work-be-hated
Don’t Work. Be Hated. Love Someone
*I didn’t write any of this…took it from my friend’s blog. It’s
amazingly sharp. Please read till the end!
Written by Adrian Tan, author of The Teenage Textbook (1988), was the guest-
of-honour at a recent NTU convocation ceremony. This was his speech to the
graduating class of 2008.
—–
I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of
Communication and Information for invi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 30 | 2
你个小屁孩， 给你扫扫盲：
C/P
Horrifying details heard in Williams murders
BELLEVILLE, Ont. - Whether his victims fought him off or complied with every
perverted command he gave them, convicted sex killer Col. Russell Williams
showed no mercy to the two women who begged for their lives before he
brutally murdered them, court heard Tuesday.
WARNING: Graphic details from this court case may disturb some readers.
Williams, 47, sat silent, his head bowed low as the Crown laid out the
gruesome final hours of Cp... 阅读全帖 |
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V*****n
发帖数: 893 | 3 men live for toys, there is no doubt about it. not sure why, but boys just
have a thing for things, no mater he is happily married or lonely depressed!
There have always been toys we dream for, silly or not, we all have that
obsession for something special. it does change from time to time. but a
history of dreams and obsessions is almost a good part of a man's life. so
here is my short history:
1. college, a fast PC. good for games! I have always had pretty good PCs and
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V*****n
发帖数: 893 | 4 first of all, I don't think there is anything wrong to be obsessed with
equipments (cameras or else), if one is aware of that. whether or not I can
make sense of other people's obsession is a different story. But if they are
happy, that's good enough for me.
for music, I have pretty high standard and particular taste. and I fully
understand that requires more cash, which is acceptable. But hifi is quite
different from photography. hifi is pure enjoyment/luxury. how much you can
enjoy is much cor |
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w********6
发帖数: 12977 | 5 You certainly have made your point in the difference between hifi and photography
.
however, I still believe, at least for many people in HiFi board, people get
more obsessed with equipment than really spending time enjoying them.
I was once obsessed with classic music, and even after many years of totally
out of touch (too busy, and my wife hate classic music), I can tell what is
being played instantly once I tuned to classic music FM in my car. With
very poor equipment, mostly a walkman, I enj |
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V*****n
发帖数: 893 | 6 I will have to wait on the LP thing. Right now I am pretty much settled with
what I have. I might consider a pretty nice amp next spring. But that's
about it for a while. Money will be mostly devoted to CDs.
My obsession with hifi is rather an obsession with speakers. The reason I am
spending some much time on hifi/speakers is I want to know what kind of
sound I want. aside from resolution and imaging like everyone else, I have
strong desire for deep, clean, and more importantly, fast bass. And |
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g**********r
发帖数: 1654 | 7 【 以下文字转载自 Tri 讨论区 】
发信人: gldretriever (金色寻回犬), 信区: Tri
标 题: 器材控请进--尤其是版大，别东张西望，说你呢！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 13 04:17:12 2012, 美东)
On behalf of serendip. I also read this article a couple of days ago. When I
read it, I cannot stop thinking about 版大. =D
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Stripping Down
by Chrissie Wellington
http://www.chrissiewellington.org/blog/stripping-down/
I first wrote this blog for 220 Magazine, but thought i would share it with
those... 阅读全帖 |
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h******r
发帖数: 1578 | 8 http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/plano/headlines/2
By MATTHEW WATKINS
MATTHEW WATKINS The Dallas Morning News Staff Writer
m******[email protected]
Published: 31 December 2012 11:19 PM
On the night after Christmas, dozens of kids gathered to play pingpong in
dimly lit gyms behind two separate Plano strip centers.
