Y********d 发帖数: 1478 | 1
meaningful是这个问题的关键之一。
我记得潮水家的大娃比我娃大概要大十岁左右。但是想到昨天两个小事情,我尝试put
myself into his shoes:
一个是上午带娃去书店,我挑了几本觉得很有意思的书,娃瞄了一眼,直接合上书,说
,妈妈,不要不要,我不喜欢,你给我讲这本。我一看,是Pip and Posy: The Super
Scooter,也是不错的书。于是当场我就讲那个故事了,讲完之后就试图引导娃看看其
他书。谁知道,她对其他书完全没有兴趣,要我一遍又一遍的反复讲那个故事。我大概
前后讲了五六遍,一直在想What's the meaning of the story? There are so many
other meaningful stories, why don't you try them? 但是显然,在那一刻,那个故
事对娃而言就是 most meaningful。那能怎么办呢?最后我就把那本书买了,连同我认
为的meaningful的其他几本书。Such is life!
二是晚上临睡前和娃的对话。她照例要把一天发生的有趣的事情讲一遍。但是昨晚突... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r 发帖数: 22634 | 2 也就是说,快乐但不是傻乐?
这个 meaningful happiness,好像能把很多矛盾,都在战略高度给了解决方向?(当然
具体战术还是要看具体情况)。
当然,各位家里的领导也可能更看重 academic excellence。不过 academic
excellence 和 meaningful happiness 这本质不矛盾,关键是不要过犹不及。我觉得
正好可以看着各家领导的倾向而平衡一下。 |
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C*****d 发帖数: 2253 | 3 meaningful不meaningful, 也不是你说了算的啊。 |
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t*******r 发帖数: 22634 | 4 这世界名著话题的代沟太大,不继续讨论世界名著话题了。
俺还是 better safe than sorry,遵循初中 language art 老师避免过多越级阅读
fiction 的一般建议 (至少娃是这么说的)。
当然,各家娃都不一样,不必强求一致。自家开心就好。
总之 meaningful happiness 不强求名著,只需要对自家是 meaningful interesting
的。 |
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n****o 发帖数: 1167 | 5 The attorney ask for "Statement of Meaningful Employment" for H1B
transfering, anybody knows what is this thing? I never provided this
statement to my current employer when they file my H1B two years ago.
(The Statement of Meaningful Employment is a letter from You to Immigration
. The letter informs Immigration, in your own words, the work you have
completed since acquiring an H1-B visa. There is no particular format for
the letter. It is okay to address it to "Dear Sir/Madam," and end it wi... 阅读全帖 |
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Y*****2 发帖数: 38613 | 6 啥事儿对您来说meaningful?
我觉得灌水对我来说最meaningful~~~ |
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p****r 发帖数: 9164 | 7 you can set the how many hands needed in your HEM to display the stat in
HUD.
so how many hands in your hand history needed for some of these stat to be
meaningful? it seems for the for VPIP, PFR etc, some sample size is OK. (
like 1000? ) but for winning and some other rare stat(like check/raise on
river etc) need a lot more data for the stat to be meaningful.
偶不懂统计, 但觉得很多参数许要很大的样本空间, 另外大家打Rush,
HUD 里面都
加那些数据啊。
谢了! |
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h***b 发帖数: 1233 | 8 【 以下文字转载自 charles 俱乐部 】
发信人: hkmbb (hkmbb), 信区: charles
标 题: 1st Meaningful Rate Deline in Weeks 02/22/11
关键字: SFR,real estate,mortgage,loan,interest
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 22 14:09:10 2011, 美东)
main reasons for the drop are:
1. tension in Middle East--it's been brewing for months since the unrest
started in Tunisia, Egypt, Jordan, etc. as it spreads over to other nations
, including major "oil-producing" country like Libya, ppl start to hedge
themselves by taking profits off table in the eq... 阅读全帖 |
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f*******e 发帖数: 995 | 9 问个问题,我就喜欢养猫,伺候猫,和猫在一起的时候很放松很愉快,这算meaningful
的乐还是傻乐? |
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t*******r 发帖数: 22634 | 10 从这个角度看,如果不是靠心灵鸡汤,那么 meaningful happiness 的三块奠基石可能
是:
(1) handle truth
(2) handle unpredictables
(3) handle inevitables
当然,完美 handle 基本不可能。我觉得 practically handle 就算混过关。 |
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d**********h 发帖数: 2795 | 11 潮水兄越说越多,越多就需要更多来解释这些“越多”
比如三个handle,这个指的是handle真相的能力,手段,还是心态?
