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t*****n
发帖数: 24 | 2 As odd as it seems, I, with a layback introvert personality, always want to
become a lawyer ever since high school. There are two reasons I like to
become a lawyer: I like to argue and I believe in laws. However， I do have
doubts about my odds of success primary because of my personality besides
the usual worries about being a non-native English speaker. So, I am here,
confused and hoping if anyone of you who had been there can give me some
advices.
Don't get me wrong, I am not anti-social, mayb |
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b*w
发帖数: 2062 | 3 An introvert pathologist stares at his shoes when he talks to you, while an
extravert pathologist
stares at your shoes when he talks to you. hehe |
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发帖数: 467 | 4 "haha 你是不是觉得最近这两年性格成熟了不少？"
My theory about personality is that you can not clear cut divide ppl into
extrovert or introvert. Neither is absolutely good! The application of
percentage is more appropriate. You are born with a percentage (80%
introvert/20% extravert or vice versa). However, the percentage shifts b/w
the extrovert and introvert part. The exhibition of personality is very
situational and case sensitive. For your path IVs, it is more like a show
time. More extravert shift is desirable... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 5 巨蟹座：
You may first come across him when he's laughing the "crazy lunar laugh." It's inescapably contagious. It runs up and down the scales with a deep, throaty undertone. It giggles and gurgles, then finally erupts in a loud cackle that sounds exactly like two hundred hens laying two hundred perfect eggs. In his life-of-the-party mood, youll have no trouble finding the Cancerian. Hell be the funniest one in the room, a laugh a minute. If he's not performing himself, then he'll be grinning at som... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 183 | 6 中國自古就是一個內陸性民族
introverts
台灣都要到明朝才有記載
日本都過不了
東北三省自古不屬中國，因為太遠屬「關外」
you introverts 還要扯商朝移民美洲，純意淫
商朝人估計長江下游都過不了
那些研究「商朝移民美洲」的全是中國人，根本不可信
另外，商朝人早有文字，去到任何地方，當然是留下文字
商朝也有政治文化，去到新地方，自然會復制原有政治文化，建立類似政權
這些都會留下痕跡
所以，意淫的內陸人可以回家揣手睡覺了（記得明年開春再洗澡啊） |
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G********d
发帖数: 366 | 7 我倒是觉得你自己comfortable最重要.除非你有愿望去与别人交朋友，否则不要强迫自
己说话。你不舒服，和你说话的人更不舒服，这不更糟嘛？ Speakers easily draw a
lot of attention, but listeners and observers are well appreciated. There
are both extroverts and introverts in this world, they are both important.
A TED talk is about the power of introvert, you may want to listen to it. |
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c*******u
发帖数: 667 | 8 有本为introverts说话的书可以看下
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
should
from
not |
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w*********6
发帖数: 544 | 9 Know your personality first - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MBTI
Based on Meyer-Briggs' 16 major types of personality:
Cognitive learning styles
E/I
The first continuum reflects what generically energizes a person.
Extraverted types learn best by talking and interacting with others. By
interacting with the physical world, extraverts can process and make sense
of new information. Introverted types prefer quiet reflection and privacy.
Information processing occurs for introverts as they explore ide... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********6
发帖数: 544 | 10 Know your personality first - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MBTI
Based on Meyer-Briggs' 16 major types of personality:
Cognitive learning styles
E/I
The first continuum reflects what generically energizes a person.
Extraverted types learn best by talking and interacting with others. By
interacting with the physical world, extraverts can process and make sense
of new information. Introverted types prefer quiet reflection and privacy.