Most of them were smiling and laughing as they sweated and swung their
paddles, sending little orange balls all over the hardwood floors. But these
weren’t basement warriors... 阅读全帖 |
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j***y
发帖数: 5098 | 9 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
dash2000 (DASH) 于 (Fri Mar 8 15:34:55 2013, 美东) 提到:
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=341&id=1352885&page=1&
1674楼 开始说起偶的。恳求公主贴偶写的追着骂的信，让偶也看看眼界。
以下是引用Gilda在1/9/2013 4:02:00 PM的发言：
我塞，真不想说了。其实不是你想象那样。他疯了。。。。人前是乖大叔，人后是疯狗
。事情过去了，还给我写信追着骂，我不理他，他不停写。。。我是真怕他想太多，哪
天被谋杀才走的。。。。人都不是那么简单的。有些人又obsession
你千万别招他！！！我怕死他了！！！
我混论坛这么多年，骂我的人很多，讨厌我的也不少。只要精神正常，我都觉得OK，哪
儿有人是人人喜欢的呢？我啥时候因为被骂，走了呢？
这叔叔让我第一次感觉“瘆的慌”。。。。不寒而栗。
我在ｍｉｔ也不敢说真相。他在人前装乖大叔能力很强，谁也不知道他精神这么不ｓｔ
ａｂｌｅ。。。... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 239 | 10 When the board are obsessed with money, when the manager is obsessed with
horse racing and personal status, it's inevitable the team will be down.
When the plc proudly announced the record-breaking profit, they probably
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F********t
发帖数: 962 | 11 SPT!
Mou: "A dream is purer than an obsession. There is pride in a dream,
anywhere in the world."
Do not get obsessed. Instead, let's dream with pride!! Be cool, and be
together with our team for enjoying this big dream.
让人
望国
了）
继续 |
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M********d
发帖数: 5274 | 12 表面上看，坎司令被穆里尼奥的一整套权谋布局之下打成了翔，然后在忐忑不安中等着
他蓄气来个大招，结果在穆里尼奥的大度豪爽之下感激莫名，纳头便拜，从此烤肉帮和
穆里尼奥过上了幸福快乐的生活，顺便拿下了三冠王。
事情并不只是这样。
正如穆里尼奥在对巴萨的欧冠半决赛第二回合前所言:
we want to follow the dream.
but one thing is to follow the dream, another thing is to follow an
obsession
a dream is purer than an obsession
穆里尼奥的梦是什么?
成为国际米兰历史中独一无二的存在
坎司令是不是也有这样的梦?
退役后，你们都会获得一种值得夸耀的资格。几十年后，当你坐在炉壁边，孙子坐在你
的膝盖上，问你，爷爷，0910赛季你在干什么呢?你不用尴尬的咳嗽一声，把孙子移到
另一个膝盖上，吞吞吐吐的说，额……爷爷，当时在皮内蒂纳烤肉，相反，你可以理直
气壮的看着他，大声的说，爷爷我当时在斯坦福桥，在诺坎普，在伯纳屋，和tmd穆里
尼奥并肩作战!!!!!
如是而已。
顶... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 852 | 13 正如穆里尼奥在对巴萨的欧冠半决赛第二回合前所言:
we want to follow the dream.
but one thing is to follow the dream, another thing is to follow an
obsession
a dream is purer than an obsession
穆里尼奥的梦是什么?
成为国际米兰历史中独一无二的存在
坎司令是不是也有这样的梦?
退役后，你们都会获得一种值得夸耀的资格。几十年后，当你坐在炉壁边，孙子坐在你
的膝盖上，问你，爷爷，0910赛季你在干什么呢?你不用尴尬的咳嗽一声，把孙子移到
另一个膝盖上，吞吞吐吐的说，额……爷爷，当时在皮内蒂纳烤肉，相反，你可以理直
气壮的看着他，大声的说，爷爷我当时在斯坦福桥，在诺坎普，在伯纳屋，和tmd穆里
尼奥并肩作战!!!!!
