n****w
发帖数: 2379 | 1 Prius, 3 are dead, one is in severe conditions. -- 4 young guys.
Blazer:
no seat belts for front passsagers, two grandparent, they should be dead,
because 5 were confirmed dead. 3 grandchildren were at rear seat, believed
to be ok. not sure if they were wearing seat belts. |
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y**i
发帖数: 1050 | 2 不是丫，我之前说了我不是EMPLOYEE，但是他还是说可以。
说只要我有一辆非GM的车，我就可以享有这个价格，EMPLOYEE的价格。我怕的是，买是
买下了，会不会之后GM说，我不是EMPLOYEE，然后就取消这个价格，或者取消这个合同。
我和DEALER的EMAIL 如下：
“
Hi Dan,
I don`t know criterion of the GMS price. Can you explain this to me? I
checked website, it says only employee can have that price. And the title of
the vehicle should be under the employee for certain period of time. Is
that true? Or you used GM suppler price instead of GMS price?
I checked the GM website, it shows
(*Eligible employees and retired ... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****m
发帖数: 22 | 3 We are moving La Jolla Del Sol for jobs in LA.
We are looking for a family to re-rent our apartment at La Jolla Del Sol 3rd
floor, very quite, no street noise, high ceiling, very bright, plenty
parking, swimming pool, gym, tennis court, close to shuttle/30 bus. It is
also very close to Doyle Community Park, where lots of Chinese grandparents
are taking their grandchildren to play. http://hds.ucsd.edu/hsgaffil/ljds.html
You have to be UCSD faculty/staff/graduate students to re-rent. Feel free to |
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b***n
发帖数: 13455 | 4 贺梅案新变局 贺梅三姐弟回美国过暑假(图)
文章来源: 明镜 于 2011-08-09 09:55:33 - 新闻取自各大新闻媒体，新闻内容并不代
表本网立场！
打印本新闻 Email Tweet Facebook Yahoo! Google Buzz (被阅读 6084 次)
贺梅案新变局 贺梅三姐弟回美国过暑假(图) 明镜
贺梅回到孟菲斯（Memphis），将在此渡暑假。
周五（7月1日）12岁的贺梅抵达孟菲斯，她与她的弟弟安迪（Andy）及妹妹艾维塔（
Avita）同行，而贺梅父母因为没有护照所以没有同行。
当年扶养贺梅9年的贝克夫妇被允许在飞机出口外迎接他们三人，而贝克夫妇其他亲友
则在出口处等候。
贺梅表示很高兴回到孟菲斯，也愿意回到孟菲斯。此番他们是到此渡假，安迪还要藉此
机会，做一个外科手术。
中美争女案始末
贺梅（Anna Mae He，1999年1月28日），生于美国田纳西州，生父贺绍强来自中国湖南
，生母罗秦来自中国重庆。贺梅生父母贺绍强和罗秦夫妇与杰瑞‧贝克和路易斯&
#8231;贝克夫妇（Jerry and Louise Baker）就贺梅的抚养权的... 阅读全帖 |
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g******l
发帖数: 6660 | 5 在craigslist上卖leappad的后果。。。
I really would like you to take a good hard look at yourself and where you
want to be in life. How can you live with yourself when you are offering
these toys at such high prices? I am all for someone making money because
they are at the right place at the right time, but NOT when the children
suffer because of it. When SANTA can't deliver, it can ruin a Christmas. I
wouldn't want that on my conscience, but I guess I am not like you. $100
is a great deal for most ... 阅读全帖 |
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B*********e
发帖数: 86 | 6 (2019-03-08#2251)
to workingha and greemint__mitbbs发考题版__2019-03-08#2208-.doc
(2019-03-09#2300b)
to workingha and greemint__mitbbs发考题版__2019-03-08#2208-2309-2312b-2316__
03-09#2254-.doc
(2019-03-13#2104)
to workingha and greemint__mitbbs发考题版__2019-03-08__03-09#2254-2312__03-
13#2052-.doc
(2019-03-15#1916)
to workingha__to greemint__mitbbs发考题版__2019-03-08__03-09__03-13#2052-
