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c*******1
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【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: cathy1061 (小懒猫), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 请问大家请父母过来签证有没有直接说爸妈想来看grandchild的?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 6 14:19:23 2010, 美东)
有人直接用这个理由么? 有什么避讳么?
E*******F
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来自主题: Programming版 - 请教一道练习题(C,OS)
这段code运行时为什么会有segmentation fault?
用的是nachos(一个模拟操作系统的教学软件)
#include "syscall.h"
#include "stdlib.h"
#define OUTPUT_LOOP_LIMIT 500
/*
* Set this up to experiment with different nice values. Negative
* values can cause unexpected execution orders. Figuring out WHY
* is an excellent exercise for the student.
*/
#define A_NICE 0
#define B_NICE 5
#define C_NICE 10
#define D_NICE 15
int
main()
{
int a,b,c,d;
int pid;
Echo ("Starting...\n", 12);
/* Divorce the test processes from the m... 阅读全帖
u***************r
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来自主题: Visa版 - unidentified_title
发信人: Edmund00(似懂非懂), 信区: Visa
标题: 有几个月大的孩子,关于爷爷奶奶签证的问题
发信站: BBS未名空间站(Tue Oct 24 09:46:05 2017,GMT)
之前怀孕了爸爸妈妈来英国照顾我月子,转眼他们也要走了。公公婆婆也很想看看孩子
想过来。
公公还在没退休可能过了正月十五就要回国,婆婆可能会留下来几个月帮着我看看孩子
,这里就有签证技巧的问题了。
1 我记得签证表格里之前是没有grandchild的,现在的表格里我记得要写是否在英国有
grandchild。因为当时我爸妈来的时候孩子还没出生,所以就没填,也没提及我怀孕,
但是这次孩子爷爷奶奶来就要写了。
2 想问问大家邀请函都是以什么名义来写,是否提及爷爷奶奶从来没见过自己的
grandchild想过来看望一下(绝对不是说看<一声>)?因为表格上提及了有grandchild
觉得不提好像有点故意隐瞒的意思。或者就说公公婆婆就是来看我们的,只字不提孩子
?又觉得这样欲盖弥彰。
3 因为两个人呆的时间不一样,现在的想法是机票买一样的(大概呆五周时间),到时
候来了婆婆再改回程机票,但是我想在签证... 阅读全帖
w********o
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1. 按楼主现在的时间分配和家庭责任分担情况,离婚也得不到小baby的custody,因为
明显没有时间照顾小孩。所以离婚并不能解决你的问题。反而你自己都会落得只有周末
的探望权,更别提你的父母了。divorce is not your answer.
2. 这楼里很多人都不明白父母70多岁意味着什么。这个年纪能不让你照顾他们就已经
很好了,更别提照顾一个小baby和两个大人,心有余而力不从心。这个年纪是该孩子照
顾父母的年纪了。所以如果楼主没有时间和精力照顾自己的父母,还不如不要让父母来
美国。不然父母病了,还得指望老婆和岳父母替你照顾老人,明显他们更愿意照顾孩子。
3. 因为你的妻子和你的岳父母全天候的照顾着孩子,他们的emotional attachment to
the baby 是你这样的甩手掌柜所无法想像的。孩子小的时候看上去那么的vulnerable
,照顾的人很容易产生attachment,不愿意take any risk给别人照顾。尤其是70多岁
的老人。
4. 但是,despite all the reasons I mentioned above, 你老婆一家不应... 阅读全帖
a***c
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真是脑残.
Congrats to the Palin Family on their Expected 1st Grandchild!
September 1, 2008 by Angel
By an Obama Who? contributor;
Congratulations to the Palin family on the announcement of their first
grandchild! Whooooo Yooooooooooo babies in the White House! Exciting news
for themJ
It is amazing that this young girl is the SAME age as OBAMA’S mother was
when she was pregnant with him. Yet on the internet you would think Sarah’s
daughter committed the cardinal sin of sins. Well if she did then
l****z
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MSNBC's Melissa Harris-Perry apologized this morning amid a growing media
storm over the way she and her guests made fun of Mitt Romney's adopted
grandchild -- who happens to be black.
