w*****g
发帖数: 186 | 1 不懂。主要是现在打的一块是不知名的carbon，打得我有时想把拍子扔掉。感觉小时候
用的便宜拍子都不这样。主要是小球控制太差，不知道是不是厚海绵造成的（2mm）。
所以就想用传统的木头拍子。 |
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w*****g
发帖数: 186 | 2 正在犹豫，反手要不要用1.5mm的海绵。（我用两面反胶）
多有点想用反手正胶了：） |
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F****d
发帖数: 261 | 3 想练正手弧圈的话，上OC，否则上柯贝尔。
上面老张推荐的红双喜“劲极7”也是个好选择，价廉物美，就是sweetspot小了些。 |
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r*******n
发帖数: 664 | 4 well. I guess i didn't have enough gas and stigma to save this time.
it was crazy match with Bee. Lost at 7:5, 5:7, 5:7. Gee, this is the longest match I ever had.
Bee is really a good player and most important, he has a big heart. I
remember I broke his serve in the 2nd and 3rd set. He broke back immediately. During the 3rd set, I led an early break advantage. He was so patient and looked for the chance. And he did, broke me at 5-ish game.
Even I broke his game again and was serving for the mat |
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r*******n
发帖数: 664 | 5 跟门口老头打球有一阵子了,贴过两次,基本上被口水淹死.上周末约jian10兄打球,发现
问题多多:
1. timing基本上是没谱了,击球点都迟个半秒左右.原因可能是跟老头打的多了,球速一快,反应就跟不上了.
2. 双误多.一盘下来,都快五个手指数过来了.
3. stigma和endurance都不行.打了一盘,脚上就起了二重泡. |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 6 let us know if you can find flowers with both stamen and stigma. |
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b**y
发帖数: 400 | 8 同一植株上偶尔有少数西瓜是雌雄同体的。但还是要摘另一朵雄花帮助授粉才能比较有
保证成功
stigma? |
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s**a
发帖数: 8648 | 9 playboy作为一个家族企业，这几年一直在走下坡路，色情业并不是想象的那么容易赚
钱的。
其实多半正是因为他们需要承受很高的这种moral stigma，为了招到像爵猫这样好的专
业人员，才开出很多的优惠条件吧。但是看来这个道德代价却是太大了。 |
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e*******c
发帖数: 2133 | 10 3.和黑暗一样美丽|STIGMA
我的手语并不好，所以当聋人姑娘小蓉带我去见那个女孩的时候，我还以为这个朋友也
是聋哑人。在夏天空荡荡的练功房里，一个女孩孤单地压腿，她听见我敲门，以一个芭
蕾舞者的姿态回过头。我这才知道，她看不见。
我无法形容她的相貌，她是美的，美丽其实和大眼睛小尖脸樱桃小口胭脂粉黛是不挂干
系的，因为美是一件很简单的事情，而她就是这种简单而浑然的美。
她伸出一只手，我握上去，她像读一本盲书一样轻轻捏了一下，她说演出还有两个小时
，快一些吧。
她的独舞即将开始，我在这里要做的事情就是帮这个看不见的女孩化妆。
她显然在练功房待了不少时间，轻车熟路地摸到了那张塑料椅子，很安静无谓地坐下等
着我。我蘸化妆水擦掉她脸上的薄汗。她问我化妆的时候可不可以打开收音机。我打开
，却很不巧，男女主持人在说张海迪的事迹，我匆忙换台，她笑笑说没关系的，就这样
吧。
她对张海迪嗤之以鼻，她说，我从来都不觉得去追求一个“身残志坚”的赞扬有多么重
要，我觉得所有人是一样的，他们说我看不见所以和他们不一样---但是“看得见”是
什么？我不知道那是什么，所以我不觉得我和别人有什么不一样的。更何况，我... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 11 跟中文不同的是，互联网火星文不是英语的canon，而且，有点本事的作者也不写网文
，而是找一个agent去寻求出版了。出版可以是电子书，但是出版物绝对是有标准的，
而不是火星文。
urban dictionary的词汇的使用一般不被认为是educated person的话语，但是中文的
火星文就没有这个stigma，相反，很多人还觉得这样狠潮
还是一个话语权问题。美国的嬉皮潮人基本上是边缘人士，中国火星文却是主流
来的
书的
求只 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 12 如今这年头了，不同的取向是不再是stigma……
支持bos反对性别歧视，女的也可以看topless show, 话说还挺impressive的，那么多
。。。 |
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w***s
发帖数: 7132 | 13 诗人詹姆士-美林(James Merrill)
垂柳图瓷杯
集体的歇斯底里，波纹破裂一波复生
岸上出身高贵的的广东人
在廉价店的变异物留存了基因库
烟云袅袅朦胧不清。有人今天却寻出。
梅花盛开，佛塔，青鸟，垂柳的羽枝——
几乎是一个战前图案的复制品——
同样的小舟载着微蚁般的恋人远去，
此时古老的桥弯下双影而她的父亲
微微示意，像从捕蝇纸上，渐而淡了挂牵。
两只小小的灯笼照亮他的归家之途。
他所携可是一卷画轴？此时他定已无比
智慧，早已舍弃世俗羁绊，和所有的一切。
不久，这五月的清晨，在薄雾中升起，他会问
只是为了入化——像肉身中的墨，蓝锚酒吧
钉上醺醉，而它的毁坏者
迅疾离去，伤疤抽痛，杂如乱麻——
只为了融入一种疯狂的质地。
你好遥远。树叶倾诉树叶所寄。
可这孤独的，缺口的容器，如果充满，
将为你注入那温暖而清澄的事物。
它们代表，我想象着，天堂的一个版本
在它的光阴中烦恼更多被弥补而不是替代：
陡檐斜倾，檐瓦铺的细密；
蜂巢翘起，雷云之青愁。
Willowware Cup
Mass hysteria, wave after breaking wave
