f**r 发帖数: 865 | 1 honestly, 我不觉得说不要强迫孩子练琴很装。我以前转过一个ABC中国孩子
对钢琴,打游戏,和中文的看法,再转一遍好了。我知道如果这人不是传统意义
上的成功就不算,所以这是reddit的总裁说的..
http://www.quora.com/Yishan-Wong/answers/Battle-Hymn-of-the-Tig
贴片段:
I had similar experiences with my mother when I was learning piano. She
would sit with me for hours, correcting every little mistake I would make
and pressing me repeatedly to get the song right. It was terrible and
oppressive. Eventually I would perform to her satisfaction, and after years
passed I attained a near-concert-p... 阅读全帖 |
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k******b 发帖数: 4501 | 2 我家情况倒和大家相反。
我们是两岁半前看得多,但还是有控制的,每天30,40分钟吧。一般上youtube 看我们给
他选的儿歌,他跟着又唱又跳,很欢乐。也给他看一些英文电视节目,Go Diego Go等
。关健那时候也没有别的太多玩。
小孩子对音乐的感受能力还是很强的。 不到一岁,看‘卡门’里最有名的那个片段,
看得有滋有味。快2岁左右看 Johynny Cash 的 ‘The Battle Hymn of the Republic
’,很兴奋,会抱着小吉它跟着弹唱。
两岁多之后,对电视音乐的兴趣消失了,可能也是别可玩的花样多了,就看得少了。从
这点来说,敏感期的学说十分有道理。
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s*******u 发帖数: 1055 | 3 Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother |
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l****u 发帖数: 3130 | 4 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: laodou (别拿豆包不当干粮), 信区: Military
标 题: 媒体立即转向,授予文迪"虎妻"称号
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 19 14:39:16 2011, 美东)
Will the foam pie incident change everything?
More than anything Rupert Murdoch or his son James said before the
Parliamentary panel on Tuesday, it may be the attack on Murdoch—and his
wife literally leaping to his defense—that changes public opinion about the
scandal that has led to the closing of The News of the World and the
resignations of top News Corp [NWSA 1... 阅读全帖 |
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p***y 发帖数: 18037 | 5 Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior
Can a regimen of no playdates, no TV, no computer games and hours of music
practice create happy kids? And what happens when they fight back?
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870411150457605971
By AMY CHUA
Amy Chua with her daughters, Louisa and Sophia, at their home in New Haven,
Conn.
A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically
successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math
whizzes and music prod... 阅读全帖 |
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m****g 发帖数: 3975 | 6 第二项内容
Arethusa Falls is generally regarded as the highest single drop in New
Hampshire. It's not, Dryad Fall is a 300' horsetail, but Arethusa Falls is
by far the more spectacular. Bemis Brook drops over a broad orange granitic
cliff, capping a 1.5 mile hike along (mostly far above) Bemis Brook.
Arethusa's height figure is fairly suspect. Let me offer some clarification
before I hear the inevitable hymns of protest. I eyeball the total height at
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n********t 发帖数: 63 | 7 Amy Chua is the John M. Duff Professor of Law at Yale Law School. She
received both her A.B. and her J.D. from Harvard University and later she
joined the Yale Law School faculty in 2001. She is best known in Asian
community as the Tiger Mother because of her 2011 memoir Battle Hymn of the
Tiger Mother which was a runaway international bestseller and translated
into 30 languages. Her latest New York Times bestseller, The Triple Package:
How Three Unlikely Traits Explain the Rise and Fall of Cul... 阅读全帖 |
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d*****j 发帖数: 1192 | 11 From the title of her book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother |
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p***y 发帖数: 18037 | 12 Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior
Can a regimen of no playdates, no TV, no computer games and hours of music
practice create happy kids? And what happens when they fight back?
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870411150457605971
By AMY CHUA
Amy Chua with her daughters, Louisa and Sophia, at their home in New Haven,
Conn.
A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically
successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math
whizzes and music prod... 阅读全帖 |
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a*o 发帖数: 25262 | 13 http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/17/fashion/wendi-murdoch-is-crea
Declaration of Independence
By AMY CHOZICK
LAST January, Amy Chua got an unexpected e-mail just before an excerpt from
her provocative child-rearing manual, “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother,”
appeared in The Wall Street Journal. It was from Wendi Murdoch, the wife of
Rupert Murdoch, whose News Corporation owns The Journal.