2103b-2114-2119__03-15#1909-.doc
(2019-03-08#2254-2312)
greemint (看门尼) 前辈老师同学，
您的帖子(Fri Feb 22 06:38:19 2019, 美东)里面引用的。。
"此... 阅读全帖 |
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h******g
发帖数: 1521 | 7 有什么不方便的，在国内根本就没那回事，孩子姓什麽一般都是跟一方父母的，不是爸
的就是妈的，不会把你当成石头里蹦出来的，夫妻基本上都是异姓。在美国，有一部分
家庭同姓，一般是跟男主人的，异姓的家庭也常见的很，特别是女儿跟老妈异姓，夫妻
异姓越来越多，继子女又那么多，还有grandchildren异姓的就更频繁了，英语没分那
么细，没有孙子外孙之说，正常美国人不会把跟一方父母异姓的孩子当成私生子的，就
算私生子，只要生父在出生证明上签字，也能跟爸姓，跟爸姓又不是什么特权。 |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 8 This is so very funny.
I am a mother of two, working stressful job, mid-thirties, married over 10
years. If I have another life, I will still choose to be a woman. The bond
between myself and my two lovely children worths the winkles and loose skin
I have.
I go to gym 5 times a week - just to prepare myself to take care of
grandchildren in 20 years. ;) My LG always says "What are we going to do
when they grow up and leave?" I told him "I don't know what YOU are going
to do, I know what I am |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 9 Support this -
When I am old and go to care for my grandchildren, I would remind myself
these posts. Luckily I have only daughters, and they already told me when
they grow up, they would want to buy a house next to mine.
Happy. |
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n****b
发帖数: 744 | 10 Chosen Women Choosing Chinese Men
A tradition of love?
by Jocelyn Eikenburg
Are you Jewish?" I am asked. This is not new to me. I hear this all the time
because my last name ends in "burg," a common Jewish suffix.
So I wasn't surprised when I heard it from Arnold, a new friend of mine from
the local gym in Cleveland Heights, Ohio. He knew my last name because I
had handed him my business card weeks before. And he was, after all, as bold
as the espresso in the coffee shop where I met him.
When he... 阅读全帖 |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 11 Apparently you don't understand grandparents at all - not being able to see
their grandchildren kills them. |
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T*******7
发帖数: 636 | 12 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
weewow (梭影清遊) 于 (Wed Jun 2 15:37:19 2010, 美东) 提到:
那個說隨母姓還是父姓的帖，一班人跳出來講隨母姓就會被西方人認為是私生子，這種說法真是荒謬！
請問，英女王，丹麥女王等等一大批歐洲皇室的孩子都繼承母姓，挪威皇室也是Queen Victoria的後裔，難道他們都是私生子，被人歧視？太可笑了吧！ 要論西方傳統，說什麼也先是歐洲，才輪得到美國吧，blue blood也是在歐洲吧。 多少女貴族繼承爵位後，孩子都是跟隨母姓，被
暳耍br />
本來隨父姓或是母姓，兩家人協商就好，各有各堅持。 但一大批人以隨母姓會給孩子帶來歧視雲雲，真是太誇張了。 平日最多是填表時需要寫family, 結婚後連父母都可以省略。帶朋友來家裡玩時，也就說he's my dad, she's my mum而已，誰會還把自己父母雙方的大名說出來寫下br />
學朋友看？ 我就不知到底隨母姓，或分別隨父母姓能有多少不便了。
我建議帖主干脆就兩個姓都用，雙方家長都安了。我有西人朋友就是這... 阅读全帖 |
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l****n
发帖数: 144 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: loulan (出差出差出差), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 说说我周围的美国人怎么养老
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 20 11:58:47 2013, 美东)
很多老黑年轻的时候自己都搞不定，就不提他们老了怎么办了。劳模们很多是天主教徒
，家庭观念挺重的，和传统中国家庭挺相似的。我这里主要说说老白，在红脖子州生活
的纯老白们怎么养老的。
1. 我的大老板。
