s***n
发帖数: 2366 | 1 http://www.npr.org/2012/06/20/155431944/asian-americans-on-the-
On Tuesday, the Pew Research Center released a study that found Asian-
Americans have surpassed Hispanics as the fastest growing racial group in
the U.S. Plus, the report showed that they're the highest earning and best-
educated. Host Michel Martin discusses the findings and the implications of
these demographic changes with three experts.
Copyright © 2012 National Public Radio®. For personal,
noncommercial use only. See ... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****r
发帖数: 235 | 2 看帖子，发表点感想:
1. 她们显然是IQ都极高的人。有样东西，英文里叫discipline，很多成功人事之所以
成功，因为他们很小就有了。这两姐妹的discipline我甚为佩服
2. 在她们身处的社会环境了，她们已经在努力做她们个人能做的最好的。无需鄙视她
们又红又专，人大代表什么的。这里的Ivy leagure里，肯定也有不少从小立志当政客
的。这对姐妹至少还有专
3. 别担心她们有多苦，有多不幸福。很多事情天才几分钟搞定的事情，一般人要好几
个小时，甚至好几天。没人介意你对自己的孩子不推，让他们过幸福生活，但也没必要
贬低hardworking的人，或者说high achiever。你觉得你无法理解或想象，只能说你或
你的孩子mentally还不够tough
4. 能拿洗澡说事的人，只能说你loser，甚至arragont。 对了，Steve Jobs年青时好
几个礼拜不洗澡，大家都知道吧 |
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t*****r
发帖数: 235 | 3 看帖子，发表点感想:
1. 她们显然是IQ都极高的人。有样东西，英文里叫discipline，很多成功人事之所以
成功，因为他们很小就有了。这两姐妹的discipline我甚为佩服
2. 在她们身处的社会环境了，她们已经在努力做她们个人能做的最好的。无需鄙视她
们又红又专，人大代表什么的。这里的Ivy leagure里，肯定也有不少从小立志当政客
的。这对姐妹至少还有专
3. 别担心她们有多苦，有多不幸福。很多事情天才几分钟搞定的事情，一般人要好几
个小时，甚至好几天。没人介意你对自己的孩子不推，让他们过幸福生活，但也没必要
贬低hardworking的人，或者说high achiever。你觉得你无法理解或想象，只能说你或
你的孩子mentally还不够tough
4. 能拿洗澡说事的人，只能说你loser，甚至arragont。 对了，Steve Jobs年青时好
几个礼拜不洗澡，大家都知道吧 |
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c**********1
发帖数: 201 | 4 关键是家长想给孩子怎样一个identity. 如果让孩子觉得自己就是个美国人，那没必要
学中文。但如果想给孩子多一项skillset，为了将来更competitive,无论在中国还是美
国发展，多一门语言绝对是有益无害的。
当然typical的中国华人就是送孩子去10分学区，送天才班，长大以后都是一个cookie
maker里刻出来的。这样的孩子当然也会很有竞争力，但我认为比起多一门别人没有的
skillset来比较，我认为这条道路不太smart. hardworking很重要，但how to compete
smartly也很重要。 |
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c**********1
发帖数: 201 | 5 关键是家长想给孩子怎样一个identity. 如果让孩子觉得自己就是个美国人，那没必要
学中文。但如果想给孩子多一项skillset，为了将来更competitive,无论在中国还是美
国发展，多一门语言绝对是有益无害的。
当然typical的中国华人就是送孩子去10分学区，送天才班，长大以后都是一个cookie
maker里刻出来的。这样的孩子当然也会很有竞争力，但我认为比起多一门别人没有的
skillset来比较，我认为这条道路不太smart. hardworking很重要，但how to compete
smartly也很重要。 |
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J******d
发帖数: 287 | 6 Big Zan! This is exactly my thought!! Investing money and time in children
is crucial! Once we spent $1k/month for her extra curriculum activities even
we lived on a postdoc paycheck. I even worked as nanny to pay her violin
tuition because she worked so hard for her dream. She is now a very
confident, optimistic, outgoing, hardworking, gifted student. Best of all,
we went through hardship together and learned together. She cherishes every
opportunity she has with a thanksgiving heart. |
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I*****e
发帖数: 7085 | 7 【 以下文字转载自 Seattle 讨论区 】
发信人: flying820 (忍冬), 信区: Seattle
标 题: 田野上的鬼魂？ ——由被消失的早期华州中国移民说起
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 1 01:57:19 2013, 美东)
赶写于Halloween之夜 ，写完了才发现时间上太应景了:) 欢迎评论
田野上的鬼魂？
——由被消失的早期华州中国移民说起