Information processing occurs for introverts as they explore ide... 阅读全帖 |
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m******j
发帖数: 5079 | 11 Every once in a while, we read a book that doesn't just transform the way we
see the world. It also changes how we live our lives. For the past ten
years, I've been asking business leaders and students which book has most
influenced their actions. I give them one rule: it must include rigorous
evidence. Pure self-help and autobiographies are out; so are books by
leaders dispensing advice. (Experience isn't a substitute for evidence. If
it were, obeying the laws of gravity would make us all physi... 阅读全帖 |
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l***n
发帖数: 251 | 12 不一定全是天生内在的吧，比如有bully victim 被逼成loner的。
按成因，心理还有行为上的不同再细分，loner这个大帽子下面可能有好多种不同类型
的人。肯定有天生内向少言，典型的introvert甚至孤僻性格的人。
另外一种就像Jobs，我们上学时候称为牛逼轰轰的人，很早就知道自己兴趣所在，目标
明确内心强大。这种人不屑于花时间在他觉得没用的人事物上，但不意味着他不social
. 尤其Jobs 后来做用户体验和设计的工作，必须对用户需求有很强的洞察力，接触大
量用户数据甚至很多更直接的交流，很难想象做这种工作的人还能远离人群。
由此再引申，所谓loner未必是一个人不变的属性，还要看他所处的人群和环境。同样
一个人跟一群志同道合的在一起时的表现肯定和身处陌生甚至敌意的环境下不同。
不过最典型的introverts - Lets unite! Seperately..- 也真是没救了 :D
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发帖数: 6300 | 13 Confirmation Bias
The Misconception: Your opinions are the result of years of rational,
objective analysis.
The Truth: Your opinions are the result of years of paying attention to
information which confirmed what you believed while ignoring information
which challenged your preconceived notions.
Have you ever had a conversation in which some old movie was mentioned,
something like “The Golden Child” or maybe even something more obscure?
You laughed about it, quoted lines from it, wondered what h... 阅读全帖 |
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f**k
发帖数: 906 | 14 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
asteriago (introvert) 于 (Thu Jan 6 10:35:47 2005) 提到:
按人口比例算，更惨了。
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raja (郁闷的混混) 于 (Thu Jan 6 11:04:56 2005) 提到:
你知不知道是个男生他就帅？
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
asteriago (introvert) 于 (Thu Jan 6 13:02:16 2005) 提到:
不知道， 敢情男生照的镜子是特别制的？
在 raja (郁闷的混混) 的大作中提到: 】
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
booker (书生~不可无病呻吟) 于 (Thu Jan 6 13:42:04 2005) 提到:
男子汉大丈夫，第一重要的是武功人品，至于模样衰不衰，脸蛋俊不俊，又有多大
关系。 |
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z***i
发帖数: 8285 | 15 Your Type is
INTJ
Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judging
Strength of the preferences %
11 25 25 44
You are:
* slightly expressed introvert
* moderately expressed intuitive personality
* moderately expressed thinking personality
* moderately expressed judging personality
贴出来贴出来。。。 |
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w***a
发帖数: 1159 | 16 Introverted Sensing Thinking Judging
Strength of the preferences %
89 1 25 78
You are:
* very expressed introvert
* slightly expressed sensing personality
* moderately expressed thinking personality
* very expressed judging personality
The one word that best describes Inspectors is superdependable. Whether at home or at work, Inspectors are extraordinarily persevering and dutiful, particularly when it comes to keeping an eye on the people and products they are r |
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o*****h
发帖数: 621 | 17 Your Type is
ISFJ
Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
78 62 38 11
ISFJ
Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:
very expressed introvert
distinctively expressed sensing personality
moderately expressed feeling personality
slightly expressed judging personality
We are lucky that Protectors make up as much as ten percent the population,
because their primary interest is in the safety and security of those they
care about - their family, their circle of frie |
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c********n
发帖数: 967 | 18 大叔我是不是自闭症患者？
ISTP
Introverted Sensing Thinking Perceiving
Strength of the preferences %
78 12 1 22
# very expressed introvert
# slightly expressed sensing personality
# slightly expressed thinking personality
# slightly expressed perceiving personality |
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r****r
发帖数: 891 | 19 俺是这样的, 不知道啥意思, 大叔给指点下?