这三块基石是名词?动词?
其实meaningful happiness就一个基石,就是meaning of life。有了这个,一切
happiness 还是sadness就都有了根基,有了标准。然后推happiness就可以避免了,因
为直接推生命的意义就可以了。那才是本质 |
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t*******r 发帖数: 22634 | 12 另外 “年少轻狂” 这个问题,我家两娃还没有到真正的 “年少轻狂” 的年龄其实。
大娃基本还是不管就容易沉溺游戏的年龄。
“年少轻狂” 本质上是在做对他们是 meaningful 的事,只是这种 meaning 不为父
母大众所接受而已。跟趴在地上傻玩那种单纯的快乐完全不是一回事。 |
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b**********k 发帖数: 1262 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 board 讨论区 】
发信人: xiaoxiaoren (可爱小宝宝), 信区: board
标 题: 说心里话,有些东西还是meaningful的。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 4 02:10:39 2014, 美东)
古板版主删了别人的帖子,贝塔MM的帖子,这都算了,
但是拍到的包子还要赖皮,实在是太坏了!
本来包子就没啥用,但是这个道理说不过去。
所以我一定要发个帖子,要伸张以下正义,
望站方重视。
其次,很多网友说只要版主任期超过了4各月,就是还在继续任期,别人是可以中间竞
选的,
是不是这样呢?
我现在竞选了古板版主,如何才有结果呢? |
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r*******t 发帖数: 8550 | 14 "Do something meaningful!", my coworker said, "instead of just moving your
trumbs!" |
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D**C 发帖数: 6754 | 15 我还以为他说
do sth meaningful, instead of browsing chinese website |
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j******n 发帖数: 871 | 16 Not long ago, a friend sent me a speech that the great civic leader John
Gardner gave to the Stanford Alumni Association 61 years after he graduated
from that college. The speech is chock-full of practical wisdom. I
especially liked this passage:
“The things you learn in maturity aren’t simple things such as acquiring
information and skills. You learn not to engage in self-destructive behavior
. You learn not to burn up energy in anxiety. You discover how to manage
your tensions. You learn that ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****7 发帖数: 8463 | 17 http://redalertpolitics.com/2012/11/10/southern-states-issue-wh
Americans in 15 states issue White House petitions asking permission to
secede
1663 If at first you don’t succeed, just secede!
More than 8,000 Louisiana residents have signed an online petition to the
Obama administration to allow the state of Louisana to, “withdraw
peacefully from the United States of America and create its own new
government.”
The petition, posted to the online White House petitions page, cites the
Declaration of... 阅读全帖 |
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g****n 发帖数: 3313 | 18 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: gpsfan (八戒,削她!善了个哉的!), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: Re: 【JOBS】11.01 -- 11.30
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 18 02:52:59 2011, 美东)
以下职位,如果是名校,高分,申请把握会大增,经过内部推荐后,不需要HR
SCREENING, 直接面试。
年底机会不多,大家抓紧。
EMAIL 简历到:GPSFAN#GMAIL.COM
Office Coordinator
The Role:
Company Concierge, a full-time superstar responsible for helping to run the
day-to-day office operations of a fast-growing technology company.
This is no ordinary admin job:
Historically, it has been the entry point to the comp... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********t 发帖数: 385 | 19 Biomedical engineering scientist
Organization Description
Philips Research
Philips Research is the source of many advanced developments in Healthcare,Lifestyle and Technology. Building on 90 years’ experience in industrial research and our world-leading patent position, we’re dedicated to
meaningful innovations.
In the healthcare domain, we are enhancing imaging and monitoring systems,as well as exploring innovative personal healthcare. In lifestyle, we're helping people see, hear, remember and ... 阅读全帖 |
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g****n 发帖数: 3313 | 20 以下职位,如果是名校,高分,申请把握会大增,经过内部推荐后,不需要HR
SCREENING, 直接面试。
年底机会不多,大家抓紧。
EMAIL 简历到:GPSFAN#GMAIL.COM
Office Coordinator
The Role:
Company Concierge, a full-time superstar responsible for helping to run the
day-to-day office operations of a fast-growing technology company.
