J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 1 personally i would not want my hubby to get up a lot at the night during the week
given that he has stressful work and long commute. its just not safe.
and i cannot let the gramma do that daily either.
if its too much work for me to suck up i would get a nanny. very doable for
two income family. |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 2 what. have you showed him this post?
this is YOUR home. your hubby and you make collaborative decisions TOGETHER
not just what he wants.
its not that you dont welcome his niece. its just that the timing couldnt be
worse. |
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q****6
发帖数: 837 | 3 Of course take the offer! Just go. My hubby did that many times while I
travel for business or vacation, domestic or international. |
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g*********r
发帖数: 9822 | 5 ordered family uniform for hubby, son, myself
they have tons of girls outfits, cute to death |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 6 if you dont need to work, why not move to where your hubby is? |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 7 There is no better time to start a family than now as long as you AND your
hubby are emotionally ready. |
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c*******u
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kaixinbb (kaixinbb) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:46:26 2012, 美东) 提到:
恩， 你还没ready. 你应该40岁后再要孩子， 生不出来问题也不大，因为你的生活已
经很充实了。
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HoH (HoH) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:47:56 2012, 美东) 提到:
也有过类似想法，不过自己决定的事情就要自己承担。生下来就好了，看着孩子觉得其
他什么都不再重要。现在反正也不能退货，干脆放宽心吧。
我们以为拥有昨天和明天，我们以为世界上有假如和意外，其实我们拥有的只是当下，
而事情的发生只有一种可能，那就是你所经历的那一种。如果有什么错了，那不是现实
错了，而是我们的想象错了。
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leeking (life is drama) 于 (Wed Jan 11 15:48:11 2012, ... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 9 It's so sad. Has the Dr. saved the tissue from the D&C for lab work?
For many years, a relative (of my hubby) had a hard time keeping her baby/
pregnancy, and last time she lost her baby at 5 months. The Dr. finally
ordered through-out tests after that and found she had some issue with her
blood. Now her beautiful little princess is 3-years old.
Keep your hopes MM and talk to you OB. Sounds like you had no trouble
getting pregnant, but need to figure out what is preventing you from bring
it to t... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 10 My hubby and I are both experienced drivers who can handle long hours on the
road. Tough minded person who did marathon and half as well. We did Boston
to Key West, FL on a road trip, that’s 1,600 miles each way, which is less
than what you are planning to do. I have to tell you that it was tough. I
can only imagine it to be even harder when you are pregnant. If I were you,
I would fly. It is really not worth risking a preterm to save a few bucks at
this stage of the life. There are auto transpo... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 11 Use COBRA for health insurance. Google it in case you don't know what it is
about. Engaging an attorney ASAP. Generally I would recommend a native
lawyer in the case of litigation. Ask around and see if you can get some
recommendations. If you are in MA I can give you the lawyer I used. He's
pretty good.
The process may take years, and you will need to use your health insurance/
auto insurance before settlement comes in. So plan ahead.
Have your hubby rest for the time being for a speedy recover... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 12 sorry that im in bed and can only type english on my cell.
i guess you are right. the attitude of the parents plays a big role in the
perception of the kids on their root. my hubby and i both want our offspring
to be able to sail smoothly between the. cultures and be proud of where
they are originated from and treat that as a valuable asset for life. we
just need to figure out how. any thoughts on that whan you educate Pangqiu?
parents
times |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 13 use cobra/ medicaid for insurance. and show your bank statements with
savings when rent.
bless mm hope your hubby can find something quickly and life will be back to
normal. meanwhile considering getting some temp work to help out
financially. |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 14 My hubby and I both love exploring nature and push our physical limit. Well,
with the coming of the baby, mountaineering and scuba diving will have to
take a back seat and wait a little bit longer. I just returned the crampons
to REI, sadly.
Fail back to the reality, I got a stack of tax returns on my desk to look at
. Craps. :( |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 15 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 大妈求好孕 take a long vacation and go somewhere with your hubby.