大老板是本地人，但是娶了个澳洲老婆。后来就搬去澳洲住了。现在50多岁，前两年回
来了，因为他妈妈身体不好了。 他妈跟他的sibling临近，在离我们的城市4个小时的
地方。因为行业问题，他只能在这个城市工作。但是他除了特殊情况，经常周四周五请
假，开车带着老婆看老妈去了，周日晚上才回来。坚持了大半年，直到老妈去世。
2. 我的直接老板
直接老板60多岁了，已经退休了又被返聘的。 他的老妈去年90岁去世的。老爸很早就
去世了。 他老妈一直和他哥哥一家住在一起，得了帕金森症10几年。全靠他哥哥一家
照顾。 他也经常去看望，... 阅读全帖 |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 14 This is very well said. My own parents are nice and loving people, but even
in them, I saw the shadow of:
有的老人如果年轻的时候有很多遗憾，自己没有做够思考生命的HOMEWORK， 越老就会
越恐慌越苦毒。 人一恐慌了，手里有什么抓什么；一苦毒了， 有谁可以折磨就折磨谁。
All I can do is to call them frequently and tell them stories of their
grandchildren. And it is their wars to fight. There is not much we can do. |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 15 This is very well said. My own parents are nice and loving people, but even
in them, I saw the shadow of:
有的老人如果年轻的时候有很多遗憾，自己没有做够思考生命的HOMEWORK， 越老就会
越恐慌越苦毒。 人一恐慌了，手里有什么抓什么；一苦毒了， 有谁可以折磨就折磨谁。
All I can do is to call them frequently and tell them stories of their
grandchildren. And it is their wars to fight. There is not much we can do. |
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m******u
发帖数: 277 | 16 我可以分享一篇旧的英文日记吗？
gyyy和ParanoidPark请轻拍哈~~~~
文中的Imo已经在四年前去世，谨以此文纪念我们曾经在一起的美好时光。
YoBuSeYo~ I miss you so much!
an ESL class in CSCC
Posted on 2006年11月8日
Partly Cloudy
High: 71F° Low: 44F°
I met Donna, Imo and YongSoon this afternoon at 1030B, which is YongSoon’s
home. She is a Korean lady with two children, one is 6 years of age and the
other is only 17 months old. Donna brought a cheese cake and YongSoon
prepared bread, fruit, tea and chocolate. We had a really nice meal!
YongSoon baked the bread b... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: xinzhai (abao), 信区: Parenting
标 题: “我讨厌爸妈对我非常严苛，直到发现他们也有自己的创伤” zz
关键字: 理解
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Dec 4 14:34:52 2016, 美东)
http://www.360doc.com/content/16/1202/22/38512265_611432226.shtml
“我讨厌爸妈对我非常严苛，直到发现他们也有自己的创伤” | 研究：如何停止创伤
从上一代向下一代传递？zz
“在我成人的过程中，有一个分水岭一样的时刻：我把那个时刻视为我作为一个青少
年的终结一刻。它是我认识到这个世界无法自圆其说的复杂性的开始——如果说在那之
前我是一个充满了愤怒和攻击性的青少女，在那之后我对生活的负面情绪开始转变为无
奈和厌倦——但那也是我真正开始走上‘成为自己’的道路的一刻。那就是我意识到父
亲有他自身的创伤和扭曲的那一刻。”
不知道有多少人和这个像写作般给我们留言的粉丝一样，为了逃离与父辈之间的不
同，决心远走，而在远离故土的地方生... 阅读全帖 |
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r**u
发帖数: 42 | 18 http://www.wsj.com/articles/obama-drops-plan-to-raise-taxes-on-
Obama Drops Plan to Raise Taxes on ‘529’ College Savings Accounts
President’s Plan Sparked Criticism Over Potential Impact on Middle Class
House Speaker Republican John Boehner called Tuesday for the White House to
withdraw its plan to raise taxes on 529 college-savings accounts. Later the
same day, the administration said it was dropping its plan. ENLARGE
House Speaker Republican John Boehner called Tuesday for the White House to
w... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 19 中国大部分农村出生的小孩应该更自立些。城市小孩大部分确实很弱。
很多美国人都为孙辈出钱出力。
http://www.allbusiness.com/society-social/families-children-family-members/12833382-1.html
Grandparents and grandchildren: their bond is more than genetic--it's
financial too.
