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I debated whether or not to share this, but as everyone has been sharing
their "JoePa stories" lately, I thought it'd be appropriate to share mine.
Despite attending Penn State University Park for 4.5 years, I never had the
opportunity to meet JoePa. I heard stories of friends that had - most
memorably two friends who, while out riding their bikes, saw him driving
home from practice on the eve of the 2005 Ohio State game. They decided to
follow him all the way into his garage so that they could shake his hand and
wish him luck. Instead of being weirded out (which would have been pretty
understandable) he was very gracious and thanked them for the support.
The first weekend in this past December, I was visiting Penn State for a
number of different reasons. While I was there, I wanted to show my support
for Joe in light of his cancer diagnosis and how he had been mistreated by
the University and the press (based on incomplete information and
misinformation) in the last month. I decided to leave him a note expressing
my support along with a blue & white bouquet of flowers. I felt awkward
approaching the Paternos' home. I had heard stories of students and alumni
that had walked right up, rung the doorbell, and been welcomed in by Joe and
Sue - in some cases, even being fed by Sue - but having never met the
Paternos, I didn't have the nerve. I left the note and bouquet on their
doorstep and walked away. That was the afternoon of Sunday, Dec. 4.
On Wednesday, Dec. 7, I received a text from my Mom:
"Does Joe Pa live on McKee St? If so, you got a card from him."
I think my jaw must have dropped about five feet. I was absolutely stunned
that Joe and Sue would take the time to send me a card. Later, when I read
the card, I was even more humbled by what it contained. Joe and Sue thanked
me for the flowers and the note, and said that Joe was drawing strength in
his battle with cancer from all the support he had received from Penn
Staters. They said that it was "good to be reminded of what we were trying
to accomplish at Penn State." They said that after they finished "getting
Joe healthy," they would work to remind people of the values that Joe had
tried to impart during his time at Penn State. The card was signed, "Very
fondly, Joe and Sue Paterno"
But here is the most amazing thing about all of this and what shocks me even
to this day: I DIDN'T LEAVE ANY CONTACT INFORMATION WITH MY NOTE. I had
signed the note with my name, and mentioned my graduation year, but had been
very intentional about not leaving an address, email address, phone number,
anything. This means that Sue (I have to think it was her, given Joe's
health at the time), despite receiving hundreds of letters from alumni per
day, took the time to look me up in the alumni directory (which still
contained my parents' address at the time) and send me a card. The Paternos
had never met me before; I'm not a huge donor to the school; I'm not someone
important who can do anything for them; I'm just another alum. And they
went way out of their way to send me a thank you card THE VERY NEXT DAY.
Recently, Penn Staters have been characterized as football-crazed idiots for
supporting JoePa despite the allegations made against him in the press. I
can tell you that Penn Staters' love for JoePa has almost nothing to do with
football. Chris Grovich of Black Shoe Diaries may have put it best when he
wrote, "[JoePa] believed in all of us [Penn Staters], whether we knew it or
not." Penn Staters are the Paternos' life work and legacy. Joe never missed
an opportunity to remind us that success is only valuable when it comes with
honor, and that all of us - football players or not - were at college
primarily to gain an education, broaden our horizons, and become better
people. It is not an overstatement to say that a part of who I am today is
directly because of Joe Paterno and his love for Penn State.
Simply put, Joe loved Penn State. That's the only kind of thing that could
keep him at Penn State, where he was paid a salary 1/8 the size of other
college coaches with half his wins and rejected multimillion dollar offers
from NFL teams. That's the only kind of thing that could cause him to donate
$100,000 to Penn State a month after the administration fired him over the
phone. That's the only kind of thing that could make someone of Joe's
stature take the time to send a thank you card to an anonymous alum despite
dealing with immense personal trials himself. Joe loved Penn State.
And Penn State loves him back. Thank you, Coach. | l****y
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