Your Type is
INFJ
Introverted Intuitive Feeling Judging
Strength of the preferences %
67 12 62 22
#distinctively expressed introvert
#slightly expressed intuitive personality
#distinctively expressed feeling personality
#slightly expressed judging personality |
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c***s
发帖数: 70028 | 20 中国小留学生涌入美国高中，他们的美国同学们是如何看待的?作者陈晚在美国高中执教中文，给她的学生布置了一次写作作业：如果你的班级有中国小留学生，谈谈你对他们的看法。
随着中国学生留学年龄的低龄化，越来越多的中国孩子们开始走进美国高中课堂。当中国家长[微博]在大洋彼岸苦思冥想是否应该让自己的孩子出国留学读高中时，大洋这边的美国高中学生们也悄悄加入了关注中国小留学生的行列。
目前很多留学教育类的文章，都在反反复复地探讨着中国家长的思考与苦恼以及中国小留学生在异国的新奇经历和梦想。当中国小留学生走进美国课堂时，他们身边的美国学生到底是如何看待他们的?据我所知，这类信息目前比较少。
今年夏天在我执教的美国高中生中文课堂上，我给我的学生布置了如下的作业：如果你班上有来自中国的小留学生，你该如何用你学过的中文和他/她打招呼?请用你的亲身经历，谈谈你对中国小留学生现象的看法。
美国学生独立思考能力确实很强，拿到我布置给他们的作业后，他们用自己的亲身经历，给我讲了一个又一个的留学故事和他们对留学的看法。经我的学生们同意，我现在把他们的作文一一翻译出来，供中国家长们参考。为了提醒读者留意文章内容，我添加了... 阅读全帖 |
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R********n
发帖数: 3601 | 21 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: xialiujian (夏留健), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 请教一下，45岁俩娃的纯文科大妈能学CS么？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jan 10 19:54:27 2011, 美东)
刚办妥了离婚手续。原因就不说了。之前一直在家带娃。十多年
没工作了。身份没问题。以前在国内读音乐，GPA非常一般。经
济暂时还行，但总得再开始工作。实在不喜欢读商科。当年前夫
老想我读会计，我们为此不知吵了多少次。我又是introvert，和
人打交道没有问题，但成天和人说话特别累。所以也不想做agent
什么的工作。前夫是硅公+天生geek。年纪一大把了（他大我几乎
一轮），心情好时给我讲业界掌故，牛人传说。说得眉飞色舞了，
还要来上几段代码，两三公式。不知怎么的，我还不讨厌听。相反，
他聊技术时也许是我们关系最融洽的时段。我家务之余，也偷闲学
了一点OCaml（前夫最爱的语言)。当然也没学多深入。当年也是
为了取悦前夫才开始学的。刚开始他挺高兴。后来我问题多了，他
又不耐烦，老骂我笨。我们大吵几次。... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 436 | 22 A few misconceptions. For one thing, Asperger’s and autism are not forms of
mental illness; they are neurodevelopmental disorders or disabilities.
Autism is a lifelong condition that manifests before the age of 3; most
mental illnesses do not appear until the teen or young adult years.
Medications rarely work to curb the symptoms of autism, but they can be
indispensable in treating mental illness like obsessive-compulsive disorder,
schizophrenia and bipolar disorder.