明天是西雅图抗议ABC宣扬种族屠杀言论的Jimmy Kimmel Live Show游行的日子（http://www.seattle.gov/specialevents/events.htm）。 刚才我去接念小学一年级的六岁儿子放学回家，他坐在车后忽然冒出一个问题，“妈妈，你知不知道我的ancestors 从那里来的？他们在那里？”我很诧异娃在万圣节这个小朋友的节日没跟我聊要糖果，而是居然提到这么一个问题。想到明天要去参加的游行，我手扶方向盘认真而缓慢的回答道，“多多，你记住你的ancestors 在中国，因为爸爸妈妈都是从中国来的。一个人忘记自己ancestors, 祖先，是没有根的，像没有根的... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 8 多谢理解。有时候大家都跟你一个观点，觉得纠结也没用，但话说出来仿佛不承认有这
个课题一样，或用＂内心强大＂来trivialize，所以无端很多争执。
JourneyUp说过，不纠结大家靠直觉往往就好使了。我个人认为，尽管这是个没解的课
题，家长理解这个纠结本身就有用。有时孩子需要的就是一个理解的肩膀，
Confirmation, Validation。家长不注意批评孩子＂没底气＂就不Helpful。或者孩子
骂回去，家长批评孩子Rude也不对。家长和孩子只要是一伙的就是好事儿。
而且我是坚定的学习派。我贴的这个LINK。讲孩子需要Respect和Belonging。孩子被歧
视事件攻击后，就应该注意修补他们的Respect和Belonging。
告诉孩子他 is respected for his kindness, hardwork, etc.. 告诉孩子 He doesn'
t lose true friends when bigots say ignorant things. 所以家长主动去学习这个
课题也是有用的。 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 9 多谢理解。有时候大家都跟你一个观点，觉得纠结也没用，但话说出来仿佛不承认有这
个课题一样，或用＂内心强大＂来trivialize，所以无端很多争执。
JourneyUp说过，不纠结大家靠直觉往往就好使了。我个人认为，尽管这是个没解的课
题，家长理解这个纠结本身就有用。有时孩子需要的就是一个理解的肩膀，
Confirmation, Validation。家长不注意批评孩子＂没底气＂就不Helpful。或者孩子
骂回去，家长批评孩子Rude也不对。家长和孩子只要是一伙的就是好事儿。
而且我是坚定的学习派。我贴的这个LINK。讲孩子需要Respect和Belonging。孩子被歧
视事件攻击后，就应该注意修补他们的Respect和Belonging。
告诉孩子他 is respected for his kindness, hardwork, etc.. 告诉孩子 He doesn'
t lose true friends when bigots say ignorant things. 所以家长主动去学习这个
课题也是有用的。 |
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v********y
发帖数: 822 | 10 Determination +
Planning +
Teamwork +
Hardworking +
Sacrifice +
Passion +
......
= Own the future |
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u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 11 乖乖，从一非法移民之间的比较，跳到 H-1B . . .
I am a hardworking H-1B visa holder. I just don't have green card! |
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z*****a
发帖数: 3809 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: beefcurtain5 (beefcurtain5), 信区: NewYork
标 题: To make elite schools ‘fair,’ city will punish poor Asians
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jul 21 05:43:04 2014, 美东)
In 2004, 7-year-old Ting Shi arrived in New York from China, speaking almost
no English. For two years, he shared a bedroom in a Chinatown apartment
with his grandparents — a cook and a factory worker — and a young cousin,
while his parents put in 12-hour days at a small laundromat they had
purchased on the Upper East... 阅读全帖 |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 13 Kind of agree.
However, most Chinese women were brought up to be resilient.
It is very common for the Chinese boy to claim the best from his family. He
deserves them. it is not the common for the girls.
It is very common for the Chinese boy to be exempt from all house chores. It
is NOT that common for the girls.
While it is true that both genders do not have the sense of ownership, thus
the responsibility, etc. The Chinese females are more likely to yield, to be
considerate and hardworking.
Of c... 阅读全帖 |
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m******l
发帖数: 2472 | 14 随便瞎聊，说说没发生前怎么预防。根本上，我自己感觉是不要让娃 take things for
granted. 无论男孩，还是女孩。
比如说自己认为自己漂亮，deserve good life. 还有呢，自己认为自己聪明，deserve
good marks. 这些都不好，教育他们focus on the hardwork, 一份耕耘一分收获吧。
比如，我们家莫个娃，自认为自己很聪明，原因是kindergarden 数数比同龄白娃快，
咋们老中都知道这算个啥。 我不会说这算啥，你去做道奥数题，或者去和中国娃比，
看看人家都厉害，这种伤自尊的话。我会说，是啊，你数数数的好，因为你练习了狠多
。 还有一个娃，认为自己很popular, 我不会说那时因为你cute这种话，而会说你对朋
友很nice, 很considerable.