泪。 |
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a*****s
发帖数: 5562 | 16 really? but see the info below, seems not much do with property, i know it's
more related to income, but one of my fri, went for the US to pursue her
master's degree without any financial spt. she claimed 0 income in the
states, of cuz she got the medi-cal, btw, her hubby is also f2 here,
she does have 0 income and property in the states, ,,no W2, no ssn...however
she's rich in china...
"You can also get Medi-Cal if you are:
65 or older
Blind
Disabled
Under 21
Pregnant
In... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 17 i have something really mean to say. your hubby is useless. cannot support
the family, rely on the in-laws to buy big house, and now wants his mom to
take care his son and himself.
拍。
吵这事儿吵得离婚的心都有了。 |
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x*******g
发帖数: 1363 | 18 Yes, that is what I have been telling my hubby all the time :-) |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 19 Then you can take the position that your hubby's home state is your state.
File the state he works in as non-resident and jointly with you for your
state. But given that you said TA income is taxable in your state. I'm not
sure if there is incentive doing that.
报呢 |
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c*******u
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bigk (bigk) 于 (Fri Mar 2 13:55:54 2012, 美东) 提到:
我是家庭主妇，没有工作。劳工现在被lay off了，家里没有保险。
1、宝宝打疫苗怎么办呢？
2、我们现在是住在朋友家的房子（租给我们的）。朋友现在要卖房子。我们要出去租
房。
但是问了几个APARTMENT，好像都要有收入证明。如果没有工作，我们是不是就租不到
房子阿？
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lxy52136 (sunny) 于 (Fri Mar 2 13:56:29 2012, 美东) 提到:
bless
bles
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lxy52136 (sunny) 于 (Fri Mar 2 13:57:31 2012, 美东) 提到:
去中国超市登个报纸试试
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rain... 阅读全帖 |
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y*********u
发帖数: 44 | 21 Sorry I can not type Chinese on my computer.
I am in the same boat now although I did not choose to be in this situation.
My company closed out due to some funding issues, and as a result I am in
transition. I feel that you can only focus on what you can do since the big
picture is quite bleak--CHANCE ONLY FAVORS THE PREPARED. Risk sounding
showing off, I graduated from a top business school (ranking No.1 or 2),
with 10+ years relevant work experience, yet I have tremendous trouble
finding a f... 阅读全帖 |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 22 Now I have a BIG BELLY, and both my hubby’s Boxer briefs (at home) and
Victoria’s Secrete low-rise bikinis (at work) works very well for me. |
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J*****i
发帖数: 2622 | 23 You don't need to have the entire form ready. At lease the part of the
information for you and your hubby won't change, right? That's what the
nurse told us to do.
As for the name dramas, tell me about it! Guess every family has it! :D |
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h*********e
发帖数: 170 | 24 2nd pregnancy-2nd part
Both my hubby and I debated long time to decide whether to have a second
baby. In the meantime, I visited my current ob 2 times for consultation on
the risk of having a baby while taking viread everyday. Viread is considered
as category 2 medicine. Category 1 is proved to be safe clinically, while
category 2 is considered to be safe based on lab test on animal but lack of
evidence ciinicallly. The ob suggested me to get preganant while taking the
medicine. He think it is f... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****5
发帖数: 477 | 25 Can anyone recommend one for vocation in China? Light weight and can fold
easily and tall(hubby is tall)? Thanks |
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b*****t
发帖数: 5 | 26 hubby is having an exam now, please bless.... thanks |
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c*******u
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genbi5 (vivian) 于 (Fri Aug 10 09:39:21 2012, 美东) 提到:
现在心情还是很差，上来倒倒苦水。
老公是绝对拥有远大志向，刚结婚时在日本有一份稳定体面的工作，人家非要去美国读
博士，于是，放弃了刚刚到手的派驻中国工作的机会，两个人到了美国的大农村，一呆
就是五年。当时已经工作了五年的我们突然返回穷学生阶段，其中的苦闷大家应该了解
，好，我忍，只盼他毕业后能像他预计的那样飞黄腾达。
“好运”的我们在毕业那年遭遇经济危机，根本找不到长期固定的职位，找到的都是合
同工，一个在日本，一个在法国，考虑到日本单位的总部在美国，想以此为跳板，三年
后再跳回美国，于是来到了日本。
三年一晃而过，期间也有了孩子，我更是计划着今年回美国，能生老二就生，没有就找
工作，毕竟我在美国也拿了个硕士，谁想，上天还是不垂怜我们，可能认为我们受的罪
还不够多吧，那个日本单位的总部今年不招新人了，老公必须重新发简历，找工作。从
今年春天开始，老公到处发简历，全世界的发，可等来的大部分是拒绝... 阅读全帖 |
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g**********1
发帖数: 1593 | 28 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 问个私密问题 I stuffed my hubby's pajamas pants with the filling used inside a pillow.