Underlying much of this misr... 阅读全帖 |
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l********o
发帖数: 5629 | 23 Harvard’s provost Paul Buck declared in the late 1940s that Harvard should
reject the “sensitive, neurotic” type and the “intellectually over-
stimulated” in favor of boys of the “healthy extrovert kind.” In 1950,
Yale’s president, Alfred Whitney Griswold, declared that the ideal Yalie
was not a “beetle-browed, highly specialized intellectual, but a well-
rounded man.” Another dean told Whyte that “in screening applications from
secondary schools he felt it was only common sense to take into acc... 阅读全帖 |
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m********g
发帖数: 10469 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: looksoulmate (look4soulmate), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 【女征男】美东女诚征漫漫人生旅途之灵魂伴侣
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Feb 9 11:33:45 2014, 美东)
快到30岁了，经历了一些人和事，对自己的认知也渐渐清晰成熟，更加坚定的认为我的
爱情只会发生在soulmate和我之间。我当然也希望将来有孩子，但在北美女性自己想要
个孩子也很简单；再加上我经济，身份和精神都很独立，所以寻找伴侣最主要的动力在
于灵魂深处的孤独感。另外也唯有soulmate能让monogamy 变得合理：毕竟soulmate太
稀缺了。有耐心看完我下面文字并感觉找到共鸣的，请发信至：
w*********************[email protected]
不过人的精神世界也是灵活多变的，可能每天想的事情都不一样，不同人生阶段的
focus也不一样。但我相信我的某种人生底色从有强烈自我意识的青春期开始到现在就
从没变过。所以，soulmate肯定是有章可循的。我下面写的这些只是先决条... 阅读全帖 |
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Y****N
发帖数: 8694 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
发信人: Highly (高妹), 信区: Faculty
标 题: 我为尹希教授做的专访
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 23 14:31:24 2015, 美东)
Interview with Dr. Xi Yin
--- By Fiona Rawsontile, Sept 2015
This interview was inspired by an earlier interview of Dr. Yin I saw on the
Internet, which made me think that we can’t expect someone who normally
writes for entertainment to understand a physicist. To “provoke” a
scientist, we need another scientist. So I volunt... 阅读全帖 |
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S*R
发帖数: 1057 | 26 Fiona: Has your Chinese background (cultural, educational) influenced your
career, in either positive or negative ways? Do you have particular advice
for Asian scientists who strive in the Western academia?
Dr. Yin: I think my ethnic background has had zero influence on my career. I
feel completely comfortable living and working in the US, as well as during
my extended visits to India, Israel, and Japan. I never feel tied to a
certain place. I think Asian students tend to focus too much on cours... 阅读全帖 |
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D*********n
发帖数: 674 | 28 http://takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derby
这里有个教育孩子的关于黑人的好文章。实用。
The Talk: Nonblack Version
by John Derbyshire
April 05, 2012
Share on emailShare on printMultiple Pages
The Talk: Nonblack Version
There is much talk about “the talk.”
“Sean O’Reilly was 16 when his mother gave him the talk that most black
parents give their teenage sons,” Denisa R. Superville of the Hackensack (
NJ) Record tells us. Meanwhile, down in Atlanta: “Her sons were 12 and 8
when Marlyn Tillman realiz... 阅读全帖 |
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p****t
发帖数: 292 | 29 http://takimag.com/article/the_talk_nonblack_version_john_derby
There is much talk about “the talk.”
“Sean O’Reilly was 16 when his mother gave him the talk that most black
parents give their teenage sons,” Denisa R. Superville of the Hackensack (
NJ) Record tells us. Meanwhile, down in Atlanta: “Her sons were 12 and 8
when Marlyn Tillman realized it was time for her to have the talk,” Gracie
Bonds Staples writes in the Fort Worth Star-Telegram.
Leonard Greene talks about the talk in the New Yor... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 30 冒似我错了。。亚裔在奥大立亚好象过的不错。。
https://www.quora.com/Are-Australians-more-racist-towards-Asians-than-
Americans
It's true that Asians are more discriminated against in Australia. This is
mostly because of the massive influx of Asian immigrants over the last few
years. I have also noticed that quite a few Asians struggle or simply do
not
care to assimilate Australian culture so that they can integrate into
Australian society. For some in Australia, this can be considered as
snottiness or arrogance, but a... 阅读全帖 |
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m********a
发帖数: 239 | 31 I am introvert and I am doing quite well.
no need to worry. |
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A***a
发帖数: 73 | 32 I have to say that I am not an experienced faculty. I am still working
towards my tenure so I am sharing my opinion here for your reference.
I have a few Ph.D. students and they have very diversified background and
personalities. Most of them are fine fellows/girls, smart and great to work
with.
However, sometimes, when they were pissed off by their personal lives and
had no outlet to get their angers out, I found them hard to get alone with.
