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l*****t
发帖数: 2019
1
If they ask the same favor and you should be able to ask.
My coworkers ask me stuff like a ride to home, ride to train station all the
time.
g********d
发帖数: 19244
2
可以审
我老板的审稿人向来是他的coworker
我很无语,但是我才不管呢,谁知道哪篇文章是谁审的,水过呗。
M**T
发帖数: 314
3
I have to second this!
When the coworker says a score of 2 out of 10, LZ should not jump out to say
lower than 2...just holding your tongue won't kill you!
M**T
发帖数: 314
4
cancel one on one 跟presentation不好不是一个性质,如果后者是embarrassing的话
,那么前者就是 wrong! !
别人骑车掉到井里是他的损失,你不去想着拉他一把,反而觉得他跌的难看,给你丢脸
了,你跑上去把井盖闷上(cancel one on one, punish him with score lower than
your coworkers would give,share your 'outrage' with chair),然后在这洋洋得
意的骂他怎么可以骑车没看路!
我认为应该是candidate 有理由出来骂楼主,而不是楼主在这发风。。。可能
candidate 现在在job market上,世界这么小,忍气吞声,不敢如何而已。
问楼主,你第一次presentation score 几何?有必要对同胞这么零容忍吗?
就我所知,绝大部分教授没有这么变态的。你可能是junior faculty吧?有些过于偏激
和自以为是。
b*****d
发帖数: 1900
5
agree大牛们的proposal也经常被拒。知道很牛的人一般都特勤奋。手上有个把几m的
grant,还一天到晚的写几十万/几万的grants养着coworkers 或者自己的group。
H****y
发帖数: 2992
6
之前看了版上好多教课起争议的贴,打算吸取教训,在syllabus上一早写明,免得事后
麻烦。大家看这样行吗?有何要补充的?会不会太严肃?
Important notes
1) Class attendance is required to receive handouts and information related
to class schedules. Quizzes cannot be taken outside classes unless you
notify Dr. X of a missing class in advance. This syllabus is not final and
updated versions may be distributed. If you have failed to make to a
lecture, be sure to check with your classmates or with Dr. X afterwards.
2) You should be able to finish the homework assign... 阅读全帖
m******x
发帖数: 918
7
来自主题: Faculty版 - 帝国理工大学教授之死zz
Email from [email protected]
/* */ to various associates
Sent: 21 October 2014
Dear all,
If anyone is interested how Professors are treated at Imperial College: Here
is my story.
On May 30th ’13 my boss, Prof Martin Wilkins, came into my office together
with his PA and ask me what grants I had. After I enumerated them I was told
that this was not enough and that I had to leave the College within one
year – “max” as he said.
He made it clear that he was acting on behalf of Prof Gavin Screaton, t... 阅读全帖

发帖数: 1
8
十、美国A大学面试
这次我做了大量的准备。整理出了50多个问题,并一一的写下答案。每个答案保证语言
精美,并且能在1分钟之内说完。一个标号下的问题,我觉得可以用一个答案解答。
关于科研的问题:
1. What made you apply for this position?
Why do you want to work here?
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses as employees. What are your
strong points for this job?
What special aspects of your education or training have prepared you for
this job?
2. What can you contribute to the School?
3. Tell me about yourself.
4. Tell me what your research.
5. Why is your field impo... 阅读全帖

发帖数: 1
9
至于面试我准备的50多个问题。我的想法是一定要站在学校的角度思考问题。很多问题
太个性化,并不适用于大家。我把能分享的答案分享,很多也是在网上找的答案。
1. What made you apply for this position?
Why do you want to work here?
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses as employees. What are your strong
points for this job?
What special aspects of your education or training have prepared you for
this job?
这些问题,我觉得可以从四个方面回答,宗旨就是一个,你需要什么,我就能提供什么
。所以每一点都是这么回答,说清楚你要的是什么,我做的是什么。自然表达出match
,而match这个词都不要去提起。
First, I am particularly interested in the School of xxxx because o... 阅读全帖
S***n
发帖数: 102
10
Since I am unable to type in Chinese with my computer (so your guess is
right that I am pretty old- many of my classmates in China retired), I have
to use English here, and I could not convey myself very well. But you will
get my message.
