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T****a
发帖数: 4651
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i don't get frustrated about others speed unless that person is my runner
partner who "force" me to run at uncomfortable pace (which happened to me
sometimes when I run with others in my RC).
but i'm frustrated that i neither have the time nor body that can hold up
training volume over 30 mpw consistently (let along the 55 mpw AM plan).
what that tells me is either it would take many more years to be a
marathoner or marathon is simply not for me. i'd be at peace with both, but
wouldn't want to g... 阅读全帖
b***i
发帖数: 10018
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来自主题: Running版 - we all have bad days
"As to Sunday's workout I don't have much to say other then it was
shit and I was pissed. You have a go like that during a stretch of
dull unimpressive training like I've been doing, particularly coming
back and it's very frustrating. Makes you feel like you want to quit.
I hesitate to write that because I don't want 50 comments saying don't
quit, etc. But I think it is important for people to hear that we all
get down and want to pack it in. I wanted to quit many times in HS and
college, just w... 阅读全帖
r********i
发帖数: 253
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来自主题: Running版 - 希腊跑神的比赛报告惹众怒
希腊跑神Yiannis Kouros (YK)应邀参加了Across the Year (ATY) 6-day 的比赛,结
果输给了来自佐治亚州的Joe Fejes. 比赛很激烈,我一直在跟,最后Joe赢了5个迈,
打破了美国记录。今天YK在FB上发了比赛报告,指责场地,组委会,找出各种客观理由
,甚至诋毁Joe没有体育道德。FB上很多ultrarunner指责他的做法。我非常失望,对他
的崇敬几乎降到零。我在几个local比赛碰到过Joe,非常nice的一个人。8月底两个人会
比另外一个6 DAY 比赛,在阿拉斯加,室内跑道。拭目以待。以下是报告全文。不少拼
写错误。
Notes and experiances from the 6-day race
January 6, 2014 at 12:16am
First of all we would like to thank Laura and Garry Jeanson for their warm
hospitality prion to the race and Michael and Kimberley Miller (who... 阅读全帖
I********e
发帖数: 6130
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我来唐一下, 从相反的角度.
Based on my experience as someone who just made it from green runs to blue
runs, it depends a lot on you.
I am pretty sure I would've given up on skiing after the first few times if
it wasn't for BF's encouragement and putting up with all my complaints...
The key is one has to see it as a fun thing to do in order to want to do it.
No one wants to be frustrated. But before you get good enough to find the
fun in it it's very easy to be frustrated. You need to be there for her -
make... 阅读全帖
l******s
发帖数: 3045
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来自主题: Soccer版 - 苏神或有狂躁症
在利物浦咬的时候已经有过类似的报道和判断,详情见http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Soccer/33705981.html
作为大赛型伪球迷,同意其下述精神分析的观点,果然小苏自己也提过“In those
moments, your heartbeat is very high and sometimes you don’t think about
what you are doing..” 。
有过舞台经验,或突然在众目睽睽下受到巨大压力的人应该有类似的体会,大脑空白,
精神极度紧张而容易做出异常的举动,或说出错话。
Biting is a child-like behaviour and is certainly not normal adult behaviour
. Psychological explanations of biting behaviour in children characterise
it as a reaction to stress and anger because the child lacks coping
str... 阅读全帖
n*****s
发帖数: 343
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真正的好文啊! 把苏亚雷斯咬人事件当笑话看看太可惜了。 对他行为深层次的分析发
人深省。
一年多前的文章就预见了今天的悲剧。
The Psychology of Luis Suárez's Flawed Genius
24 Apr 2013 By Paul Waring
Luis Suárez is once again in the news for the wrong reasons. The latest
incident involving Suárez allegedly biting Chelsea's Branislav Ivanovic was
captured by TV cameras at Anfield and has led to a media furore. There have
been calls for the severest possible action by both Liverpool and the FA.