On her weekend show, the African-American host and her panelists started
laughing almost immediately in the segment, in a way that made me cringe.
The object of their derision, cloaked as it was in pointed humor? A Romney
family photo, with the grandchild perched on Romney's knee.
Hysterical, huh?
Yes, Harris-Perr... 阅读全帖
n***p
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根据
Grandparents Providing Care to Grandchildren: A Population-Based Study of
Continuity and Change
Journal of Family Issues (2012) 33(9): 1143-1167
美国白人,黑人,和Hispanic的家庭结构是有很大差异的,(在美国的中国人的家庭结
构也是不同的,这不包括在这篇文章的研究之中,估计人数太少,另外反正中国人也不
关心这些)。 富人和穷人也是不同。富人的选择比穷人多很多。
经济基础决定上层建筑,颠扑不灭的真理啊。
This study examines transitions in grandchild care and the characteristics
of grandparents making these transitions, using longitudinal data from a
nationally representative sample of 13,626 grandparents in the 1998-200... 阅读全帖
J*******k
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来自主题: Returnee版 - 咱也来问些海归问题

Nod. Two income+ grandparents (time and income) to raise one child.
Almost all my friends in china (20+ in various cities) received lots of help
from their parents to raise their child. Grandparents will watch the
grandchild, cook, and buy many things for the grandchild.
y**i
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来自主题: TAX版 - 401K 拿出来付学费的问题
http://www.bankrate.com/brm/news/529/20060515a1.asp
Yes, you can avoid the 10-percent tax penalty on early distributions from an
IRA when you are paying qualified higher education expenses for yourself or
for your spouse, child or grandchild. It's not necessary that the child or
grandchild be your dependent. And unlike a 401(k) loan, you won't have the
obligation -- or opportunity -- to repay your IRA.
To claim the penalty waiver, you must file Form 5329 with your Form 1040 and
indicate the amou
y********o
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Indeed, you need to improve your English. Now look:
I cannot do it at that point.
I could not do it at that point of time.
If i say i want abortion, I may get in trouble,
If I wanted abortion, I might get into trouble.
because my LG's parents want grandchild the sooner the better,
because my LG's parents were eager/anxious to have a grandchild.
comment: "The sooner the better" doesn't fit in this sentence.
that is why we married so fast.
that is why we got married very soon after we knew each
d******n
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来自主题: Beijing版 - 最近最难的脑筋急转弯 (转载)
这种乱事儿老早鬼子就有,还编成了儿歌.
Google ' I am my own grandpa'
Oh, many, many years ago
When I was twenty-three
I was married to a widow
Who was pretty as can be
This widow had a grown-up daughter
Who had hair of red
My father fell in love with her
And soon the two were wed
This made my dad my son-in-law
And changed my very life
For my daughter was my mother
'Cause she was my father's wife
To complicate the matter
Though it really brought me joy
I soon became the father
Of a bouncing baby boy
This little bab... 阅读全帖
c**h
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The XML data schema looks like this:



XYZ
MNO


...

I try to use DSO to read one record at one time and display
the data in an HTML table. But since and
are grandchild items, I can't find a way to use to
only get one record. If I add #xmldso in the , I
will get all the data not just one.
Could you let me know how to display these grandchild or
even grand-grand c
C***J
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来自主题: Military版 - 搞了半天这管理员也不是普通人
Chinese people should all have father's title, mother's title, grandparents'
titles, brother/sister's title, childs and grandchilds' titles on their
business cards.
c**i
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VOA Chinese, Oct 3, 2011
http://www.voanews.com/chinese/news
/20111002-Taiwan-President-Met-Delegation-from-US-Association-of-Secretaries
-of-State-Pushing-for-Inclusion-in-US-visa-waiver-program-130946033.html
("*美国给36国免签待遇* 这36国大多是欧洲国家,亚洲国家有日本、韩国和新加坡")

Note: 美国州务卿协会访华团 US National Association of Secretaries of State
(NASS)
--------------------Separately
(1) 今年第五名西藏喇嘛自焚. VOA Chinese, Oct 3, 2011.
