b***e
发帖数: 15201 | 1 据路透社报道，新闻集团CEO老默多克已提交与妻子邓文迪离婚的文书。新闻集团已证
实这一消息。目前还不清楚默多克要求离婚的原因。默多克于1999年迎娶邓文迪。
It will be the third divorce for the News Corp. CEO, who is 82 years old.
Murdoch's divorce from his second wife Anna in 1999 resulted in a $1.7
billion settlement — what is believed to be one of the most expensive
divorce settlements on record.
Murdoch's company is currently in the process of splitting its media and
entertainment holdings into two different entities, both remaining under his
control. Deadline reporte... 阅读全帖 |
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C***l
发帖数: 2625 | 2
That's wise. Read this: http://www.slate.com/id/2295603/
"for an extra hour of commuting time, you would need to be compensated with
a massive 40 percent increase in salary to make it worthwhile."
This week, researchers at Umea University in Sweden released a startling
finding: Couples in which one partner commutes for longer than 45 minutes
are 40 percent likelier to divorce. The Swedes could not say why. Perhaps
long-distance commuters tend to be poorer or less educated, both conditions
that ... 阅读全帖 |
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s********i
发帖数: 17328 | 3 annulment和divorce不一样，divorce里marriage是有效的，annulment里marriage是无
效的。比如，两人结婚后，一个人中了大奖，divorce，两人分钱，annulment的话，中
奖的独吞。 |
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i**b
发帖数: 918 | 4 really?
41% of first marriages in the U.S. end in divorce
60% of second marriages in the U.S. end in divorce
73% of third marriages in the U.S. end in divorce |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 5 that's because they didn't get a good son! They didn't nurish their son to
be a responsible man, a husband. That is why he can't manage his marriage
and end up to a divorce. That is not a wife's fault. Even in the capitalist
world, the divorced wife is protected by the law. Look at what a "Correct-at
-all Times" nation just passed a law to stab on a woman in a divorce! The
whole system is so sick now, rotten to the root! |
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W***u
发帖数: 48 | 6 If XXP have her wife's photo with other man, why he didn't mention this to
her wife and let her know he has some stuff to support his divorce decision
and let her go way. i think it would be a better way than "Stalk Law" he
wrote to her.
Maybe there are two reasons:
1, what he said about the photos never exist, this is just he wanted to pour
dirty water to her.
3. He may found something in China, but he didn't copy or keep those photos.
Anyway, if the photo event was true, certainly he can sue f... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g
发帖数: 21627 | 7 http://www.beijingtoday.com.cn/tag/trans-cultural-marriage
Trans-cultural marriages are seeing instability
The latest statistics from Fengtai People’s Court unveils that marriages
involving Chinese natives and foreigners are increasingly unstable these
years. The divorces are seeing rocketing over the years.
Fengtai is a district of Beijing, larger than the tiny small countries in
the world. It’s a fashion for the Chinese women to marry foreigners,
regardless of the quality, personality and pote... 阅读全帖 |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 8 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
aixiaoxiaoyu (我爱小小鱼) 于 (Thu Apr 4 23:00:28 2013, 美东) 提到:
我看你还是闭嘴的好
life
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babycitybear (小熊) 于 (Thu Apr 4 23:05:59 2013, 美东) 提到:
你的朋友是做social security的？
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katharinezl (linlin) 于 (Thu Apr 4 23:06:34 2013, 美东) 提到:
是啊，有空靠别人，怎么没空靠自己呢，随便去看一下，都不需要几分钟就知道了到底
怎么回事，下面是benefit 以及要求，哪里有什么存款的condition
following is for suvivor's benefit：children & widower
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When you apply... 阅读全帖 |
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j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 9 your logic is wrong.
They want good men for themselves, but they don't want their men to love
other women.
Women talk about divorce, just to test if their men still love them or not,
they don't really want divorce, no woman really want divorce. |
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t******n
发帖数: 2939 | 10 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
spruce (espruce) 于 (Thu Dec 12 12:41:15 2013, 美东) 提到:
一方面，丈夫出轨后妻子大多坚决要离婚。似乎女人很讨厌男人出轨。
另一方面，小三也是女人，怎么会和已婚男人搞到一起。再就是出轨男人离婚后很快就
有新的女人扑上来。
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mlong (思妩妹) 于 (Thu Dec 12 12:43:11 2013, 美东) 提到:
离婚男人是块宝。。。：）
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xdcr (咸蛋超人) 于 (Thu Dec 12 12:57:01 2013, 美东) 提到:
出轨不分性别，就看你是用上半身还是下半身思考
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cokejj (coke舅舅) 于 (Thu Dec 12 14:19:46 2013, 美东) 提... 阅读全帖 |
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j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 11 There are a lot of case such as not paying child support, domestic abuse, if
women really enforce the law, many men would be in jail.