Publication: Research Alert
Date: Friday, August 21 2009
There are about 70 million grandparents in the U.S. heading up 44 million
households, according to Grandparents.com. Women become grandparents for the
first time at an average age of 50, and men at an average age of 54. |
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d*********2
发帖数: 48111 | 20 到那时候一根稻草你都当黄金。
而且你不会那么锤， 养的白眼狼白到那个程度吧。
一般就算子女很成功很牛鼻的， 住院病危什么的至少还有俩grandchildren会时常过来
看看。 |
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w*********a
发帖数: 121 | 21 可以传给grandchildren啊。邻居家孩子都大学了，还有一个摇摇木马，说是爷爷做的
。看过一个CL上的Pottery Bar的餐桌，但主人只卖桌，不卖bench,因为bench是Uncle
做的。 |
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w*********s
发帖数: 2136 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 WorldNews 讨论区 】
发信人: whiteclouds (/ 参考消息 /), 信区: WorldNews
标 题: Russian activist disappears after exposing vaccination plans
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 11 12:51:35 2010, 美东)
Russian activist disappears after exposing vaccination plans for Russia,
Ukraine and Belarus
November 7, 2010 by Declan O'Shea
Alexander Goncharov, a Russian activist who has been exposing the globalists
eugenics program and in particular a vaccination program set to begin in
2011 has disappeared after recently recei... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 23 Thomas Grillo, Giving sight to blind; With Mass. Eye and Ear surgery, woman
again sees grandchildren. Boston Herald, Nov. 29, 2010.
http://bostonherald.com/business/healthcare/view.bg?articleid=1299495
My commnet:
(a) Please read a "Related Article" in the right column (of the web page),
titled Macular degeneration hits elderly. There are many types of macular
degeneration, and the two Herald reports deals solely with age-related
macular degeneration (AMD).
(b) Massachusetts Eye and Ear Infirmar... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 24 父母是算的啊。
Who's covered?
The cardholder, plus Spouse or Domestic Partner and their children,
including adopted children or step-children; legal guardians or wards;
siblings or siblings-in-law; parents or parents-in-law; grandparents or
grandchildren; aunts or uncles; nieces or nephews on or before the trip
departure date. |
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g****t
发帖数: 945 | 25 那你想怎么解决?
你和你老公总有一个先挂掉的啊
假设你活得长，难道非要讨儿媳妇腻烦，影响人家小家的隐私和情趣，愣是要跟他们住?
美国这边住老年公寓并不等同于凄凉，很多老人卖了房子拿了cash, 一部分支援
grandchildren上学，一部分自己吃喝玩乐。 |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 26 Did I just misunderstood? As far as I know, most American grandparents
would like to babysit temporarily, but do not like to stay in their kid's
home and take care of their grandchildren for 1 or 2 years, doing the
childcare job on a daily basis. That's why I think "home-based care" mostly
involve stay at home moms, with the occasional help from relatives.
