i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: Cosmicy (面朝大海), 信区: Parenting
标 题: 不想被虎妈代表！已经在NPR抱怨过！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 13 01:54:38 2011, 美东)
如果你也不想被代表，一起去！
http://www.npr.org/2011/01/11/132833376/tiger-mothers-raising-c
Chua's view about Chinese mother is shockingly biased. AS A CHINESE MOTHER,
I DON'T WANT TO BE REPRESENTED BY AMY CHUA!
I was born and raised in China. I was not raised in Amy Chua’s way. I don't
believe in her way. My kids are still very little. But after they are old
enough to go to school, I will never raise them in Amy Chua’s way either.
All the Chinese parents I know here in the US are not parenting their kids
in Amy Chua’s way either. Education is important, but we also value many
other things, such as healthy personality, happiness, kindness, and
responsibility.... Success and fame to us are not as important as what are
to Amy Chua.
I guess many other Chinese mothers who are not like Amy Chua don't want to
be represented by her either.
Even though Amy Chua once clarified that she uses the “Chinese mother" and
“Western mother" terms loosely; unfortunately, she overwhelmingly gives
everybody impression that the demanding “cold-blooded" parenting style she
talks about is what CHINESE mothers usually do.
If Chua wants to talk about “permissive mother" or "demanding mother", say
so. Or she can just use “mother Amy Chua" to represent herself. Why does
she use an ethnicity-orientated term, which is inaccurate and offensive to
many of us who don’t want to be represented!
I felt hurt when reading Amy Chua’s writing. Amy Chua should apologize to
all the Chinese mothers whom she cannot represent at all! Chinese mothers
are not those cold-blooded controlling monsters and Chinese kids are not the
emotionless learning machines—the impression Amy Chua creates. | i**e
发帖数: 19242 | | s*****r
发帖数: 1032 | 3 I'd go a few days ago. Now I am mentally drained and have become
tigerphobia. | i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 4 哈哈哈
this gives you a chance to strike back :)
【在 s*****r 的大作中提到】
: I'd go a few days ago. Now I am mentally drained and have become
: tigerphobia.
| s*u
发帖数: 1778 | 5 这人。。。干嘛这么激动。。。
后来听了她early morning show的采访，说的挺靠谱的
wsj那个节选不全面，不能说明问题
,
't
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
: 发信人: Cosmicy (面朝大海), 信区: Parenting
: 标 题: 不想被虎妈代表！已经在NPR抱怨过！
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 13 01:54:38 2011, 美东)
: 如果你也不想被代表，一起去！
: http://www.npr.org/2011/01/11/132833376/tiger-mothers-raising-c
: Chua's view about Chinese mother is shockingly biased. AS A CHINESE MOTHER,
: I DON'T WANT TO BE REPRESENTED BY AMY CHUA!
: I was born and raised in China. I was not raised in Amy Chua’s way. I don't
: believe in her way. My kids are still very little. But after they are old
| p*****e
发帖数: 5165 | 6 啊，你也是这个俱乐部的？
【在 s*u 的大作中提到】
: 这人。。。干嘛这么激动。。。
: 后来听了她early morning show的采访，说的挺靠谱的
: wsj那个节选不全面，不能说明问题
:
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: 't
| s*u
发帖数: 1778 | 7 可不是咋地
看着不像不等于咱们没有一颗向往推妈的心。。。
【在 p*****e 的大作中提到】
: 啊，你也是这个俱乐部的？
| p*****e
发帖数: 5165 | 8 你躲在背景里老不说话。
【在 s*u 的大作中提到】
: 可不是咋地
: 看着不像不等于咱们没有一颗向往推妈的心。。。
| s*u
发帖数: 1778 | 9 推的很狼狈，没脸 :S
【在 p*****e 的大作中提到】
: 你躲在背景里老不说话。
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