As their advisor, I could feel the emotions built u... 阅读全帖 |
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H****y
发帖数: 2992 | 33 Interview with Dr. Xi Yin
--- By Fiona Rawsontile, Sept 2015
This interview was inspired by an earlier interview of Dr. Yin I saw on the
Internet, which made me think that we can’t expect someone who normally
writes for entertainment to understand a physicist. To “provoke” a
scientist, we need another scientist. So I volunteered (to myself) and sent
an invitation to Dr. Yin, who was recently promoted to Professor in Physics
at Harvard Uni... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******t
发帖数: 3956 | 34 （作为年仅31岁就晋升哈佛正教授的青年才俊，尹希教授最近得到了很多关注。其中一
篇关于他的专访进入了一名同是美国大学华裔教授的女科学家的视线。因为觉得这样的
采访不过瘾，她突发奇想，想亲自采访一下尹希。于是就有了这个我们今天看到的两名
科学家之间的对话。这位女教授使用了化名，这是她出版自己几部科幻小说的笔名。对
，没错，这位女教授同时也是一个女文青，已经写了几本书，还都是英文，Amazon 就
能买到。感兴趣的不妨找来看看。很可能有一天，她也会成为传奇式的人物。那今天这
篇采访就会成为另一段佳话。）
Interview with Dr. Xi Yin
--- By Fiona Rawsontile, Sept 2015
Translated by Slow Rabbit
This interview was inspired by an earlier interview of Dr. Yin I saw on the
Internet, which made me think that we can’t expect some... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********e
发帖数: 33562 | 35 是下面这段吗？我认为Yin的回答没有什么问题。揪住这个不放的，要不是英文不及格
，要么是别有用心。
Fiona: Has your Chinese background (cultural, educational) influenced your
career, in either positive or negative ways? Do you have particular advice
for Asian scientists who strive in the Western academia?
Dr. Yin: I think my ethnic background has had zero influence on my career. I
feel completely comfortable living and working in the US, as well as during
my extended visits to India, Israel, and Japan. I never feel tied to a
certain place. I th... 阅读全帖 |
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D**********9
发帖数: 48 | 36 有些感情是由深至浅, 有些感情是由浅至深.
一见钟情,多半是由深至浅. 渐渐发现,渐渐失望,最后变淡.
灵魂伴侣,多半是由浅至深. 慢慢聊,慢慢嚼. 这样一旦牵起手来,将永远不再松开.
当然,聊得来的,也不一定都是灵魂伴侣.
世上没有绝对.
如果结婚对象即是灵魂伴侣,又有身体上的吸引,那样当然最好.
如果不能兼得,二选一的话,你选哪个?
are
with
introvert
that |
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g****7
发帖数: 45 | 37 http://blogs.techrepublic.com.com/career/?p=2632&tag=nl.e124
What should job seekers be doing during the holidays?
Date: December 14th, 2010
Author: Tim Heard
Category: General
Thanks to my loyal readers who have asked when I was going to write another
article… both of you. And, no Mom, we can’t ban people from TechRepublic
for making snide comments about things I have written.
My other loyal reader sent in this question: Would you cover the topic, “
Job Searching during the holidays” in a TechR... 阅读全帖 |
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c******n
发帖数: 4965 | 38 刚爆出的料， uber 真是糙快猛的代表啊
https://www.theinformation.com/inside-ubers-engineering-struggles?unlock=
22c087&token=4fa8aaabbd314173f46a69e9c2b4db43226d3169
The Information
Research Topics
The Team
Our Subscribers
Welcome, John
Semil Shah shared this article from The Information with you. For access to
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subscribe to The Information.
