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发帖数: 19242 | 1 by unschoolingmom
声明一下，不是所有人适合或者愿意unschooling的。我自己也在学习过程中，时间和
论坛气氛允许的情况下，分享一下自己的学习经历。有兴趣留痕，无兴趣飘过。：）
How can I stop my children from learning?
on Sunday, July 4, 2010 at 2:53am
Seriously, I cannot stop my children from learning!
I have been looking into unschooling for a little bit more than a year. In
the last 14 months,
I have read over 50 books on related subjects
I have subscribed and read a couple of unschooling mailing lists for one or
two hours everyday
I have attended my first unschooling conference
I have met many wonderful unschooling families and children
I have over 60 or 70 new unschooling facebook "friends"
I have talked to many people about education: teachers, parents or anyone
who is willing to listen
Yes, I have been totally immersing myself in this single subject: parenting/
education/children/unschooling
And I am still learning.
My biggest concern before unschooling was how children could learn without
textbook/school/teacher/or being taught.
Yes, I read books about it, talked to people about it and thought very hard
about it.
But the real convincing answer came from my own children:
I cannot stop them from learning!
Just in the last week or two, we have touched upon the following subjects:
Saturn (We watched the Saturn, its rings and moons through a telescope when
we wandered at Maui Four Seasons Resort)
Mars/Mars Exploration Rover/NASA
Moon
Frog/tadpole/toad/grass hopper/gecko/snail/bee/bird/
How to make battery/lemon battery/charging old battery with new battery/
constructing forts/moving devices...
Cave
Tank/M1A1 main battle tank/battle field game (tank)
Red dirt/Lava rock/pine cone/twig/branch/tree/flower/feather/chicken/egg/
cottage/water fall/turtle/fish/crab/urchin/tidal pool/
Reading/phonics/
Telling time/learning numbers (hundred, thousand, million)/math (pattern)
Swimming/diving/surfing/sand castle construction/standup paddle boarding/
New favorite games: battle field (tank), Ragdoll 2 (strategy, geometry,
physics...), I dig it (business, finance, geology, planning, strategy, math.
..), Bloxorz (math, geometry, puzzle, pattern...), Gyroball (physics,
control), checker/chess
Watched many youtube videos on the above subjects, Chinese cartoon, Astro
boy, Caliou, Kipper, Pingu, Donald duck, barbapappa, Angelina ballerina...
Those are the things my DS 4.75 has done in the last week or two.
My DD 1.75 has been into:
1. Talking both in Chinese and English
2. Swimming
3. Potty training herself
4. Communicating
5. Flower/Bird/Dog/Feather/Gecko/Frog/
6. Astro boy/Caliou/Angelina Ballerina...and others I mentioned above
7. Feeding herself
8. Bathing herself and me
9. Talking on the phone
10. Shoes
11. Dancing/music/piano
12. Trying new foods
13. Moon
14. Testing mom's reaction
Now I have no worry about their learning. The only concern is how I will
keep up with them. :)
They were born with unstoppable desire to learn, explore, and figure things
out.
They were born with tremendous capacity for seeking out and processing
information.
They were born with incredible imagination and creativity.
They were born with amazing energy and motivation.
Right, I cannot stop them from learning. Wait a minute, yes, I can.
1. Forcing them to learn things they are not interested
2. Pre-selecting things "I" think important and valuable
3. Testing and Grading their learning
4. Telling them they are not good enough
5. Telling them they "have to" do something
6. Saying lots of No, even better saying no automatically
7. Making sure what they learn will produce money, business or potential
jobs
8. Making sure they achieve GPA4.0 at all cost
9. Making sure they follow the path that will lead to Ive League, starting
at 3 years old
10. Making sure they understand "no pain no gain", learning can be painful
11. Banning TV and video games
12. Making sure they are disciplined, especially trained to get up at 6AM,
go to school on time and do homework at night for the next 15 years,
starting at 3 years old
13. Making sure they "learn" from books, especially textbooks at exactly the
same time as his peers, en, the earlier the better
14. Making sure they follow rules and conform.
...... | i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 2 俺知道homeschooling
也听说过unschooling
本文先是阐述了他们一家子在Maui旅行，俩娃自觉自愿学习到的东东
然后发感想说
They were born with unstoppable desire to learn, explore, and figure things
out.
They were born with tremendous capacity for seeking out and processing
information.
They were born with incredible imagination and creativity.
They were born with amazing energy and motivation.
娃生来就有不可阻挡的学习，探索，思考的愿望
娃生来就有巨大的探索和处理信息的能力
娃生来就有不得不让人信服的想象和创造能力
娃生来就有让人惊诧的能量和自主上进子推能力
后来的条条，对我们推妈也有借鉴作用
1. 娃暂时不感兴趣的东东不要硬推
2. 推娃的兴趣
3. 你要让娃觉着你在考娃，赶紧换花样检测娃的程度
4. 任何时候都不要说娃不够好
10. 学习不应该是件痛苦的事儿
12. 不必把家规搞得象钢铁一样坚硬
13. 不要拘泥于书本知识，不要跟同学们（尤其是天才们人才们）比 | I*****e
发帖数: 7085 | 3 what's difference between unschool and home school?
or
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: by unschoolingmom
: 声明一下，不是所有人适合或者愿意unschooling的。我自己也在学习过程中，时间和
: 论坛气氛允许的情况下，分享一下自己的学习经历。有兴趣留痕，无兴趣飘过。：）
: How can I stop my children from learning?
