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发帖数: 202 | 1 http://thescoopblog.dallasnews.com/2013/11/protestors-gather-ou
Alenxandra2 minutes ago
As parents and teachers, we do our best to nurture our children. We teach
them good values, guide them in the right directions when they make mistakes
; we protect them from all harms before they are mature enough to protect
themselves. To shield young children from inappropriate contents on TV, many
parents have used the parental control features on their remote control.
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发帖数: 1846 | 2 http://thescoopblog.dallasnews.com/2013/11/protestors-gather-ou
Alenxandra2 minutes ago
As parents and teachers, we do our best to nurture our children. We teach
them good values, guide them in the right directions when they make mistakes
; we protect them from all harms before they are mature enough to protect
themselves. To shield young children from inappropriate contents on TV, many
parents have used the parental control features on their remote control.
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发帖数: 1846 | 3 http://thescoopblog.dallasnews.com/2013/11/protestors-gather-ou
Alenxandra2 minutes ago
As parents and teachers, we do our best to nurture our children. We teach
them good values, guide them in the right directions when they make mistakes
; we protect them from all harms before they are mature enough to protect
themselves. To shield young children from inappropriate contents on TV, many
parents have used the parental control features on their remote control.
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发帖数: 19398 | 4 Any classroom can get out of control from time to time. But one unique
teaching method empowers teachers to stop behavior problems before they
begin.
You can see No-Nonsense Nurturing, as it's called, firsthand at Druid Hills
Academy in Charlotte, N.C.
"Your pencil is in your hand. Your voice is on zero. If you got the problem
correct, you're following along and checking off the answer. If you got the
problem incorrect, you are erasing it and correcting it on your paper."
Math teacher Jonnecia A... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 5 Any classroom can get out of control from time to time. But one unique
teaching method empowers teachers to stop behavior problems before they
begin.
You can see No-Nonsense Nurturing, as it's called, firsthand at Druid Hills
Academy in Charlotte, N.C.
"Your pencil is in your hand. Your voice is on zero. If you got the problem
correct, you're following along and checking off the answer. If you got the
problem incorrect, you are erasing it and correcting it on your paper."
Math teacher Jonnecia A... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2601 | 6 俄国批评文章
The Nobel Peace Prize, and an Instrument of Western Power
11.10.2010
Pages: 123By Peter Baofu, Ph.D.
Contrary to the China-bashing coverage by mainstream Western media (which
also controls much of global media), the award of the 2010 Nobel Peace Prize
to Liu Xiaobo, an imprisoned Chinese (convicted of violating state laws),
does not promote world peace and prosperity in the long run, for seven major
reasons as explained below.
(1) The first reason is that, contrary to the China-bashing t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 6383 | 7 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
aben (hehe) 于 (Sat Oct 16 23:52:21 2010, 美东) 提到:
前两年诺贝尔和平奖，不论是戈尔，还是obama，国际上各大媒体
都有非常明显的争议性。
只有这次刘晓波，国际上各大媒体，不论左右，conservative还是liberal
一边倒的祝贺刘晓波骂TG，貌似从来没有那么一致过。
说老实话，我本来以为以TG这些年存的那么多外汇储备，收买一两
个所谓“国际友人”，一两个有点影响外国媒体骂骂诺贝尔委员会，
应该还是做得到的，但是到现在都一个多礼拜了，只有一个从来没有
