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g**1
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: gc01 (gc01), 信区: Military
标 题: 不好,巴马夫妇分床睡了ZT
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Feb 1 22:31:02 2014, 美东)
So, Michelle and Barack Obama: What IS the state of your union? Rumours
their 21-year marriage has been racked by screaming rows, allegations of
infidelity and a string of jealous fights
Rumours surround frostiness between the couple in recent months
Reports claim they are now sleeping in separate bedrooms
Notorious selfie with Danish PM was the 'last straw', sources claim
Ne... 阅读全帖
f*******y
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美国的founding fathers是这么说穆斯林的
Thomas Jefferson written in constitution:
The bill for establishing religious freedom, the principles of which had, to
a certain degree, been enacted before, I had drawn in all the latitude of
reason and right. It still met with opposition; but, with some mutilations
in the preamble, it was finally passed; and a singular proposition proved
that its protection of opinion was meant to be universal. Where the preamble
declares, that coercion is a departure from the plan ... 阅读全帖
s*l
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来自主题: Joke版 - 克林顿给川普的一封信
Dont cry for me America
It won't be easy, you'll think it funny
When I try to hide how I feel
That I still need your love after all that I've done
You won't believe me
All you will see is a witch you once knew
Although I’m dressed up to the throne
At sixes and sevens with you
I had to let it happen, I had to stay
Couldn't leave all my life down at hell
Looking out of the window, staying out of the snow
So I chose lie
Dancing around, denying everything infidelity to you
But nothing fool you at al... 阅读全帖
w*****g
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e****e
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来自主题: LES版 - 她的心里还有个她
wow it looks like u have thought it over real thorough, i see the most
wisdom in ur post. u have a good heart, u have rationalized that her
infidelity didn't really mean to harm u, that thing was just in her and she
had to act from her true self.
i'd set both her and urself free. that actually seems to be ur only option,
because no matter how much u have loved each other, there's no way we can
force the love. set each other free, if there'd be a chance u both come back
, i believe u'd feel how m
y********k
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来自主题: LES版 - 被人说保守了
We were talking about 小三。
Basically, we agreed on the assumption that monogamy is against human nature
but differed in to what extend we are entitled to blame our tendency to
infidelity on the so-called cheating genes.
My thought is it very much depends on how we set up the bottom line.
If the bottom line is: we should just surrender to our primal instinct then
any cheating behavior is to be tolerated and forgiven while fidelity is to
be lauded.
On the other hand, if the bottom line is, since we
x********n
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This is EXACTLY why I was so upset when he brought this up. As soon as you
open the door to start thinking about what to do after the not-started-yet
marriage ends, it is hard to draw the line where to stop. Presumably if the
divorce is due to infidelity, the innocent spouse should be entitled to more
than his/her fair share under regular circumstance -- such as when the
divorce is due to irreconcilable difference that cannot be characterized as
fault by either spouse. Why don't we want to put t
s****y
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physical or emotional infidelity?

bf
L******t
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来自主题: Memory版 - 100部必看英文小说
从每日电报转来的啊。
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/books/4248401/100-novels-everyone-should-read.html
100 The Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkein
WH Auden thought this tale of fantastic creatures looking for lost jewellery
was a “masterpiece”.
99 To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
A child’s-eye view of racial prejudice and freaky neighbours in Thirties
Alabama.
98 The Home and the World by Rabindranath Tagore
A rich Bengali noble lives happily until a radical revolutionary appears.