如是而已。
顶级的权谋，能带来绝对屈服，但只有真诚的热血，才能换来甘愿效死。
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w**a
发帖数: 3510 | 14 by Pete Bodo from tennis.com
Some of you may take this as yet another post having to do with the recent
controversies in Madrid, but I tell you truthfully that I've been wanting to
write about Rafael Nadal for some time now. More specifically, I've wanted
to work through why I don't feel as sympathetic toward him as I once did. A
thought that occurred to me a few days ago, during the height of the
brouhaha over blue, probably holds to key to why my reaction to his opinions
and complaints over th... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******t
发帖数: 2896 | 15 可是某人特别obsessed on球重，就像我obsessed on随便写公式，教别人物理一样。 |
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s****t
发帖数: 17096 | 16 Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder in which people
have unwanted and repeated thoughts, feelings, ideas, sensations (obsessions
), or behaviors that make them feel driven to do something (compulsions). |
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A********y
发帖数: 1649 | 17 果然是冥7的，给你找了一段网上的：
With Pluto in the seventh house of the horoscope, power struggles in close
personal relationships are themes. This can play out in a variety of ways.
You might simultaneously fear and desire complete absorption in a close one-
to-one relationship. You might find yourself both drawn to and resistant of
close partnerships, fearing loss of control over your own life. You might be
drawn to people who are intense, jealous, possessive, or obsessive, or
possibly who you feel are power... 阅读全帖 |
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p**s
发帖数: 788 | 18 December 16, 2004
London 2:20am
All of us have our faults. Unfortunately for me millions of viewers are
getting to see mine each week. I do not abuse Victoria,
what you see is a heighten version of stress and obsession mix with medication
for a sickness called Sarcoidosis. What was stared as a publicity stunt turn
in to an obsession to race and be first at any cost. This is a GAME and I set
out to be the Villain to others not to Victoria. Victoria and I are working on
our relationship to better |
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r********m
发帖数: 593 | 19 Burberry 图1
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Omnia Green Jade Both shower gel
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Price 2.00
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图1
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b*********s
发帖数: 5382 | 21 seriously, I see no one more obsessive about losing weight than you on this
board. no one can help you on getting rid of this obsession but yourself. |
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d*******9
发帖数: 1987 | 22 嗯，同意，这个love肯定是这样了，一定要包容的，但是如果已经知道缺点了并受到巨
大创伤，仍旧很obsessive的状态，是love还是obsession呢？ |
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p*********l
发帖数: 26270 | 23 right. obsession has an element of possesiveness. stalkers have obsession,
not love. |
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n****b
发帖数: 744 | 24 Chosen Women Choosing Chinese Men
A tradition of love?
by Jocelyn Eikenburg
Are you Jewish?" I am asked. This is not new to me. I hear this all the time
because my last name ends in "burg," a common Jewish suffix.
So I wasn't surprised when I heard it from Arnold, a new friend of mine from
the local gym in Cleveland Heights, Ohio. He knew my last name because I
had handed him my business card weeks before. And he was, after all, as bold
as the espresso in the coffee shop where I met him.
When he... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 141625 | 25 不当真就不是obsession，通常异军突起的都有obsession，哈哈。 |
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发帖数: 1 | 26 我这个贴子是有感而发，过去3个礼拜我的心被仇恨吞噬。被仇恨twisted 的mind 是很
悲惨的。我想，只有过得更好才能真正能让自己忘记仇恨。很多年以前，我曾以为我会
恨死一个人，没有想到出国后换了环境，完全就忘了。
这种对某事obsessive的状态很常见，对爱情，信仰，事业，仇恨，都有可能obsessive
... |
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o****o
发帖数: 423 | 27 Side Effects, suspense&drama, 8/10 (85% on RT)
The official trailer turned out to be concealing and misleading: A
psychiatrist (Law), prescribed a new antidepressant drug to a young patient
(Mara, the fierce Dragon girl), who apparently had a sweet lover. It looks
like despise of his family, Law developed the intimacy beyond the legal
relationship between him and the attractive, vulnerable patient. And there
was a murder, there was conspiracy, there was devastation, and there was
punishment.
So ... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****e
发帖数: 14299 | 28 Alex Webb 教你十招：
http://erickimphotography.com/blog/2012/04/10-things-alex-webb-
1. Layer your photographs
2. Fill the frame
3. Walk… a lot
“I only know how to approach a place by walking. For what does a street
photographer do but walk and watch and wait and talk, and then watch and
wait some more, trying to remain confident that the unexpected, the unknown,
or the secret heart of the known awaits just around the corner.” – Alex
Webb
4. Look for the light
5. Realize 99.9% of street photography i... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****e
发帖数: 22013 | 29 有很多共同之处啊，
Alex Webb
Martin Parr
2. Fill the frame
7. Get Close
5. Realize 99.9% of street photography is failure
5. It is rare that you take a good photo
6. Work on projects
1. Focus on sets, not individual images
7. If you are stuck, try something new
4. Think outside the box
8. Follow your obsession
3. Be obsessive.
unknown, |
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h*k
发帖数: 520 | 30 hmm...I don't see they are "obsessed"
there are also a lot of people got "obsessed" by politics or racism like many people
here. |
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f*********e
发帖数: 3037 | 31 from 20-35 people tend to obsess over intimate relationships,
from 35-45 people obsess over family and social responsibilities, and
nurturing the offspring(s).
this has nothing to do with the outcome, just respective concern at certain
life stage. |
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v****e
发帖数: 276 | 32 【 以下文字转载自 ebiz 讨论区 】
发信人: Visame (Visame.Org), 信区: ebiz
标 题: CNBC纪录片：Ebay传奇
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 23 02:56:54 2010, 美东)
发信人: Visame (Visame.Org), 信区: Apple
标 题: CNBC纪录片：Ebay传奇
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 23 02:56:41 2010, 美东)
The.eBay.Effect.Inside.a.Worldwide.Obsession
下载链接：
http://www.fileserve.com/file/KMgfH3C/The.eBay.Effect.Inside.a.Worldwide.Obs
ession.PDTV.XviD.avi
A CNBC Original Documentary
The eBay Effect - Inside a Worldwide Obsession is the latest production from
the Peabody Award wi |
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H******e
发帖数: 281 | 33 我们刚刚开始交往。他是一所名校的AP，我们是工作中认识的，所以我对他的组里25+
人个个都很熟悉。其中一个女孩technician（22岁）我让我感到非常别扭，以致想放弃
和他交往了。她是一个马来西亚华裔移民过来的后裔，非常瘦小，像个纸人，说话细声
细气的，但是我觉得她非常有心机。
就两点：这个女孩对他有obsession，有次甚至穿着露出了大半个背部的衣服去和他1-
1meeting。就这两点对我来说已经够了。我感到非常难受。还有她平常说话就让人觉得
她把自己当做future Ms. XXXX。她的合同5月底结束了。可是他告诉我这个女孩会呆到
8月底。9月份开始去上硕士课两年，这两年也不是完全离开。两年之后还会回来全职工
作。
我告诉他我怎么想。他说这个女孩的想法会变的，她对他的着迷只是一个16岁孩子对一
个rock star的着迷。可我不这样认为。我觉得这个女孩很难找到男朋友结婚，她只会
迷恋那些成熟的男人，也没有什么strong moral bottom line。不会管这些男人是否有
主。他说手下有30个人，如果他的threshold那么低，感受那么多的事情，那么他每天
都会被... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 978 | 34 有厚道的外国友人指出:
didn't need to tell us it was asian. only an asian woman can be this much of
an obsessive clinger srs. asian women are obsessed with white males.
this life is a cruel joke for asian males srs.