All of us in this forum are educated, so we are professional regardless of
who we are and what we do (faculty or not). As such, I googled on how to be
professional and here is what I got from wikiHow to Be Professional at Work-
Part 1 Presenting Yourself in a P... 阅读全帖
D********r
发帖数: 522
11
来自主题: Family版 - 今天和组里的美国人争了一番
You should go to your HR department to file a discrimination/harrassment
complaint againgst this coworker. What he said and did is exactly
harrassement towards you.
This is a typical workplace harrassment. Like someone said in the post
earlier, harrassament doesn't only include sextual harrassment. Pikcing on
people's identiy, culture etc are all harrassment. Since you are feeling
uncomfortable now, definetly the next step is to file a harrassment
complaint. Some ignorant people won't stop till
C*********a
发帖数: 613
12
来自主题: Family版 - 路遇黑人要钱
我承认不是所有黑人都素质很差,我有认识几个coworkers她们很nice, 很好啊。
其实刚来时,我也很naive, 搞不懂其他人为什么要歧视黑人。
但是来了不久后发生的事情,让我明白了这个道理。再加上今天的事情。
c******e
发帖数: 67
13
en. I doubt she hired a lawyer already but she has divorced coworker who
might be
teaching her these dirty tricks.
I do need a lawyer however.

your
advan
a***8
发帖数: 4735
14
来自主题: Family版 - 结婚改名之后后悔了怎么办
A English name is easier for the local Americans to call you and remember
your name, and that really make your life easier in there.
Beside, i am thinking to switch my last name to my LG's, due to the other
always think my LG carries my own name. For example, my last name is "A",
and my LG is "B", so my American coworkers always mistakenly call my LG Mr.
A. That really upset my LG.
P.S. Both of us are Pure Blood Chinese.
x**m
发帖数: 1825
15
possible. one of my coworkers is 12 years old than her husband. they got
married around her 40s. They are a happy couple!
good luck!
m******6
发帖数: 4857
16
【 以下文字转载自 WashingtonDC 讨论区 】
发信人: maomao66 (咪咪), 信区: WashingtonDC
标 题: 一把火,把整层的人都熏出去了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Mar 26 18:12:09 2012, 美东)
当时我,还真是有些内疚,听见office manager说有可能消防员要来,然后疏散整个
building的人,我有点觉得自己捅炉子了.
唉,故事从我这个office的drama queen说起,今天中午,其实有client给我们送了pizza,
但是我决定在吃pizza之前先吃点开胃的,就把自己在costco买的却quesadillas热一热
先吃,我放在微波炉里,电机了一下cook potato的选择,就去上网了,等了一会,我打开微
波炉,发现cheese都没留出来,就有安乐一次cook potato的按钮,然后又去上网了,其间
我听见同事说什么问道这么难闻,说是我的食物,我觉得这么picky,就没看,继续上网,等
我想起来,去拿我的食物,发现微波炉的角落浓艳滚滚,我在打开微波炉,发现我的食物冒
着火花,然后更大的浓烟酒... 阅读全帖
m***x
发帖数: 788
17
An Exit Action Plan: Guidelines for Leaving an Abusive Relationship
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/543
Planning a safe exit from an abusive relationship is a necessary and
important step before breaking the ties with your partner. The National
Domestic Violence Hotline suggests following these steps to improve your
chances of leaving safely.
•Know the phone number to your local battered women's shelter.
•Let a trusted family member, friend, coworker or neighbors know your
sit... 阅读全帖
I********e
发帖数: 6130
18
这是很少的几个靠谱的回复之一。
It's very sad to see so many people are so concerned about doing something
for their "friends", or just assume that their "friends" are only there to
take advantage of them. I agree with you - if that's the way you feel about
them, they are not friends and you are not theirs.
A few years ago our car broke down, and when we mentioned it in front of a
coworker he immediately offered to let us borrow one of his cars - we didn'
t ask at all, we were just going to rent a car. But he s... 阅读全帖
L*********1
发帖数: 124
19
来自主题: FleaMarket版 - new mattress for sale at only 150$
My coworker had a roomate for a week ( she thought the girl would stay a
little longer than that , so she had bought a New matress for her stay),
however
, she is trying to sell this new mattress at a discount price ( used one
week
only), she bought this matrress with cover at 200$, now she sells it at 150
$, price
may be negotiable if she likes you :) . BTW, she lives Astoria, Queens.
