j****e
发帖数: 140 | 1 Mr. Jejune:
You would have done well to stop after the first sentence of your response.
Like I said, I will not debate with you the content of your opinion, only
the timing. In fact, there was a presentation on the Republic of Texas, and
there is "common sense" that it is part of the USA. Yet, no one yelled out
that "Texas is not a country" from the audience. Decorum precludes such
expression at inopportune moments.
To be clear, no one asked for your political analysis during the
presentatio | j****e
发帖数: 140 | 2 that is why I asked here. I just want to know what is the right way in USA.
and here is my reply
Mr. ThirdEye,
Thank you very much for sharing your opinion on the culture and decorum.
Let me also make myself clear:
1. I took the expression "Taiwan contry" a intentional malicious offense to
national feeling of students from mainland China. If someone ruined that
presentation, it was not me.
2. If the decorum means to keep silence when someone insults your mom in
public, and what you can do the mo | q*n
发帖数: 1203 | 3 我们这帮人在professionally地和人辩论维护自己立场的能力上都有欠缺。
中国人在工作中比较吃亏的方面之一。 | g*********i
发帖数: 281 | 4 Jejune,
I think your American classmate was right on this matter.
We disagree with the Taiwanese, but we should disagree
respectfully.
Shouting a strong political slogan and interrupting other
people's presentation is the last thing you want to do in
a professional setting.
You could certainly make a short statement immediately
after the presentation to express your opinion if you
so desire. But never try to force other people to accept
your idea--that is not a decent thing to do for any
educate
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: that is why I asked here. I just want to know what is the right way in USA.
: and here is my reply
: Mr. ThirdEye,
: Thank you very much for sharing your opinion on the culture and decorum.
: Let me also make myself clear:
: 1. I took the expression "Taiwan contry" a intentional malicious offense to
: national feeling of students from mainland China. If someone ruined that
: presentation, it was not me.
: 2. If the decorum means to keep silence when someone insults your mom in
: public, and what you can do the mo
| q*n
发帖数: 1203 | 5 意义就是自己爽一下，被气到了就不划算了。
有些太敏感的问题上还是要谨慎，不过我认为普遍意义上地教育美国人中国地社会政治现
实还是有意义的，至少对于定居美国地中国人来说整体舆论环境的改善和大家的利益相关
。
我还记得有一次在体育馆健身的时候一美国人搭腔，话里话外对我这个中国出来的孩子在
这个私立学校的体育馆这么“奢侈”的地方做健身这么“奢侈”的事惊诧不已，这还是在
南加。 还有曾经一个我觉得挺有见识的长者也问我中国人是不是很不喜欢女婴所以要淹
死她们，这样的事情还是很侮辱人的。
know
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