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s*********2
发帖数: 115
1
I write it 3 months ago. I DIDN'T POST IT OUT.
i CAN'T HOLD , i AM BLUE.
再次紧急求助!(很受伤,慎入)
不知放哪儿让我感觉舒服点儿,借人气暂且放这儿吧。
孩子被带走3个多月,从冬天到夏天。。。他们都是无辜的天真活波可爱的孩子。没用
的妈妈不是那种只生不养,no responsibility 的妈妈,而是双方家人没有人能帮忙,
自己又太爱孩子,总想让这些孩子有个体面的生活,自己天资不足,又不能同时handle
很多事,压力太大,一时判断失误,做了件现在想来是件stupid的事情,(其实孩子进
家里,妈妈粗心,心急立马去学校找,5 minutes回家发现孩子,在警察到学校之前, 警
察作了记录这事结束了)2小时后DCF带走了所有的孩子(第二次)。
请那些天赋很强,上帝又赐予您多方面能力的人能够出谋划策,Bring kids back to
home。能感觉孩子们在精神上像我一样在崩溃的边缘,我已3次因心脏问题进emergency
room 。相信每一位做妈妈的都会像我一样,心也跟着碎了。。。我不敢想象我的孩子
们是怎么度过这些天的。。。
我不在乎网上说什么,因为我们都是真实的自己,热爱生活和家人。。。
只想找到一丝尽快带回孩子的办法。。。no more trauma happen to kids。。。
救人一命,胜过七年佛徒。
孩子是无辜的。。。
I like to try my best to help you to through these tough time if you are
stragling same trauma.
为支持老公考住院医,付出了太多的代价,个中滋味只有自己知道,实在不想就这么放
弃,
妈妈操劳过度,
孩子在fastor family脸上摔青了,fastor family的解释不知道,因为孩子没有哭。孩
子不敢哭,怕受到更多的惩罚。
家里虽然简路,但孩子是健康快乐的。
透支过度,
我不是那种不知天高地厚,老公北京医科大学6年制本科,硕士,博士,出国之前是北
京某医院主治医生。我从来没否认他在美国不能当医生,反而他没有match让我没法接
受。
我不知道我什么时候失去control,dcf将乘机送我去监狱,一个social worker
threat me in my home:”do you want to be die, I can send you go to whatever
you want to be space if you want to die just now.他们一直在找我abuse孩子的证
据,甚至折磨孩子作假证。Evan told kids that mom want to kill them.
Crase abuse me, until I lost control, as they take away these kids is right
, and show TV “DCF is kids future’
every one social worker of Dcf get a ipat since these action this year, 他
们不敢怎么样那些美国人,乘机杀鸡吓猴,歧视外国人。杨名DCF,
这些是近些年的照片,妈妈是一个坚强的孩子的好妈妈和没用的lose妈妈,透支过度,
dcf乘机造势。
Abuse human rights.
Abuse kids.
Overaction
当初是房东想多收房租,不想被红脖子欺负,自己眼里揉不得沙子,给自己和家人带来
的一系列的不顺。
连环官司。Even with 5 lawsurts every year.
My home can 提供100人一周的吃住,有支持的请跟贴。
抗议DCF overeaction!
Dcf abuse human right!
Dcf abuse kids!
DCF get off my home, get off my kids.
Mom find a right for kids. Kids are all too young,
Please prove next week Protest,DCF get off my home, get off my kids.
My home no internal because of what happen(march 4 )
Today is my love doughter’ birthday, this is third birthday of my kids in
the DCF.
I can’t hold my emotion.
This is abuse kids. Abuse mom.
Can’t hold
I am blue.
I can prove 100 person live in my home with one week in boston.
Dcf is police of kids, they have great power, Court is dcf’ family.
Dcf didn’t return kids until now.
Dcf overreaction!
Dcf abuse human right!
No matter for kids what happen(march 4, 2014 )
no matter for mom what happen(march 4, 2014 )
How to judge people who have Parents skill or not after dcf make trauma for
kids. this is a joke, So that they keep kids to get belefit from gov.
I don’t know what were they doing when I serilved other kids in public
area as volution.
This is a mom that try to find her right and kids ‘ right.
I am US citizen, my kids are not undocument kids, why dcf kidnap those kids
over half year, and look thorpy. I don’t know what happen in force family.
Why my kids need look thorpy.
I never don’t know and never want to get america dirty belefit
I never don’t know and never want to get america dirty cash.
Dcf want to find
Why you have 4 kids?
I love kids.
First case, let my husband lost job 1.5 years.
So we give up right, dcf didn’t return these kids back until now. They let
us make contact one by one social worker,I am allergy these social worker.
This is a loser mom, FIND kids ‘ right.
Mom prove dad to take medical test, without help.
