C*S
发帖数: 135 | 1 I have a lovely son, 7 moths old. I just finished
my 3-month family leave and came back from Madison where
my wife and son live (long distance relationship).
However, I realized today, one day after came back,
clearly that she was not the one I want for the
rest of my life. I told her that I could not bear
her and her mother any more. In fact, I realized
that divorce is the only way to get rid of the
controls of her side of family. I also realized that
her ex-husband got enough with them also. I thought
he cheated behind her, as she told me. But after our
marriage, I realized, from my experience with her that
her ex-husband could not bear her - he had not been
happy with her, same as I have not been happy with her.
So now I worry about what to do with my son. What can
I do? What will happen to his life? A broken family
when he was only 7 months old?
I talked to my wife just now asking her idea of divorce.
She said she wanted it also and quick. So the only thing
left is my son's future.
I really do not want to see my wife any more (nor after
divorce). But I have to see my son.
I just got my green card last year, and also she got
her dependent green card in Jan this year. I did it
for my son to have a whole family, and also for us.
But now the family is clasped.
What do you guys think? I only care about my son now. I
also think of forget my son, the worst hardest thing
to me, so that I do not need to see or talk to my wife
again in my whole life. But I do not know if I have a
will strong enough for that. Either way, it is full of
struggles, divorce or not.
The past 3+ years with my wife were the darkest years,
worse than hell, although there was tiny little bit of
very short period of happiness. This marriage has been
killing me painfully and slowly. I lost everything I
had. | n*******2
发帖数: 10103 | | f***q
发帖数: 601 | 3 过去三年的marriage都不幸福，为什么要生娃？！！ | C*S
发帖数: 135 | 4 A period of consulting was happy, only 3 months.
Also, she did not want divorce until now. I talked
about my feeling about her/marriage.
【在 f***q 的大作中提到】
: 过去三年的marriage都不幸福，为什么要生娃？！！
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