This is no ordinary admin job:
Historically, it has been the entry point to the company for smart, dynamic
working students, recent grads, and people re-entering the workforce. Admin
team members have gone on to work in other parts of ... 阅读全帖 |
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g****n 发帖数: 3313 | 21 具体讨论或有问题:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/CCCN.CMAIN/
以下职位,如果是名校,高分,申请把握会大增,经过内部推荐后,不需要HR
SCREENING, 直接面试。
强调一下啊,要名校,英语要好,GPA 要好,这个我没办法,是公司的文化。
年底机会不多,大家抓紧。在美国之外的同学就先别折腾申请了。虽然公司支持H1B
EMAIL 简历到:GPSFAN#GMAIL.COM
Office Coordinator
The Role:
Company Concierge, a full-time superstar responsible for helping to run
the
day-to-day office operations of a fast-growing technology company.
This is no ordinary admin job:
Historically, it has been the entry point to the company for smart,
dynamic
working stu... 阅读全帖 |
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p****r 发帖数: 9164 | 22 how many hands do we need in hands history for 3 betting or 4 betting
stat to be meaningful?
There is very important decision to make when you face 4 betting when
holding KK, especially when you are 120BB+ deep. I think againt player whose
4 betting range is below 1.0 on a 4 betting pot, we should fold KK against
a shove if not too committed. Since AA and KK are 0.9 of top hand range,
you are drawing to chop against 4 betting from these gugys on a 4 betting
pot with KK.
I am ... 阅读全帖 |
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G*******s 发帖数: 4956 | 23 Blinded By Tradition:
An Open Letter to Dave Hunt
Regarding His Newly Published Attack Upon the Reformation, What Love Is This
? Calvinism's Misrepresentation of God
James White
Updated 5/16/02, see bottom of file
Dear Dave,
In the period of time since I finally received my own copy of your book (you
may recall I scanned through it while standing at your table in St. Louis a
t the PFO Conference) I have gone through a number of different emotions. A
t first I was just going to do one Dividing ... 阅读全帖 |
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h**w 发帖数: 4510 | 24 所以你觉得 better 是模式和极端化,而 meaningful 就不是了?
我只能再次承认一下我不懂 meaningful。如果你能不是只说什么不是 meaningful,而
直说什么是 meaningful,也许我会更理解。 而不是跟着你绕的圈子,以为什么都可能
是又可能不是 。掉到不可知论的坑里。 |
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i******o 发帖数: 6843 | 25 http://www.megaupload.com/?d=OI2LOC6D download
发现我录过的轻松欢快的歌还真是少啊。。。大部分都是颓废的。。。以后要尽量多录
欢乐的歌!
这首也是大半夜录的,当天收到好几个offer, 心情特别好,就很哈皮地唱了这歌。伴
奏是自己消音加升调的,效果听起来有些恐怖。。。除了一些和声叠加的部分是分开录
的,其他都是一遍过的,很粗糙,唱得也挺漫不经心的,基本没啥技巧可言,好在这歌
也就是听个欢乐美好的情绪... 后来分别有两个朋友说要帮我录个好一点儿的吉他伴奏
的,结果从四月份一直拖到现在还一版伴奏也没录出来...
祝大家周末愉快&节日快乐~~
jason mraz - life is wonderful
it takes a crane to build a crane
it takes two floors to make a story
it takes an egg to make a hen
it takes a hen to make an egg
there is no end to what i'm saying
it takes... 阅读全帖 |
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i******o 发帖数: 6843 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 Music 讨论区 】
发信人: iToldUso (嗔睡鼠), 信区: Music
标 题: 发首欢乐的歌儿祝大家周末愉快吧~iToldUso-Life is wonderful(J
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 28 23:20:44 2011, 美东)
http://www.megaupload.com/?d=OI2LOC6D download
发现我录过的轻松欢快的歌还真是少啊。。。大部分都是颓废的。。。以后要尽量多录
欢乐的歌!
这首也是大半夜录的,当天收到好几个offer, 心情特别好,就很哈皮地唱了这歌。伴
奏是自己消音加升调的,效果听起来有些恐怖。。。除了一些和声叠加的部分是分开录
的,其他都是一遍过的,很粗糙,唱得也挺漫不经心的,基本没啥技巧可言,好在这歌
也就是听个欢乐美好的情绪... 后来分别有两个朋友说要帮我录个好一点儿的吉他伴奏
的,结果从四月份一直拖到现在还一版伴奏也没录出来...
祝大家周末愉快&节日快乐~~
jason mraz - life is wonderful
it takes a crane to bui... 阅读全帖 |
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i******o 发帖数: 6843 | 27 【 以下文字转载自 Music 讨论区 】
发信人: iToldUso (嗔睡鼠), 信区: Music
标 题: 发首欢乐的歌儿祝大家周末愉快吧~iToldUso-Life is wonderful(J
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 28 23:20:44 2011, 美东)
http://www.megaupload.com/?d=OI2LOC6D download
发现我录过的轻松欢快的歌还真是少啊。。。大部分都是颓废的。。。以后要尽量多录
欢乐的歌!
