m**********d
发帖数: 1818 | 1 interim chair离职前给的口头offer，permanent chair两个礼拜半前回来接手，没有
联系我，我就写了个email问候，上礼拜回了要list of courses，也没有update我怎么
回事,然后又不吭声了，昨天打电话过去，一开始小蜜说在meeting,接着等我再次打的
时候收到他的email说在处理，他打电话回来就说“what is it?"然后complain因为我
不是very strong candidate所以要走额外的程序，问我grant的事情，后来我追问我是
否应该stop我的其他申请，他说no definitely no.整个讲话过程有些rude，是中国人但是口
音很奇怪，基本上大半没听懂他在说什么，。
是我太pushy吗？从三个礼拜前给口头offer至今自始至终也没有问我会不会接受啥的。不给我个准话我还得准备其他backup plan啊。 |
S******e
发帖数: 299 | 2 WTF. Dude, you are (will be) in trouble there ... |
m**********d
发帖数: 1818 | 3 我也知道这不是个好去处，可是这是唯一的offer，要不然还是再做postdoc好了。
是因为我骚扰他太多了吗？我总共就发过两个email,一通电话，他email里面还蛮客气，为什么电话里这么mean.
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】
: WTF. Dude, you are (will be) in trouble there ...
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a**********y
发帖数: 2367 | |
m**********d
发帖数: 1818 | 5 不知道啊，莫名其妙的，这样的chair是不是去了肯定没有好果子吃？
【在 a**********y 的大作中提到】
: 这么容易就得罪了呀
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G***y
发帖数: 1082 | 6 I understand your feeling but you are pushing too hard. The chair must feel
you are backing him into a corner and trying to squeeze a decision out of
him. There are a lot of things that the chair can not control so he can't
give you an definite answer before the final decision even he wants to hire
you. You should try to refrain yourself from pesting him.
气，为什么电话里这么mean.
【在 m**********d 的大作中提到】
: 我也知道这不是个好去处，可是这是唯一的offer，要不然还是再做postdoc好了。
: 是因为我骚扰他太多了吗？我总共就发过两个email,一通电话，他email里面还蛮客气，为什么电话里这么mean.
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m**********d
发帖数: 1818 | 7 前面的chair给了口头offer后现chair回来后没有主动联系过我，email也是很模糊，我担心啊。现在怎么办？会不会把offer收回？这样的chair是不是即使去了肯定没有好果子吃？
feel
hire
【在 G***y 的大作中提到】
: I understand your feeling but you are pushing too hard. The chair must feel
: you are backing him into a corner and trying to squeeze a decision out of
: him. There are a lot of things that the chair can not control so he can't
: give you an definite answer before the final decision even he wants to hire
: you. You should try to refrain yourself from pesting him.
:
: 气，为什么电话里这么mean.
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G***y
发帖数: 1082 | 8 Is there anything you can do (such as finding another position)? If there is
, start doing it and stop worrying. If not, just wait and stop worrying.
Nothing people on the internet tells you can improve your situation.
我担心啊。现在怎么办？会不会把offer收回？这样的chair是不是即使去了肯定没有好
果子吃？
【在 m**********d 的大作中提到】
: 前面的chair给了口头offer后现chair回来后没有主动联系过我，email也是很模糊，我担心啊。现在怎么办？会不会把offer收回？这样的chair是不是即使去了肯定没有好果子吃？
:
: feel
: hire
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m**********d
发帖数: 1818 | 9 在联系一个postdoc的职位。。。：（
is
【在 G***y 的大作中提到】
: Is there anything you can do (such as finding another position)? If there is
: , start doing it and stop worrying. If not, just wait and stop worrying.
: Nothing people on the internet tells you can improve your situation.
:
: 我担心啊。现在怎么办？会不会把offer收回？这样的chair是不是即使去了肯定没有好
: 果子吃？
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