“She wanted her daughters to come to New Haven and meet my daughters,” Ms.
Chua said in a phone interview. Like... 阅读全帖 |
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y****i 发帖数: 17878 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: jingcai (简单快乐), 信区: Parenting
标 题: The Chinese Way or the American Way?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Aug 26 01:55:51 2011, 美东)
前些天看完了虎妈写的书:“Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mom”, 英文版,感想颇多
,那天第二天要考试的情况下,还赶着写了一篇draft出来,加上最近几天薇薇新的学
校要开学,还有过去上中文学校的几周,让我忍不住的要写这一篇博。
The Chinese Way or the American Way?作为来美国的第一代移民,我想很多爸爸妈
妈都有和我一样的疑惑和挣扎,到底怎样的教育方式对我们的小朋友们是最好的?作为
妈妈的我们,要做虎妈,犬妈,还是hello kitty 妈妈?
先说美国的方式,虎妈一书里把美国的教育批评的无一是处,孰不知她书里很多的小的
细节完全是美国化的,比如最后她的书基本是她的两个女儿和她一起完成的,比如枯燥
的小提琴的note上,她用的依然是“W... 阅读全帖 |
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d**n 发帖数: 3172 | 15 http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/18/opinion/18brooks.html
OP-ED COLUMNIST
Amy Chua Is a Wimp
By DAVID BROOKS
Published: January 17, 2011
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Sometime early last week, a large slice of educated America decided that Amy
Chua is a menace to society. Chua, as you probably know, is the Yale
professor who has written a bracing critique of what she considers the weak,
cuddling American parenting style.
Josh Haner/The New York Times
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a*****0 发帖数: 6788 | 16 可见哥说的不错,看你是用“怕”字来描述对steretype的感受。
虎妈是不是这个社会的winner绝大多数人都有定论。最重要的是她自己早就觉得自己是
了,不需要跟谁比。 你这除了Gates都不要活了的攀比心态,很难过得快乐过得自信。
你没真正看过她的“Battle Hymn of The Tiger Mother"吧? 建议你买来读读.
成功的人都到处出书告诉自己成功的秘诀了,我等着看Gates的真情告白呢。 |
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d*2 发帖数: 2053 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: pacific (hh), 信区: Military
标 题: 虎妈大获全胜 女儿同时被哈佛、耶鲁录取
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 3 16:38:00 2011, 美东)
虎妈大获全胜 女儿同时被哈佛、耶鲁录取
世界日报 2011-04-03 09:47:46
虎妈大获全胜!在蔡美儿的着作「虎妈的战歌」(Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother)
中,被她骂成垃圾,也不准看电视或有玩伴的长女索非亚(中文名蔡思慧),即将成为长
春藤盟校的学生。
蔡美儿在她的脸书网页中表示,17岁的蔡思慧已获哈佛和耶鲁录取,可是尚未决定上哪
一所学校。
她在写给「波士顿前锋报」的电邮中说:「我不能居功。我不觉得我的教养方式,与她
被录取有关。我觉得这百分之百是索非亚自己努力的结果。」
虎妈什麽时候变成了小猫咪?
不到四个月前,「华尔街日报」以「中国母亲何以更优越」为题,报导蔡美儿用言语辱
骂、心理控制和恐吓教养孩子的方式,引起非常强烈的反应,使蔡美儿被骂得很惨。
她立刻展开危机管控,强调书中有... 阅读全帖 |
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d**n 发帖数: 3172 | 19 What the Chinese Want
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405270230336050457740849
.html?mod=WSJ_article_comments#articleTabs%3Darticle
By TOM DOCTOROFF
Apple has taken China by storm. A Starbucks can be found on practically
every major street corner in coastal cities and beyond. From Nike to
Buick
to Siemens, Chinese consumers actively prefer Western brands over their
domestic competitors. The rise of microbloggers, the popularity of rock
bands with names like Hutong Fist and Catcher in the ... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****r 发帖数: 4431 | 21 我替西雅图图书馆宣传一下:
Amy Chua and Jed Rubenfeld discuss 'The Triple Package'
Wednesday, February 12, 2014, 7 – 8:30 p.m.
Event type:Author Readings/Lectures
WhereCentral Library
Room Location;Level 1 - Microsoft Auditorium
Audience;Adults
Language:English
Summary
Amy Chua and Jed Rubenfeld, husband and wife professors at Yale Law School,
discuss their new book, "The Triple Package: How Three Unlikely Traits
Explain the Rise and Fall of Cultural Groups in America."