这首也是大半夜录的,当天收到好几个offer, 心情特别好,就很哈皮地唱了这歌。伴
奏是自己消音加升调的,效果听起来有些恐怖。。。除了一些和声叠加的部分是分开录
的,其他都是一遍过的,很粗糙,唱得也挺漫不经心的,基本没啥技巧可言,好在这歌
也就是听个欢乐美好的情绪... 后来分别有两个朋友说要帮我录个好一点儿的吉他伴奏
的,结果从四月份一直拖到现在还一版伴奏也没录出来...
祝大家周末愉快&节日快乐~~
jason mraz - life is wonderful
it takes a crane to bui... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******7 发帖数: 544 | 28 Then do something meaningful for the others! Thus you are meaningful to this
world.
When you are meaningful to this world, this world is meaningful to you.
Bless~ |
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f******g 发帖数: 592 | 29 Zigen in China means to nurture the roots.
Established in 1988 in New York City, Zigen is an international non-profit
organization that facilitates local partnership programs to address critical
needs for people in poverty in China. Zigen breaks the poverty cycle
through local partnerships models that are relevant, replicable and
reportable.
Zigen’s mission: To mobilize people-to-people assistance and to promote
human-centered sustainable development.
Target of support: The people in China’s mos... 阅读全帖 |
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k***n 发帖数: 3158 | 30 of course, that's why there are intense competitions to find out the ones
that are most likely to be meaningful
nothing is guranteed to be meaningful upfront.
at least these fundings in research is more meaningful as a whole comparing
to the military waste that GOP keeps pushing for |
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m******O 发帖数: 596 | 31 你这个问题完全是牛头不对马嘴。两点:
1. It should be "which country will be 更友好 in a foreseeable future"
我的回答是:不知道,可是我也说了,国家之间对这些资源是一种“竞争”的关系,此
消彼长是一个很快的过程。
2. "meaningful large country" - 这是一个vague definition,什么叫做"
meaningful large country"? 而且,"meaningful large country"对资本而言,在和
平年代,有什么特别的意义? |
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a********s 发帖数: 575 | 32 Should we change oil every 3000 miles like Dad did?
It depends on conditions, so I have included an article from Consumer
Reports to help you decide.
Our 4-1/2-million-mile test with a fleet of New York City taxicabs turned
some conventional wisdom on its head.
Mobil commercial claims its oil "has been in more Indy 500 winners than any
other oil." Quaker State shows an engine with a terminally corroded inside
what they imply could happen when you use another oil. Exxon's commercial
for its Super... 阅读全帖 |
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H****y 发帖数: 2992 | 33 自从发表了关于如何写paper的感想,每天都有不少人来我的博客,深受鼓舞。想再写
一篇和大家共同探讨。
On Public Speaking
If you ask me to offer some advice to all the WSNs, I would tell them: to me
, the biggest problem with you lot is not your sloppy clothes, or untidy
hair, or your awkward English. Not even the stinky smell. (Ugh!) The first
thing you need to learn is stand straight. Don’t droop your shoulders or
tilt your head or bend a leg. If you don’t believe me, go watch a video of
any political leader in the world. ... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********g 发帖数: 981 | 34 看看这些
Cognitive Milestones
By one:
follows moving object with eyes
recognizes differences among people; responds to strangers by crying or
staring
responds to and imitates facial expressions of others
responds to very simple directions
imitates gestures and actions
puts small objects in and out of container with intention
Between one and two:
imitates actions and words of adults
understands and follows simple, familiar directions
responds to words or co... 阅读全帖 |
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l*********e 发帖数: 5385 | 35 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
wahaha2013 (娃哈哈啊) 于 (Sun Jul 14 00:29:12 2013, 美东) 提到:
我家宝宝刚满一周岁。不会用手指指东西,不会挥手再见,不会show东西给我看,不会
传东西给我。
请问如何教会啊,我天天教,就是不会啊。我教别的,比如谢谢,挠痒等,很快就会。
就是不会这几样。而这又是最重要的。用什么方法呢?我和儿医说出了我的顾虑,是不
是autism啊?儿医说等18个月再看。
我都等不急了。
真诚请教,怎么教会宝宝啊?急啊急。
拜谢各位!!!