This article considers how Suárez's genius is often accompanied by... 阅读全帖
l******s
发帖数: 3045
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真是兜圈子攒字数,直接看下面一段就行。跟我的判断类似,或有狂躁证。http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Soccer/33705277.html
Biting is a child-like behaviour and is certainly not normal adult behaviour
. Psychological explanations of biting behaviour in children characterise
it as a reaction to stress and anger because the child lacks coping
strategies to manage such emotions. However, children tend to outgrow biting
behaviour because, as they grow older, they tend to learn how to deal with
stress, frustration and anger.
Psychology h... 阅读全帖
T**********e
发帖数: 29576
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来自主题: Swimming版 - Phelps百米蝶泳终于又游进52秒了
上周在乔治亚百米蝶泳仰泳夺冠,百米自由泳第二输给法国Agnel.
冲击百米自由泳有点无厘头,猜测他的策略是蝶仰自单项都满意了就可以上200IM。
http://www.11alive.com/story/sports/2014/07/11/michael-phelps-r
ATHENS, Ga. – Michael Phelps is starting to look like that Michael Phelps
again.
He won the men's 100-meter butterfly event here at the Bulldog Grand Slam on
Friday night, beating rival Ryan Lochte by more than a second in his fourth
meet since coming out of retirement. It's an event that both swimmers are
using as a tune-up for the national championships.
Phel... 阅读全帖
a*m
发帖数: 6253
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From video, i am with KD.
Radio's backhand is weaker comparing with his forehand side, but not really
that weak... He can block the ball back with depth if you did not put
pressure on it. The kid 's pace is pretty good already, but just lack of
combination like three or four consistent attack on radio's backhand side.
His forehand moonball is not that easy to be attacked as well. Looks at his
placement, very deep(less than 3 feet from baseline) and in the middle with
topspin. It will not be eas... 阅读全帖
r*******y
发帖数: 5777
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来自主题: Tennis版 - Li Na, playing well
frustration到底怎么翻译?为什么解说一直说打得不好的那个人frustration。。。
好像很多个大赛解说都这么说。。。
b*********s
发帖数: 6757
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来自主题: Tennis版 - Becker是不是要被解雇阿?
I do agree on the fitness part. It's also true that both are baseliners, but
Lendl build his game around his huge forehand, where Murray build his game
around his craft, mix up the pace, frustrate the opponent (although he often
get frustrated himself)
Base on what I read and heard, I think Lendl mentally is much more calm than
Murray during a match.
What lendl did to Murray is have him impose forehand more. Basically instead
win by out just out play the opponent, but also have some thing that
o... 阅读全帖
z*****k
发帖数: 600
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来自主题: Tennis版 - 贡献几个比赛录像 (转载)
We all loss confidence here and there. But many times we manage to (or hope
to) adjust and cope with it, where you try to ease yourself with different
strokes, but still maintain a good grip of control, a typical confidence
regroup or rebuild phase. For kids to exert such a level of self control, is
much more remarkable than any winning points. So coach was absurd calling
it a MBD because of using different strokes
Mentally breakdown is loss of self control in the face of frustration. not
the fr... 阅读全帖
l********s
发帖数: 522
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http://nypost.com/2014/09/05/coach-michael-chang-confident-nish
By Marc Berman
September 5, 2014 | 1:46am
Former American great Michael Chang arrived too late to see Japan’s Kei
Nishikori play live at the U.S. Open last year. Chang, a Hall of Famer,
arrived the second week to play the elder Champions event. Nishikori had
lost in the first round.
But Nishikori’s agent asked Chang during the 2013 Open if he would be
willing to come aboard as coach. They had played against each other in an
exhibiti... 阅读全帖
k**f
发帖数: 1137
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来自主题: Tennis版 - 老费刚才是弹两下了吗?
Q. There was a stage in the third break point up where you were called for
the double bounce and the replay clearly showed that you had got to the ball
. It's a bit unusual. Has that ever happened before? Can you talk about that?