I mentioned punishment just because you said kids who go to daycare early
are more aggressive, and bullying requires punishment. Of course I... 阅读全帖 |
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g******y
发帖数: 632 | 27 一个同事兼好友,两口子都是ABC, 都会说一些中文, 也都有中文的family name,所以想
给儿子起个中文名字, 这里是他们发给我的request和对孩子性格的描述:
My mom thinks "bright" should be in the name (as you'll find out, grandmas
always think their grandchildren are bright). XXX and I think adjectives to
describe him might include curious, vocal, investigative, funny, joyous,
energetic - but sometimes mellow, demanding, quick temper (comes fast,
leaves fast - but this might be a stage).
family name: 林
要三个字的
我想破脑袋也没想出个好名字来, 请大家帮忙想想,多谢了先. |
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M*****y
发帖数: 2223 | 28 今天在craiglist上看到有人卖evenflo discovery infant carseat，描述如下：
“I have two kids 12 months apart and first grandchildren so I had doubles
of a lot, most of this has never been used。
。。。。。。
Brown carseat with base, never used $30 ”
我查了一下review还不错，新的沃尔玛也就卖55块钱，大家说值得买craiglist上这个
吗？那个女人说这个expiration date是07/19/2016。
"Its never been used, so its never been in an accident or anything. " |
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t*g
发帖数: 1758 | 29 虚情假意is because she doesn't know you. If you don't know what's called
appreciation, don't take advantage of the old lady's love to their son and
grandchildren. |
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l****n
发帖数: 144 | 30 很多老黑年轻的时候自己都搞不定，就不提他们老了怎么办了。劳模们很多是天主教徒
，家庭观念挺重的，和传统中国家庭挺相似的。我这里主要说说老白，在红脖子州生活
的纯老白们怎么养老的。
1. 我的大老板。
大老板是本地人，但是娶了个澳洲老婆。后来就搬去澳洲住了。现在50多岁，前两年回
来了，因为他妈妈身体不好了。 他妈跟他的sibling临近，在离我们的城市4个小时的
地方。因为行业问题，他只能在这个城市工作。但是他除了特殊情况，经常周四周五请
假，开车带着老婆看老妈去了，周日晚上才回来。坚持了大半年，直到老妈去世。
2. 我的直接老板
直接老板60多岁了，已经退休了又被返聘的。 他的老妈去年90岁去世的。老爸很早就
去世了。 他老妈一直和他哥哥一家住在一起，得了帕金森症10几年。全靠他哥哥一家
照顾。 他也经常去看望，更多的是帮忙给钱。 他的岳母住在另外一个州，也80多岁了
，住得和他老婆的siblings临近。但一直自己住，最近想要有人一起住了，结果她岳母
自己的cousin, 70多岁了，也是没老公了的，自告奋勇和她住一起了。两人互相照顾。
然后我老板两夫妻驱车10几个小时请假几天过去... 阅读全帖 |
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g******s
发帖数: 141 | 31 我最初倾向于1也使因为班上宝宝少。6m-18m的宝宝在infant班。本来说最多7人，1：4
的老师宝宝的比率。我问了好几遍都是这些数字。
结果最小的6个月离开了。剩下的都12m以上。这样他们就改成toddler班。说是1:5,最
多10个宝宝。我觉得一个老师忙不过来5个宝宝。
这和我当初pre-register的不一样。我想他们最初小宝宝太少，于是把infant和young
toddler合并了。我所在州规定1:6。要是再来一个，他们肯定说toddler班1:6。
需要澄清一下。1不是family care。是正规的daycare。 有好几个班，除了director一
家人还有很多老师的。Director有4个grandchildren在这个daycare里。这种家族管理
就是有些让人不放心。
K。 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 1239 | 32 对于lz这样的公婆，还有另个帖子里给新妈妈脸色的公婆，你们要查查当地
grandparents visitation的法律。比如纽约州，写得很明确
“In New York, grandparents have a limited right to visit their
grandchildren. Instead, the law recognizes that parents have a fundamental
right to raise their children as they desire, including who visits their
children. Therefore, a New York court will only grant visitation to
grandparents if doing so would be in the best interest of the child.”
