c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 1 I may need some help.
please let me know if you can help. |
D********n
发帖数: 69 | |
c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 3 it is a small favor, but it is huge to do that to a stranger.
【在 D********n 的大作中提到】
: what kinda of help?
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s***e
发帖数: 7166 | 4 知道是陌生人，还遮遮掩掩的谁理你啊。
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: it is a small favor, but it is huge to do that to a stranger.
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 5 well, I am just trying my luck.
some one just happens to know me?
or some one just like me , like to help people?
【在 s***e 的大作中提到】
: 知道是陌生人，还遮遮掩掩的谁理你啊。
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 6 if you don't say what kind of help, how can others know whether or not they
can help you? |
c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 7 well, if they live nearby and they might help, they will ask me.
Like couple guys already did.
Is it an OK logic here?
they
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: if you don't say what kind of help, how can others know whether or not they
: can help you?
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 8 Frankly, it is a strange logic. |
c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 9 Frankly, you did not get it.
It is quite simple to understand my friend.
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: Frankly, it is a strange logic.
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 10 Look, i am not here to argue. You can do a poll here to ask if it's a cocky
way to ask for help.... |
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 11 I am here to ask for help, not try to help you improve your thought process.
If you can help or want to help, ask me what kind of help.
Otherwise, just go away.
Is it simple?
cocky
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: Look, i am not here to argue. You can do a poll here to ask if it's a cocky
: way to ask for help....
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 12 你询问的方式可以更明确一些，缩小范围，那样， 就给人家一个机会去考虑是不是能
帮上你的忙。举例：假如你不方便说需要人帮着洗澡什么的， 可以喊“需要家务方面
的劳力
， 有能帮忙的吗？ ”
process.
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: I am here to ask for help, not try to help you improve your thought process.
: If you can help or want to help, ask me what kind of help.
: Otherwise, just go away.
: Is it simple?
:
: cocky
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s***e
发帖数: 7166 | 13 呵呵，真是波版多极品啊。
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: 你询问的方式可以更明确一些，缩小范围，那样， 就给人家一个机会去考虑是不是能
: 帮上你的忙。举例：假如你不方便说需要人帮着洗澡什么的， 可以喊“需要家务方面
: 的劳力
: ， 有能帮忙的吗？ ”
:
: process.
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 14 是不是我举的例子有点滑稽不合适？
我想说明即便不好意思公开提出要求帮助的事情，choosewhat也能表达得更清晰， 沟
通的目的是让大家明白， 而不是引起注意， 然后又空洞无文。
【在 s***e 的大作中提到】
: 呵呵，真是波版多极品啊。
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 15 no need, people are able to help and willing to help, already pinged me.
I already talk to people.
The world is much simpler than a lot of people think it is.
"引起注意" "空洞无文"
what you guys talk about?
LOL
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: 是不是我举的例子有点滑稽不合适？
: 我想说明即便不好意思公开提出要求帮助的事情，choosewhat也能表达得更清晰， 沟
: 通的目的是让大家明白， 而不是引起注意， 然后又空洞无文。
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 16 有人帮你就好了，我觉得你那个号召贴的表述仍然是不清晰的。
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: no need, people are able to help and willing to help, already pinged me.
: I already talk to people.
: The world is much simpler than a lot of people think it is.
: "引起注意" "空洞无文"
: what you guys talk about?
: LOL
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 17 it did not mean to be clear about what kind of help I would need.
Because I don't want to publicize it.
People who is living nearby and they are 热心人，will ask me what kind of
help in private
It is just simple. And language is for communication to people who will
understand, NOT a perfection for a statement that clear to everybody.
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: 有人帮你就好了，我觉得你那个号召贴的表述仍然是不清晰的。
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 18 Shrug
你跟某个人对暗号
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: it did not mean to be clear about what kind of help I would need.
: Because I don't want to publicize it.
: People who is living nearby and they are 热心人，will ask me what kind of
: help in private
: It is just simple. And language is for communication to people who will
: understand, NOT a perfection for a statement that clear to everybody.
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 19 hehe, that's right gesture.
A lot of time, the world is just very simple.
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: Shrug
: 你跟某个人对暗号
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 20 Seashores, I need some help, can you promise to help me???
Say yes first please, then I will tell you what kind of help I need. |
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 21 see you still stuck at it, while we already past it.
Don't grudge about it because last time I said something, young man.
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: Seashores, I need some help, can you promise to help me???
: Say yes first please, then I will tell you what kind of help I need.
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 22 哎吆， 鸡皮疙瘩
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: Seashores, I need some help, can you promise to help me???
: Say yes first please, then I will tell you what kind of help I need.
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 23 Pardon? I wasn't talking to you.
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: see you still stuck at it, while we already past it.
: Don't grudge about it because last time I said something, young man.
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t*********t
发帖数: 981 | 24 我没看懂，你不说啥忙，别人怎么知道能不能帮得了？ 你让人帮忙搬家人帮得了你，
你让人帮你杀人谁帮得了你？
求人帮忙还拽得跟二五八万似的 |
c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 25 I think someone need to understand the difference.
CAN help and WILL help.
The "CAN help" here is "you live in a nearby area of trepelo road/R95 exit
28.
I admit that my statement is not clear to all the people (I never mean to
do that as I know I can't).
But don't be so arrogant about that your view/understanding is the perfect
one and other people are dumb here.
哎，写折磨多，我今天太闲了
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: 哎吆， 鸡皮疙瘩
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 26 就是这个简单的理。有人还不懂。sigh
【在 t*********t 的大作中提到】
: 我没看懂，你不说啥忙，别人怎么知道能不能帮得了？ 你让人帮忙搬家人帮得了你，
: 你让人帮你杀人谁帮得了你？
: 求人帮忙还拽得跟二五八万似的
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 27 you are way smarter than me.
Feel better?
LOL
【在 y*****y 的大作中提到】
: 就是这个简单的理。有人还不懂。sigh
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S*******s
发帖数: 10098 | 28 Am I so arrogant about that my view?
我只不过说:“你的要求表述得不清晰， 别人(包括我)就不知怎样回应你的要求”
【在 c********t 的大作中提到】
: I think someone need to understand the difference.
: CAN help and WILL help.
: The "CAN help" here is "you live in a nearby area of trepelo road/R95 exit
: 28.
: I admit that my statement is not clear to all the people (I never mean to
: do that as I know I can't).
: But don't be so arrogant about that your view/understanding is the perfect
: one and other people are dumb here.
: 哎，写折磨多，我今天太闲了
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 29 I did not mean that, or just to you.
This is wasting everybody's time.
I will just stop here.
You guys go ahead if you want to continue.
【在 S*******s 的大作中提到】
: Am I so arrogant about that my view?
: 我只不过说:“你的要求表述得不清晰， 别人(包括我)就不知怎样回应你的要求”
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s***e
发帖数: 7166 | 30 re
【在 t*********t 的大作中提到】
: 我没看懂，你不说啥忙，别人怎么知道能不能帮得了？ 你让人帮忙搬家人帮得了你，
: 你让人帮你杀人谁帮得了你？
: 求人帮忙还拽得跟二五八万似的
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