97 The Hitchhiker’s ... 阅读全帖
T******1
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来自主题: Midlife版 - 38 中年,一无所有,抑郁加重
强壮就是有6 packs,哈哈。其实更应该是“他强由他强,清风拂山冈。他横任他横,明
月照大江。”要是真能做到,那早就不是一般人了
离婚只能是最后、最后的选择,尤其是漂洋过海到了国外。能过二十来年,一定有能过
下去的原因。离了更幸福的可能性更小。尽量让自己“强壮、自信”,同时寻求专业咨
询。除非有physical abuse, infidelity,否则“包容忍让,不离不弃”还是能解决大
部分问题的
T******1
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来自主题: Midlife版 - 38 中年,一无所有,抑郁加重
为什么不能现在开始set boundaries再试试呢?我是觉得如果两个人还能睡到一张床上
,i.e.,没有 physical abuse, infidelity,离婚造成的伤害一定比在一起过要大
j*****0
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Fresh off print on today's NYT.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/07/03/magazine/infidelity-will-keep
FYI, I am biased since I am a huge fan of Dan Savage.
m***i
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这个似乎和基因有关系,要想改变她,估计只好帮她回炉重造了。下文仅作参考。
Associations between Dopamine D4 Receptor Gene Variation with Both
Infidelity and Sexual Promiscuity
http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.p
k********k
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http://omg.yahoo.com/news/apnewsbreak-demi-moore-divorce-ashton
APNewsBreak:
Demi Moore to divorce Ashton Kutcher
By SANDY COHEN | AP – 1 hour 7 minutes ago
LOS ANGELES (AP) — Demi Moore is ending her marriage to fellow actor Ashton
Kutcher, she told The Associated Press on Thursday.
Moore, 49, and Kutcher, 33, were wed in September 2005.
The couple's relationship became tabloid fodder in recent months as rumors
swirled about Kutcher's alleged infidelity.
"It is with great sadness and a heavy he... 阅读全帖
c**l
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Details here:
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/church-state/decisions.html
Illinois ex rel. McCollum v. Board of Education of School District, 333 U.S.
203 (1948)
Court finds religious instruction in public schools a violation of the
establishment clause and therefore unconstitutional.
Burstyn v. Wilson, 72 S. Ct. 777 (1952)
Government may not censor a motion picture because it is offensive to
religious beliefs.
Torcaso v. Watkins, 367 U.S. 488 (1961)
Court holds that the state of Maryland
p**********6
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对这种玩意什么“待判”,而是早有判决:
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/jeff_lowder/jury/
p**********6
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p**********6
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关于《铁证待判》自然有陪审员来判决:
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/jeff_lowder/jury/
其中引言和第一、第三章有中文翻译:
http://www.wretch.cc/blog/mocear&category_id=1756715
w*****w
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来自主题: Belief版 - 波义耳 Robert Boyle (1791-1867)
Robert Boyle (1791-1867)
One of the founders and key early members of the Royal Society, Boyle gave
his name to "Boyle's Law" for gases, and also wrote an important work on
chemistry. Encyclopedia Britannica says of him: "By his will he endowed a
series of Boyle lectures, or sermons, which still continue, 'for proving the
Christian religion against notorious infidels...' As a devout Protestant,
Boyle took a special interest in promoting the Christian religion abroad,
giving money to translate an
G******e
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这个时候,会有人提这个名字: Thallus
可以参考:
Thallus: an Analysis
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/richard_carrier/thallus.html
D*****r
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来自主题: Belief版 - Robert Ingersoll: About the holy Bible
http://www.infidels.org/library/historical/robert_ingersoll/about_the_holy_bible.html
Somebody ought to tell the truth about the Bible. The preachers dare not,
because they would be driven from their pulpits. Professors in colleges dare
not, because they would lose their salaries. Politicians dare not. They
would be defeated. Editors dare not. They would lose subscribers. Merchants
dare not, because they might lose customers. Men of fashion dare not,
fearing that they would lose caste. Even cler... 阅读全帖
p*****t
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来自主题: Belief版 - 外邦人Gentiles
Gentile意思跟infidel相类似,但更客气些。
g***j
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: gshjj (各输己键), 信区: Military
标 题: Science and religion aren't friends zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 14 16:37:26 2010, 美东)
By Jerry A. Coyne
Religion in America is on the defensive.