But they have mercy on their men even though they have divorced, or in the
process or divorce. These facts proved that women are more loving, merciful
and forgiving than men.
Now there is a case of American guy doing terrible stuff to his divorced
wife who happen to be a Chinese.
You as a Chinese, do want to lift a finger to help your own kind, but want
beat her ... 阅读全帖 |
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W*******n
发帖数: 4140 | 12 来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 我想我的家 She should treat me equally as herself. She should not think about the
fucking American prostitution right to run away and be hidden away by
prostitutes and thugs. If she had made a lot of right decisions on her own
important things, she would have been a licensed nurse and kept a good job
and earned a decent money. If she actually wants to follow my advice and
later changes a lot of her mind and behavior, then she should not think
about separation and divorce from me first. I did not meddle her... 阅读全帖 |
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r*****d
发帖数: 1924 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: novel127 (开着拖拉机迎接冬天的到来), 信区: Military
标 题: 纽约议员craigslist找女人被告发
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 9 18:55:11 2011, 美东)
Rep. Christopher Lee is a married Republican congressman serving the 26th
District of New York. But when he trolls Craigslist's "Women Seeking Men"
forum, he's Christopher Lee, "divorced" "lobbyist" and "fit fun classy guy."
One object of his flirtation told us her story.
On the morning of Friday, January 14, a single 34-year-old woman put an ad
in the "Wom... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********f
发帖数: 1938 | 14 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
spinhi (spinhi) 于 (Tue Apr 26 15:17:12 2011, 美东) 提到:
和男朋友在网上认识1年时间，一直两地。大约一个月见一次面。我要毕业了，所以最
近很认真的讨论了将来的打算。最后两人商量打算8月份结婚，具体事宜都讨论过了，
一切从简。之后他说要和家里商量一下，我就觉得有点怪。后来过了两个星期他跟我说
他爸妈觉得我们认识时间太短，并且偶尔还有矛盾，应该再相处一下看看。我问他怎么
想，他说他也是这样想的。我突然有种被欺骗的感觉。两人相处矛盾是不可避免的。如
果他觉得要PERFECT才能结婚，那和他在一起十年也不会等到那一天的。我在电话里骂
他是骗子，信口开河，把婚姻当儿戏，还把父母拿出来作挡箭牌。他说我目的性太强，
self-centered,不符合我的意思就不行，说他没骗我只想继续相处一段时间。
我非常伤心，觉得他这样出尔反尔，毫无责任感，就算我不计较这次，以他自我中心的
性格，也不知道他以后会不会再让我伤心。我的第一反应是和他分手。大家帮我出出主
意。是否还要... 阅读全帖 |
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m******j
发帖数: 5079 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 SanDiego 讨论区 】
发信人: yudeli (余德利), 信区: SanDiego
标 题: [合集] working widow/widower SSA benefit
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 2 16:45:36 2014, 美东)
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accos (socca) 于 (Tue Mar 12 13:23:37 2013, 美东) 提到:
The mother or father who cares for a dependent child of the deceased worker.
The child must be under the age of 16 (or disabled before 22). This mother
or father’s benefit is different than a widow or widower’s benefit in that
it can be paid to someone of ... 阅读全帖 |
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A*****t
发帖数: 1594 | 16 楼下都同意吗？ 好像反应divorce主题的，《中国式xx》,<手机>什么的，都是女的先
提divorce. 男的被divorced.{怪不得语法都是被动语态}。 |
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e*********e
发帖数: 2013 | 17 This sounds like a very reasonable prenup (If she is not precluded from
inheritance and he does not keep his
income separate property once they get married).
Look at the divorce rate, what makes her think that she will never divorce?
In reality having a prenup helps to avoid ugly disputes when a couple
decides to end the relationship. It
makes divorce clean and less painful. |
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C********e
发帖数: 2327 | 18 The divorce rate in America for first marriage is 41%
The divorce rate in America for second marriage is 60%
The divorce rate in America for third marriage is 73%
其实一婚的离婚率是40% |
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n*****d
发帖数: 5 | 19 ★性别:female
☆取向：male
★出生年份:1978， wish I were younger
★所在地(至少明确state):PA,Philadelphia
★职业情况(学生还是工作):student
★简单的物理参数(身高/体重):160/120
☆属相，血型、星座:A,
★当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/离异/丧偶):divorced
☆离异/丧偶，有无子女：No
★联系方式(email/IM/站内):h******[email protected]
☆本人是否照片：not here
☆是否要求对方提供照片：prefer :)
☆是否需要版主关闭讨论：（如果需要请站内联系版主）No
You don't have many money. That doesn't matter.