I have the mattress picture, but I can not find the "attach" click,
anybody helps?
c**********s
发帖数: 295
20
thanks for your reply. will suggest my coworker to give it a try. hope it
works.
x******t
发帖数: 3911
21
For health reasons, I wouldn't suggest eating more than 2 eggs a day. Give
the eggs away to friends coworkers and neighbors.

money
drag
b*****s
发帖数: 187
22
来自主题: HiFi版 - Schiit AMP?
one of my coworker recommend this brand, such as
http://schiit.com/cart/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=0
&
http://schiit.com/cart/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=0
anyone tried these, any feedback?
x*****u
发帖数: 4750
23
来自主题: HouseRental版 - 求租离BART或 Berkeley近的住处 (SF Bay)
my coworker get a big house in union city ( 2mins drive to union city bart)
and they dont live there it is a big house only a pro female(my classmate)
who works in san francisco lives there. she has 3 more rooms to be rent cos
it is a big n nice house. close to many chinese resturants and stores there
. if u both want u can contact her . very nice lady
f****d
发帖数: 75
24
来自主题: Investment版 - 有在Fidelity开403b的吗?
I think you may ask your coworkers/HR to get the list since each company has
a different list.
s****i
发帖数: 2993
25
来自主题: Investment版 - a question on 401k managed account
hohoho. my LD's ex-coworker has a brother works
as financial manager. he offered to manage the
co-worker's retirement money for a mere $6000
per year. he says this is a favor as he normally
doesn't manage small portfolios (under $1MM).
f****i
发帖数: 20252
26
来自主题: Investment版 - a question on 401k managed account
1% management fee as a favor?
I bet he still bought your LD's ex-coworker funds with load.
b******y
发帖数: 1684
27
ask your rich friends/coworkers for referral; yelp.
how much are we talking about?
c*****r
发帖数: 1476
28
来自主题: JobHunting版 - PhD 在读的简历中怎么写references?
目前熟知自己的只有老板和以前一个coworker,刚刚做AP的那种。
请问第三个推荐人一般怎么找?谢谢了!
z***m
发帖数: 843
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 一定要supervisor做reference?
我听说coworker就可以做reference。曾经的supervisor很变态,在他手下吃了不少苦
头,也不知道他会说什么。有什么办法变通一下吗?
r******l
发帖数: 13
30
来自主题: JobHunting版 - phone interview tomorrow
HR一般没什么专业知识,应该会问一些behavioral question的。
主要有以下。
1. tell me about yourself. answer this question in chronicle order:
- what undergrad major, why?
- what graduate degree, why?
- if you have any prior work experience, why this job, why this company?
- why interested in this company?
2. tell me about a project for which you had significant contribution?
3. any difficult coworkers? how did you work with them?
4. depending on the position that you interview for, think of project
management examples?
r*********g
发帖数: 66
31
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 求助!无良老板据付工资!
我在一个小公司(共三人)作会计,两周前通知老板要quit,老板一开始挽留,后来见
我态度坚决, 就找了另外一个会计并希望我可以training the new one. 当我昨完最
后一天并trainging 完新人后,我要求老板pay 我最后一个周的薪水,老板推托当时账
户没有钱,5 天以后会寄支票给我。8 天后我打电话询问,他找出种种理由说我工作期
间犯了很多错误,给他造成了损失,他不能付我工资。另外一个coworker,美国人,同
一天辞职并没有提前通知,最然老板当时很愤怒并扬言不给工资,但后来仍然付了工资
。我自问工作干的很努力,但现在他把公司经营不善全部归到了我头上,并威胁如果我
去sue 他,他会奉陪到底并且让所有人都知道我是个多么bad的会计,最终会影响我的
前途。
我现在的问题是老板有权以我工作中犯的错误为借口扣除我的工资吗?我可以告他种族
歧视吗?急需帮助,谢谢大家!
m******6
发帖数: 599
32
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 去MS面试 女生应该穿什么?

大姐,别急,我真不是误导...
理由很简单:
1.这是IT公司,公司里面除了marketing相关的不会穿suit的
2.面试你的人是你将来的coworker,一个team的,你不可能天天穿正装上班吧
3.给你offer还是不给完全独立于你穿的多好看
4.很多公司其实都会说casual,如果你觉得穿正装舒服的话也是可以的
所以我的意思是,自己怎么舒服怎么来,没必要在着装上伤脑筋
n******i
发帖数: 598
33
来自主题: JobHunting版 - www.glassdoor.com
the salary and review is so accurate...I love it and encourge my coworker to
join, it is free.
w******1
发帖数: 520
34
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 一道behavior question
这个问题问的是你更愿意团队合作还是独立开发。
根据你的这个职位,你做出解答。
有的职位要和很多人打交道,COWORK, 那么就招喜欢团队合作的那种人。
l****8
发帖数: 95
35
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 求助!关于背景调查!