ROGER FEDERER: I'm not sure if it's happened before, but I wouldn't be
surprised. I honestly have no clue how it went. By the way it bounced on the
other side, because it had back spin on, I felt there was a chance that
maybe it was good, you know.
Hmm. It's a tough cal... 阅读全帖
y********n
发帖数: 2063
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来自主题: TexasHoldem版 - comparison about pokeryjj and soleeyeboy
I get so frustrated on soleeyeboy's games. Because I open it one week ago, I
put so many hours(yeah, 800 games already in just one week, compare I play
1100 games under pokeryjj using at least 3 weeks) into it. But the crap
gives me ridiculous downswings.
550$ downswing 2 times, As you may know, I play 35$ buyin games only, 550$
is equal to 15 games.
In HU sng, ppl only get 20 buyin for their entire bankroll. 15 games
downswing means that he is broken already.
It is so annoying and frustrating.
c****1
发帖数: 457
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来自主题: TexasHoldem版 - tournament 中的心态
前一段看到好多帖子讨论tournament中的bad beats。
刚刚被bad beat了,也上来发发牢骚。 FTOP event 10, AA被TT out drawn on river
.
离钱圈很近了,216刀就这么打水漂,将近两个小时的时间也白花了,是不是很
frustrated?
现在对这种bad beat已经麻木了。毕竟tournament是以小博大,所以更多的时候是让人
frustrated,然后偶尔给你一个big big excitement。所以打tournament还是不能太看
重结果,要有点游戏人生的态度,别把钱太当回事。要不然总想着第一名多少多少钱,
第二名会差多少多少钱,这样会影响自己打牌的决策。
拿了24万之后没多久又玩了一次sunday million, 打到还剩35个人的时候,我是第24
名,手里AA。MP opened the pot, 我3 bet to 8x BB, flop里面有两个草花,他all
in, 我call,他是9T草花,turn马上hit上另一个草花。哎,当时心里郁闷很长一段时
间,主要是太希望再进final table了,如果我能... 阅读全帖
h*******s
发帖数: 3932
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来自主题: TexasHoldem版 - wtf is this shit? LOL
I think his reaction was understandable. When his nuts on flop turned into
two-trips on river, the frustration triggered his allin.
this reminds me of those 3-pair hands. when some fish's small 2-pair turns
into 3-pair, they get frustrated and bet or call. pretty interesting
mentality.
E*******r
发帖数: 520
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来自主题: TexasHoldem版 - 呼唤周末BSO贴!
How may keep up winning? My experience is terrible - Winning - losing -
winning - losing ...
Confidence - frustration - confidence - frustration ...
Sigh, how keep consistance winning?????
y********n
发帖数: 2063
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Havenot notice FTP has given me $500 bonus three times, I even do not pay
attention to my email. So, I miss the first two times of $500 bonus.
In order to clear bonus quickly, I choose to play super turbo SNGs, mainly
on $20 level, then something crazy happens, check my result pic.
These couple days, chinese internet is very un-statble(,some ppl say it is
because of 6.4 event), I keep disconnecting and disconnecting. Because of
that crap,
it costs me around 1800-2000 bucks in these two days.
Ver... 阅读全帖
m*******a
发帖数: 363
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i applied online.
one thing is really frustrating is that online they cannot accept any file
larger than 4 M.
so i had to constantly rescan all my documents.
i applied back in May, then they had a system error , accidentally cancelled
my application in June. the only way i can contact them is via emails, send
one and wait for a couple of days for their response.
they said they finally put my application back in , like in June. and now my
flight is on July 1st.. and i have not heard anything from... 阅读全帖
R*g
发帖数: 16085
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来自主题: TVGame版 - FIFA 13 Scripting
http://answers.ea.com/t5/FIFA-13/Players-acting-slow-dumb-and-w
quoted:
"I bought FIFA 13 the same day it was released. Everything was working
perfectly; the gameplay was smooth and I could enjoy my games. However,
since about a week ago, something weird started to happen to the gameplay.
