w******e
发帖数: 411 | 1 家里的一个姐姐，四十多岁，差不多十年前离婚了，没有孩子，工作上也谈不上什么，
收入很低，一个人在深圳。人很好，就是脾气差点儿，属于刀子嘴豆腐心那种。离婚后
开始养猫，开始是两只，家人都没在意，然后是六只，我出国前去看她，已经是9只了
，但她收拾的还很干净，进了屋子，猫都藏起来了，所以坐了一晚上聊天，也没觉得太
怎么样。她平时还参与挺多关于保护动物的公益活动，我还觉得挺好。
但这段时间情况好像不对，她半下岗了，工资减半，但猫已经到了二十只，而且她都是
收养的有病的猫，健康的好看的都送人了。这二十只好像多少都有问题。家里人劝她少
养，她死活不干，她家的人基本上是普通人家，姐妹兄弟关系不算近，但该帮忙也都帮
，家里人陆陆续续给了有几万了，但大家不情愿为猫花钱，因为知道给她钱她就都花在
猫身上，做手术什么的。这样关系挺僵的，家里人都说很难和她沟通。我自恃和她还算
谈得来，前几天给她打了个电话，结果发现情况真的挺严重的，一提养猫她就态度非常
激烈地捍卫，基本就是人在猫在的感觉了。我劝她在工作上想想办法，因为那是根本啊
，人都得自立才有自尊啊，结果被她很呛了几句，说觉得自己的生活很好，不用我教训。... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1130 | 2 ABC broadcasted a program about garbage hoarder 1 week ago. It seems like it
's easy to get into such situation when something stressed happened, such as
divorced, unemployment... and it hurt the kids a lot. It seems like what
happened to the adult (owner of the house) will remain for a long time,
maybe lifetime(?)
So the resolution of getting rid of cats maybe serve short term. but in long
term, if the root cause doesn't change, some other kind of hoarder will
come back, in other format. very s... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1418 | 4 AE 有一个真人节目,叫"hoarders",里面很多人有compulsive hoarding disorder. 里
面的很多人家里养几十只猫,到最后自己也不知到养了多少只,还有死了的猫头颅,挺恐
怖.建议还是让你这个姐姐把猫送人或是送到shelter.设个目标,比如一个月送一只...
如果她做了,要奖励她... |
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发帖数: 5245 | 5 傻逼。脏构不成EVICTION的合法理由.
https://www.landlordology.com/deal-with-hoarder-tenants/
How to Deal with Hoarder Tenants
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Dealing with Hoarder TenantsFor landlords and property managers, discovering
that you have a hoarder tenant living in one of your properties can be
distressing.
In this article, I will discuss the steps you can take to protect your
property without infringing on your tenant’s rights to reasonable
accommodations.
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发帖数: 16051 | 6
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会不会也是像电视上一样，家人受不了了跟hoarder严肃谈话说必须把猫处理掉，然后
hoarder哭着找shelter帮忙，然后shelter来人抓猫了hoarder哭着喊着舍不得猫走
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发帖数: 543 | 7 it sounds like Hoarding, a type of OCD. When she ages, she will buy more
and hoard more. Most hoarders start like your wife. Eventually they become
full bloom hoarder around late 40 or early 50. UCSF and UCSD have a
special group doing research on Hoarding. You can get a diagnose from them.
If she is, you can do nothing about it. It is genetic. |
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发帖数: 1621 | 8 老婆有做hoarder的倾向。建议你们从网上搜hoarder的短片来看，以后严重了，要请专家来治的。
在这里抱怨老婆，真是讨打，不知道来这里的都是女人多吗？女人你怎么惹得起？女人一开口就是什么男人要负责多赚钱，听得我这个女人都烦。 |
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发帖数: 8706 | 10 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_hoarding
In 2005, the Animal Legal Defense Fund won a significant legal victory in
the Sanford, North Carolina, case ALDF v. Woodley.[6][7][8] A unique North
Carolina state law allows any person or organization to sue an animal abuser
.[9] In April 2005, the judge in the case granted an injunction allowing
ALDF and county authorities to remove more than 300 diseased, neglected, and
abused dogs from the home of a Sanford couple. ALDF was granted custody of
the ... 阅读全帖 |
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P**A
发帖数: 1575 | 11 那么多需要救助的宠物是哪里来的？animal hoarder，BYB，puppy mill等等对这个都
很有“贡献”。
农场官网号称各种渠道收了捐款每个猫都要绝育的，如果被捅出来那么多都没绝育，那
些钱去哪里了，也是需要调查清楚的。
PETA做法过激，我从来没有支持过，我也同样不支持animal hoarder。另外找组织介入
才是正道，我没有异议。浪费感情和精力在救什么不清不楚的人出来，不make sense
to me.