You got divorced. That doesn't matter. I would say with kids is preferred.
You don't have PHD degree. That doesn't matter.
But do you love beautiful things lik... 阅读全帖 |
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r***n
发帖数: 298 | 20 there are always moments of ups and downs
in one's life. which is ok. but i do believe divorce
will not solve her problems, because she could
divorce a man, but never could divorce her
own responsibilities, perseverance, goals,
purposes of life, and hardwork - whether being
a single or re-married, and whether in USA or
China or any other corner of the world. |
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G******e
发帖数: 9567 | 21 看看Eloihim给的证据：
http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_dira.htm
Donald Hughes, author of The Divorce Reality, said:
"In the churches, people have a superstitious view that Christianity
will keep them from divorce, but they are subject to the same problems as
everyone else, and they include a lack of relationship skills. ...Just being
born again is not a rabbit's foot."
Hughes claim that 90% of divorces among born-again couples occur after they
have been "saved."
所有的调查都没问：你是不是真正的基督徒？这真是个遗憾啊。不过这 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 22 The Relativity of Biblical Ethics
by Joe Edward Barnhart (1988)
It is an axiom among fundamentalists and evangelicals that theology is the
foundation of ethics and morality in North America culture. Without this
foundation, they fear, ethics would fragment into total relativism of
dissolve into whim, arbitrariness, and chaos. I would like to contest that
view by showing how some organized religions are parasitical to the body of
ethics and how the Bible itself exemplifies moral relativism.
Vario... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 23 有意思
Barna report: Variation in divorce rates among Christian faith groups:
Denomination (in order of decreasing divorce rate)
% who have been divorced
Non-denominational ** 34%
Baptists 29%
Mainline Protestants 25%
Mormons 24%
Catholics 21%
Lutherans 21%
** Barna uses the term "non-denominational" to refer to Evangelical
Christian congregations that are not affiliated with a specific denomination
. The vast majority are fundamentalist in their theological beliefs. |
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G******e
发帖数: 9567 | 24 http://www.usatoday.com/news/religion/2011-03-14-divorce-christ
Wright combed through the General Social Survey, a vast demographic study
conducted by the National Opinion Research Center at the University of
Chicago, and found that Christians, like adherents of other religions, have
a divorce rate of about 42%. The rate among religiously unaffiliated
Americans is 50%.
When Wright examined the statistics on evangelicals, he found worship
attendance has a big influence on the numbers. Six in 10 e... 阅读全帖 |
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B*********e
发帖数: 254 | 25 如果你要知道圣经里面的定义，有个信仰告白总结的很清楚，请自己去查经
第二十四章 论结婚与离婚
一、结婚是一男一女之间的事；若男人同时有一个以上的妻子，女人有一个以上的
丈夫，都不合法1。
二、婚姻制度的设置乃为夫妻的互助2，按正道生儿养女，繁殖人类，增加教会圣洁
的后裔3，并防止污秽不洁4。
三、凡能用自己的判断而表同意的各等人都可以结婚5。但基督徒的本份是只当在主
里面结婚6。所以承认真正改革派宗教的人，不应与不信派，天主教徒，或其他拜偶像的
人结婚。敬虔的人不可借着与那些在生活上罪恶昭彰，或持守可诅异端的人结婚，而同
负一轭7。
四、不可在神言所禁止的血族或姻族的亲等内结婚8，此等乱伦的婚娶不能因人为的
律法，或双方的同意就成为夫妇同居的合法婚姻9。若鳏寡娶嫁，男人不可娶其妻之至近
的亲属，女人亦不可嫁其夫至亲近的亲属，正如男女不可娶嫁自己至近的亲属一样10。
五、婚约之后所犯的通奸或淫行，如在结婚之前被发见，清白者的一方乃有解除婚
约的正当理由11。结婚后犯奸淫，清白者一方可以提出离婚12，并于离婚之后，视犯罪
者一方如同已死，与他人结婚乃认为合法13。
六、人的败坏虽然有利于辩... 阅读全帖 |
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j********1
发帖数: 628 | 26 来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 翻译问题 马太 19:9-19:12
英文版里（Standard English Version, New King James Version, etc）有eunuch一
词，中文和合版译为阉人，中文标准版译为独身者，这意思相差太多了。现在主流意见
是前两种是实指，第三种是metaphor。申命记 23:1 说“凡外腎受傷的，或被閹割的，
不可入耶和華的會”(和合版）。如此说来这两个翻译都是有问题的。
葵花宝典可能是从这几句马太获得的灵感。
另外这几句也告诉童鞋们男人无故休妻再娶是罪，娶被休的女人也是罪，大家要注意了
。女人休夫应该是可以的吧。
所以男童鞋想根小三结婚的应该这样操作：先告诉老婆你把我休了吧，老婆必须绝对服
从老公，所以必须休了男人，男人然后再娶就可以了。原来的老婆也可以再嫁不必担心
新老公犯罪。
Mattew 19:8-19:12 (NKJV)
8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts,
permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the b... 阅读全帖 |
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E*****m
发帖数: 25615 | 27 http://www.vancouversun.com/business/Religious+Canadians+bend+m
Religious Canadians bend morals for the almighty buck: study
BY MISTY HARRIS, POSTMEDIA NEWS OCTOBER 23, 2013
Religious Canadians bend morals for the almighty buck: study
A new Canadian study has found that the more importance people place on
religion, the more likely they are to lie for financial gain.
