感觉好的poker（no limit hold'em）策略，和态度也完全适用于恋爱：
１．不要太在乎输赢，you can always buy-in again，even after you got a
horrendous bad beat and went broke...many great players went broke multiple
times in their career...to be successful in this game you really have to let
go the fear of defeat...害怕受伤，永远得不到真爱...恋爱绝对要有赌徒的心态，被爱伤害了的人，一定要重新投入战斗...you think you are broke, you never really are
２．要主动，就是说要aggressive，不管是loose aggressive还是tight aggressive，
都是winner的策略，只是参与次数的不同而已...passive 绝对是loser的策略！情场老
手那都是次数积累起来的，不是么？如果