First it started when playing online; my players started doing frequent
incorrect passes, responding slowly whenever I dribbled in different
directions, players got slow, shots became weak, and it felt like my ... 阅读全帖
l*****n
发帖数: 2446
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正在研究行星互容,看到 Tyl 的这篇分析,感觉很生动,豁然开朗不少
The Subtle Powers of Mutual Reception
“Mutual Reception” reminds me of time-share house-swaps: you have an
apartment in New York City and want to summer in Florence; someone in
Florence wants to come to New York at the same time. The deal is made, you
live in each other’s domain, getting very close together without ever
meeting, and the cooperation touches both lives.
It also reminds me of a magician and his assistant: the performer and his
helper sharing a hig... 阅读全帖
t***y
发帖数: 182
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来自主题: astrology版 - 苏珊米勒2012年3月处女运势 (zz)
source:
http://www.astrologyzone.com/forecasts/monthly/virgo_full.php
Virgo Horoscope for March 2012
By Susan Miller
Early March will be simply magical, the best planetary alignments you have
seen in years. The challenges you at faced some point during the years 2007
to mid-2011 were hard, but this month will be just the opposite - a gorgeous
bouquet of planetary vibrations, sent straight to you by a loving universe.
The universe did not forget you, dear Virgo.
A golden triangle - called a "gran... 阅读全帖
t***y
发帖数: 182
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来自主题: astrology版 - 苏珊米勒2012年4月处女运势 (zz)
来自:susanmiller小组(http://www.douban.com/group/susanmiller/
搬运排版: MQ-美棋 译者:幻觉
译文:
——————————————— ★★★正 文★★★ ——————————————
4月是个一分为二的月份,上半月,财务事宜占据了你的精力,之后的下半月,是有很
多娱乐、放松活动,还可能去旅行的时候了。要记住,下半月的时候将为你打造更好的
氛围,而这个月的前两周,你要忙于你的收入、支票簿、计算小票这些事情上。这种财
务上的忙碌是暂时的,所以也要为下半月会很好感觉高兴哦!
如果看看你的整体状况,你长期以来一直在处理困难的财务局面,也许这远从2009年10
月就开始了,土星从那时候起一直在天秤座行运,明显的限制了你的收入。看起来你一
直在应对预算紧缺的老板和客户,所以情况变得更加困难,并且换工作也没得到帮助—
—如果你曾去面试工作,也遇上的一样的情况。同时,你的开支也上升了,你肯定感觉
自己陷入财务困境。
等到今年10月份的时候,你紧缩的现金状况就会消除,那时土星将离开天秤座这个对你
来说较为艰难的位置。但这个月你还遇上4月6日的满... 阅读全帖
j**n
发帖数: 13789
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鹊桥好像有些大叔dating了几个小妹妹之后,很frustrated,因为人家张口闭口就是星
座。。
他自己对星座一窍不通,
然后就开始讽刺我们这些信者。。。
我偷笑。。
明明这个大叔自己落伍得不得了,不研究下星座就去date 80后90后女生。。。
frustrated了以后倒过来骂我们信星座的人,
真是越看越好笑。。。
p****x
发帖数: 980
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Setbacks and failures are indispensable from accomplishments. The journey to
our goals can be painful and frustrating. However, one final accomplishment
may offset the frustration brought by ten unsuccessful attempts. For
instance, when it comes to applying for admission to colleges and grad
schools, one offer is enough for all the application efforts to be
considered successful, even if the offer comes after dozens of rejections.
Therefore, as long as the final result turns out to be good, the
c*g
发帖数: 1980
27
来自主题: LeisureTime版 - Olemiss (转载)
【 以下文字转载自 Literature 讨论区 】
发信人: cgg (养猫专家, 99%), 信区: Literature
标 题: Olemiss
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 18 22:29:19 2011, 美东)
Olemiss
(To Chang Maomao, incarnated March, 1997; quit the earth December, 2010. He
was one of a cat.)