Description
Why are some cultural grou... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********r 发帖数: 1568 | 22 额。。。。。。。香颂就是法国的老派流行歌曲“chanson”。绝大部分主题描写爱情
。不过呢,和神马老鼠爱大米啊,心太软啊这一类的口水歌不一样,歌词都很考究,注
重意境。风格很浪漫华丽。典型代表之一就是我滴偶像Edith Piaf。
Edith的经典作品:
1.La vie en rose 玫瑰人生 有一部同名电影,就是讲edith piaf的一生的,很感人很
感人。
2.La foule 人群/译得好听的叫花都人潮
3.L'accordeoniste 手风琴手
4.Hymne à l'amour 爱的礼赞
5.Non, je ne regrette rien 无悔
其他的比较有名的:
6.sous le ciel de Paris 巴黎的天空下
7.c'est si bon 这个中文名叫啥我也不知道。。。大概意思就是介么美好啊的意思
8.Les feuilles mortes 秋叶
9.Dans Le Port d'Amsterdam 阿姆斯特丹港 唱这首歌的 Jacques Brel也是一牛X人物
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v*******s 发帖数: 450 | 23 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: liushanhu (我代表党和人民处决你!), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 黄西自传·成就与感想
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 1 10:58:56 2011, 美东)
黄瓜的黄,西瓜的西
文/黄西
全美喜剧节2010
2009年的时候,我答应艾迪参加全美喜剧节的比赛,但是后来因为要去参加《艾伦
秀》,我就把那次比赛推掉了。2010年6月,我参加了全美喜剧节,这个喜剧节是在约
翰尼·卡森的老家诺福克举行的。约翰尼·卡森是20世纪60年代到80年代末非常红的脱
口秀主持人。约翰尼·卡森去世以后,诺福克每年都会举办一个全美喜剧节来纪念这位
脱口秀界的传奇人物。主办方会在美国各地选拔20到24个单口相声演员,邀请他们到这
儿来参加比赛。
已故的喜剧大师乔治·卡林说过,在美国的中西部表演单口相声是最痛快的,因为
那里的人非常欣赏单口相声,而且都非常热情。而我的感受是,诺福克人比他描述的还
要热情。
在全美喜剧节期间,诺福克的志愿者会开车去机场接那些从各地赶来的喜剧演员,
并带着他们在城里逛。第一... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****n 发帖数: 7450 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: bigchipmunk (花姥姥), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: 黄西自传·成就与感想 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Dec 6 12:28:36 2011, 美东)
发信人: liushanhu (我代表党和人民处决你!), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 黄西自传·成就与感想
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 1 10:58:56 2011, 美东)
黄瓜的黄,西瓜的西
文/黄西
全美喜剧节2010
2009年的时候,我答应艾迪参加全美喜剧节的比赛,但是后来因为要去参加《艾伦
秀》,我就把那次比赛推掉了。2010年6月,我参加了全美喜剧节,这个喜剧节是在约
翰尼·卡森的老家诺福克举行的。约翰尼·卡森是20世纪60年代到80年代末非常红的脱
口秀主持人。约翰尼·卡森去世以后,诺福克每年都会举办一个全美喜剧节来纪念这位
脱口秀界的传奇人物。主办方会在美国各地选拔20到24个单口相声演员,邀请他们到这
儿来参加比赛。
已故的喜剧大师乔治·卡林说过,在美国的中西... 阅读全帖 |
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N****f 发帖数: 25759 | 25 说起圣诞,首先不能不提的是那些冰晶玉洁、温婉肃穆的圣诞赞美诗——不
是大牌歌星、著名乐团在一流录音棚录制的technically perfect versions,
而是平安夜教堂里善男信女们满怀崇敬的即席合唱。俺第一次躬逢其盛,是
在二十多年前初到美国后的第一个圣诞节,地点在New Haven Green上一
字排开的三座教堂里居中的Center Church on the Green。午夜时分,全
体信徒一起肃立,随着浑厚而轻柔的管风琴同声轻唱《Silent Night》,即
便是像俺这样死不改悔的无神论者,也无法不为之动容。
其后每年与圣诞赞美诗的交道,两年前曾与耶兄谈起,就此转引,不再赘述:
提起圣诞歌曲,俺最喜欢的还是些传统的东东。奇怪的是,似乎
每年
一变,年年都有不同的favorite。记得初来番邦第一年圣诞,
教堂里
众信徒一曲《Silent Night》,听得俺三月不知肉味。第二
年是《O
Come All Ye Faithful》让俺颠倒淋漓、不知身在何乡。
以后就是
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d*******n 发帖数: 2661 | 28 我感觉不熟悉宗教文化的话 也不好理解西方主流文化
博物馆很多画和藏品都跟宗教相关 |