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EXCLUSIVE
Inside Uber’s Engineering Struggles
Inside Uber’s Engineering Struggles
Uber CT... 阅读全帖 |
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m****i
发帖数: 1401 | 39 据说extraverted还是introverted基本上是天生的，我在国内这么crowded的环境长大
，还是超级不喜欢social。 |
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n*******1
发帖数: 554 | 40 那是内向的定义
外向的人 gain energy from interacting with the outside world, however
introverts have to put in energy to deal with the outside world. they need
to recharge like a battery by being alone
内外相也不是看说话多少，就是看人的能量走向。 |
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c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 41 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
catmonkey (catplusmonkey) 于 (Mon Feb 28 18:06:53 2011, 美东) 提到:
这两天读了很多关于自闭症的帖子，对这个问题有了个基本了解，同时也明白了家里一
个亲戚的问题。
我的舅舅有一个儿子，从小不爱说话，不过貌似智力没有问题。你和他说话，他不喜欢
回答，但是涉及吃饭、穿衣和玩耍的事没有问题，大家俗称这个“蔫淘”。我很清楚的
记得小时候和他一起在我姥姥家，大人偏心只给他一个人吃水果罐头。一个罐头分几次
吃，他每次都记着还剩几块罐头，因为怕我偷吃了。我的姥姥和姥爷直夸大孙子聪明。
因为他是一大家人唯一的根，大家都格外的高看他。可是他学习特别不好，在小学就找
老师补习，可怎么补习都没有用，怎么重复好像也达不到及格。小学毕业后，他靠着家
里的关系当了工人。在单位，一般事情能够随大流，工人的工作很辛苦，他也能胜任。
到了找对象，靠着家里的关系找了很多都谈不成。后来，家里的七大姑八大姨给他支招
，告诉他什么时候该拉手了，该说什么了。终于一家没钱但是本分，长相性... 阅读全帖 |
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morning1225 (木鱼) 于 (Tue Jun 5 00:13:50 2012, 美东) 提到:
给各位没打算这辈子不生娃的女性
今天带我俩娃公园玩，正巧一个DAYCARE的一群10岁左右的孩子也在玩。我看到一个很
胖的女孩自己坐在树荫下，做了好半天，也没人理她，觉得将来一定不能让我娃过胖。
一会儿那个女孩走过来，一看，还是个唐氏综合症的孩子。她走到老师身边，跟一群女
孩一起玩，傻笑了一会儿。突然她就看到坐在旁边的我，蹭蹭走过来，一屁股坐在我身
边，紧挨着我。说，hi,mama.我也说hi.她就这样跟我肩并肩坐了半分钟，我们被树挡
住了，老师刚好没看到，所以没来管。突然，她就伸出胳膊，抱着我的肩膀，说，
thank you,mama.我也立刻伸出双手抱住她，不知说什么好，大概也含糊说了声thank
you.其实她太胖了，我两手环抱，前面的手只抓到她的未发育的乳房。我的心已经在滴
血了。然后我俩娃看到有人跟他们抢妈，早已围过来。这个女孩看到宝宝很开心，就去
抓他们，3个人立刻很开心玩了一会... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1995 | 43 I used to think same. Now I think different.
Chinese culture is introverting, not quite compatible to American "main-
stream" culture. True that they'll appreciate a different culture,
however, I believe it will make it difficult for kids to blend into
their
environment and cause more self-identity crisis.
This is a great topic to discuss.
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发帖数: 389 | 44 说话的语气怪
My 5 year old spoke Chinese very funny. We all made fun of her. After she
spent the summer with grandparents, that is now corrected.
她要是找不到人就特别落寞
Look at it positively. This is like my old daughter. To play with others,
she would give up all her ideas. We used to worry about her lack of
leadership, but we saw it as her personality, not weakness. Now she is
older and very popular in her class, with many friends, and she knows very
well how to handle her friends when they come over to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3027 | 45 最近在读一本书将raising your spirited child,其中一节讲了introvert vs
extrovert,看法有点意思。 |
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发帖数: 3027 | 46 一大堆psychologists对于是 introvert personality还是high functional ASD,尤其
是communications & social 延迟,并且对于某些人物有选择性的爱好的,判断非常不统
一.
建议多和不同的psychologists聊聊. |
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