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focus
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P**A
发帖数: 1575 | 12 那么多需要救助的宠物是哪里来的？animal hoarder，BYB，puppy mill等等对这个都
很有“贡献”。
农场官网号称各种渠道收了捐款每个猫都要绝育的，如果被捅出来那么多都没绝育，那
些钱去哪里了，也是需要调查清楚的。
PETA做法过激，我从来没有支持过，我也同样不支持animal hoarder。另外找组织介入
才是正道，我没有异议。浪费感情和精力在救什么不清不楚的人出来，不make sense
to me.
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发帖数: 3544 | 13 我们这的SPCA可坏了，家猫进去只给3天的时间，过了就put down, 野猫一定马上put
down,说是不适合领养，谁也捞不出来。最可恨的是他们老去抄家，很多民间的no-kill
shelter都给他们以hoarder的名义给抄了。人家是single home, 巨大的地，猫猫都是
干干净净，健健康康的，抄家的理由是有20多只猫，符合hoarder定义。真正原因是
SPCA名声太坏，人家都捐给民间的no-kill shelter，所以他们要取缔竟争者。
LZ肯定是给国内的公知误导了吧。建议把这扫盲贴贴到华人，天涯，文学城之类的去吧
，可以救很多猫猫呢。 |
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发帖数: 14561 | 14 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
icytide (小新但不是蜡笔的) 于 (Sun Sep 2 11:36:59 2012, 美东) 提到:
我们送了一只流浪小黑猫去当地的animal shelter。几天后小黑猫被put down了。听到
这个消息很震惊也很难受。这里写一下事情的经过和学到的教训。也科普一下在网上看
到的shelter如何操作动物安乐死的做法。我知道这里有ID在shelter义工，我有说错的
地方或者观点，请指正。谢谢。
小黑猫是一只流浪母猫生下的小猫之一。她很sweet但是有点怕人。捉到的时候大约2个
月大，养了两个月，朋友们实在不能再养下去了，查了下当地的shelter，上周日送了
过去。送去时候被告知，猫要先做个test，看是否可以和人相处做family pet。如果特
别亲近人类，会被放在shelter的铁笼子里，供人认养。如果不亲近人也不怕人，会被
放在【？？】等待foster home。如果有攻击性，就会杀死。
送去以后的猫，会有一个ID#。shelter不会告知你他们的决定。要想知道下落，得自己... 阅读全帖 |
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c****h
发帖数: 4968 | 15 could be a hoarder.精神上受了是什么刺激. |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 16 http://www.plata.com.mx/mplata/articulos/articlesFilt.asp?fiida
It's 1790 All Over Again
Hugo Salinas Price
It was 1790 and the revolutionary National Assembly in Paris was worried.
Complaints were reaching the Assembly from all over France, that business
was stagnant, sales were down, people were without work, and there was a
great scarcity of money.
This was quite natural, because all business slows down when the prevailing
source of Authority is under question. The Bastille prison had been ta... 阅读全帖 |
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y****g
发帖数: 36950 | 17 。。。为啥天天戴帽子，头发理的太难看？
旧货存着叫hoarder，要学会断舍离 |
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k**********4
发帖数: 16092 | 19 FOR THOSE WHO ARE HOARDING PAPER GOODS - SHAME ON YOU!!!
I just need to vent my frustrations. I can't find toilet paper, napkins, or
paper towels.
I have a family of six and we are completely out of these paper goods!
People here on Nextdoor are saying, oh you don't need to panic because of
the norovirus.....everything is going to be fine" are probably the same
people who are buying cases of toilet paper.