听说过的什么“挪威教授”，还有个美国老年愤青在自己blog的博文
里面指责诺贝尔（人家即使指责诺贝，也没有说TG一个好字），TG喉舌
为了增强影响力，仍是造谣给人家戴了个“CNN VP”的头衔，贻笑大方
难怪啊，菌斑EUV等几个著名五毛这个礼拜都发疯了。
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发帖数: 19242 | 8 自己的血汗史得到的经验教训，跟大家分享一下
养孩子的过程就是nature+nurture的过程
理想状态是nurture the nature, nurture 是一种艺术一种能力
在nature里，智商只是很小的一部分，更重要的是一个人的综合素质
智商不用分的那么精细，outliers除外，100-130基本就是一档的了
智商不是outliers的情况下，综合素质就对一个人的成就业绩起到了决定性作用
什么是综合素质呢？
通俗地说就是一个人的性格，品质，大脑executive function的档次
打碎了说几个重要的
1.认知自己和他人情感的能力，更重要的是管理自己情绪的能力
2.专注能力，做一件事能专注多久
3.执行力，做计划定时间表管理时间不难，难得是计划能被执行且实现多少
4.抗挫力，遇到困难的时候，情绪上有多大的波动，需要多少时间comback
5.韧性，认定一个目标，在向这个目标努力的过程中，能坚持多久，多快放弃
6.寻求帮助的意愿和能力，愿意不愿意求援，有没有能力找对求援的目标得到帮助
7.做事的效率，一个人麻利与否的基调
8.做选择取舍的本能sense
9.接受失败不如... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 9 你最后一段 Nature vs Nurture 的问题，这个说实话，是我无法回答的问题，也没有
实际需要的问题。
Nature 与否，我连个参照系都没有，显然无法回答。
Nurture 与否的问题，这个不是我可以避免的问题。我如果不给娃计算题八，不给答疑
，娃就基本没法学。所以对于 nurture 与否，我实际上就没有 choice。所以我还是问
如何 nurture 的问题更实际。
think
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发帖数: 16092 | 10 I was pretty sure it was paranoia, because according to DSV V4.0:
A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-
image, and affects, and marked impulsivity beginning by early adulthood and
present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the
following:
1. frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not
include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.
2. a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relati... 阅读全帖 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 11 看起来你emotionally很大程度还停留在小孩的阶段，就像小孩一样，一方面感觉
自己无法独立存在，必须要依靠他人，因此很强调他人的nurturing，或者说love,
对小孩来说这两者差别不大，另一方面也像小孩一样以为perform good是继续保持
这些nurturing和love的方法，因此很强调他人的admiration。其他的现象，比如
似乎缺乏从他人角度看事情的能力，对无法提供nurture和admiration的人就无法
产生兴趣，缺乏nurture他人的能力等，都可以用这个解释。
不过这倒不是说你很怪什么的，事实上这样的成年人很多，有的就这样过了一辈子。
如果自己有self-improve的想法，那么的确是可以做些事的。可以看些self help的
书籍，比如the art of loving, drama of the gifted child我觉得也许适合你的
情况，也可以多在实际社交中体会与人的关系，另外psychotherapy也是个方法，或
者找找career counselor努力解决一下当前找工作的具体问题。可能的方法有很多，
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发帖数: 7538 | 12 http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-way
I have compiled a list on “how to love yourself” for readers who are
facing difficulty knowing what to do in embracing themselves. When I first
began to be aware that I need to love myself first prior to developing any
meaningful relationships with others, I realized that I did not know where
to start.
This was a surprise to me then as I would have thought I’d be an expert on
love and relationships by then. After all, as I recalled,... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1421 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Wisdom 讨论区 】
发信人: JeanIris (Iris), 信区: Wisdom
标 题: How To Love Yourself In 17 Ways
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jan 22 12:40:42 2012, 美东)
http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-way
I have compiled a list on “how to love yourself” for readers who are
facing difficulty knowing what to do in embracing themselves. When I first
began to be aware that I need to love myself first prior to developing any
meaningful relationships with others, I realized that I did not know where
to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2420 | 14 傅苹昨晚在PBS的访问文字版：
http://www.pbs.org/wnet/tavissmiley/interviews/entrepreneur-pin
TRANSCRIPT
Tavis: Starting a successful company is never easy, but it certainly must
have seemed impossible to Ping Fu. As a child growing up in China under Mao,
she was separated from her family and sent to a forced labor camp, where
she endured unspeakable hardship.