Photograph by: Fotolia/File , Postmedia News
Do unto others — so long as you recognize them from church.
Incongruous as it sounds, ... 阅读全帖 |
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G*M
发帖数: 6042 | 28 An Evangelical Christian pollster finds that atheists commit less crimes,
divorce less, and are better educated than their fellow Christians. “It is
obvious that you do not have to believe in a higher power in order to live a
moral and successful life. Quite the opposite,” the Knoxville News‘ Al
Westerfield writes of the study, adding that “the groups with the highest
crime rate, the poorest marriages and the lowest education continually
strive to force their beliefs on the nonreligious. And the... 阅读全帖 |
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z********o
发帖数: 18304 | 29
CNN 的report是不是小道消息？你这样闭着基眼否认事实有意思吗？
"Bible belt has nation's worse divorce rate," CNN.com, 1999-NOV-12. Online
at: http://www.cnn.com/ (Cache copy as of 2000-FEB-11. The page has since expired.) A similar report is at: http://www.divorcereform.org/
还有：
Donald Hughes, "The Divorce Reality." 109 pages. This is an eBook written
from a positive, conservative Christian. It can be purchased and then
downloaded from Theatron Media at: www.Bookstore.TheatronMedia.com
下面这个是小道消息？
"Bible Belt Leads U.S. I... 阅读全帖 |
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y**********o
发帖数: 7947 | 30 午休期间阅读这一段，和大家分享
"If a man did inform his wife of the desire to divorce, using the word "
Talaq, " and he uttered it serially, three times, after that the marriage
can only be dissolved after three months and not in that instant, a commonly
held misperception.
Muslims must continue to live in their married home under the same roof but
retreat from sexual relations during that time.
In fact the wait is determined by three cycles of the woman's period. In
this way the wife will discover if she may... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****w
发帖数: 43 | 31 on law, Michael speaks for Terri. If Terri(through Micheal) wants to divorce,
the issue will become "Micheal asks the court to allow him to divorce
himself". Technically, court can do this, but Micheal just does not want to
divorce "himself". |
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s*******f
发帖数: 109 | 32 1)if both parties agree to divorce, things will become much easier. But
simply giving up everthing except the baby is not a good idea. You should
get the share of the property you are entitled to. Three most important
issues during divorce are: division of property, custody of child and the
child support. It is not complex to divide the property and not expensive to
ask a lawyer to draft a legally sensible divorce agreement. Some lawyers in
the Immigration Board (like Jerry Zhang, Jeff Xie etc., |
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m*****9
发帖数: 152 | 33 I don't want any money. I'm just very upset and want her to stop this. This
is not the first time she's done this kind of things. I'm just hoping to get
her to make a public apology.
I know it's confusing, even after I forward my mother-in-law's (American)
message to a co-worker (American) of mine, she didn't understand what was
going on.
Keep it simple. My husband's family are Americans. My husband was
asking me whether I filed a divorce on him or not because his mom told him
this on the phone.... 阅读全帖 |
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h*******l
发帖数: 1542 | 34 看完了录像了，深有感触啊。七个哈佛医学生毕业后十几年的轨道截然不同, 一半以上HMS的医生混的很惨，基本都离婚(two medical students couple divorced and both remarried, the JHK eye doctor divorced, Tom divorced three times)，有的还被解雇(Tom)，或者干别的什么了(the black lady)。只有one duke professor混的好。
医生的这个职业risks太太太大了，吃医生这碗饭真不容易啊！而且没有tenure...
http://www.amazon.com/NOVA-Doctors-Diaries-Michael-Barnes/dp/B0
可以在netflix 在线看
几年前看过前半部分，Making of a doctor, 很受感染，终于下定决心考试。昨天看了
续集，七个哈佛医学生毕业后十几年的轨道截然不同，让人感慨万分。每个人能做到的
也只能是坚持自己的信念，一直走下去，无怨无悔。
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Making of a doctor [videorecord... 阅读全帖 |
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