Miami |
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B********e
发帖数: 19317 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: chiwawa (土豆炖牛肉), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 不要给你孩子起这些名字！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jun 9 13:27:13 2010, 美东)
Mom, sometime you are stressed too much. It's time for a break and a
little laugh. Here's a note to say I hope your day is great ... and a
joke to make you smile!
A psychiatrist was conducting a group therapy session with four young
mothers and their small children. "You all have obsessions," he
observed.
To the first mother, Mary, he said, "You are obsessed with eat |
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H********g
发帖数: 43926 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: paodekuai (dfs), 信区: Military
标 题: 长知识了，心理障碍原来有这么多分类
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Dec 29 13:10:19 2017, 美东)
A
精神失常（Aberration）
急性应激障碍（Acute stress disorder）
适应障碍（Adjustment disorder）
情感性精神病（Affective disorder ）
广场恐惧症（Agoraphobia ）
酗酒 和药物滥用（Alcoholism and substance abuse ）
酒精和药物依赖（alcohol and substance dependence ）
失忆症（Amnesia）
惧高症（Acrophobia）
焦虑症（Anxiety disorder）
心因性厌食症（Anorexia nervosa）
反社会人格障碍（Antisocial personality disorder）
亚斯伯格症候群（Asperger syndrome）
注意力不足症（Attention d... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 37 发现我有但不限于以下病症
急性应激障碍（Acute stress disorder）
适应障碍（Adjustment disorder）
情感性精神病（Affective disorder ）
失忆症（Amnesia）
惧高症（Acrophobia）
焦虑症（Anxiety disorder）
注意力不足症（Attention deficit disorder）
注意力不足过动症（Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder）
自闭症（Autism）
逃避性人格障碍（Avoidant personality disorder）
性癔病（Conversion hysteria）
抑郁症（Depression）
失智症 （Dementia）
文字表达障碍（Disorder of written expression）
性欲减退（Hypoactive sexual desire disorder）
强迫症（Obsessive-compulsive disorder）
强迫性人格障碍（Obsessive-compulsive personality diso... 阅读全帖 |
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e*****s
发帖数: 7359 | 38 Those not confident about their soul seek to hide their shallowness under a
better appearance. but they never know that the beauty of women, or the look
of a man, never presents with just geometrical perfectness of parts of
their body or their ratios, but instead sparkles from confident and focused
eyes, gushes through the elegance of gestures and movements , and most
important, transmit with kindness and consideration to others.
Top 10 countries obsessed with plastic surgery:
In 2011, 3... 阅读全帖 |
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b******a
发帖数: 12216 | 39 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
jjwwmm (Dancer) 于 h 提到:
本人住在boston fenway地区，最近要搬家到外州，条件所限，猫猫无法随身带走。
女猫很可爱，很懂事，很干净（沙盆使用1岁前就train好了，从来没有任何问题），已
经养了4年多，现在接近6岁，每年的所有疫苗全部定期去兽医打过，今年的疫苗全部在
上个月打过了，所有都有证书证明。吃东西不挑食，science diet for sensitive
stomach，是我长期喂的。但是她不挑。很少给她吃零食，她也不闹。 非常乖，从不吵
闹，很安静，也可以玩，会fetch小老鼠玩具，很聪明。因为条件限制不能把她带走，
其实本人非常非常的伤心，希望给猫猫找个有爱心的，负责任的，善良的好主人。谢谢。
如果有意的，请迅速站内联系，必须月底我走之前把猫猫处理好。谢谢。
现在剩下的猫粮，猫沙，玩具，她吃东西的家伙，洗澡的shampoo，洗澡的工具，剪指
甲的工具，等等，一并赠送。谢谢。
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w***m
发帖数: 10498 | 40 谢谢，两位，见解可谓真知。当时，我的老师也说，要看是不是obsessive不是gpa，一
种attitude or characteristic，就是nature obsession。就是，我们中国话说的是不
是会痴迷，能不能坐得住。我们弄工程的不一样，做一件事有时要花10多小时，坐不住
可不行。 |
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