: on Sunday, July 4, 2010 at 2:53am
: Seriously, I cannot stop my children from learning!
: I have been looking into unschooling for a little bit more than a year. In
: the last 14 months,
: I have read over 50 books on related subjects
: I have subscribed and read a couple of unschooling mailing lists for one or
| s*********8
发帖数: 939 | | i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 5 俺的感觉
homeschooling, 还是比较跟着先定的教学大纲，跟着school的大方向走
unschooling，就是完全以孩子为中心的教育，完全相信孩子有自推的能力，有学习探
索的能力，有上进之心 etc，care giver只要在孩子的引导下，给与大力的支持就好了
所以，没有教学大纲，没有assessment，没有几岁必须会什么的限制
俺还看了同作者的其他文章，挺有意思地 :) | b******r
发帖数: 3206 | 6 赞同那个“不要把家规搞得钢铁般坚硬”,不过执行起来有困难啊。尤其是家里有个随
时见机行事测试底线的丫头。:p
things
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: 俺知道homeschooling
: 也听说过unschooling
: 本文先是阐述了他们一家子在Maui旅行，俩娃自觉自愿学习到的东东
: 然后发感想说
: They were born with unstoppable desire to learn, explore, and figure things
: out.
: They were born with tremendous capacity for seeking out and processing
: information.
: They were born with incredible imagination and creativity.
: They were born with amazing energy and motivation.
| l*****f
发帖数: 13466 | 7 这个推的段位可真够高的哇
真真是大音希声至推无推
or
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: by unschoolingmom
: 声明一下，不是所有人适合或者愿意unschooling的。我自己也在学习过程中，时间和
: 论坛气氛允许的情况下，分享一下自己的学习经历。有兴趣留痕，无兴趣飘过。：）
: How can I stop my children from learning?
: on Sunday, July 4, 2010 at 2:53am
: Seriously, I cannot stop my children from learning!
: I have been looking into unschooling for a little bit more than a year. In
: the last 14 months,
: I have read over 50 books on related subjects
: I have subscribed and read a couple of unschooling mailing lists for one or
| l*******e
发帖数: 3566 | 8 我们要注意的是，孩子和父母是互动的两个部分。
我们给孩子建立了一定的规则，但是人是活的，规矩是死的。
规则只是一个大的框，怎么在这个框里灵活运用，要看当时的互动和情景。
【在 b******r 的大作中提到】
: 赞同那个“不要把家规搞得钢铁般坚硬”,不过执行起来有困难啊。尤其是家里有个随
: 时见机行事测试底线的丫头。:p
:
: things
| b******r
发帖数: 3206 | 9 正是。我是希望在立规矩的同时也让孩子明白不是每一件事都只有一个处理方法，希望
孩子能够有一定灵活性。但是规矩完全建立起来之前，如果加入灵活性，一方面孩子可
能会糊涂，另一方面爸爸和妈妈之间很难完全保持一致，更加增加了这个随意性——这
个又是我们希望避免的。:p
【在 l*******e 的大作中提到】
: 我们要注意的是，孩子和父母是互动的两个部分。
: 我们给孩子建立了一定的规则，但是人是活的，规矩是死的。
: 规则只是一个大的框，怎么在这个框里灵活运用，要看当时的互动和情景。
| m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 10 i think 3 means :donot test you kids
things
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: 俺知道homeschooling
: 也听说过unschooling
: 本文先是阐述了他们一家子在Maui旅行，俩娃自觉自愿学习到的东东
: 然后发感想说
: They were born with unstoppable desire to learn, explore, and figure things
: out.
: They were born with tremendous capacity for seeking out and processing
: information.
: They were born with incredible imagination and creativity.
: They were born with amazing energy and motivation.
| m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 11 lol. let me remember northbeach once replied this idea. ha
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【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: by unschoolingmom
: 声明一下，不是所有人适合或者愿意unschooling的。我自己也在学习过程中，时间和
: 论坛气氛允许的情况下，分享一下自己的学习经历。有兴趣留痕，无兴趣飘过。：）
: How can I stop my children from learning?
: on Sunday, July 4, 2010 at 2:53am
: Seriously, I cannot stop my children from learning!
: I have been looking into unschooling for a little bit more than a year. In
: the last 14 months,
: I have read over 50 books on related subjects
: I have subscribed and read a couple of unschooling mailing lists for one or
| w********a
发帖数: 259 | 12 这个unschooling听起来象是montessori，child-oriented加上孔子的因材施教？
【在 i**e 的大作中提到】
: 俺的感觉
: homeschooling, 还是比较跟着先定的教学大纲，跟着school的大方向走
: unschooling，就是完全以孩子为中心的教育，完全相信孩子有自推的能力，有学习探
: 索的能力，有上进之心 etc，care giver只要在孩子的引导下，给与大力的支持就好了
: 所以，没有教学大纲，没有assessment，没有几岁必须会什么的限制
: 俺还看了同作者的其他文章，挺有意思地 :)
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