http://www.legalmatch.com/law-library/article/visitation-rights
你们家这种最好的scena... 阅读全帖 |
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e******l
发帖数: 1416 | 33 这个你不得不承认，人和人的差别还是很大的。等你将来带GRANDCHILDREN的时候会是
啥形象？；－） |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 34
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was told
was at
saver. My
bed) and
如果借助一本书能让不少家长或老师很快改掉小孩咬人的倾向，其它类似或不完全类似
的方法也可以
有效。
更多的评论。
This book has really helped my toddler understand that biting hurts. I
am grateful to the author for writing this book. Thanks
+++++++++
I found this book at my local library and decided to check it out as my
20-month-old daughter had started biting me thinking she was playing a
game. She really likes the book and asks for it to be read... 阅读全帖 |
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t****p
发帖数: 9 | 35 You think gay sex is gross probably because you equal gay sex to anal sex.
But do you know a quarter of gay people never have had anal sex whereas 40%
straight people have tried anal sex in the US? Some of my Chinese straight
friends even think oral sex is dirty, too. Really how they do in the bed is
really none of your business.
I grew up in the countryside in a small city. I never heard of the term "
homosexual" until in the college. I was the first person from our village to
go to a college. ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********s
发帖数: 2136 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 WorldNews 讨论区 】
发信人: whiteclouds (/ 参考消息 /), 信区: WorldNews
标 题: Russian activist disappears after exposing vaccination plans
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Nov 11 12:51:35 2010, 美东)
Russian activist disappears after exposing vaccination plans for Russia,
Ukraine and Belarus
November 7, 2010 by Declan O'Shea
Alexander Goncharov, a Russian activist who has been exposing the globalists
eugenics program and in particular a vaccination program set to begin in
2011 has disappeared after recently recei... 阅读全帖 |
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j***e
发帖数: 708 | 37 I mean your kids and grandchildren will know where you are from, they being
american or not |
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z*****9
发帖数: 256 | 38 1. No (under the assumption that the grandparents enjoy staying with the kids and don't like the idea of sending their grandchildren to daycare.)
2. D
But we can't take it for granted that the grandparents enjoy taking care of the kids. |
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n********y
发帖数: 145 | 39 A very thoughtful article.
He should definitly consider of being a children's book writer in the future
, either as his career or his hobby. Maybe my grandchildren will read books
by James. Who knows. I am looking forward to those days.
Just curious, the article and previous letters you posted sound like diaries
. Why would he like to share with you? |
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r******i
发帖数: 2662 | 40 in my understanding, it will be you who stay in China with them, right? then
what is the problem? your parents don't feel comfortable being with their
own daughter???
you hubby may be a little overprotective, but your parents are way too
sensitive...
seriously, I trust myself as a parent, but if i become a grandparent someday
, I would rather not hold such a big resposibility of taking care of my
grandchildren all by myself.
好的类型，天下最不怕的事情就是辛苦。 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 41 Patpat.
One possible solution is to earn more money so that when the time comes, you
can hire another able-body, able-hand mom from this board to help taking
care of your grandchildren.
Money, come to me, baby.
Honey, go to your nanny!
Hubby, do not touch that beauty! |
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a***r
发帖数: 981 | 42 偶们这儿一个华人联合会发来的email.
End of March is a heartbreaking time for many Asian Am families who
have kids applying to college. They foolishly believe that college admission
is based on their children's academic performance, extracurricular
experiences, leadership experience, and (to many) their superman effort to
overcome the handicaps of being first generation immigrants.
They don't know there are greater forces at work. All the high
qualifications get an instant deep discount because Asian Ams are... 阅读全帖 |
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 43 我见过一个白人（不是西裔）奶奶，才51岁。有15个grandchildren。她看起来也就40
多一点。当时她对我提这些，让我楞了两次：“Grandma?...15?”