In 1984 she made her way to the U.S. with $80 in her pocket and just three
English words in her vocabulary: “Hello,” “Thank you,” and my favorite
– “He... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1667 | 15 你说对了一半，归根结底还是nature vs nurture的问题，你如果倾向于nature前面人
说的墨西哥制造一团糟一条就足够，从你观点来看，你倾向nurture,按照nurture的观
点，德国的一跟筋在于其大众职业教育的严谨性，美国的灵活在于其精英教育中对创造
性的引导和鼓励，这两者是不矛盾的啊，精英教育和大众教育本来就是走的两条路线，
就像生产线上的工人不需要有创造性，需要有创造性的是CEO，德国需要向美国学校精
英教育，美国需要向德国学习大众职业教育，互相取长补短是一个道理啊 |
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发帖数: 1 | 16 Menusifu Inc. is a leading restaurant point-of-sale solution for dine-in,
take-out, delivery, and cafes. Menusifu’s compatible soft-wares help
restaurants gain the ability to operate efficiently and connect with their
customer base in new and innovative ways. We’re growing fast and have a
customer base comprised of diverse restaurants and cafes. We work hard and
support our customers’ success and we have a lot of fun doing it. As a
startup, we move fast and received two rounds of investment in a... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 385 | 17 武汉理工大学首届国际青年学者论坛诚邀海内外青年才俊
Wuhan University of Technology
sincerely invite young talents from home and abroad to the First WUT
International Young Scholars Forum
一、论坛介绍
武汉理工大学国际青年学者论坛，旨在将海内外优秀青年学者汇聚在江城——武汉，促
进海内外青年学者之间的交流，增强不同研究领域之间的合作，大力推动学校世界一流
大学和一流学科建设。
I. Introduction
WUT International Forum for Young Scholars aims at gathering outstanding
scholars from home and abroad in Wuhan—the River City to promote exchange
between talented young scholars and cooperation between different fields of
rese... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 18 Menusifu Inc. is a leading restaurant point-of-sale solution for dine-in,
take-out, delivery, and cafes. Menusifu’s compatible soft-wares help
restaurants gain the ability to operate efficiently and connect with their
customer base in new and innovative ways. We’re growing fast and have a
customer base comprised of diverse restaurants and cafes. We work hard and
support our customers’ success and we have a lot of fun doing it. As a
startup, we move fast and received two rounds of investment in a... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 19 对大众，是有自然语言影响的问题，因为数学语言/能力是 nurture 的，自然
语言的确会 nurture 数学能力。
对这里的亚裔家庭不是问题，不是因为人种，而是这里亚裔家庭的父母基本都是
高学历的。对小孩的数学语言/能力是专门去 nurture 的，对自然语言的依赖
要小得多。
另外，算术只是数学里最最基本浅显的东西。后来大伙儿拚数学，绝对不是单拚
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 20 ： 所以从我看到的事实，人智力，智商是有差别的，而且那种实力差别很分
： 明，不是靠刻苦就可以弥补的。当然不同专业对智力，能力要求也不一样，
： 不能一概而论。
这个“人智力，智商是有差别的”，还存在有 Nature vs Nurture 的问题。
一般人很容易误认为 Nature 的，其实也可能是 Nurture 的。甚至学术界
一直认为是 Nature 的，后来发现是 Nurture 的也不是少数。其中一个困
难就是 Objectively measurable 的困难。有很多东西，小的时候无法
Objectively measure，但是到大了以后却会有明显影响。大了的确是可以
Objectively measure 了，但是 effect 不一定就是 reversible 的。
搞得 N 多东西根本没定论。。。医学 TMD 真是个原始科学。。。 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 21
对头。