http://www.voanews.com/chinese/news
/20111003-Tibet-China-Monk-130992903.html
My comment: This ... 阅读全帖
D*****i
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You don't even know how long you can live, and if you have any grandchild,
he or she will not see the end of CCP.
w********t
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来自主题: Military版 - 给你们看看民主的愤怒
ABC NEWS 报道。

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By KAREN RUSSO (@KKRusso)
JORHAT, India, Jan. 2, 2008
Standing barefoot in her muddy front yard with one grandchild on her hip and
two others trailing close behind her, Bihumoni Jatap said she works on a
nearby tea plantation for about $1 a day.
With that money, she provides for nine members of her family. Jatap's
daughter used to contribute to the family i... 阅读全帖
a**********2
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Be supportive! Gays and lesbians are everywhere. Some out of the closet,
some not. Some in the DL, some frank about it. Maybe your child or
grandchild is gay/lesbian, maybe your father/brother is a closet one. They
are no different from you and me. Unless you want your gay child to live in
the closet forever or you feel you are comfortable with your dad's or
brother's "happiness" in a DL life, please support LGBT right, if not
marriage.
a**********2
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Those homophobias in this post will not learn a lesson until they have a
gay child or gay grandchild, or a gay family member.
n***n
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这是真的吗?我google了david zhuo, deng zhuodi, deng xiaoping grandson, sex
offender等诸多关键词,都没有搜索到相关信息。
仅有的一个结果是 http://www.thechinawatch.com/2012/08/descendants-of-the-prc-leadership/ 而这里,还是这这么说的,The only grandchild of Deng Xiaoping is a US-born Wall Street lawyer accused of sexually harassing a female colleague, according to a report published in the US-based Chinese-language reader-sourced news site Boxun.
g**8
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恕我在这个话题上再说几句。首先,我这个主题下昨天的一个跟贴今天再看不知为什么
没了,反正不是我自己删的。如果里面有个别词句有过头的程度,我修改后洁版再贴随
后。其次,刚刚看到最新报道,与几年前的报道完全不符,到底是怎么回事,我就是要
留下一份历史的观察。
先是昨天被删的贴,其实上面有几个随之跟贴里还能看到部分,这里再贴:
============
有必要对上次中国放弃冬奥会申请的过程做一个历史的记录,否则什么事情都是这么稀
里糊涂之间,对韩天文数字逆差可以达到上千亿美元一年,中国最大逆差来源外国,冬
奥会申请也可以东一榔头,西一棒槌地毫无章法之余,现在正在成为北京现代汽车贪官
们的一个摇钱树,十足的无耻之极!!!
先说上次冬奥会放弃的过程:
转载一
-------
放弃申办2018年冬奥会,事实上是国家体委的放弃。上个月,哈尔滨与长春同时提出申
办的意向,国家体育总局随即对两个城市展开评审工作。长春在初评之后就放弃了申办
,事实上很长一段时间内,体育总局考虑的问题就是:哈尔滨是否合适。虽然已经提交
了申办报告,但体育总局认定哈尔滨与德国慕尼黑、韩国平昌相比,还有一定差距,建
议放弃。
... 阅读全帖
k********k
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http://www.thirteen.org/13pressroom/press-release/great-perform
維也納新年音樂會 2014年 轉播時間和頻道
電影《音樂之聲》女主角 茱莉亞 安德魯斯 主持
PBS Channel 13 in New York City
公共電視臺 紐約市 第13頻道
2014年1月1日星期三美東標準時間下午2:30和晚上8:00兩次轉播
PRESSROOM
Great Performances: From Vienna: The New Year’s Celebration 2014
Air date: 01/01/2014
• Visit the website
• Download PDF
• Download hi-res images
Julie Andrews Returns as Host of From Vienna:
The New Year’s Celebration 2014,
This Year Conducted by Daniel Barenboim,
... 阅读全帖
o*****t
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基本上是说,一老爸在电影院看电影,在还没开始正式放映的时候给他女儿发短信,坐
在他后面的一老头(退休警察)警告他不要发短信,两人发生口角,后这老爸似乎把爆
米花扔向这个老头,老头开枪打死这个老爸,并打伤这老爸的妻子。
http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/14/justice/florida-movie-theater-sho
(CNN) -- A 71-year-old ex-Florida cop stared silently into a closed-circuit
camera Tuesday, listening to his defense attorney and a judge go back and
forth on whether he should be charged with second-degree murder.
