D***0
发帖数: 414 | 1 第一次换工作，请各位有经验的指导一下！
offer1 一直在催着我签字，但是另外两个还在等final decision 。
如果一旦在 offer 1上签了字，之后拿到更好的offer, 可不可以跟他们说不去呢？
除了伤人品以外， 会不会有法律的麻烦？
谢谢！ |
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 2 信誉信誉。 唉，为了懒而想毁约，我无语。
你一边得催B，C家出OFFER，一边得
拖住A不签约。 好话说尽，拖到
B，C出OFFER。 |
D***0
发帖数: 414 | 3
————————
不是我懒，我是已经尽了最大的力气，可是A家已经催了好几次，
B家各种波折，而C家催了好多次但给offer的进展非常慢。
诚心请教 如何做到 好话说尽？ 能举些例子吗？
多谢！
【在 o**********e 的大作中提到】
: 信誉信誉。 唉，为了懒而想毁约，我无语。
: 你一边得催B，C家出OFFER，一边得
: 拖住A不签约。 好话说尽，拖到
: B，C出OFFER。
|
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 4 ask A for someone from your school alumni/hometown to help you make the
decision. ask for more time. remember to appreciate the HR people and the
team who made you offer.
ask B/C to expedite tell them that you have a very good offer from a very
good company. but you really really want to work for B/C. try to talk to
the HM to convince them that you really like their team/product/company.
If B/C simply won't make offer in a timely manner, then tell them that you
are terribly sorry but you will accept A's offer and you value your promises
. It means no matter how high their offer is, you will NOT work for them.
And you will share your experience with your buddies about their company,
that their decision making process is screwed up and put candidates through
the ringers.
They are probably not good companies anyway, or just don't want you.
You need to stand up for yourself and NOT destroy your own reputation
by taking the easy way out.
还有就是recruiters have incentives to help you out. Multiply the incentive
by offering to help them recruit your buddies. |
b********r
发帖数: 764 | 5 用A的offer去push B和C啊，如果他们想要你显然会加速的。
跟A就拖呗，比如说想更了解组内情况，schedule a call with HM or teammate.
【在 D***0 的大作中提到】
: 第一次换工作，请各位有经验的指导一下！
: offer1 一直在催着我签字，但是另外两个还在等final decision 。
: 如果一旦在 offer 1上签了字，之后拿到更好的offer, 可不可以跟他们说不去呢？
: 除了伤人品以外， 会不会有法律的麻烦？
: 谢谢！
|
x*j
发帖数: 271 | 6 我遇到过类似的情况，你参考吧，A公司给了offer， B公司面试完后拖着我。但是B公
司确实是个hot的startup。我直接问B公司到底什么时候能给个结果，给我明确的时间
，然后告诉A公司，我在等B公司的结论，就到那一天，希望A公司可以extend到那一天
，到时候不管B公司给不给offer或者offer怎么样，就会做个决定。到点了，如果B公司
还不屌我，我就不甩它。
A公司答应，B公司也答应。实际结果是等到一半A公司忍不住给我加钱，到最后一天B公
司也还在放我鸽子。想想A公司诚意满满，B公司虽然店大但是欺客太厉害，从了A公司
，感谢B公司。姗姗来迟一周后B公司说他们就一个opening，面到一个更合适的
candidate，把我据了。
结论就是首先得有deadline，两边都有，其次到点做决定，公司对人的态度反应他们多
想招你。真的b公司最后给我offer，估计也不是他们最理想的人，所以我进去也未必比
A好多岁。 |
m*********u
发帖数: 1491 | 7 Get the offer you can get, this is so called market.
Jump to a better place later, this is so called freedom.
Job hunting is a business process, you chose what is the best for you and
your family.