关于怎样填写上一家公司的情况:我从去年8月到今年4月在这家公司工作,美国公司超
小超不正规,一共三个人,我来的时候也没有签任何合同,按小时拿工资,全职。今年
4月份遇到两件事情促使我决定辞职,一个是唯一的一个coworker 辞职了,公司只剩两
个人,另一个是公司搬家,office 搬到了老板家里办公(老板的说法是这是暂时的,
还会在找一个办公地点).因为一直干的不开心就决定辞职,期间遇到很多来自老板的阻
力,到谩骂,扣工钱等。
现在遇到了喜欢的工作,通过了inteview,但是要填背景调查表。我的这一段工作经历
都已经放到了简历上,事实上也因为这个经历我的简历被关注了。 这个表上要填写公
司名称,supervisor,公司的地址和电话,pay, 离职原因等。没有要求写reference.
我现在万分不想让新单位联系我老板,那可不可以只写上公司名字,和current pay,
并在离职原因一栏里写上公司太小,不正则?写上对公司nagetive 的评论有什么问题
吗?我过去的工作经历都是真实的 , 但是如果我不填公司的联系方式的话,又没有合
同什么的,新公司怎样调查我的这一段经历呢?我想
s******r
发帖数: 1524
36
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 又fail掉一个onsite(续,贴面试经历)
I was asked for similar questions. Below is my answers. Do not know whether
it makes sense.
些behavioral question,例如喜欢focus on 一个project,还是几个project一起做,我说
我喜欢几个project一起,因为project基本都是team work,所以存在dependency的关系。
(个人当时感觉还行,因为后来他说我回答的挺好,现在看来貌似是在敷衍我)
I like both based on the need of the team. I can design and figure out a big
project. Also I am good cooperator and communicator. I did a wonderful
project with my coworkers.
2. I would ask whether it is critical. If not critical, I will let it go
after
t*********a
发帖数: 90
37
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 看到满大街找工作的很有感触
don't do anything.
If she is not good enough, one day it is going to come up to the surface.
Like other people say, you don't know what is her background exactly.
Also everywhere some dumb employees are favored because bosses like them,
and bosses don't want to hear any complaints about the person they like.
Just do your job and get your money, and stay out of it. Don't even discuss
this with your coworkers. stay out of it.
c**********e
发帖数: 2007
38
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 在职找工作,reference怎么办?
Ask reference from previous employers, coworkers, school advisors, etc.
Generally you can skip current employers.
c**********n
发帖数: 29
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 遇到了同胞interviewer
其实仔细想想,interviewer 今后会是你的 coworker,如果感觉个性上合不来,在
interview 的时候发现了,不是比今后真去了才发现,要强得多么?
另外也不要太 sensitive,实在很 abusive 的,可以向 HR 汇报,但是不保证有用。
i**p
发帖数: 27
40

refund
有同感。我原来工作的头儿跟我不在一个国家,我是费了好大劲儿才找到的。给她原来
的coworker做推荐人都不行。这个公司给我寄回来的支票居然把我的姓都搞错了。 玩
人呢。
p*****d
发帖数: 259
41
Chinese/English Bilingual Chemical Engineer
Description
Hoku Materials, a wholly owned subsidiary of Hoku Corporation (NASDAQ: HOKU)
, a diversified clean energy technologies company founded in 2001, is
seeking a motivated and talented full-time Bilingual (English/Chinese)
Chemical Engineer for the plant in Pocatello, Idaho. This position will be
responsible to aid in the company’s efforts to design and install processes
and facilities to safely produce polysilicon. In addition, candidate will
s... 阅读全帖
s****e
发帖数: 1648
42
You must be familiar with Vignette Content Management, Vignette Portal
Server and DPM development to apply for this role.
Vignette/SharePoint Developer
Education Bachelors Degree
Experience 3-5 Yrs
Citizenship Requirement : Permanent Resident
Clearance Required Public Trust
Location Washington, District of Columbia

Job Responsibilities
We are looking for a Vignette/SharePoint Developer to provide maintenance
and operational support to the Pipeline and Hazardous Materials Safety... 阅读全帖
s********y
发帖数: 161
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 亚麻新鲜面经
刚面完,回到酒店。上帝保佑明天拿到给offer。感谢祝福。签了NDA,不过以下应该也
没有泄露亚麻的技术秘密...