nature/nurture的具体关系，一直是个争议话题。 尽管有很多无法验证的各种说法、
理论，但是，“而practice某一大脑功能会增加连接点或其强度”，应该是公认的。
即： nurture可能不决定发育的全部，不能取代nature，但nurture本身的作用，是不
容质疑的。
而某个activity（比如练钢琴或练围棋）导致了大脑的哪些部分功能增强，这些功能在
成年后的哪些工作中会用上，是一本糊涂帐 －－ 没有一一对应的科研结果。
即便科研如此不成熟，但也足以告诉我们，那种认为练钢琴的作用只是钢琴弹得好能挣
钱，否则就是白练了，显然是一种比较鄙俗的观点。
连体育项目都讲究cross-training呢，智力项目就更少不了cross-training了。至于具
体怎么实施，只好八仙过海了。 每个人都爱信啥，就信啥。 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 22
对头。
nature/nurture的具体关系，一直是个争议话题。 尽管有很多无法验证的各种说法、
理论，但是，“而practice某一大脑功能会增加连接点或其强度”，应该是公认的。
即： nurture可能不决定发育的全部，不能取代nature，但nurture本身的作用，是不
容质疑的。
而某个activity（比如练钢琴或练围棋）导致了大脑的哪些部分功能增强，这些功能在
成年后的哪些工作中会用上，是一本糊涂帐 －－ 没有一一对应的科研结果。
即便科研如此不成熟，但也足以告诉我们，那种认为练钢琴的作用只是钢琴弹得好能挣
钱，否则就是白练了，显然是一种比较鄙俗的观点。
连体育项目都讲究cross-training呢，智力项目就更少不了cross-training了。至于具
体怎么实施，只好八仙过海了。 每个人都爱信啥，就信啥。 |
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t******l
发帖数: 10908 | 23 （4）对于 “不知道小学，初高中的教育理念是什么，我个人认为不应该用这些题来
检查孩子有没有talent。”：
教育里 99% 的重点，是试图解决如何更好的 nurture 的问题，而不是来鉴别
nature。
或者这么说，教育里鉴别 nature 的唯一目的，是为了更好的 nurture，基于
大相径庭的 nature，可能需要不同的 nurture 的方式和目标，而不是给娃娃
贴上一个永生都洗不掉的标签 tatoo。
而回到父母的角度，“检查孩子有没有 talent”，对父母是可能是最最无聊的事儿。
因为我们目前对 talent 的检查，最多只能做到 statistical correlation，
远远做不到对 individual 能很靠谱地 predict。（排查弱智不算）。
而对父母而言，statistical correlation 打算咋整？测出来牛鼻就拷贝一百个？
然后总有那么几款符合深得我心？万一测出来不够牛鼻，是打算扔给政府还是咋地？
当然，如果要到邻居家门口挂一面战旗曰：“你丫邻居娃娃 180+，你不服还是咋地？”
这也不是不行。当然我诚恳建议挂完战旗以后，立马... 阅读全帖 |
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t******l
发帖数: 10908 | 24 中肯的说，nature vs nurture vs 勤奋，本身可能是个伪命题，因为这三者可能根本
不直接对立，“vs“ 本身不成立。
我觉得合理的看问题角度，比如看竞技体育，40米短跑基本就是 nature 加 勤奋，是
不是愚蠢不是那么重要。。。但对于撑杆跳这玩意儿，不管 nature 因子的比重为多大
，只要没 nurture 过，再有 nature 也不顶事。。。而且撑杆跳铁定不能 “愚蠢而勤
奋”，否则越勤奋可能摔死得越早！
如果回到 MOEMS vs “AIME 十五道心算填空题”，我觉得 MOEMS 是 nature 就够了（
排除 “烤肉拉天窗水果刀之鸡兔同笼三十六计招招制敌” 这种相当于合法兴奋剂），
但 “AIME 十五道心算填空题” 就一定要 nurture（需要多少 nature 先不论），因
为需要会玩 algebraic thinking 这根撑杆先。。。
：最近别管啥楼，潮水都会歪到自家游泳花滑田径amc大娃上
：潮水在这事上的表现就是楼主说的中式聪明勤奋，完全钻进去了，但 |
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发帖数: 13789 | 25 Passionate, volatile and exciting the Cancer man has an emotional strength
and vulnerability which many find to be highly attractive and uniquely sexy.
Deeply caring and sympathetic lovers they will do anything for a partner
whom they're in love with.
Highly intuitive, he has a natural talent for nurturing, often knowing
exactly how to make his partner feel comfortable and secure. Loving, gentle,
intimate and understanding he is kind hearted but not soft, and will often
know exactly what you're ... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 26 今天在朋友facebook上看到的，可能不适用于亚洲人。
Independence
Men value a woman who has her own life and her own achievements. Just as
women want to be proud of their man, men also want to introduce a woman that
they can be proud of to their friends and family. To garner this pride, it'
s important that you have goals and an action plan to make them a reality.