The special DIY maternity pillow helped a lot. You just sleep between two
legs with head on the "butt" very comfortablely. My husband does not like
being held as well. So I hold my daughter when I sleep. But she is
outgrowing this ...sigh.... BTW, you can buy the filling fibers from Walmart
. It's very easy to make! Have fun! |
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Y*******y
发帖数: 1378 | 29 blessing..same as my hubby..always sick~~~not cooperative.. I want baby 2
too!!!! |
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G**s
发帖数: 1148 | 30 bless, wish your baby is doing great, and your hubby is very helpful. |
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j******p
发帖数: 8333 | 31 send your parents back to China.
let your hubby handle the kids.
这叫得了便宜还卖乖。自己屁贡献都没有还挑三拣四。
你也是不心疼你自己的父母。LG都对他们这样了你还非要他们在这里做牛做马。
真服了。两口子都是极品 |
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a*****9
发帖数: 1315 | 32 Life is too short , enjoy .
The problem which can be done by money is not a problem at all .
Just take it easy , If my hubby work from 630-10pm, I will definitely be
crazy ,think about it , 630-10, working for what ? shorter life span in the
future ? not worth it at all.
Could not type Chinese now , please excuse me , thanks |
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w********e
发帖数: 944 | 33 Absolutely no popo.
When my hubby updated my popo about my pregnancy weekly, my popo always said
"when I was pregnant with you, blabla" - nothing else.
My point is in pop's eyes, pregnancy as well as delivery is nothing. As a
woman, you should take it. Sounds a little cold, although she has a point. |
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c********2
发帖数: 2773 | 34
友．
妈妈负责饭. 婆婆负责带宝宝.
Good idea.
Just remember your mom is here to take care of you.
婆婆 comes for the baby and your hubby.
The priority is different for them. |
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C****A
发帖数: 1358 | 35 You may see the effect on your hubby more or less. It is very bad! |
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c******e
发帖数: 46 | 36 you need to breast-feed your hubby. |
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Y*******y
发帖数: 1378 | 37 kick your hubby out is the best way.. |
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w******y
发帖数: 4871 | 38 I do not think you are 娇气 at all. I def think baby is the most important.
You have a hubby to support your family. Just enjoying being pregnant and
being a mom.
Meanwhile I also understand why your OBGYn did not give you note to indicate
you can not work because I work in the health care field too.
I persuaded my wife so many times to quit her job during the pregnancy. But
she told me she could handle it. So I listened to her. But she quit her job
one week after delivery:-) |
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H**********1
发帖数: 3056 | 39 please invite her husband too!
by the way, let your hubby do more love work before she arrive! |
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s*****h
发帖数: 937 | 40 patpat!