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wahaha2013 (娃哈哈啊) 于 (Sun Jul 14 22:54:04 2013, 美东) 提到:
顶顶啊,没人回复我啊
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snowshine (snowshine) 于 (Sun Jul 14 23:13:25 2013, 美东) 提到:
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N****p 发帖数: 1691 | 36 "The second quarter 2015 market environment remained extremely challenging
for our steel and metals recycling operations," said Mark D. Millett, Chief
Executive Officer. "The ongoing flood of steel imports continued to pressure
steel product pricing to a greater degree than the benefit realized from
lower scrap costs, compressing second quarter steel margins. However, due
to continued solid U.S. steel demand, our second quarter steel shipments
improved, which offset most of the margin compressi... 阅读全帖 |
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d******1 发帖数: 349 | 37 会议脚本,很长,形势不乐观啊
Qualcomm Incorporated (NASDAQ:QCOM)
Q2 2015 Earnings Conference Call
April 22, 2015 04:45 PM ET
Executives
Warren Kneeshaw - Vice President, Investor Relations
Steve Mollenkopf - Chief Executive Officer
Derek Aberle - President
George Davis - Executive Vice President and Chief Financial Officer
Analysts
Tim Long - BMO Capital Markets
Mike Walkley - Canaccord Genuity
Ehud Gelblum - Citigroup
Blaine Curtis - Barclays
Kulbinder Garcha - Credit Suisse
Stacy Rasgon - Bernstein
James Fa... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********g 发帖数: 30882 | 38 情感智慧EQ的探讨
来源: gracehome 于 2011-08-05 22:06:07 [档案] [博客] 旧帖] [转至博客] [给我
悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:527次 字体:调大/调小/重置 | 加入书签 | 打印 | 所有跟
帖 | 加跟贴 | 查看当前最热讨论主题 黄维仁
美国临床心理学家Dr.Dan Goleman所写的《Emotional Intelligence》一书,于一九九
五年十月出版后,立即在美国造成了轰动,被《纽约时报》(New York Times)连续两年
评为畅销书排行榜的第一名。紧接着这本书又先后在日本、韩国、东南亚、台湾等亚太
地区与国家造成了轰动。
为甚么Dr.Dan Goleman这本书会一下子变成这样抢手,这么的热?我常告诉我医学院的
学生,人生中若想要有幸福的关系,成功的事业,每个人都必须要发展两种重要智能:
一个是专业智能,这是大家都了解的,例如上医学院或其他科系,学习能贡献社会并藉
以谋生的专业技术。如果可以把这第一种专业智能过度简化,把它简称为"IQ"的话,在
较大的公司或组织中,我们常会看到许多"IQ"150,绝顶聪明的人,竟然要报... 阅读全帖 |
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Y**u 发帖数: 5466 | 40 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
TrueStory (不是幸福的坑不挖) 于 (Fri Nov 11 13:43:09 2011, 美东) 提到:
http://evelynrodriguez.typepad.com/pointingtothemoon/2007/02/by
Above is a description on how she got her knowledge, and she experienced that no-me and no-name feeling.
I like that whole blog, and I will zz the full blog below.
The four questions are actually only one question "is it true?", as no thought is true. But for people not yet there, such as me, choosing the truer thought is a re-entr... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****i 发帖数: 4391 | 41 '2001: A Space Odyssey' is THE most overratted films of all time. Kubrick and
Clarke are trying to express something meaningful, but ultimately is turns
self-indulgent and stupid. Trying to express something meaningful doesn't make
it meaningful, although many people have been tricked or think there is
something profound in this 2 1/2 hour farce. 'Space Odyssey' can be divided
into three parts; the monkey sequence, the middle, the Hal sequence, and the
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t***h 发帖数: 40 | 42 IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
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Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
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In re Joshua Tin )
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y***i 发帖数: 11639 | 43 NPR对她的采访
Question: A Thousand Years of Good Prayers presents readers with a stunning
vision of China, past and
present. When you think of your homeland, what thoughts or images come to
mind? What are your feelings
about China today?
Yiyun Li: I have always said that there are two Chinas. The first is a
country filled with people, like my family
and many others, who try to lead serious and meaningful lives despite the
political, economic and cultural
dilemmas they face. The second is a country wi... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G 发帖数: 16778 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: tshch (大丈夫), 信区: USANews
标 题: 这就是美国的法律
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 19 02:57:27 2012, 美东)
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin ... 阅读全帖 |
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y***o 发帖数: 145 | 46 这是真人真事, 请大家舆论支持。
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin )
)
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