It helps that you have already achieved past goals. Another way to show that
you are independent is to have your own hobbies, likes and dislikes. Don't
be af... 阅读全帖 |
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z****u
发帖数: 2629 | 27 他是作为心理医生，写出来的书，被大家广为接受。这是一本心理分析书籍，而不是
self help。谁说他是，那是他自己分类的好吧？
你要说这是self help，他自己的生活都是一塌糊涂，但是读者读的是他的case分析，
而不是因为他写的确实能self help，否则他自己真能figure it all out了，他自己还
能过得稀里糊涂么，but，这个他的私生活丝毫不会影响从这个心理分析角度欣赏他的
读者。
wiki
Morgan Scott Peck (May 22, 1936 – September 25, 2005) was an American
psychiatrist and best-selling author, best known for his first book, The
Road Less Traveled, published in 1978.
The Road Less Traveled[6] published in 1978, is Peck's best-known work, and
the one that made his reputatio... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 108 | 28 非常感谢你们给的建议,出乎我的意料,感觉分析的非常透彻.但是个人还是有些困惑.
对于这一段"看起来你emotionally很大程度还停留在小孩的阶段，就像小孩一样，一方
面感觉
自己无法独立存在，必须要依靠他人，因此很强调他人的nurturing，或者说love,
对小孩来说这两者差别不大，另一方面也像小孩一样以为perform good是继续保持
这些nurturing和love的方法，因此很强调他人的admiration。"我自己感觉人活着最重
要的方面就是nurturing和别人的admiration.如果说这些是几乎小孩的思想.那么成年
人(我是指在心理学角度较成熟的成年人)emotionally的正常状态应该怎样呢?他们应该
更在意什么呢?
这一段落"你害怕的只是事情的结果，因为你的思维方式里的弱点就是用结果（而且是
用他人眼里
的世俗标准）去衡量一切。。如果这个结果不近人意，那么一切的努力都是白白作的。。
简而言之，这是一种看待事物不是1就是0的观念。"
我是很看中事情的结果而不是过程.我甚至不知道这是一种错误的思维方式.好象目前也
改变不了.我不知道过程对我来说有什么意义 |
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发帖数: 2868 | 29 10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
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发帖数: 2868 | 30 10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
is t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2818 | 31 Sure, that's why they are more right and your title and your original
statement were wrong(confusing?:)))...well, we all know what you mean....but
again, ur reply doesn't tough the interaction between the nurture and
nature...the question is whether the nurture is passively directional or
could get actively directional by chance...Certainly there are cases nurture
accelerate evolution/mutations: e.g the old world's atmosphere and the UV
mutagenesis in crop selection and ENU mouse genetics...
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m****s
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step123 (前进) 于 (Tue Apr 12 01:52:57 2011, 美东) 提到:
I have requested the ruling a few times. The answer I got from MITBBS is if the majia doesnt do anything wrong, unban the majia. I have asked repeatedly whether I have gone over board and got no answers. Please rule here. I would leave if you thi
. Otherwise, please tell medical board BZ skyscorpio that he is overreaching.
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发帖数: 1085 | 33 Scorpion is a big fat liar. I have never attacked anyone unprovoked. You guys dont know how nasty the chinese doctor thugs can be. The medi board has trained generations of thugs by their exile leader. I have never PAed anyone first. I could be a feisty, mean fighter when it comes down to defend myself. Everyone can figure it out here. Just as the springstep, dojo and sjslip started PA on me first. You guys dont know how many thugs there are in medi under the leadership of the bully who h... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1085 | 34 Scorpion is a big fat liar. I have never attacked anyone unprovoked. You guys dont know how nasty the chinese doctor thugs can be. The medi board has trained generations of thugs by their exile leader. I have never PAed anyone first. I could be a feisty, mean fighter when it comes down to defend myself. Everyone can figure it out here. Just as the springstep, dojo and sjslip started PA on me first. You guys dont know how many thugs there are in medi under the leadership of the bully who h... 阅读全帖 |
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d*****o
发帖数: 2868 | 35 10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
is t... 阅读全帖 |
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Achu (fairfair) 于 (Tue Jun 8 13:35:29 2010, 美东) 提到:
老二渐渐长大，俺越发觉得孩子的性格先天决定的成分太大了。
老大从小就比较会平衡自己，从来不会哭闹很久。很有点幽默感，会不动声色地搞点怪
。很沉的住气。不让她做的事情，基本上不用多说，说第二遍可以了。很懂得好汉不吃
眼前亏。
反观老二，就是个小死心眼。从他手上拿走什么东西，能哭得断气，过半天他还惦记着
。断奶都俩礼拜了，还是每天晚上醒来闹一闹。
前天晚上不小心被他小手伸衣服里抓到，把他手拿开后哭得那个肝肠寸断，还含混不清
地抱怨着。睡着了还抽气，又哭。反复几次。后来LD跑过来问：“你怎么得罪他了，他
在骂什么呢？”
当初老大断奶，3天搞定，没哭几回。再给都不吃。
一个娘生的娃，你说咋差别那么大涅？
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littleice (家有两宝：狗娃猪仔) 于 (Tue Jun 8 13:49:05 2010, 美东) ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4796 | 37 看看这篇文章。有什么启发呢？这个研究有意义吗？有没有把种族干扰因素排除？
Analytical journalism in words and graphics from The New York Times. Sign up
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Detailed New National Maps Show How Neighborhoods Shape Children for Life
Some places lift children out of poverty. Others trap them there. Now cities
are trying to do something about the difference.