* The dark side of the night *
I thought I was very tired. But when I walked out of the Inn and into the
warm September night, I was healed. It had rained in the afternoon, the
Alumni Drive was wet reflecting the bright street lights. I walked towards
the dark.
I followe... 阅读全帖
b*s
发帖数: 82482
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刚才在路上,说不明白。除了那本书以外,原来在纽约客上Galdwell的文章可以给出详
细一些的例子吧:
http://www.gladwell.com/2008/2008_10_20_a_latebloomers.html
Articles from the New Yorker
Late Bloomers
October 20, 2008Annals of Culture
Why do we equate genius with precocity?
1.
Ben Fountain was an associate in the real-estate practice at the Dallas
offices of Akin, Gump, Strauss, Hauer & Feld, just a few years out of law
school, when he decided he wanted to write fiction. The only thing Fountain
had ever published was a law-review article. H... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: lczlcz (lcz), 信区: USANews
标 题: 好莱坞Sean Penn继续为委内瑞拉社会主义政权辩护
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 12 14:45:40 2014, 美东)
Sean Penn is taking a page out of President Barack Obama's playbook but
twisting it to his own socialist-friendly liking.
Obama has gotten plenty of mileage for blaming his predecessor for the
country's woes.
Now, Penn is blaming Venezuelan president Nicolas Maduro's problems on what
the leader inherited from his predecessor--Hugo Chavez. Only Penn doesn't
blame ... 阅读全帖
b*********n
发帖数: 5846
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来自主题: PhotoGear版 - B&H快被逼疯了. LOL
刚刚收到的email, 连DP论坛的回贴都搬出来了。haha.
Dear XXX:
Thank you for placing your order for a Nikon D800/D800E or D4 with us. We
appreciate your confidence in us.
We want to apologize for the delay in fulfilling your order. These cameras
are among the most high-demand
low-availability cameras in Nikon’s history and, as we’re sure you know,
demand has substantially outstripped supply. Nikon USA is working hard to
fulfill our orders and we’re as eager to send these to you as you are to
get them.
Because the ba... 阅读全帖
o**s
发帖数: 3412
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来自主题: PhotoGear版 - 全幅真的那么重要吗
u already answered ur own question.
差距 is our best friend. The only time I have experienced a leap in
photography, I was super frustrated about the 差距, was stuck at the 瓶颈. I
went on an internet hunt on how to articles.
Now i am stuck again, probably because i think i am good already and not
frustrated, hungry or eager for improvement. Not going to improve if keep
doing the same thing.
D********e
发帖数: 110
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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 问问:失落的英文怎么说?
frustrated/frustration
d*********g
发帖数: 2906
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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 纽约时报报道朱令案了
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/05/11/world/asia/zhu-ling-case-re-e
1990s Poisoning Case Re-emerges, Unleashing Fresh Chinese Fury
By ANDREW JACOBS
Published: May 10, 2013
BEIJING — The mysterious illness began with crippling stomach pain,
followed by blurry vision and sudden hair loss. By the time Zhu Ling, a
talented musician and chemistry student at one of China’s top universities,
emerged from a coma weeks later, she was partially paralyzed and nearly
blind, her faculties reduced to those of a c... 阅读全帖
u*********r
发帖数: 7835
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有什么样的人民,就有什么样的政府。抄一段美国大法官的话共勉:
That [the defendant] will go largely unpunished ... is frustrating. There
are, however, basic principles upon which this country is founded which
compel the result we reach....[Legality] is one of them. The retroactive
application of criminal law...is so abhorrent that we must occasionally
endure some frustration in order to preserve and protect the foundation of
our system of law.