Blueblooded Ca... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 14 The name BLUE is predominantly used for such movies because of the color of
the sets involved in filming the scenes, mainly with a motive to conceal the
identity of the actors, to ensure safeguard from social stigma, generally
attached with such movies.
why? |
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m******j
发帖数: 5079 | 15 Every once in a while, we read a book that doesn't just transform the way we
see the world. It also changes how we live our lives. For the past ten
years, I've been asking business leaders and students which book has most
influenced their actions. I give them one rule: it must include rigorous
evidence. Pure self-help and autobiographies are out; so are books by
leaders dispensing advice. (Experience isn't a substitute for evidence. If
it were, obeying the laws of gravity would make us all physi... 阅读全帖 |
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l***a
发帖数: 12410 | 16 watchdog says regulators bowed to big banks -- desire to shake bailout
stigma, exec pay limits fed pressure |
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x***k
发帖数: 20754 | 17 I have one word to give you upon the termination of this battle.
Approximately a century has elapsed since Nippon, after Commodore Perry's
entry to Shimoda, became widely affiliated with the countries of the world.
During this period of intercourse Nippon has met with many national crises
as well as the undesired Sino-Japanese War, Russo-Japanese War, the World
War, the Manchurian Incident, and the China Incident. Nippon is now,
unfortunately, in a state of open conflict with your country.
Judgi... 阅读全帖 |
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j*******7
发帖数: 930 | 18 如题， Canon70D 配的18-135 or 18-200？怎么买最值啊？
外加原配的canon镜头好，还是stigma的也可以啊？
多谢大牛们了！ |
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H**r
发帖数: 10015 | 19 这年头处男其实很多。。我认识很多快三十的处男
处男对于男的来说其实是个stigma
当然，肌肉男在中国人里面比例比较低就是了 |
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R**o
发帖数: 311 | 20 我还没有在任何权威学术期刊看到犯罪也有基因的论文，如果你觉得如此，请给出引文
出处。
你指摘人们忽略社会学心理学家，而事实反倒是你忽略了心理学家的观点。美国最权威的心理学协会
APA明确指出同性恋不是心理疾病，请看:
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Is homosexuality a mental illness or emotional problem?
No. Psychologists, psychiatrists, and other mental health professionals
agree that homosexuality is not an illness, a mental disorder, or an
emotional problem. More than 35 years of objective, well-designed
scientific research has shown that homosexuality, in and itself, is not
as... 阅读全帖 |
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s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 21 申诉期间可以照常上课吧，那就立刻make appointment在这儿看阿
这个谎言感觉没什么必要，也怕你撑不住这个谎言的consequences
可以说想了一个暑假终于克服了国内文化看counseling的stigma，现在决定看
counseling啥的。
自己决定吧 |
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b*******n
发帖数: 1267 | 22 中国“剩女”绝不屈服，拒不降低择偶标准
moonlight12321
于2011-10-22 12:15:09翻译 | 已有1922人浏览 | 有8人评论
在如今剩男、剩女数量不断加剧的情况下，剩女总是遭受社会舆论的“狂轰滥炸”。她
们能不能顶住社会压力，维持自己的择偶标准？
Tags:剩男 | 剩女
It's a truth universally acknowledged that a single woman in possession
of wallets and wardrobes must be in want of her wedding.