Whatever Distinguishes a Good Neighborhood Can Be Invisible.
↗ Neighborhoods Can Lift Kids Up or Hold Them Back. Cities Now Know
Which Are Which.
SEATTLE — The... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1709 | 38 http://www.unz.com/pbuchanan/can-america-fight-two-cold-wars-at-once/#comment-2702593
Godfree Roberts says:
December 18, 2018 at 9:08 am GMT • 400 Words
“by nurturing China for decades before recognizing she was becoming a
malevolent superpower whose Asian-Pacific ambitions could be realized only
at the expense of friends of the United States.”
We didn’t nurture China–ever.
We invaded China, sure, and bombed China and embargoed China and blocked
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q******s
发帖数: 7469 | 40 一般是nature, 不是nurture.
性向不是非黑即白。当然大多人可能0.75以上的直的。确实碰到有10%左右的人是双性
恋。对同性和异性都有欲望，特别是发达国家美育教育发达的地方，社会传统制约少。
这部分人也不是nurture的。只是两边都可以。
: 你觉得性趋向是天生的还是后天养成的
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T******0
发帖数: 1071 | 41 恐惧是因为未知。现在有定论同性恋是nature还是nurture吗？同性恋自己也说不出来
吧：说是nature又不愿承认是病态，说是nurture就没法不让人反对。 |
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H****w
发帖数: 1632 | 42 Janitor
To see or dream that you are a janitor suggests that you need to work on
cleaning up an aspect of your life.
Gardening
To dream that you are gardening symbolizes work or career issues. Consider
how you feel about gardening or the condition of the garden and how it
parallels a waking work issue or situation.
Garden
To see a vegetable or fruit garden in your dream indicates that your hard
work and diligence will pay off in the end. It is also symbolic of stability
, potential, and inner gr... 阅读全帖 |
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k*********r
发帖数: 21 | 43
人性就是基因决定的，是和后天的教育相对的，所谓的nurture vs nature。基因是自
然选择的结果，适合在自然界生存的trait才会被保留下来。这就解释了我们在大多数
时候是自私的，有各种的欲望（恶），有功利心，competitive。因为在自然选择的过
程中资源总是稀缺的，如果资源充足就会繁衍更多的个体使资源稀缺。但是作为社会性
动物，我们也有互相帮助，团结一致的本性（善），这样作为一个群体才会更有竞争优
势，使得基因得以保存。就好比猴子会互相挑虱子，狼群会团结起来捕猎，瞪羚会牺牲
自己保护小孩。
人类社会早已超越了自然选择，我们为了在更拥挤的情况下和谐相处而不互相杀戮，制
定了一系列的社会契约。其中就包括中华民族的传统美德，封建迷信思想，西方的宗教
信仰，启蒙思想，还有越来越完善的法律系统。我们常说的善恶是一个法制化之前的原
始的社会契约（道德）的概念。善恶和人性其实是不同层次上的东西，但是这个界限是
模糊的，因为善恶虽然主要是nurture的结果，还是受了nature的影响。由于基因进化
的速度远远赶不上社会的进化，人性和道德产生了冲突，这时候我们说人性本恶。We
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发帖数: 621 | 44 My client in Billerica MA has following open positions.