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N****f 发帖数: 25759 | 29 中世纪以来,欧洲文学、美术、音乐开始试图同宗教分家,也就是文
艺复兴以来的事。在此之前,宗教几乎可以说是唯一的主题,尤其是
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P*******l 发帖数: 4895 | 30 自从开始看圣经故事以后,去博物馆能看懂的就多了很多
以前都不知道画里的是什么人 |
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r*******u 发帖数: 8732 | 31 華裔「虎媽」新書震撼美國 (09:45)
美國一名華裔「虎媽」出書談東西方育兒的差異,自述如何高壓管教兩個女兒,引起熱
議,更收到死亡恐嚇。
這本名為《虎媽的戰歌》」(Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother)的新書,在11日出版
當日,就登上亞馬遜網路書店暢銷書榜的第6位。作者是美國耶魯大學的法學院教授蔡
美兒(Amy Chua)。
她之前曾以預測強國命運的著作《帝國時代》而揚名海外。她說,新書不是教養指南,
而是她為人母十餘年的回憶錄,她說「本書開頭的我和結尾的我已不是同一人」,「我
已從這種嚴格華人管教方式得到報應」。
美國《華爾街日報》日前以《為什麼中國媽媽更勝一籌?》為題,刊出新書的書摘,節
錄她如何高壓管教兩個女兒、罵女兒垃圾、要求除體育與戲劇外每科都須拿第一等。
蔡美兒對中國、韓國、日本等東方媽媽與西方白人媽媽進行了比較。她公開了以中國傳
統方式嚴厲教育自己的兩個女兒,使她們成為模範生的秘訣。
蔡美兒的父母是祖籍福建的菲律賓移民,她曾在對母親不敬時遭父責罵「垃圾」,深覺
有效,因此也在自己女兒不敬時罵女兒是「垃圾」。
她自稱對孩子們進行嚴厲教育,每天... 阅读全帖 |
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j*****n 发帖数: 3617 | 33 I miss you like the sunrise –
I miss you like the sunrise
Winter nights became reality’s home,
Snowmen stand here like soldiers of Rome,
My tears freeze before they kiss the wind,
I think of warmth and miss you then,
Since when when did rose petals crack while pondering love,
Dressed in pitch black with this somber sun,
I sit and fish, out of the river Styx,
Catching cold souls with their quivered lips,
They whisper sweet like lemons drip,
And gaze my eyes like Medusa’s gift,
My bait is smiles.
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B*****e 发帖数: 9375 | 34 确实是最雄壮的国歌
德国的 法国的 都差了一截
而最棒的军歌 是下面这个了罢 比"Battle Hymn of the Republic"还要鼓舞斗志
我以前跑步的时候 最后不管怎么疲惫 一定能跑完这首 |
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S**********s 发帖数: 4534 | 35 Before SureFire, mankind struggled to gunfight in the dark...(cue music:
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f**l 发帖数: 4396 | 36 from wiki. um的可以欣慰一下
Carmen Ohio is the oldest school song still used by The Ohio State
University. The song was composed by freshman Fred Cornell on the train ride
home from Ann Arbor, Michigan, after Ohio State suffered an 86-0 loss to
the University of Michigan Wolverines. Set to the tune Spanish Hymn, or
Spanish Chant, the Men's Glee Club first performed the song in 1903; however
, it did not gain popularity until after its October 10, 1906 publication in
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B****2 发帖数: 8892 | 38 http://www.cbssports.com/mcc/messages/chrono/31122825
We're all Irish fans. Why are you?
Score: 124
August 5, 2011 2:57 am
If you love Notre Dame
Or don’t know why people do, put on your reading glasses and you’ll know
why...