I was 1:71 on 1st trimester screening test. My hubby and I even had the
conversation about how to raise up a Down Syndrome baby, who would be a good
pediatrician for him/her blabla... 5 days later, Maternit21 came back
normal. Please don't cry. Whatever comes, there are ways to handle it. |
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M***2
发帖数: 161 | 41
Up to u.if u and ur hubby can handle two kids wo any aassistance frm parents |
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f**********7
发帖数: 156 | 42 建议MM多管齐下。
MM可以先准备所有领养手续排上队(中国和美国的都要试。也许你会真的通过这种方式
领养一个孩子，也许是老二呢。
如果MM子宫没有问题的话，至少可以用捐卵通过IVF手段怀孕。这样，你们也可以感受
怀孕中的一切,最重要的是一个生命在你体内的成长。
如果MM子宫有问题但有健康卵子的话，可以找代孕母亲－－所有的费用应该不超过十万
美元。这样，你们会有自己的亲生骨肉。
就象其他MM建议的一样，即使以上的办法行不通，也可以找代孕母亲用捐卵和 your
hubby's sperm 或捐的胚胎（embryo)。这个方法比领养要快而且你们对孩子的了解会
更多。
MM，祝福你好运！ |
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G**s
发帖数: 1148 | 43 why not? my hubby does that too, make life so much easy. |
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P******d
发帖数: 4272 | 44 omg~~~ so touching!!!
I am sure my hubby will be like yours as well ;) |
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l*********e
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Chisle0226 (Snowdeer) 于 提到:
我和我先生结婚近十年，感情非常好但是没有孩子。我们住在芝加哥附近，两人都
在金融系统工作。我有博士学位, 先生在读part time MBA. 两人的工作收入都很稳定
. 我们三年前开始备孕, 准备了一年没有成功。看了不孕专家后发现我有问题, 做了多
次IUI都是失败. 我的状况即便是IVF也难成功. 这中间的辛酸一言难尽…
我们开始想从国内收养一个孩子,经过一番调查发现要等四到五年。 我们的律师建
议美国国内收养, 因为可以缩短等待期。和收养机构见面后, 我们得知可以自己找到怀
孕但愿意把孩子送给他人扶养的母亲。
如果你现在有孕在身, 但是因为种种原因无法抚养孩子, 请和我们联系,我们愿意
收养你的孩子。
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GiovannaX (不学无术) 于 (Mon Jul 8 20:38:18 2013, 美东) 提到:
祝福你... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******4
发帖数: 300 | 46 Should do something to keep yourself busy, then you'll have no time to care
about those little things. Like myself, I would be insanely grateful if I
could eat a whole meal without nausea or sleep tight through the night.
Because I really need all the energy for my day, homework and exams. No
matter how little I could eat or sleep, I still need to get up and deal with
all the things. No room for depression. Also, you need to learn how to make
your hubby do stuff for you. A guy normally doesn't ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*u
发帖数: 2454 | 47
its more abt ur height than ur hubby's. |
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s*******1
发帖数: 11216 | 48 My daughter almosT diet, because the bullshit pediatrician. Her bill is over
1.5
million.
Luckily we only pay 3500 out of pocket. But she used out of out HSA and
other saving for our medical fund.
We have to save money for ourselves. My hubby went to see his back last year
.oh my god, it cost $2000 after insurance because the deductible and MRI is
expensive.
Insurance denied several my daughter bill. I had to pay our own too.
30 |
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y**********g
发帖数: 2 | 49 At first, congrats to sunnyruby's hubby get the visa back to US.
All of us got visas. Mr. Liu and Difficulty. I am sorry to leave you earlier
without noticing. My friend called me and I passed the border to meet him.
It's really pleasant experience to meet you two. You can send email to me to
keep contact.
The questions are short and straight for me. Where did you get money? I showed
printed information from website including employment notification (RA) and
tuition waiver proof. That's all. I d |
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k***a
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XGG (XGG) 于 (Mon Jun 6 12:27:49 2005) 提到:
请问表上current Nonimmigrant status 的Expire date是F2 visa上的过期日期,还是F1
的毕业日期?
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lili (lily) 于 (Mon Jun 6 12:46:59 2005) 提到:
我觉得是I94的到期日,不知道对不对.
visa上的过期日期,还是F1
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ggrr (乘风破浪) 于 (Mon Jun 6 12:47:59 2005) 提到:
your hubby/wife's i20 expiration day
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lili (lily) 于 (Mon Jun 6 12:48:00 2005) 提 |
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