Unfurturely, until 2011 past this cs.
老公北京医科大学6年制本科,硕士,博士,出国之前是北京某医院主治医生。在第一
次失利,他基本上放弃了,以为他是一个非常按本分
Strugle 3 years by me, +
2007 和2008年前以first time 99和85已通过
本人也是医学院毕业,属三流学校,也不好好念书的那一类。
These people live in my family for 3 years ,
Nice to meet you at last meeting, your plan is sophia and Michael return
home one week later, Jessica and mengmeng over night home, it is almost 3
weeks until now, I don’t know if jenny know. as she didn’t join that
meeting of half year. I remember that you said it is possible to be back
mengmeng and Jessica before Oct. I am appreciated that day. Or is your plan
Sep. end mengmeng and Jessica don’t over night and directly go home?
I am still worry Jessica as I have call you a couple months ago, if Jessica
need look conceral right now.
Kids crying to want to go home, I don’t want any trauma to my kids.
Although happen that I hope this trauma stop. as mom, I love my kids, home
is center of children and happy. I hope my kids happy, I don’t know how’s
Jessica going every night? As she is not brave, she scared many thing. She
take IEP before as I have told dcf.
Yound child age will be very important for whole life.
Michael and sophia are difficultly at night by first week, cry and make bad
dream, she said she has a lot bad dream in force family , but they don’t
care her. I
I remember social worker jenny asked me :” Jessica said mom give Jessica
watch scare movie in my home. And a child name Michael same with my Michael
in this movie, Michael is killed, Jessica is crying by this movie ”
In my home basic channel almost 10 years,I never change it, depend on our in
come, public pbs.kids channel, LIE
My kids never see grass yard of my house as them be removed by snow days. I
can’t change anything before .
but we do buy new house for them, I hope my kids injoy that GOD’ love
that play near my house like other kids. I do hope give my kids have a
happy and health life.
I remember that a lady(your boss) with long hair in that meeting said ;’I
did great job” I do thank that lady, I love my kids,
I do whatever can let my kids happy. I also do whatever can let other kids
happy.
Life is short. I try my best do whatever let myself life better, I try my
best do whatever let other people life better. I love life, I love my kids.
I do hope my kids good health, and smart, no any stress in study, as a mom
that basicily. They can do many public thing that belifit in other people.
she is nervas with one month visiting,
home,
DCF get off my home, get off my kids.
My family show Chinese, show, this is dicrmlation, in dcf
Splishman
Dad drive 3 hours to home, social worker meeting with him with 2-3 hours
every week, like he report work to his boss, my heart is break down when I
saw social worker is exciting to hear my husband report work about kids,
same thing happen to saterday.
写得很烂,凑合着看,
u*****a
发帖数: 6276
2
楼主,你的英文太差了。让认识的人给改改再贴在这里吧。
第一:用 support 取代 prove。
第二:. . . .
对了,DCF 是 Department of Children and Families。我查了一下才知道 DCF 在这
儿不是 discounted cash flow 。
n****m
发帖数: 1283
3
Did you get your husband to prove read what you wrote.
I hope he could be much more proficient in English.
How many kids do you have? How old they are?
If they are old enough, they could testify in court to prove your innocence.
You could start to collect signature on change.org as well. I will sign it
if you do so.