When people do this it causes a panic and they start HOARDING and hoarding
is not good and... 阅读全帖 |
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c********i
发帖数: 942 | 20 囤积口罩的hoarder如果不乖乖拿出来，可能就要被政府人员拜访了 |
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发帖数: 4796 | 21 The debate is somewhat moot right now, because there simply aren’t enough
masks for medical professionals, let alone everyone else. No matter their
opinions on widespread mask-wearing, everyone I spoke with for this article
agreed that health-care workers should get dibs on any existing medical
masks. This might well be why public-health officials have been so loath to
recommend mask-wearing more broadly: Hoarders have already begun to exhaust
the dwindling supplies. Even so, “policy shouldn’t b... 阅读全帖 |
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A******e
发帖数: 655 | 24 Hoarder一定会记仇。
: 他在fox的时候，版上就讨论过性格软弱的问题。
: 现在说这些晚了。
: 如果通过，感谢民主党抓紧最后一分钟淬火他。尽最大可能让他记得仇恨。避免
出现老
: 布什走眼的破事。
: 如果通不过，下一个人选还是川普提名，有机会找个攻击性更强的。
: 不论如何，都要感谢左棍，他们确实尽到了最大努力，帮助老k坚强起来。
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发帖数: 11979 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 Chicago 讨论区 】
发信人: Nietschean (不如归去), 信区: Chicago
标 题: Re: more news about Jicheng Liu. He is famous now.
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Apr 26 14:18:59 2012, 美东)
Prolific burglar cyberstalked those who crossed him, prosecutors say
By Jeremy Gorner and Jason Meisner, Chicago Tribune reporters
7:05 a.m. CDT, April 26, 2012
Jicheng "Kevin" Liu was a prolific burglar with a mean streak who
cyberstalked anyone who crossed him, Cook County prosecutors say.
In retaliation for his arrest in the theft ... 阅读全帖 |
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P***A
发帖数: 483 | 28 屯东西的爱好应加以控制，实际上是一种心理问题。每个人都有或多或少这样的问题。
电视节目Hoarders, A&E就是讲这种问题的节目。 |
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h*********e
发帖数: 6997 | 29 我虽然没有洁癖，也受不了LZ描述的这种状况。
见过一两家类似这样的人家，东西多的有点快没地方落脚，厨房台子上堆满锅碗瓢盆和
油盐酱醋，只留下一平方尺的空地切菜用。。。
有个电视节目叫hoarders，就是讲比LZ家还可怕很多倍的这种家庭，看过一集，再也不
敢看了，想吐。。。 |
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m*****u
发帖数: 1342 | 31 Sad thing is he has some valid points. It's crazy bank has so much power in
the society. |
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发帖数: 8363 | 32 From Jim Rickards during his latest King World News interview
I think the paper dollar is on its way to collapse but that doesn't mean the
end of the United States or the United States power. What's really, really
interesting to me is that the United States is an awesome gold power. You
know we never talk about it because nobody ever wants to talk about gold, I
mean no one in an official capacity.
But if you think of the world in terms of oil reserves, and people have done
that a lot over the la... 阅读全帖 |
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D*w
发帖数: 1011 | 41 哈哈，我不告诉你，
谁给我发包子我就告诉谁，嘿嘿 |
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w*****m
发帖数: 20421 | 46 6万买了个老房子，一个老太太住的，死了不过死在医院，
家里东西堆成了山，是个hoarder，真不知道人是怎么想的
床上有衣服有CANNED FOOD，有猫食狗食，算算光清理扔垃圾
就要花5千，准备租个大U-HUAL去扔东西 |
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w*****m
发帖数: 20421 | 47 扔一TRAILER就250，我看可能要10TRAILER的东西，你不知道HOARDER是什么吧
房子里堆得满满的东西，都没处插脚，最大的那种黑垃圾袋，光衣服就装了20袋，
我捐给THRIFT STORE了，还有家具床啥的都一股子猫尿味，只能扔掉，ROOF地毯
都要换掉，三个冰箱也要扔掉。 |
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w*****m
发帖数: 20421 | 49 6万买了个老房子，一个老太太住的，死了不过死在医院，
家里东西堆成了山，是个hoarder，真不知道人是怎么想的
床上有衣服有CANNED FOOD，有猫食狗食，算算光清理扔垃圾
就要花5千，准备租个大U-HUAL去扔东西 |
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w*****m
发帖数: 20421 | 50 扔一TRAILER就250，我看可能要10TRAILER的东西，你不知道HOARDER是什么吧
房子里堆得满满的东西，都没处插脚，最大的那种黑垃圾袋，光衣服就装了20袋，
我捐给THRIFT STORE了，还有家具床啥的都一股子猫尿味，只能扔掉，ROOF地毯
都要换掉，三个冰箱也要扔掉。 |
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