有一条真理举世皆知，钱包鼓鼓、衣柜满满的单身女性一定在寻觅一个如意郎君。
My friend Carrie Chou, a drop-dead gorgeous, 28-year-old marketing
executive, had her seven-day-vacation booked in advance for an
interchangeable line-up of well-shaved, well... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******r
发帖数: 17 | 23 我没说你不能叫自己chinaman，我完全理解并支持你叫自己chinaman
我只是说这个词很过分，因为你看wiki:
Chinaman (term) is period term referring to a Chinese person in the 1800 era
. In the 21st century it has taken on an offensive stigma.
还有我已经改成“相当一部分广东的粤语人士会说捞头捞妹”，你还没告诉我这样妥不妥 |
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 24 http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Since 1975, the American Psychological Association has called on
psychologists to take the lead in removing the stigma of mental illness that
has long been associated with lesbian, gay, and bisexual orientations. The
discipline of psychology is concerned with the well-being of people and
groups and therefore with threats to that well-being. The prejudice and
discrimination that people who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual
regularly experi... 阅读全帖 |
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M****u
发帖数: 4504 | 25 康州这场枪击案，除了禁枪的呼声，也重新引起了很多人关于对mental illness孩子的
焦虑。这篇文章在twitter上很火，转来给大家读读，明枪易躲，神经病难防。应该
identify那些potential会出问题的孩子，防止他们酿成大祸。
连接：http://thebluereview.org/i-am-adam-lanzas-mother/
I am Adam Lanza’s Mother
It's time to talk about mental illness
Friday’s horrific national tragedy—the murder of 20 children and six
adults at Sandy Hook Elementary School in New Town, Connecticut—has ignited
a new discussion on violence in America. In kitchens and coffee shops
across the country, we tearfully debate the ... 阅读全帖 |
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k**f
发帖数: 301 | 26 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/16/i-am-adam-lanzas-mothe
'I Am Adam Lanza's Mother': A Mom's Perspective On The Mental Illness
Conversation In America
Written by Liza Long, republished from The Blue Review
Friday’s horrific national tragedy -- the murder of 20 children and six
adults at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut -- has
ignited a new discussion on violence in America. In kitchens and coffee
shops across the country, we tearfully debate the many faces of violence ... 阅读全帖 |
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s***x
发帖数: 314 | 27 也不想想为什么这么多人反感外F，自己网上看看老外们的评论吧，连他们都觉得很多
亚女就是low self-esteem，降低很多要求去找白男（大都是白男中的loser群体），而
且任劳任怨搞双重标准。再回头歧视自己本种族的人。
在美国呆久了真是觉得觉得这群人已经成为整个民族的stigma。 |
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s******h
发帖数: 330 | 28 也不想想为什么这么多人反感外F，自己网上看看老外们的评论吧，连他们都觉得很多
亚女就是low self-esteem，降低很多要求去找白男（大都是白男中的loser群体），而
且任劳任怨搞双重标准。再回头歧视自己本种族的人。
在美国呆久了真是觉得觉得这群人已经成为整个民族的stigma。
Your dad already feel shame of your. There is no 自卑 in Chinese men. We
just feel shame of you being part of Chinese, just like your dad.
WFNv attacks Chinese men only because they know Chinese men are better than
what they can ever find. Out of their 自卑, they have to attack Chinese men
in every possible way.
Most Chinese men 又高又帅身材一点不输给白男, and 心态坦荡不猥琐,觉... 阅读全帖 |
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c**2
发帖数: 8496 | 29 because US allows personal bankrupt easily, and the negative affect only
lasts 7 years. In East Asia, bad stigma is for life (and for your
offsprings, although not legally now) |
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r***k
发帖数: 13586 | 30 I am a doctor graduating, package follows (to prevent stigma with bone
translation, all with Chinese .. mixed with interference word).