Curtis Reeves told Pasco County authorities that he fired his .380 semi-
automatic handgun in a movie theater Mo... 阅读全帖
f********t
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TylerTuffyMilo发于 2014-11-27 17:49, 论坛: 华人闲话标 题: 每次去lg哥哥家
里过感恩节都要胸闷到吐血
lg家里兄妹4个,lg和他哥哥都有蛮好的工作,两个姐姐却是吃政府福利的。
大姐,说是身体不好不能工作,只能吃福利。她自己16岁就怀孕生小孩,她的女儿也继
承了母亲早育的传统。所以不到50岁,最大的grandchild已经14岁了。总共三个
grandchildren,孩子妈妈因为吸毒,被剥夺了抚养权,现在孩子都归她抚养。三个孩
子都有问题,一个多动(孩子哪有不动的啊),一个有一型糖尿病,另外一个有自闭症
。三个孩子每天都吃无数meds。昨天晚上,她在照顾最小的孩子吃药,医生让吃剂量小
的先,然后她就问了我们大家一个问题,反正我听完之后真是担心这几个孩子。她问,
0.25毫克比0.5毫克多吧?她照顾三个小孩确实很不容易,但是真是担心她能力不够啊。
二姐,完全就是懒,不想工作,生了4个小孩。每次见面都说她对吃的有多挑,只买好
的贵的。政府真是大方啊,感情粮票都发的足足的。最近,她不知道那根筋错了,买了
15只鸟,3只乌龟,两只狗和一只猫。昨天给我们看了... 阅读全帖
h******i
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来自主题: Military版 - 邓嫖娼 蒋梅毒
Mao larou
Mao Roast Duck
Mao Grandchild
3000 wan
h*h
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Dear members of the Chinese-American Friendship Association of North
Carolina,
My name is Will Norfleet, and I am the son-in-law of the late Dr. Feng Liu,
formerly of Durham. I'm sure many of you remember the death of my father-in-
law on July 23, 2014. He was beaten to death during a robbery just outside
the UNC Chapel Hill campus. At the time, your organization came out in an
amazing show of support. You organized a candlelight vigil, and came out in
large numbers to stand up for Dr. Liu and h... 阅读全帖
d*****g
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来自主题: Talk版 - Xu Siwen keeps a diary
After Xu Bao perishes, in the family not plentiful income, Xu Qiqi the child
remarries again, in the family old person fosters is abandoned the grandson
to get by difficultly. The grandparent and grandchild three people live in
poverty no use, whose doesn't know to Shanghai injustice ......
d*****g
发帖数: 43
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After Xu Bao perishes, in the family not plentiful income, Xu Qiqi the child
remarries again, in the family old person fosters is abandoned the grandson
to get by difficultly. The grandparent and grandchild three people live in
poverty no use, whose doesn't know to Shanghai injustice ......
o*****t
发帖数: 1540
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: oosmart (oosmart), 信区: Military
标 题: 在电影院老爸因给女儿发短信被退休警察枪杀,其妻受伤
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 14 16:46:13 2014, 美东)
基本上是说,一老爸在电影院看电影,在还没开始正式放映的时候给他女儿发短信,坐
在他后面的一老头(退休警察)警告他不要发短信,两人发生口角,后这老爸似乎把爆
米花扔向这个老头,老头开枪打死这个老爸,并打伤这老爸的妻子。
http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/14/justice/florida-movie-theater-sho
(CNN) -- A 71-year-old ex-Florida cop stared silently into a closed-circuit
camera Tuesday, listening to his defense attorney and a judge go back and
forth on whether he should be charged... 阅读全帖
l****z
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BY: Washington Free Beacon Staff
December 30, 2014 1:00 pm
“There are three faithful friends—an old wife, an old dog, and ready money
.”