f**c
发帖数: 192
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现在学化学的,大概80%的祖孙三代要倒霉。
2007年以后才开始读博士的,如果学有机,已经是白痴。
2014年还在学有机合成的,99%的祖宗八代子孙后代都要倒血霉。80年代的有机土博美
国制药工作N年,55岁回国挣大钱操小妞的,不算,人家那是80年代学的化学。
http://cen.acs.org/articles/90/i45/Barely-Hanging.html
Home > Volume 90 Issue 45 > Barely Hanging On
More On This Story
For Hire
Tepid Recovery Curtails Hiring
Barely Hanging On
ACS Launches New Resources For Unemployed Chemists
Carving Out A New Path: Unemployed Chemists Apply Their Skills And Expertise
To Nontraditional Careers
ACS Member Support: Help For The Unem... 阅读全帖
n**e
发帖数: 2026
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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 清华投毒案——野三坡之绝笔回声
唯因不被承认
才格外勇敢真诚
即使像眼泪一样跌碎
敏感的大地
处处仍有
持久而悠远的回声
——舒婷《献给我的同代人》
1989年的一个早春,北大生物系二年级学生吴今去了野三坡就再没有回来。人们不知道
在她离开同学短短的50小时里究竟发生了什么事情。但是她给这个世界留下了一篇文章
,也是她的绝笔。
文章的题目是是英文课要求的:To be or Not to be。交作业的时间是英文课的上课时
间4月3日星期一早晨8点。这是当时事情发生的时间轮廓。
3月31日,周五,吴今回家前把这篇写好的文章交给同宿舍和她一个英语班的同学,告
诉同学如果周一她没去上课,就替她交这份作业。
4月1日,周六,吴今从家里出发去车站,与同学们在车站汇合后一起去了野山坡。
4月2日,周日,早晨九点多,吴今与同学们挥手告别去赶另一队上午回学校的同学。
4月3日,周一,早晨上英语课,同学帮吴今交了这份作业。同学们询问起来发现吴今失
踪,于是当天下午一些同学和吴今的父母一起赶往野山坡寻找吴今,但是当天没有找到。
4月4日,周二,中午发现吴今的遗体。
这篇吴今的绝笔作文,就其思想之独立,情感之饱满,逻辑之缜密,不是一个大二... 阅读全帖
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【 以下文字转载自 Faculty 讨论区 】
发信人: MHP (马后炮), 信区: Faculty
标 题: 关于负面情绪,恰巧收到这个信
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar 22 09:46:25 2015, 美东)
Monday, March 23, 2015
Responding to Rejection
Dear XXX,
Maybe it's just the rhythms of the semester, but many of you seem to be down
in the dumps. I've been hearing from lots of people who are frustrated by
cranky colleagues' comments, demoralized by rejected manuscripts and grant
proposals, and tired of students' unending complaints. With so much
negativity in our work environ... 阅读全帖
m*****e
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来自主题: Joke版 - Don't Shave That Hair!
Don’t Shave That Hair!!!
I have recently made a mistake in my life, and I offer my story to you,
that you may learn from my error. It all started, as many things do, with me
having trouble shitting.
No, I was not constipated; this was not a regularity problem but a
matter of technique. It seems my ass-hair had grown to such a length that
tiny grogans were constantly getting tied up in the matted jungle between my
asscheeks. It led to much frustration, with me KNOWING that I still had... 阅读全帖
s*******t
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老外最近一个很火的文章,翻译版
千万!不要!刮! 你的肛毛!!!!
最近我犯下了人生中最大的一个错误!!!!
现在把经验告诉大家,希望大家能从中吸取教训!!!
这一切都要从我拉便便的问题开始说起!!!
不,你想错了,实际上,我并没有便秘!!!
只是在技术上的排便问题而已!!
我的肛毛太长太浓密了,每次拉便便总有一些沾在毛上面!!!
这些残便粘的很牢,这让我非常不爽!!!!!!
我必须用纸清理我的肛毛!!!
但这是个技术活!!!