跟人品没任何关系。 |
r******l
发帖数: 10760 | 8 一般offer都是at will的，那就肯定不会有什么法律问题。至于人品信誉啥的就另一说
了。 |
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 9 laotou别来误人子弟了。
大多数人不是世界顶尖级人才。
没有人品，你有什么？ |
D***0
发帖数: 414 | 10 第一次换工作，请各位有经验的指导一下！
offer1 一直在催着我签字，但是另外两个还在等final decision 。
如果一旦在 offer 1上签了字，之后拿到更好的offer, 可不可以跟他们说不去呢？
除了伤人品以外， 会不会有法律的麻烦？
谢谢！ |
|
|
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 11 信誉信誉。 唉，为了懒而想毁约，我无语。
你一边得催B，C家出OFFER，一边得
拖住A不签约。 好话说尽，拖到
B，C出OFFER。 |
D***0
发帖数: 414 | 12
————————
不是我懒，我是已经尽了最大的力气，可是A家已经催了好几次，
B家各种波折，而C家催了好多次但给offer的进展非常慢。
诚心请教 如何做到 好话说尽？ 能举些例子吗？
多谢！
【在 o**********e 的大作中提到】
: 信誉信誉。 唉，为了懒而想毁约，我无语。
: 你一边得催B，C家出OFFER，一边得
: 拖住A不签约。 好话说尽，拖到
: B，C出OFFER。
|
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 13 ask A for someone from your school alumni/hometown to help you make the
decision. ask for more time. remember to appreciate the HR people and the
team who made you offer.
ask B/C to expedite tell them that you have a very good offer from a very
good company. but you really really want to work for B/C. try to talk to
the HM to convince them that you really like their team/product/company.
If B/C simply won't make offer in a timely manner, then tell them that you
are terribly sorry but you will accept A's offer and you value your promises
. It means no matter how high their offer is, you will NOT work for them.
And you will share your experience with your buddies about their company,
that their decision making process is screwed up and put candidates through
the ringers.
They are probably not good companies anyway, or just don't want you.
You need to stand up for yourself and NOT destroy your own reputation
by taking the easy way out.
还有就是recruiters have incentives to help you out. Multiply the incentive
by offering to help them recruit your buddies. |
b********r
发帖数: 764 | 14 用A的offer去push B和C啊，如果他们想要你显然会加速的。
跟A就拖呗，比如说想更了解组内情况，schedule a call with HM or teammate.
【在 D***0 的大作中提到】
: 第一次换工作，请各位有经验的指导一下！
: offer1 一直在催着我签字，但是另外两个还在等final decision 。
: 如果一旦在 offer 1上签了字，之后拿到更好的offer, 可不可以跟他们说不去呢？
: 除了伤人品以外， 会不会有法律的麻烦？
: 谢谢！
|
x*j
发帖数: 271 | 15 我遇到过类似的情况，你参考吧，A公司给了offer， B公司面试完后拖着我。但是B公
司确实是个hot的startup。我直接问B公司到底什么时候能给个结果，给我明确的时间
，然后告诉A公司，我在等B公司的结论，就到那一天，希望A公司可以extend到那一天
，到时候不管B公司给不给offer或者offer怎么样，就会做个决定。到点了，如果B公司
还不屌我，我就不甩它。
A公司答应，B公司也答应。实际结果是等到一半A公司忍不住给我加钱，到最后一天B公
司也还在放我鸽子。想想A公司诚意满满，B公司虽然店大但是欺客太厉害，从了A公司
，感谢B公司。姗姗来迟一周后B公司说他们就一个opening，面到一个更合适的
candidate，把我据了。
结论就是首先得有deadline，两边都有，其次到点做决定，公司对人的态度反应他们多
想招你。真的b公司最后给我offer，估计也不是他们最理想的人，所以我进去也未必比
A好多岁。 |
m*********u
发帖数: 1491 | 16 Get the offer you can get, this is so called market.
Jump to a better place later, this is so called freedom.
Job hunting is a business process, you chose what is the best for you and
your family.
跟人品没任何关系。 |
r******l
发帖数: 10760 | 17 一般offer都是at will的，那就肯定不会有什么法律问题。至于人品信誉啥的就另一说
了。 |
o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 18 laotou别来误人子弟了。
大多数人不是世界顶尖级人才。
没有人品，你有什么？ |
J*******o
发帖数: 741 | 19
re
【在 m*********u 的大作中提到】
: Get the offer you can get, this is so called market.
: Jump to a better place later, this is so called freedom.
: Job hunting is a business process, you chose what is the best for you and
: your family.
: 跟人品没任何关系。
|
w****r
发帖数: 15252 | 20 如果BC拖很久，那就说明一个问题，你不是priority的，所以什么事情都可能发生，你
就不要惦记了。如果你是first choice candidate，他们早就给你下offer了。
拿到有的再说，不要惦记那些没有的，我吃了这个亏，现在啥都没有了 |