–Benjamin Franklin, Founding Father of the United States of America (via
brainyquote.com)
Politicians like to talk about being “called to service.” Usually what
they mean is: “I enjoy getting paid to pretend that other people care about
what I have say.”
Dogs, on the other hand, are humble creatures. In this great country of ours
, millions of canines are consc... 阅读全帖
w*********o
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I don't know and not my decision to make. How old are your kids? Are you
being able control who your child and your grandchild going to marry?
If you try that, I feel sorry for your offsprings.
k***n
发帖数: 3158
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来自主题: USANews版 - 如果这次trump 落选
if the grandchild of President Clinton/Trump, who was born recently go to
China for college 18 years later, we would know it, lol
h*h
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: hsh (nidaye), 信区: Military
标 题: 呼吁北卡RTP地区华人旁听对于杀害刘教授的凶手的审判
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Feb 12 14:15:05 2017, 美东)
Dear members of the Chinese-American Friendship Association of North
Carolina,
My name is Will Norfleet, and I am the son-in-law of the late Dr. Feng Liu,
formerly of Durham. I'm sure many of you remember the death of my father-in-
law on July 23, 2014. He was beaten to death during a robbery just outside
the UNC Chapel Hill campus. At the time, your organizatio... 阅读全帖
Y*P
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ebay上买part让人修是可以的。不过一定要买有信誉的卖家的。
买的时候车主有米有“provide evidence of a current smog certification”?
-"If the vehicle sold is more than four model years old, the seller must
provide evidence of a current smog certification except in any of the
following situations:"
source: http://www.dmv.org/ca-california/smog-check.php
Title Transfer and Smog Requirements
When you sell a vehicle that is four or fewer model years old, a smog
certificate will not be required in order to transfer the title. The buyer
wi... 阅读全帖
f*****s
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谁做都行。四年以内的车不用做。Smog cert90天有效。请阅读以下dmv官网说明:)
When you transfer a vehicle that is four or less model years old a smog
certification is not required. (Determine the oldest-qualifying year model
by subtracting three from the current year.) The four or less model years
old rule does not apply to diesel powered vehicles. A smog transfer fee will
be collected from the new owner . When a vehicle is more than four model
years old, a seller must provide evidence of a current smog certification
except whe... 阅读全帖
R*******t
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 申请中犯过的错
嗯,真可能。
不是面试的时候,但以前我看到年纪比较大的人带个小孩子,还以为是那孩子是
grandchild,其实是child,亏好没去问候错了。

chair
t****u
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There's no doublt that parents love me, they did not ask me to mail cash or
something else, and they have tried their best to treat me. Even they are
waiting for their grandchild. they refused to take passport and visa, to
save some money for me.
they just do not let me go home. they are proud of their son currently, but
to some degree I do not like here, I would like to have normal life in China
, why should I come here all by myself?
I work hard, but I can not work that good, I always think th
f*******l
发帖数: 606
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My in laws are the same way. My daughter means absolutely nothing to them
although she is a grandchild too. When they were here, they were very mean
to her, when we went back to China, still very mean. All this years, all
they ever gave to my daughter is some zipper broken cheap clothes. Their
grandson is given everything even without asking. So my daughter will not go
back again, no matter what they say.As I said always, a child is unfortune
without a mother, not grandparents.
t*m
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来自主题: Investment版 - 也说529
529的钱,最终用在 qualified expense, 当然合算。
就是没有用上,也可以用于 grandchild
还没有用上,就30~40年后取出来自己花。 获利部分交10% penalty和income tax.