Notre Dame Fighting Irish football. These simple words incite intrigue and
debate, sparking conversation both pro and con, inducing words of
concurrence and disgust. What is considered by many as the greatest
collegiate football program is undoubtedly the most storied. A... 阅读全帖 |
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R*****t 发帖数: 2115 | 39 【前言(1-22-2014)】:象以往一样,马拉松赛结束后,我所在团队的主教练Mike鼓
励大家分享比赛当天的经历。我是团队里唯一的中国人,所以,只能用英文完成布置的
任务。
My Race Day Report (1-20-2014)
[1] Prelude
The half marathon on Sunday is my 2nd one. Based on the result of the 1st
half marathon (1:43:12, pace 7:52) in October of 2012 and the result of the
30K last December (2:24:15, pace 7:45), I set my target pace for the race on
Sunday between 7:40-7:45, to finish the 2nd half marathon between 1:40:35
to 1:41:40, PR 0:1:32 to 0:2:37.
During our... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r 发帖数: 6791 | 40 The Battle Hymn of the Republic
美国的战歌 |
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z*7 发帖数: 19 | 41 Nadal, unfortunately, hurt his own argument against it by denouncing so
strongly after he lost on the blue clay. After sending Russian Nikolay
Davydenko in straight sets, 6-2, 6-2, in his previous match, Nadal didn't
have anything bad to say about the surface.
"It was my first match here under these circumstances," Nadal, who received
a first round bye, said. "I am very happy about the result, and the way I
played."
Granted, he was critical of the blue clay before he began play. If he would
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I*********g 发帖数: 662 | 47 子孙连祖宗都不敢认,我们第一代移民迟早需要面对的问题。这回是美联社给登了,自
己读吧:
Lanya Olmstead was born in Florida to a mother who immigrated from Taiwan
and an American father of Norwegian ancestry. Ethnically, she considers
herself half Taiwanese and half Norwegian. But when applying to Harvard,
Olmstead checked only one box for her race: white.
"I didn't want to put 'Asian' down," Olmstead says, "because my mom told me
there's discrimination against Asians in the application process."
For years, many Asian-Americans have been c... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******g 发帖数: 1301 | 48 lz都还有哪些没有出手呢?
如果以下还没有人排的话,我都排拉~:
J.S. Bach Passion
巴赫英国组曲(1,2)两本
Mozart-A大调钢琴协奏曲
.......G..............
Bach Goldberg variation
莫扎特钢琴变奏曲集
Piano music of LMG
Expressive Etudes
Modern Miniatures for Piano Solo
Children's Hymne
J.S.Bach
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i*********t 发帖数: 5873 | 49 大概觉得好玩,昨天同事发给我下面这篇文章,今儿一边开会一边扫了遍,刚才发现买
买提首页头条就是这个amy chua的新闻,有兴趣的同学耐心读读,挺有意思的。
1.我开始看还在笑,后来慢慢僵住了。
2.没读过她别的书/文章,想知道她怎么对孩子进行挫折教育的。假如她小二弹琴左右
手乱套就是改不过来,怎么办?恐怕孩子都不用她骂,自己都觉得自己是garbage了。
3.“nothing is fun until you're good at it”这是什么精英逻辑?一无所长的孩子
难道都是抑郁症的胚子?
A lot of people wonder how Chinese parents raise such stereotypically
successful kids. They wonder what these parents do to produce so many math
whizzes and music prodigies, what it's like inside the family, and whether
they could do it too. Well, I... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******e 发帖数: 986 | 50 读书是自我内心的修行,每一本书不同的人可以读出不的意境。写这个清单就是我自己
作个记录,与喜欢读书的朋友交流交流。希望自己能在读书的路途上多多读到好书。
2011年我的选单截至现在有:
1. Resilience ---Elizabeth Edwards
人的幸与不幸离得并不遥远,要坚强,要珍惜,要宽容。
2. Three Cups of tea --- Greg Mortenson
这本书当年很流行,可能和它所谓的用书籍和恐怖主义作斗争有关。我喜欢它对于K2的
描写,让人神往,其他的内容感觉一般。
3. 姥姥语录---倪萍
一本亲情洋溢的书。姥姥99,真是越活越明白啊。
4. 遇见未知得自己---张德芬
一本需要用心去感受的书,这本书解决了我的一些困惑。一些事天决定,一些事他人决
定,一些事自己能决定。
5. 货币战争2---宋鸿兵
正在阅读,是一本信息量很大的书。帮助我对世界的认识。不是文学类的书。
6。 The last lecture---Randy Pausch
因为在他教过学的学校读过书,所以对这本书对作者都是满怀敬意。人之将死,其言也善啊。Pausch原来一定有他nerd... 阅读全帖 |
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