Atheist books such as The God Delusion and The End of Faith have, by
exposing the dangers of faith and the lack of evidence for the God of
Abraham, become best-sellers. Science nibbles at religion from the other end
, relentlessly consuming divine explanations and replacing them with
material... 阅读全帖
T*****n
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来自主题: Belief版 - 新约和旧约内容差异疑议
这是发动十字军东征号召的教皇乌尔班二世的演说词,要不您老来评价评价,怎么不符
合圣经了?人家也是引用圣经做铺垫的。不会归根结底又变成新教徒批判天主教教皇制
吧。
=========================================================
各位敬爱的兄弟:我,凭借上帝恩赐而成为基督教教宗和整个世界领袖的乌尔班,向你
们发出最紧急的呼吁。我作为背负天命的使者,来到你们这群上帝的仆人中间。我希望
能在你们身上找到我所期待的那种对上帝的忠贞。但如果你们身上有任何有违上帝意旨
的异端,我也将尽我所能,加以化解。上帝使你们生为他大家庭中的仆人,让上帝通过
你们的服务感受到你们的虔诚,这将是你们由衷的幸福。你们被称作牧羊人,有鉴于此
,你们不应当做为金钱的佣人,而应该做一个时刻手握牧杖的真正的牧羊人,不要偷懒
,而要从所有的方面保护你的羊群。如果你玩忽职守漫不经心,导致狼叼走了你羊群中
的任何一只羊,那么毫无疑问你将失去上帝许给你的奖赏。及后,你只能在地狱里追悔
莫及地试图擦去你的污点。
福音书上说:“你们是世上的盐。盐若失了味、怎能叫它再咸呢。以后无用、不过... 阅读全帖
T*****n
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来自主题: Belief版 - 第五节 宗教大法官
THE BROTHERS KARAMAZOV
By Fyodor Mikailovich Dostoevsky
Translated by Constance Garnett
Chapter 5
The Grand Inquisitor
https://www.mtholyoke.edu/acad/intrel/pol116/grand.htm
"EVEN this must have a preface- that is, a literary preface," laughed Ivan,
"and I am a poor hand at making one. You see, my action takes place in the
sixteenth century, and at that time, as you probably learnt at school, it
was customary in poetry to bring down heavenly powers on earth. Not to speak
of Dante, in France, cle... 阅读全帖
w********y
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来自主题: PsychoAnalysis版 - [转载] DSM-V DiagnosisRe: 想离婚了
【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: TheSimpsons (Dohh!), 信区: Family
标 题: DSM-V DiagnosisRe: 想离婚了
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Tue Sep 14 16:11:45 2004) WWW-POST
First, find if he has been going too far, another words, a lot of people
commit infidelity through internet usage. If this is the case, you should
seriously consider divorce.
But, to my knowledge, your husband suffers Obssessive Compulsive Disorder, as
evidance by repetitive uncontrolable internet addiction. Both of yall need
conselling. It
d*****9
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【When Norris discovered the scope of Mailer’s infidelities, she was struck
by how many of the women were either his age — he was near 70 then — or
significantly overweight. 】“He made the remark, ‘Sometimes I want to be
the attractive one.’ 。。。" -- NYT
j*****7
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 没听过福音的人能否得救?
这个解释太“强大”了吧?不信就是不信,那还来的“信了又不信的”这么复杂
Strong's Number: 571 [ <<= || =>> ]
Transliterated: apistos
Phonetic: ap'-is-tos
Text: from 1 (as a negative particle) and 4103; (actively) disbelieving, i.e
. without Christian faith (specially, a heathen); (passively) untrustworthy
(person), or incredible (thing):
KJV --that believeth not, faithless, incredible thing, infidel, unbeliever(-
ing).
这个词也用在了下面这43个场合
l*****a
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Q1. How would you define “atheism”?
Satanism, devil-worship, false, Godless, infidels, idiotic, Hell-bound,
unethical, evil…there are many words I could
use. Atheists are evil wicked people with no morals who deserve Hell more
than any murderer or rapist!