由于529是tax deferred growth, 不用年年扒皮,所以比taxable account涨得快点儿。
30年后,就算罚个10%,可能比taxable account 还赚的多些
当然,529里面也应该买便宜的index MF.
http://www.529.com/content/benefits.html
我的考虑对吗?
d*****r
发帖数: 273
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来自主题: Investment版 - 在美国,如何为孩子的教育存钱?
529可以用于graduate school吗?
Yes
还有万一娃不上大学,529的钱属于父母还是娃?
Parents. And parents can decide what to do with the money, including which
child/grandchild to use the money for education tax free.
d*****r
发帖数: 273
40
来自主题: Investment版 - 在美国,如何为孩子的教育存钱?
Yes.
According to the IRS, in order for an Roth IRA early withdrawal to qualify
as a qualified first home purchase distribution, it must meet the following
requirements:
1) It must be used to pay qualified acquisition costs before the close of
the 120th day after the day you receive the distribution.
2) It must be used to pay qualified acquisition costs for the main home of a
first-time homebuyer who is any of the following.
* Yourself
* Your spouse
* Your or your spouse's child
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d*****r
发帖数: 273
41
来自主题: Investment版 - 在美国,如何为孩子的教育存钱?
529可以用于graduate school吗?
Yes
还有万一娃不上大学,529的钱属于父母还是娃?
Parents. And parents can decide what to do with the money, including which
child/grandchild to use the money for education tax free.
d*****r
发帖数: 273
42
来自主题: Investment版 - 在美国,如何为孩子的教育存钱?
Yes.
According to the IRS, in order for an Roth IRA early withdrawal to qualify
as a qualified first home purchase distribution, it must meet the following
requirements:
1) It must be used to pay qualified acquisition costs before the close of
the 120th day after the day you receive the distribution.
2) It must be used to pay qualified acquisition costs for the main home of a
first-time homebuyer who is any of the following.
* Yourself
* Your spouse
* Your or your spouse's child
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m*********t
发帖数: 1250
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来自主题: Investment版 - 把美元转到国内理财
The Gift Tax
Updated for Tax Year: 2013
If you give people a lot of money, you might have to pay a federal gift tax.
But the IRS also allows you to give up to $14,000 in 2013 to any number of
people without facing any gift taxes, and without the recipient owing any in
come tax on the gifts.Why it pays to understand the federal gift tax law
If you give people a lot of money or property, you might have to pay a feder
al gift tax. But most gifts are not subject to the gift tax. For instance, y
ou c... 阅读全帖
l*n
发帖数: 529
44
if (node has right child) {
find its leftmost grandchild
} else {
find the minimum grandancestor that's greater than node from root
}
k******o
发帖数: 3328
45
来自主题: Living版 - property tax 会增加吗
Your first year's property tax is based on your transaction price unless you
are the relative of the seller (child, grandchild, etc).
j****i
发帖数: 68152
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来自主题: Living版 - 如何平整土地、松土?
就买这个了。看review说连80岁的老奶奶都能用它翻地
Wayne
from Casselberry, FL, USA
I bought this tiller for my 80 year old grandmother because she couldn't
start the pull start model we have. She loves it! It's light enough to move
around and strong enough to not get jammed up. I am now the favorite
grandchild.
q********m
发帖数: 3234
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 发泄一下:对婆婆的忍耐极限是什么
我RP真好,找了个保姆,带孩子就像带她自己的grandchild,一直亲孩子逗孩子,比
孩子亲妈还好。我打算给加工资。可惜做不长,8月就不做了。
我的感觉,住我们家带孩子的选择, 保姆》妈妈》婆婆

.
s*****g
发帖数: 2140
48
Not if both the parents are single child. Chairman Mao's grandchild is an
example.
c*******1
发帖数: 342
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有人直接用这个理由么? 有什么避讳么?
h*****7
发帖数: 2120
50
没有。据说这样一说,签证官会认为父母来带孩子,抢了这边的工作
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