还有，打击她们天上掉馅饼的念头。 比如老三，曾说过长大就当princess，过着香车
豪服的生活。 我先给她们解释了princess有born as princess和 marry to be a
princess. 在老三意识到已经不能born as prince... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 15 Enough money, IQ and hardworking |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 16 "my point is mitbbs users, almost all of them are highly educated, and
middle class hardworker. there is no reason for them to not support SFFA. if
they are against SFFA, they must be idiot or Ahole."
you are neither an idiot or an Ahole! great news!
trump
with
worried
hard
against |
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f**********n
发帖数: 29853 | 17 @wuyueliuhuo
I am fine with whatever merit factors. As far as I know, skin color is not
one of them.
In terms of "US loves US citizen...", it has nothing to do with what we are
talking about it. Again, we are discussing if we, chinese immigrants, should
support SFFA.
Thanks a lot for your suggestion of changing my kids' last name.I don't want
to cheat, Instead, I want my kids to be proud of my last name and our
legacy. This kind of low-self-esteem, cheating, disgusting idea never comes
to my min... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 18 https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2015/12/08/muslims-are-to
-trump-as-the-chinese-were-to-president-arthur-in-1882/
Muslims are to Trump as the Chinese were to President Arthur in 1882
The “Chinaman” was a familiar figure to many Americans in the mid-1800s.
His likeness was unmistakable: slit eyes, a perpetual grimace, traditional
loose-fitting garb and a long, snake-like ponytail tightly tied to an
otherwise bald head.
He looked like an unsavory character — and most importantly... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 19 冒似我错了。。亚裔在奥大立亚好象过的不错。。
https://www.quora.com/Are-Australians-more-racist-towards-Asians-than-
Americans
It's true that Asians are more discriminated against in Australia. This is
mostly because of the massive influx of Asian immigrants over the last few
years. I have also noticed that quite a few Asians struggle or simply do not
care to assimilate Australian culture so that they can integrate into
Australian society. For some in Australia, this can be considered as
snottiness or arrogance, but a... 阅读全帖 |
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n*****g
发帖数: 4117 | 20 电话里还问：“你是 hardworker 吧？” |
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y******y
发帖数: 49 | 21 但我很好奇，这样nice的老板，为什么欧美人不愿意去？
也许是老板喜欢招亚裔，因为我们hardworking. |
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J*R
发帖数: 187 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 Immigration 讨论区 】
发信人: JPR (JPR), 信区: Immigration
标 题: Journal of Postdotoral Research征募Editorial Board Member
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 16 20:26:41 2013, 美东)
Journal of Postdotoral Research (JPR) 征募Editorial Board Member，专业不限。
感兴趣
的朋友请发送CV/Resume联系Managing Editor, Dr. Partha Ramasastry (partha@
postdocjournal.com)。同时JPR正在征集Invited Review Articles (2000-3000字左右
)和Research Heighlights(500字左右，征对今年发表的一篇research paper),欢迎踊
跃投稿!
Journal简介:
The Journal of Postdoctoral Research, JPR, is an int... 阅读全帖 |
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e*********e
发帖数: 243 | 23 Sorry this computer cant type chinese. How do you feel? What is your
research area? Operations research? Accounting? Marketing?
People in these areas should be making alot. The base salary is something like 300k RMB for assistant professor in business and economics. And these areas do not need equipments, so funding is yours. It should also be easier to get money from the society outside, not as a AP, but in several years time when you become a professor. The money business school gives is more ... 阅读全帖 |
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t********e
发帖数: 143 | 24 This is not BSO at all. It is very achievable. I only get a MS and have
worked for almost 10 years. I have found that hardworking is almost always
rewarded in U.S. Pick a good career and focus, you, too can be successful
here. |
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g*****n
发帖数: 357 | 25 Many people are willing to buy houses even it is beyond their capability (
they can borrow money), but they not willing to rent house using borrowed
money.
So house price keep increasing sharply, but rent only increase with the
similar pace as people's income increase.
High house price make the society sick. It decreases the value of
hardworking. Rich people can live on his/her house and do nothing, while
people with no house had to work hard for the whole life just for a house.