网络服务组
Common questions几乎每个人都会问到, why 亚麻, why web service, your
experience/work.
Phone 1 别的组的老美
两个数组求交集。如果已经排好序了,一个数组很大,一个很小怎么办。如果数组都很
大,内存放不下,怎么办。
设计扑克牌。扑克牌shuffle算法。
两个整数,需要多少步才能把一个数的二进制表达转换到另一个数的二进制表达。 (
XOR后数1)
Phone 2 本组的印裔
设计LRU Cache, 然后讨论多线程访问Cache的问题。面完后实现Cache发代码给他。
Onsite见了7个人,每个人45分钟,连轴转。上午10点半进building, 下午4点出来
Onsite 1 很Nice的老美
讨论设计web crawler, coding BFS, 讨论多线程处理crawler等。
Onsite 2 印裔
OOD机场air traffic control system.
Onsite 3 ... 阅读全帖
b********s
发帖数: 276
44
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 面试问题一问(非CS,非算法)
面试被问到 "how do you handle conflicts with coworkers?" 最好怎么回答?我好
像与同事从未有过冲突,不知道怎样达好。
m**y
发帖数: 191
45
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 珍惜 temp position
To certain degree, it really makes sense. But if your employer just wants to
abuse temp, what could you do? what your decision would be?
When in temp status, you may dig out some information regarding you future
employer, such as corporate culture, coworkers' attitudes and so on to see
if you really like it or not and then you may make a sound decision based on
your judgments.
The good about being in temp is you do not need to worry much about politics
. YOU LEARN by just DO IT. Do not be afraid... 阅读全帖
j*********g
发帖数: 1273
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 急! H1B transfer 的 GAP 问题
No worries, as long as you receive the receipt for h1b transfer package
first, then start second job. That is ok de.
The only problem is that when they review your h1b transfer package, they
will want your most recent pay stub. If they do not deem what you provide is
most recent, then you will get a conditional approval. Meaning you will go
back to china to get a visa stamp and come in.
My coworker just did that as she could not provide pay stub. She does not
have pay stub as she was paid cash..... 阅读全帖
Q***u
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 都要写感谢信吗
When I'm hiring, thank-you letters won't really matter if you happen to be
the only candidate who can do the job. But if there are close competitors, I
'll certainly pick the one who takes his/her time to show respect toward his
/her future coworkers by writing a thank-you note--even if the other candidate
is slightly worse than you.
So think about it.
s**n
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - phone interview sharing
just finished phone interview with human resouce manager, scientist, senior
engineer for 33 minutes. the question is as followed:not in order
1 tell me about you
2 why do you want to apply for this position
3 why do you want to leave
4 how research group organized
5 talk about the challenge that i met
6 ask several technical questions related to current position's requirement,
but based on my resume
7if your boss or coworker disagree with you, what you should do
8 what is important to do a proj... 阅读全帖
c**2
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business formal
so a little heel is standard.
there are tall American girls too, I used to have famale coworker who were 6
ft tall.
Q***u
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对于那些比较defensive的同学,我个人面试别人的经验:跟lz不同,我还没碰到几次
“面试一完就已经决定”的情况。大都是面试了几个,然后比较,时不时的碰上有那么
两、三个candidates各有千秋的情况。这个时候,reference check、是否写thank-you
letter都会被作为tie-breaker。个人意见,我招个同事,就要招个平易近人、容易合
作、尊敬coworker的人。如果这个人连个TYL都不屑的写,那么在别的technical方面很
接近的情况下,我绝对会选写了TYL的人。
Thank-you letter不只是thank you。它给你一个机会表达你对这个工作的重视,给你
一个机会重新申述自己的长处和为什么人家应该招你而不是别人。一个写得好的、
personalized summary,绝对是我选人的一个依据。
Bottom line:各位找工作花了多少时间啊?!能拿到on-site的机会才有百分之几?那
么多的精力都花了,怎么就非要在最后这么点事情上想偷懒??值么?你写了,可能什
么用也没有;但是你不写,肯定会什么用也没有。林子大了什么鸟都有,你可能... 阅读全帖
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