Q2. Was your upbringing religious? If so, what tradition?
Naturally. I was born a Baptist Christian and still follow our Lord Jesus
Christ today. As a child I attended church
every Sunday, and as I grew older I was born again and began to parti... 阅读全帖
n*********0
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http://www.glorypress.com/devotional/FaithAndLifeOneYearBook.asp?bid=3
为我们之故
经文: 「只是为选民,那日子必减少了。」(马太福音廿四︰22)
上帝为了祂的选民,未施行许多的审判,并减少那患难的日子。在大灾难当中
,天火要吞灭世人,但为了选民的缘故,上帝稍微浇熄火的威势,所以,上帝为了耶稣
之故拯救祂的选民,同时,也为了祂的选民,存留余种。
圣徒的身份是何等尊贵!他们又是何等地殷勤,靠着主发挥他们的影响力,上
帝要听他们为罪人的代求,也要因着他们所付出的代价,拯救他们所代祷的对象。祂要
施恩给信徒,因为他们实在是未信之人的祝福。有许多罪人还活着,实在是因为他的亲
戚朋友中,有上帝所敬重的信徒为他付上流泪的代祷。
我们可曾好好使用上帝给我们的祷告权柄?我们是否尽上本份,好好地为国家
、为这块土地、为这个世代祷告﹖在灾荒战祸,哀鸿遍野的时刻,我们可曾挺身出来,
作个代祷勇士?恳求主将这日子缩短。我们是否为着现今政治的乱象,色情的泛滥,人
心的贪婪,在上帝面前忧心恳切地祷... 阅读全帖
D*****r
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - <一年反基> Thomas Paine论信仰
It is necessary to the happiness of man that he be mentally faithful to
himself. Infidelity does not consist in believing, or in disbelieving, it
consists in professing to believe what one does not believe.
l*****a
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Listen to God! y'all
1) Capital Punishment Crimes:
 
Kill People Who Don't Listen to Priests
    Anyone arrogant enough to reject the verdict of the judge
or of the priest who represents the LORD your God must
be put to death.  Such evil must be purged from Israel.  (
Deuteronomy 17:12 NLT)
 
Kill Witches
    You should not let a sorceress live.  (Exodus 22:17
NAB)
 
Kill Homosexuals
    "If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of the... 阅读全帖
G******e
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http://sandwichesforsale.blogspot.com/2010/10/sir-william-mitch
In my last blog entry, we discovered Simon Greenleaf was not converted from
atheism to Christianity despite the numerous claims by Christian apologist
after apologist. In fact, if you search “Simon Greenleaf atheist” in
Google, you will find reams of pages, all with Christians gleefully stating
this. All wrong.
Another claimed conversion is that of Sir William Mitchell Ramsay. While I
was at, I decided to confirm this claim, and gue... 阅读全帖
C****i
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CHAPTER XXII
Of Lawful Oaths and Vows
I. A lawful oath is a part of religious worship,[443] wherein, upon just occ
asion, the person swearing solemnly calleth God to witness what he asserteth
, or promiseth, and to judge him according to the truth or falsehood of what
he sweareth.[444]
II. The name of God only is that by which men ought to swear, and therein it
is to be used with all holy fear and reverence.[445] Therefore, to swear va
inly, or rashly, by that glorious and dreadful Name; or, to ... 阅读全帖
C****i
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 韦斯敏斯德信条 23章 论国家官员
CHAPTER XXIII
Of the Civil Magistrate
I. God, the supreme Lord and King of all the world, hath ordained civil magi
strates, to be, under him, over the people, for his own glory, and the publi
c good: and, to this end, hath armed them with the power of the sword, for t
he defense and encouragement of them that are good, and for the punishment o
f evildoers.[459]
II. It is lawful for Christians to accept and execute the office of a magist
rate, when called thereunto:[460] in the managing whereof, ... 阅读全帖
C****i
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 韦斯敏斯德信条 24章 论结婚与离婚
CHAPTER XXIV
Of Marriage and Divorce
I. Marriage is to be between one man and one woman: neither is it lawful for
any man to have more than one wife, nor for any woman to have more than one