This is exactly ... 阅读全帖 |
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k*****r
发帖数: 21039 | 26 扯淡。 amigo都是非常hardworking, 对社会有贡献的。
米国的钱是被米疣霸去了。 |
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A*******n
发帖数: 144 | 28 of course not
this job needs a good edu background, good communication, passion, social
and hardworking |
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b******y
发帖数: 9224 | 29
没错，所以我觉得选择很重要。当初我做贸易的时候就想，这东西没有资金，很难做起
来。所以，后来看中computer science这个领域，然后转行了。
有些领域，比如说，计算机硬件，或者通讯，等等，需要投资的。但对于个人来说，你
可以选择不去做那些领域。
创业 is as much about choice as hardwork. |
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r****a
发帖数: 179 | 30 re. Thanks for the hardwork. |
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m*********a
发帖数: 3299 | 31 In gambling, you chance is 50%. You win because of pure luck. For
speculative bets, you do some "frog homework". Of course you hope the
winning chance is improved by your hardwork.
chance |
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k********n
发帖数: 18523 | 32 hardworking is the king! hehe... |
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v****e
发帖数: 19471 | 33 lol socialism hasn't saved a single country so far. may china will be an exc
eption, as we are such a smart, hardworking, morally superior, all-awesome p
eople? |
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N********n
发帖数: 8363 | 34
That's exactly what US is, at least it's what Obama has been doing: If
you do not have a job you can still get the benefit of UHC while sitting
on your butt contributing nothing but if you do have a job then you will
have your pants taxed off to pay for UHC madness.
Laziness is rewarded while hardworking is punished, that's a textbook
recipe for socialism disaster. |
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j**s
发帖数: 1028 | 35 Yep. People esp those chinese who voted for him are pretty dumb.
His policy is obviously bad for hardworking and financially responsible
Chinese. |
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l*i
发帖数: 5732 | 36 这个是关键， when hardworking and financially responsible people don't get
rewarded, while lazy and dumb people enjoys free lunch everywhere, the
society has only one way: down |
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y***n
发帖数: 4103 | 37 Teamster Freight Members Ratify YRCW Restructuring Plan
October 30, 2010
Agreement Is Aimed at Saving More Than 25,000 Jobs
Press Contact
Galen Munroe
g*****[email protected]
202-439-7427
(Washington, D.C.) – Teamster members who work at YRC Worldwide Inc.’s (
YRCW) operating companies YRC, Holland and New Penn have ratified the “
Restructuring Plan” that is aimed at saving more than 25,000 union jobs.
YRC and Holland members ratified the agreement by a 62 percent to 38 percent
margin, while member... 阅读全帖 |
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 38 hehe, thanks for always remembering me and caring if I am alive.
Finally I got my head above water,
I mean all the work load.
Now I won enough credit in my job after one year of hardworking.
Now I can spend some time watch market while working, back to old game! |
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 39 hehe, thanks for always remembering me and caring if I am alive.
Finally I got my head above water,
I mean all the work load.
Now I won enough credit in my job after one year of hardworking.
Now I can spend some time watch market while working, back to old game! |
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t*******s
发帖数: 289 | 40 Part II - don't like the idea to take ivory from elephants, but he was
presenting the fact. never saw elephants playing with mud before - that 5
months is very cute. he barely touched politics a little bit. he did comment
that Chinese are hardworking |
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o*****t
发帖数: 339 | 41 现如今有几个上市公司的CEO敢对花街说不？
All CEOs incomes are depending on the stock price. So they always try to
control the cost, no salary raise for employee, providing as less other
compensation as possible for hardworking employees, no long term plan with
the pressure to meet the expectation.
Since Sergey is rich enough, he does not relay on selling google stock to
make himself richer. Also google does not need to raise money from the
street. Why need to please the Black street? Why not give his employee
bett... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********r
发帖数: 4612 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: yourtt (rainmaker), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 我X,联邦政府雇员们欠税10个亿! (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 25 12:57:59 2012, 美东)
发信人: yourtt (rainmaker), 信区: USANews
标 题: 我X,联邦政府雇员们欠税10个亿!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 25 12:57:40 2012, 美东)
Federal employees owe $1.03 billion in unpaid taxes
Congressional staffers owed about $10.6 million in unpaid taxes in 2010, a
slight increase from the previous year and a growing slice of the roughly $1
billion owed by federal and postal workers ... 阅读全帖 |
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X*****s
发帖数: 2767 | 43 self-centered, is the very common character in the mitbbs. this self-
centered includes selfish, jealous, mean etc.
that's why we keep a small club, it's money business, not charity things, it
need everybody's hardworking and contribution.
welcome to our club! |
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w****a
发帖数: 6326 | 44 意思是因为人rich了所以人就nice。
rich并不是smart or hardworking，就是靠fate而已。 |
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c*******9
发帖数: 6411 | 46 hardworking man, thanks. |
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c*******o
发帖数: 5387 | 48 what happened to laoli? |
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g***e
发帖数: 1256 | 49 Don't know but he is blocked here. |
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t*******y
发帖数: 348 | 50 I should be the 元老 Haha |
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