e*********a
发帖数: 36 | 1 We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
just sharing. People are so different.
My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
time and about t |
x*********a
发帖数: 462 | 2 完全理解。
但生了第二个孩子后，ni会发自内心有另一个LIST，为什么给老大弄个弟弟妹妹。
IT JUST WORTH IT。 |
a******o
发帖数: 594 | 3 有人给你压力么?
本来生孩子生几个就是个人的选择,别人的意见只是参考而已.
我个人想要第二个宝宝的原因纯粹是因为想再要一个孩子,不是为了给老大做伴......
你自己没有想要老二的意愿的话,当然没必要要啦.
people
good
【在 e*********a 的大作中提到】
: We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
: one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
: from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
: just sharing. People are so different.
: My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
: easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
: suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
: time and about t
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 4 我怎么就喜欢这个老坑呢。
其实生几个。还有不生。都是自己选择。
唯一的理由生二个。就是。生一个 长远来说 。种族减少阿
people
good
【在 e*********a 的大作中提到】
: We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
: one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
: from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
: just sharing. People are so different.
: My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
: easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
: suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
: time and about t
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n***u
发帖数: 979 | 5 我只想对楼主说一句话: 想要下一个, 你现在这个状态是最佳时机... |
a****n
发帖数: 2090 | 6 喜欢小孩儿也养得起就多生几个， 否则一个也就够了。
people
good
【在 e*********a 的大作中提到】
: We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
: one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
: from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
: just sharing. People are so different.
: My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
: easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
: suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
: time and about t
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f******s
发帖数: 4020 | 7 { 在 mark (花生，微爷远爷的爸爸) 的大作中提到: 】
生两个也是。 |
m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 8 阿？为啥? 因为有少比例没有继续生育了?
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】
: { 在 mark (花生，微爷远爷的爸爸) 的大作中提到: 】
: 生两个也是。
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f******s
发帖数: 4020 | 9 如果大家都两个生两个，如果没有灾难意外，那人口只能保持。但灾难意外总是难免的呀
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 阿？为啥? 因为有少比例没有继续生育了?
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 10 每个人生两个半好了
的呀
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】
: 如果大家都两个生两个，如果没有灾难意外，那人口只能保持。但灾难意外总是难免的呀
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f******s
发帖数: 4020 | 11 为了种族保持，看来你还得继续生呀:)
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 每个人生两个半好了
:
: 的呀
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az
发帖数: 16686 | 12 生不生生几个完全自愿的啊，为啥要列个1，2，3，4，5来说服自己呢？生multiple个
又不是default，不太明白
需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗
？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？
people
good
【在 e*********a 的大作中提到】
: We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
: one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
: from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
: just sharing. People are so different.
: My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
: easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
: suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
: time and about t
|
s*****a
发帖数: 3693 | 13 我在黑暗的地方走路就喜欢唱歌。
【在 az 的大作中提到】
: 生不生生几个完全自愿的啊，为啥要列个1，2，3，4，5来说服自己呢？生multiple个
: 又不是default，不太明白
: 需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗
: ？需要理由吗？不需要理由吗？
:
: people
: good
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V*****8
发帖数: 33122 | 14 totally understand, even 1 is more than enough for me, sometimes. |
i******m
发帖数: 2591 | 15 hand hand
生多的就是牺牲自己成全整个种族阿
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 我怎么就喜欢这个老坑呢。
: 其实生几个。还有不生。都是自己选择。
: 唯一的理由生二个。就是。生一个 长远来说 。种族减少阿
:
: people
: good
|
m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 16 一个不生其实最轻松了.lol
【在 i******m 的大作中提到】
: hand hand
: 生多的就是牺牲自己成全整个种族阿
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i******m
发帖数: 2591 | 17 没错阿，正是我老人家的口头禅
丁克家族很多都是生不出来很少有不愿生的
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 一个不生其实最轻松了.lol
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s*****a
发帖数: 3693 | 18 爹妈的压力也很大啊，而且到了一定的年纪朋友圈会越来越小。
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 一个不生其实最轻松了.lol
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n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 19 要不要，要几个，什么时候要，都是自己和老公的事。跟任何别人的理由都没关系。而
且我觉得你列的都是我最讨厌的劝生老二的理由。
但是，我现在就是很想再给自己找一次麻烦，因为我觉得我儿子很好玩，想再整个出来
，我就是好了伤疤忘了痛。哈哈～ |
a**y
发帖数: 6501 | 20 2.2才够的
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】
: 阿？为啥? 因为有少比例没有继续生育了?