Bass is one hundred one thousand that thirty-five Yeah Hey, look at me bully
right ten thousand copies I look at my watch (sub Andean years), each
currently ten
Plus five knives.
I feel like a master of the package to the same ah, a year ago Uber
limelight when not gave hundreds of thousands of four-year stock incorrect?
I am not being critical of the floor? Than... 阅读全帖 |
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d********f
发帖数: 43471 | 31 The $100,000 job: Garbage workers
When Noel Molina smells trash, he smells money. Lots of it.
Molina and his co-worker, Tony Sankar, have been picking trash together for
a decade in New York City.
They've seen, and smelled, it all. Stale fish, footlong rats, dead pigs and
cows. Countless drunks have heckled them. And yes, one time Sankar saw a
human leg in a dumpster.
They work the graveyard shift -- 7 p.m. to 3 a.m. -- rain or shine, ice cold
or burning hot.
And yet, they love their job. Part o... 阅读全帖 |
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R*****G
发帖数: 1665 | 32 A lot of heter- are pushing their limits hard to be different, and they know
nothing about the suffering and pain faced by the one who was born being
different. They know nothing about the feeling of separateness or isolation
from the accepted social mores of heterosexuality, let along the stigma
imposed on being of this kind of difference. |
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c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 33 回答他的第一题，“同性恋是怎么从APA的疾病名单上剔除的？是通过暴力和恐吓，而
不是靠‘科学进步’。”
他还真是猪八戒倒打一耙。做过一点点research就会知道，当时的严重暴力和恐吓都是
所谓的正常人针对ppl with different sexual orientation进行的。在被惨绝人寰的
压迫下出现一两个极端抗争的例子也是情理之中。
APA对此解释说明得很清楚.
Since 1975, the American Psychological Association has called on
psychologists to take the lead in removing the stigma of mental illness that
has long been associated with lesbian, gay, and bisexual orientations. The
discipline of psychology is concerned with the well-being of people and
groups and therefore ... 阅读全帖 |
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e*******e
发帖数: 6165 | 34 email group裡有人回复說：
“Amy chau is kind of taking advantages of other oriental Moms to get fame
and fortune, and we, as the Moms bearing the stigma of "tiger".”
也許對於有孩子的母親們來說，本來亞裔小孩就被普遍認為是只會考試學習好的nerd，
現在又出來個虎媽，連帶給父母一起抹黑了。 |
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: spinozafun (花脚猫), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 美国心里学协会又关于同性恋是否疾病的规定
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jun 5 23:06:05 2012, 美东)
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Since 1975, the American Psychological Association has called on
psychologists to take the lead in removing the stigma of mental illness that
has long been associated with lesbian, gay, and bisexual orientations. The
discipline of psychology is concerned with the well-being of people and
groups and therefor... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****3
发帖数: 831 | 36 邮件节选
by 我现任女友的前男友
I did watch the inauguration speech of President Obama. Public opinion and
attitudes towards LGBT people have been changing very rapidly over the past
decade, and especially the last few years. President Obama's decision to
mention Stonewall in the same sentence as Seneca Falls and Selma in his
inauguration speech is a testament to this change. In the last four years,
full and strong support of gay rights (icnluding marriage) has become a
default position of the Democratic Part... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******d
发帖数: 2570 | 37 列一下美国心理学学会关于性取向的FAQ吧。
对同性恋的了解市面上的误解很多，第一步是了解同性恋到底是什么样的。
http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Sexual orientation and homosexuality
1. What is sexual orientation?
Sexual orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or
affectional attraction toward others. It is easily distinguished from other
components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the
psychological sense of being male or female), and the social gender role (
adherence to cultural norms for fe... 阅读全帖 |
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g*******1
发帖数: 8758 | 38 都有腐气。。。
峰仓和也作品都是装B的，有时装得我喜欢，有时觉得太过就无趣了。stigma就太装了
，而且大叔和正太的BL看起来太怪 |
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v**e
发帖数: 8422 | 39 有本书是讲NED的.
Trojan Horse:
The National Endowment for Democracy
excerpted from the book
Rogue State
A Guide to the World's Only Superpower
by William Blum
Common Courage Press, 2000
How many Americans could identify the National Endowment for Democracy? An
organization which often does exactly the opposite of what its name implies.
The NED was set up in the early 1980s under President Reagan in the wake of
all the negative revelations about the CIA in the second half of the 1970s.
The latter was a... 阅读全帖 |
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