m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 K12 俱乐部 】
发信人: mark (花生，微爷远爷的爸爸), 信区: K12
标 题: 北欧教育法
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Apr 9 10:52:22 2012, 美东)
''Weekend fishing trips, cycling through forests — Scandinavian family life
looks so easy. So what’s the secret?
How to be a Nordic parent: the ten golden rules
Parents rule, not children
No shouting (or smacking)
Conform at all times
Play outside
Embrace the simple life
Dagis is king
Babies sleep better outside
Don’t teach reading till 7
Buy Lego
Be open about sex
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Full artical:
http://kattegatuk.blogspot.com/2012/04/being-scandi-mum.html#li
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话说英国的《泰晤士报》在3月25日刊登了一篇题为Forget Tiger Mom， here comes
the Scandi dad（忘了虎妈吧，斯堪的爹来了）的报道（作者Rachel Carlyle），介绍
备受英国等欧洲国家父母欢迎的“斯堪的纳维亚式子女养育方法”。
耶鲁大学法学院教授蔡美儿提出的严厉教育方式“虎妈”一度非常流行，但是现在瑞典
、丹麦等北欧国家家庭中可以看到的“斯堪的爸爸（斯堪的纳维亚爸爸）”成为大势。
斯堪的纳维亚式教育方法的核心是父母都把家庭放在首位，争取最多的时间和孩子到外
面活动。当然，出现这样的效果在很大程度上得益于高水平的北欧福利体系。在瑞典，
男女都享有16个月的育儿假期，在此期间能领到80%的月薪。
具体说来，斯堪的爹的成功模式包含以下十大黄金法则：
①家庭的核心是所有家庭成员：父母不能为了孩子而让其他家庭成员迎合孩子。
②绝对禁止暴力、喊叫：孩子容易听懂的轻声训诫更有效。
③迎合其他社会成员：周围安静时让孩子也保持安静。
④经常和子女到外面玩：到外面呼吸新鲜空气、玩泥巴、嬉戏有利于儿童健康和接触大
自然。
⑤简单的日常生活对儿童最好：比起上特长班或电脑游戏，散步、游泳，吃好玩好才是
最好的。
⑥国家大力支援托儿所：丹麦政府向各个家庭补助托儿所费用的75%。
⑦孩子在外面比在家里睡得好：白天哄孩子睡觉时，最好把孩子放在婴儿车里推出去散
步。
⑧七岁之前不教孩子认字：虽然没有从小就学认字，但北欧学生的成绩却是世界最高水
平。
⑨给孩子买垒高拼装玩具：培养孩子的逻辑思维和空间认知能力。
⑩从幼儿园开始进行性教育：在具有开放性文化的北欧，孩子从6、7岁就开始接受基本
的性教育。因为这个原因，10多岁女孩的怀孕率居世界最低水平 |
m*******a
发帖数: 2947 | |
m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 3 丹麦。
【在 m*******a 的大作中提到】
: lego是欧洲的还是美国的？
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 4 Is there any relationship between the last two rules?
Philosophically, mixing and matching LEGO pieces and having fun thereof is
similar to mating with different people and having fun thereof. |
m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 5 这不是瞎起哄么。
一个是拿东西玩。一个是身体相关的。ahah
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Is there any relationship between the last two rules?
: Philosophically, mixing and matching LEGO pieces and having fun thereof is
: similar to mating with different people and having fun thereof.
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 6 Physically, a human body is a 东西, just a few times bigger than a LEGO.
Using the trial and error method to find the best match is the rudimentary
strategy in puzzle solving. Match making only involves finding two
matching pieces. But it is one of the hardest puzzles to be solved by a
human. Many people failed after many tries.
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 这不是瞎起哄么。
: 一个是拿东西玩。一个是身体相关的。ahah
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 7 东西，没有emotion。。最大的区别阿。
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Physically, a human body is a 东西, just a few times bigger than a LEGO.
: Using the trial and error method to find the best match is the rudimentary
: strategy in puzzle solving. Match making only involves finding two
: matching pieces. But it is one of the hardest puzzles to be solved by a
: human. Many people failed after many tries.
|
c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 8 human body有脑子，lego有脑子么？起哄也不是这么个起法啊，老大！
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: Physically, a human body is a 东西, just a few times bigger than a LEGO.
: Using the trial and error method to find the best match is the rudimentary
: strategy in puzzle solving. Match making only involves finding two
: matching pieces. But it is one of the hardest puzzles to be solved by a
: human. Many people failed after many tries.
|
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 9 LEGO does not have a brain. Therefore, the LEGO player uses his or her
brain to solve the puzzle.
Love is blind. We heard so many stories wherein at the heat of the moment,
two people thought they love each other without using their brains. But most
people use their brains when in love. In that sense, the LEGO and the LEGO
player are merged into one single piece to solve the puzzle. Such a
transformation has pros and cons. And by playing LEGO, the LEGO player might
have a better chance to find the right matching piece. Similarly, by having an open
sex education and tolerance for (random?) sex, a lover might have a better
chance to find the correct matching counterpart for him or her. |
c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 10 你这纯抬杠啊！
most
LEGO
might
having an open
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: LEGO does not have a brain. Therefore, the LEGO player uses his or her
: brain to solve the puzzle.
: Love is blind. We heard so many stories wherein at the heat of the moment,
: two people thought they love each other without using their brains. But most
: people use their brains when in love. In that sense, the LEGO and the LEGO
: player are merged into one single piece to solve the puzzle. Such a
: transformation has pros and cons. And by playing LEGO, the LEGO player might
: have a better chance to find the right matching piece. Similarly, by having an open
: sex education and tolerance for (random?) sex, a lover might have a better
: chance to find the correct matching counterpart for him or her.
|
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | |
w********e
发帖数: 4186 | 12 原来是推销Lego的:)
不过，说到瑞典的教育，我的印象是这样的，假设一个班有30个人，考试后，中国的班
级会把30个人排队，表扬前5名，批评后5名，美国的班级是表扬前5名，瑞典的谁都不
表扬，不批评，大家都很好，很努力。 |