我小孩说她的班上的同学都知道这个看起来像“aunt”的grandma。 |
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z****0
发帖数: 3942 | 44 A parent wrote: "I am shocked by this racial preferences"
End of March is a heartbreaking time for many Asian Am families who
have kids applying to college. They foolishly believe that college admission
is based on their children's academic performance, extracurricular
experiences, leadership experience, and (to many) their superman effort to
overcome the handicaps of being first generation immigrants.
They don't know there are greater forces at work. All the high
qualifications get an instan... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 45 孩子的影儿都不给
-- See? You selectively over-looked the family pictures again.
There is definitely a scene with Lynett playing with her 6 grandchildren in
the central park, and the narrator says she has to constantly yell at them. |
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j*******a
发帖数: 5283 | 46 周围的人没有说什么，但都是惊讶地下巴掉下来那种，一瞬间除了孩子哭声非常安静。
毕竟大家都知道两岁孩子踩一脚有多少力度，大人的一脚有多重。所以那老太太才大声
说了那句话，就是说给大家听的。还咕哝着什么她也有grandchildren，小孩的伎俩她
见得多了之类。。。 |
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P*******m
发帖数: 20 | 47 Of course!!!
Just like most kids in China like Chinese new year, most kids here like
Christmas. I pledge all Chinese parents to bring on the Christmas spirit.
20 years from now you would want you son or daughter read your wish list and
buy you something for holiday too and you will be happy to chat with them
about you grandchildren. Keeping the Santa secret is fun to both the young
and old. Start the tradition now and keep it going! You can not take off on
Chinese new year, the kids had to be at... 阅读全帖 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 48 你家妹妹多大了？
哥哥站床边的事，你跟你lg讲过么？两个人怎么沟通的？你lg对这件事怎么看的？
//偶真是想不出来，经历了这件事，你们怎么还会让7岁半的哥哥接触康州事件啊
==就算不如爸爸sharp,又如何==
这个是别人说了什么，你为孩子辩护？
还是自己心里有想法有点失望，说给自己听的？:)
//因为你强调过2次了，貌似哥哥IQ不如爹？
我个人感觉，你们夫妻两个，对孩子的要求都不低哦
你是从学业上从课外活动上要求，积极地推
你lg是从个性上生活自理能力时间管理能力上高要求
推的时候，都够心急火撩地:)
哥哥在这种被全面急推的环境下，由于自身在某些方面并不ready，但是却”被迫地”
成长了
//速成的东西“味道”不好经不起推敲哦
只有在姥姥姥爷哪里，才可以放松做回一个7岁半的孩子
你们俩个对哥哥，好像都有自己不愿意理解接纳的方面
要观察和了解自己的孩子，要爱孩子爱到接纳孩子的本性和长短啊
这样的爱，才会温暖到孩子的心里去，才会build and empower kiddo's inner
strength
只有真正了解了自己的孩子，才可能真正地因材施教嘛
grandparents对g... 阅读全帖 |
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F**********y
发帖数: 10265 | 49 实在怕了KG, 先插个话
我们邻居一对退休的老夫妻, 老爷爷前几年去世了, 这几年都是老太太单住. 女儿一家
住在隔壁county. 她家外孙, middle school的时候跟着爸爸上门来刷deck, high
school的时候种花收拾garden, 现在自己开车了一有什么hurricane, 就赶紧上门来帮
着收拾东西. halloween小一点的外孙女会来帮着发糖.
每次我看到grandchildren来忙这忙那, 都由衷的羡慕老太太 |
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y*****y
发帖数: 1208 | 50 Beida, i know you are hopeless. but again, here is one article by law
professor Heriot on the damaging side of affirmative action in college
admission. read it, moron.......
The Say Irony of Affirmative Action by Prof Gail Heriot
In 2003, the Supreme Court held that the University of Michigan's law school
could substantially relax its admissions standards in order to admit a "
critical mass" of African-American and Hispanic students. Many observers
interpreted that decision — Grut... 阅读全帖 |
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