The base salary for senior position is around 110K
The base salary for principal position is around 130K
Please send your resume to me if you are interested in one of the positions.
Thanks in advance.
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Title: Enterprise Architect
Division: G&A
Department: Technology IT and Infrastructure
Location: USA - Massachusetts - Billerica
Description:
The Enterprise Architect will wo... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 234 | 45 Healing the Trauma: Entering Motherhood with Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (
PTSD)
by Jennifer Jamison Griebenow
© 2006 Midwifery Today, Inc. All rights reserved.
[Editor's note: This article first appeared in Midwifery Today Issue 80,
Winter 2006.]
Making the leap to parenthood is a challenging transition even at the best
of times. For some mothers that transition is made even more difficult by
additional challenges in the postpartum period. Most people know about the
baby blues, and the m... 阅读全帖 |
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z*****9
发帖数: 256 | 46 from http://www.lovenaturalbirth.com/lotus-birth.html
Lotus birth is a relatively new evolution of birth for humans. We talked
with Dr. Sarah Buckley, mother of four, with three lotus births under her
belt to help us understand more about the process, the history, the how to’
s, the whys and joys.
More and more is being understood about the process of “cutting the cord”
and the benefits of leaving the cord intact than the “normal” 3-30 seconds
, by normal we do not mean natural. We are seeing th... 阅读全帖 |
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a**y
发帖数: 381 | 47 Somebody gave this to my daughter after the birth of her son. Fortunately
her Dad is a pediatrician and her mom teaches parenting classes so she grew
up knowing better. First off you should never try to get a 4 month old to
sleep through the night. Even Dr. Richard Ferber, the most well know
advocate of sleep training doesn't recommend starting it till the child is
at least six months old. If it comes naturally to them, fine, but at that
point in their development most children need to wake and ... 阅读全帖 |
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a**y
发帖数: 381 | 48 http://www.amazon.com/4moms-Goodnight-Sleep-Trainer-Gray/dp/B00
A Kid's Review
This review is from: 4moms Goodnight Sleep Trainer - Gray (Baby Product)
Somebody gave this to my daughter after the birth of her son. Fortunately
her Dad is a pediatrician and her mom teaches parenting classes so she grew
up knowing better. First off you should never try to get a 4 month old to
sleep through the night. Even Dr. Richard Ferber, the most well know
advocate of sleep training doesn't recommend starting i... 阅读全帖 |
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a**y
发帖数: 381 | 49 http://www.amazon.com/4moms-Goodnight-Sleep-Trainer-Gray/dp/B00
A Kid's Review
This review is from: 4moms Goodnight Sleep Trainer - Gray (Baby Product)
Somebody gave this to my daughter after the birth of her son. Fortunately
her Dad is a pediatrician and her mom teaches parenting classes so she grew
up knowing better. First off you should never try to get a 4 month old to
sleep through the night. Even Dr. Richard Ferber, the most well know
advocate of sleep training doesn't recommend starting i... 阅读全帖 |
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roubaozi (roubaozi) 于 (Fri Mar 18 00:34:27 2011, 美东) 提到:
我家小妞三个半月大，今晚第一次进行了真正意义上的sleep train. 9点送上床之后开
嚎，期间几次
差点背过气去。一小时后终于在我和她爹为其翻身抚背后抽抽噎噎的睡着了。。。
我想问的问题是：白天的nap是不是要接着训？她白天的nap质量恶化的很厉害，平时要
抖着才能睡着，
现在经常10分钟就醒，最后为了帮助她撑过1小时只好挂在人身上睡。
可是如果白天也要sleep train的话，等吃饱了休息好了（她有比较严重的reflux)犯困
了再送上
床，等哭够了估计又该到下顿吃饭时间了。。。而且要命的是，我自己一个人在家还不
知道能不能顶住
小妞的哭声和爷爷奶奶的压力。。。
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huhuyouyou (忽悠) 于 (Fri Mar 18 01:07:00 2011, 美东) 提到:
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