handle

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: I write it 3 months ago. I DIDN'T POST IT OUT.
: i CAN'T HOLD , i AM BLUE.
: 再次紧急求助!(很受伤,慎入)
: 不知放哪儿让我感觉舒服点儿,借人气暂且放这儿吧。
: 孩子被带走3个多月,从冬天到夏天。。。他们都是无辜的天真活波可爱的孩子。没用
: 的妈妈不是那种只生不养,no responsibility 的妈妈,而是双方家人没有人能帮忙,
: 自己又太爱孩子,总想让这些孩子有个体面的生活,自己天资不足,又不能同时handle
: 很多事,压力太大,一时判断失误,做了件现在想来是件stupid的事情,(其实孩子进
: 家里,妈妈粗心,心急立马去学校找,5 minutes回家发现孩子,在警察到学校之前, 警
: 察作了记录这事结束了)2小时后DCF带走了所有的孩子(第二次)。

u*****a
发帖数: 6276
4
proofread, not prove read.

innocence.

【在 n****m 的大作中提到】
: Did you get your husband to prove read what you wrote.
: I hope he could be much more proficient in English.
: How many kids do you have? How old they are?
: If they are old enough, they could testify in court to prove your innocence.
: You could start to collect signature on change.org as well. I will sign it
: if you do so.
:
: handle

G**T
发帖数: 2610
5
真可怜。。。
孩子们尤其可怜。。。
稍微心态正常一点儿的人,不管物质生活多艰苦,也不见得要搞成这种一地鸡毛,把自
己本来的生存奋斗(这方面美国可能是全球最容易生存的地方了,对底层的人来说),
变成跟国家机器的抗争。
不知道除了同情,还能有任何的忙可以帮 。。。。
对版上某些一旦孩子跟学校有点儿问题就要去fight的人来说,可以参照一下(毕竟是
很不同的事情,只能参照一下而已): fighting with the system is NEVER a good
option,除了一种情况: 愿意牺牲自己去改善这个system的情况。 That is noble.
u*****a
发帖数: 6276
6
我其实怀疑楼主的神志有问题。她最好的选择是去找会讲中文的 legal aid service,
请求 pro bono 的帮助。估计她家也符合低收入的标准,人家会接的。
到这儿来贴一个前言不搭后语的贴子,于事无补。
n****y
发帖数: 6260
7
拜托你还是找个好律师是真的。然后自己做楚楚可怜的爱孩子的妈妈状,千万别再跟警
察/法官/任何代表政府的人说话了。
f*****e
发帖数: 1889
8
不论你受了多么不公正的待遇, 请先冷静下来, 这样才能解决问题.
不是站着说话不腰疼. 只有冷静下来, 才能有理有节, 有思辩的能力, 才能赢.
英文词不达意, 情绪很激动, 语无伦次, 这样没有说服力. 很容易被视为对孩子不好,
不是孩子best interests.
论证的时候不要强调自己的生活多么艰难, 自己的能力多么不强, 所以才有那样的事情
发生. FOCUS在自己是孩子的best interests. 无论生活多么艰难, 都有能力和信心给
孩子最多的爱.
祝福你好运!
C*****d
发帖数: 2253
9
你要首先证明的首先是你是一个精神健全的人,
写这么一对乱七八糟的,只有反作用。
如果英文不会说,中文总是会的吧。
用中文把前因后果仔细记下来缕顺了,
这样如果网上有人能帮上忙,也敢帮。
就你现在这样,就算有人可以帮忙也不敢,因为实在不知道帮了你最后是帮孩子还是害
孩子。

handle

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: I write it 3 months ago. I DIDN'T POST IT OUT.
: i CAN'T HOLD , i AM BLUE.
: 再次紧急求助!(很受伤,慎入)
: 不知放哪儿让我感觉舒服点儿,借人气暂且放这儿吧。
: 孩子被带走3个多月,从冬天到夏天。。。他们都是无辜的天真活波可爱的孩子。没用
: 的妈妈不是那种只生不养,no responsibility 的妈妈,而是双方家人没有人能帮忙,
: 自己又太爱孩子,总想让这些孩子有个体面的生活,自己天资不足,又不能同时handle
: 很多事,压力太大,一时判断失误,做了件现在想来是件stupid的事情,(其实孩子进
: 家里,妈妈粗心,心急立马去学校找,5 minutes回家发现孩子,在警察到学校之前, 警
: 察作了记录这事结束了)2小时后DCF带走了所有的孩子(第二次)。

p***a
发帖数: 241
10
妈妈思维混乱...建议中文捋顺了重新发...至少讲清楚几个娃,发生了什么...
g********g
发帖数: 766
11
我也是第一眼以为是model。。。

【在 u*****a 的大作中提到】
: 楼主,你的英文太差了。让认识的人给改改再贴在这里吧。
: 第一:用 support 取代 prove。
: 第二:. . . .
: 对了,DCF 是 Department of Children and Families。我查了一下才知道 DCF 在这
: 儿不是 discounted cash flow 。

g********g
发帖数: 766
12
完全没看懂,有人讲讲为啥孩子被带走了吗
A***a
发帖数: 196
13
这位妈妈是不是精神被折磨得不正常?请不要用英文解释任何事情,词不达意,适得其
反。中文也思路混乱,没有重点。你可以让你老公上来说一说到底发生了什么?你们到
底需要什么帮助?
M******k
发帖数: 27573
14
网上签名有鸟用,赶紧查律师,准备打官司是正格。
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Parents of Asperger children有了解head start的吗?Preschool求扫盲。
[bssd]真心求助这样的孩子该怎末管?Daycare child abuse 求助
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