husband, at the same time.[476]
II. Marriage was ordained for the mutual help of husband and wife,[477] for
the increase of mankind with legitimate issue, and of the church with an hol
y seed;[478] and for preventing of uncleanness.[479]
III. It is lawful for all sorts of people to marry, who are able with ju... 阅读全帖
C****i
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 韦斯敏斯德信条 29章 论圣餐
CHAPTER XXIX
Of the Lord’s Supper
I. Our Lord Jesus, in the night wherein he was betrayed, instituted the sacr
ament of his body and blood, called the Lord’s Supper, to be observed in hi
s church, unto the end of the world, for the perpetual remembrance of the sa
crifice of himself in his death; the sealing all benefits thereof unto true
believers, their spiritual nourishment and growth in him, their further enga
gement in and to all duties which they owe unto him; and, to be a bond and p
ledge ... 阅读全帖
P**********w
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 需要 反基督教 的书单
http://www.evilbible.com/
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/emmett_fields/word_of_go
Is the Bible the Word of God?
我曾经有一大堆,不玩了都丢了,有些朋友是基督徒,不过我们之间从来不会谈论这些
,要不肯定有争执,也许网上的文字更反映内心吧。
P**********w
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撒谎神是不喜悦的
http://lachlan.bluehaze.com.au/lit/jeff17.htm
Letter from Thomas Jefferson
Letter To Dr. Benjamin Waterhouse - Monticello, June 26, 1822
_To Dr. Benjamin Waterhouse_
_Monticello, June 26, 1822_
DEAR SIR, -- I have received and read with thankfulness and
pleasure your denunciation of the abuses of tobacco and wine. Yet,
however sound in its principles, I expect it will be but a sermon to
the wind. You will find it as difficult to inculcate these sanative
precept... 阅读全帖
P**********w
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P**********w
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XX名人是基督徒,美国是以基督教建国的国家 HAAAAAAA
不捣乱了,这个是我常常听到,小册子里也常有的
是这段吗?
----- To C. Thompson, 1816
I am a real Christian, that is to say, a disciple of the doctrines of Jesus,
very different from the Platonists, who call me infidel and themselves
Christians and preachers of the gospel, while they draw all their
characteristic dogmas from what its author never said nor saw. They have
compounded from the heathen mysteries a system beyond the comprehension of
man, of which the great reformer of the vicious eth... 阅读全帖
J*****3
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 请haitaob (求道的人)回答问题
"Even if the new result doesn't quite settle the debate about whether
Neandertals mixed with modern humans, it does underscore how different they
were from our own lineage. And that implies that "up to 200,000 or 300,000
years ago, humans evolved just like gorillas and everything else," says Ward
, perhaps with several contemporaneous, diverse human species."
-- 文章否定进化论了吗?再唐几句,其他物种进化是有分岔的(进化树),现在这个文章讨论的是人类进化是直线的呢还是也有分岔,就和后面BBC/TIMES的新闻报道一样,一个意思,被你们歪曲到人类进化不成立。给你科普下
退一步,我不信基督教只要我读下圣经就可以了,不需要知道更多的关... 阅读全帖
C*****e
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费氏要理问答 63-64
THE
SHORTER CATECHISM
EXPLAINED
QUESTION 63. Which is the Fifth Commandment?
ANSWER: The Fifth Commandment is, Honour thy father and thy mother; that thy
days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.
QUESTION 64. What is required in the Fifth Commandment?
ANSWER: The Fifth Commandment requireth the preserving the honour, and
performing the duties, belonging to every one in their several places and
relations, as superiors, inferiors, or equals.
Q. 1. "Who are mea... 阅读全帖
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