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n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 21 哈哈，这一次我不需要任何解释也能明白２.２的来由鸟～
【在 a**y 的大作中提到】
: 2.2才够的
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l**u
发帖数: 118 | 22 不想生就别生贝，自己跟劳工都没意见就ok，
还需要这么些条条框框的理由吗？
就跟我每天打算吃几碗饭似的，不需要跟别人share |
B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 23 A well written article.
However,
neither am I critizing any group -> criticizing
predictable and quite child -> quiet
kindergarden -> kindergarten (the cardinal sin on this board)
extracurriculum activities -> extracurricular activities
martial arts, ect. -> martial arts, etc.
But the likelyhood is very low nowadays. -> likelihood
Only 1 in 1000 children are disabled or die from accident. -> 1) would
be disabled or die 2) is disabled or dies
childhood desease -> diseases
It is a highly personal
【在 e*********a 的大作中提到】
: We've been thinking about having another child but now decided to stop at
: one. I'd like to share my thoughts about this. I am not discouraging people
: from having more children, neither am I critizing any group. Again, I am
: just sharing. People are so different.
: My son just turned 2. He is an obedient, predictable and quite child. It's
: easy taking care of him. I am a stay at home mom. So people have been
: suggesting me to have a second child as early as possible. Yes, it is a good
: time and about t
|
g***t
发帖数: 83 | 24 No matter how many kids you want to have it's very personal, no one can
criticize.
But the reasons lz listed 2) and 6) are contradicted.
If you enjoy spending time with you child (reason 2), why are you saying "
stuck with an infant 24/7" (reason 6). Didn't you enjoy spending time with
your son when he was an infant? It seems adoption fits you, adopting kids
that older than 2, so that you can enjoy their company without the sleepless
nights with infants.
I'm a mom of two children and expecting |
n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 25 LOL
That's the reason I stay away from typing in English here. I know someone,
somewhere, is watching, and sometime he will bounce out without a sign
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: A well written article.
: However,
: neither am I critizing any group -> criticizing
: predictable and quite child -> quiet
: kindergarden -> kindergarten (the cardinal sin on this board)
: extracurriculum activities -> extracurricular activities
: martial arts, ect. -> martial arts, etc.
: But the likelyhood is very low nowadays. -> likelihood
: Only 1 in 1000 children are disabled or die from accident. -> 1) would
: be disabled or die 2) is disabled or dies
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 26 But, but, but, you are eating your own words by replying in English! I am
speechless.
What a brave woman! I am running for cover.
【在 n****w 的大作中提到】
: LOL
: That's the reason I stay away from typing in English here. I know someone,
: somewhere, is watching, and sometime he will bounce out without a sign
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n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 27 Since you are out, I feel more prepared.
BTW, you don't need a helmet, but you do need something to cover anyhow. LOL
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: But, but, but, you are eating your own words by replying in English! I am
: speechless.
: What a brave woman! I am running for cover.
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D**********R
发帖数: 25234 | 28 我家的理由最简单了，没钱，想生也养不起了。
今天还和朋友算了笔帐，要么妈妈不上学，彻底蹲家，要么老大不要去幼儿园，在家圈
养，否则门都没有。
总之不能为了生而生，自己想清楚了最好。 |
n****w
发帖数: 1575 | 29 Sorry. My mistake. I thought it was "running for a cover" :(
【在 B******1 的大作中提到】
: But, but, but, you are eating your own words by replying in English! I am
: speechless.
: What a brave woman! I am running for cover.
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c*********e
发帖数: 252 | 30 这个是平均生育率。毕竟有很多生多过平均的，所以不是说每个人都要生这么多。
【在 a**y 的大作中提到】
: 2.2才够的
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