因为看不见我的屁屁,清理肛毛的时候经常会把屁屁其他地方弄脏!!
还有一个方法是用很多纸把整个屁股仔细擦一遍!!!!
这样做的后果是纸用得太多我家马桶经常会被厕纸堵住!!!!
这个问题困扰我很久!!!!!
经过深思熟虑以后,我想到了一个好点子!!!!
这是老子的屁股老子的肛毛!!!我的地盘我做主!!!!
为什么不把肛毛刮了呢????
这样我的大便不就可以流畅排放了吗!!!!
我脑子里不禁浮现出金黄色的啤酒从酒桶里潺潺流出的美丽景象!!!!!
但后来的事实证明,这是一个非常错误的傻B想法!!!
那天晚上,我坐在毛巾上,开始用廉价的一次性剃刀刮我的肛毛!!!!
我要小... 阅读全帖
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wonderfulove (Wonder) 于 (Thu Oct 1 00:28:25 2009, 美东) 提到:
单身女下属,已婚男上司。
平时我工作勤勤恳恳,跟同事与人为善,是因为我没男朋友么,被老板盯上。我从来没
跟他有任何暧昧。他为什么会对我有歪心思?我平日也没有穿得花枝招展勾引人,只想
好好做几年事走人。之前他说喜欢我,吓我一大跳。之后就避免独处,打太极。太极打
久了他就说,我这样做,他觉得自己很失败,很frustrated。可是难道我要送到他床上
去吗?
我工作正处于上升期,一切都很顺利,我也很喜欢自己做的事,不到万不得已,不想因
此而辞职。可是,刚才接到他电话,他居然说,开会时hotel没订好,可不可以在我这
里借宿,睡地上也行。我冷汗直流,紧跟一百个‘不行’。在他又一次frustrated的挂
电话后,我又很担心。这么严辞拒绝,他会不会因为得不到我而报复?在工作上打压我
?这方面他要控制我太容易了。
我怎么办?赶紧交个男朋友,是不是可以摆脱他的纠缠?我只是,决不想跟他有不干净
p*********l
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来自主题: Love版 - 该不该给前女友借钱
你说得不对
我说理吧?也没有人身攻击吧?我一开始的帖子也很温和八?如果不是gilda跳出来说
LZ怎么让人烦,继而说什么男人不可能跟女人讲道理,说什么为了怕媳妇跑就一定要说
"最后一次",我根本不会长篇累度。你不要颠倒黑白。
我跟我BF还有以前的EX都不需要辩论,大家都是商量着办,在讨论中看清自己和对方的
观点从而达成一致意见。版面上能够这么做的男ID女ID也不少呢!
我昨天是语气激烈,是因为我替LZ觉得委屈,也因那些蔑视女性在家庭中地位的言论而感到震惊,尤其是那些言论来自我一向很尊敬的一个ID。愤怒还真谈不上。
辩论不过,于是指责对方只想win argument,我又长见识了。我没啥好frustrated的,MS你这样王顾左右而言他的人比较frustrated。Plus, you are quite judgmental.

worst
because
It
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来自主题: Love版 - 我这样的正常吗?
well, everyone has a different opinion on what is enough and what is not. If
a guy cannot even accommodate simple requests like this, what do you expect
him to do/sacrifice for you?
Although I do not request calling every day myself, I totally understand her frustration. In fact, if I have expressed my frustration ONCE and have not seen any effort from the other end, I would just dump him. This guy is too self-centered and the journey ahead is not going to be pleasant.
l**t
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来自主题: Love版 - 我这样的正常吗?

not. If
expect
her frustration. In fact, if I have expressed my frustration ONCE and have
not seen any effort from the other end, I would just dump him. This guy is
too self-centered and the journey ahead is not going to be pleasant.
唉 太难了。改变一个观点相当伤筋动骨。就算能改,心里如果不痛快,还是会在别的
地方发泄出来。
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