r*********n 发帖数: 1166 | 1 From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell,
Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say?
You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily
drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest
, most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway?
...
Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such
things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind. | m***o 发帖数: 17656 | | k*t 发帖数: 53 | 3 roaringlion,
Where are you?
unnecessarily
quickest
loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】 : From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell, : Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say? : You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily : drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest : , most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway? : ... : Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such : things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again. : Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind.
| t******f 发帖数: 2109 | 4
【在 k*t 的大作中提到】 : roaringlion, : Where are you? : : unnecessarily : quickest : loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
| s******m 发帖数: 259 | 5 Have you been in an argument and your goal is to get through? You heard the
other say the words that drag out the past and wound the most, intentionally
or not. To Compete with the quick transmission of hurt, You promptly cut
off the crucial path for any harm to enter, the emotional association. And
yet, you didn't say what would hurt the other one and you got through.
Mission accomplished.
unnecessarily
quickest
loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again.
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】 : From "Love Wins" by Rob Bell, : Have you ever been in an argument and you knew exactly what not to say? : You knew exactly what would most wound the person, what would unnecessarily : drag the past up, what would get right to the person's heart in the quickest : , most hurtful way - and yet you said that very thing anyway? : ... : Once you are awaken, you will put yourself at alert and refuse to say such : things, to him, to her, to anyone. Thereby you will be able to keep a loving mind, always smile and never speak with malice again. : Inner peace 其实并不难, just a matter of practicing your mind.
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