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f*****8
发帖数: 5996 | 2 倒插门
dàochāmén
[marry into and live with one's bride's family] 结婚后男子到女方家里落户
，就是男方“嫁”到女方家里，吃的，穿的用的，几乎都是女方家庭所供给的。并且女
方提供住房，吃穿等所有待遇，倒插门后，一般男人在家里照顾女方的父母，还要洗衣
，做饭等日常家务，女方出去赚钱来养家糊口。
同义词：入赘，上门女婿
把女娶男或者说结婚后男的到女家落户叫“倒插门”。
前些年，在实行计划生育之前，倒插门的女方，一般是没有儿子，有两个以上闺女
，尽管政策还允许生，但老两口感到心有余而力不足，就把希望寄托在招女婿上。倒插
门的男方，一般是兄弟比较多，家庭生活比较贫困，没有经济能力娶亲，不得不到女方
的屋檐下生活，虽然不大情愿，但总比没有媳妇强。
古代的门旁边都有个插栓的，锁门用的，现在倒过来了，是外面人的来开的，这是
一件会被人笑的事，笑这个做门的师傅技术太差。形容男方入住女方家里，说这个男的
不行被人笑意思。
“倒插门”的学名叫“入赘”，旧指结婚时男到女方家定居，改姓女方姓氏，成为
女方家的“儿子”，继承女方门第,生的孩子随女方姓氏。倒 |
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s*****g
发帖数: 2140 | 3 If you marry a second or third generation, most likely the bride pays for
the wedding banquet. |
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e*****r
发帖数: 621 | 4 The American tradition is the bride's parents prepare for the wedding. |
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y*e
发帖数: 9799 | 5 Are you gonna have a wedding? Usually the bride's parents cover all wedding
expenses which around 30K nowadays |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 6 I heard that according for American family, it is the Bride's family to take
care the wedding cost. So, maybe you will pay the wedding cost yourself? |
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c**********8
发帖数: 165 | 7 I think a lot of comments here are quite unfair to LZ's mother. Even if her
mother's approach is not the best, her feelings are totally understandable.
As a mother, she wants the best for her daughter, and as a Chinese mother,
her expectations are not unreasonable. Her mom feels bad for her daughter
because she cares and loves her daughter. Understanding that is the first
step to trying to resolve the issue between LZ and her mom.
Those of you who criticize LZ and her mother for feeling dis... 阅读全帖 |
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s***o
发帖数: 1189 | 8
hahaha, you can say that again.
And for those who don't know, even a "sexual" bride can be platonic.
Try sue that! |
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p*******g
发帖数: 2976 | 9 【 以下文字转载自 Returnee 讨论区 】
发信人: paopaodog (qqlove), 信区: Returnee
标 题: 介绍：什么是清明梦 （转贴）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 7 13:56:00 2011, 美东)
很有意思， 但会不会走火入魔啊。。
---------------------------------------------
什么是清明梦？
清明梦(Lucid Dream)是指知道自己在做梦的梦，并且当意识到自己在梦里时，可以改
变梦境。通过练习，还能够对自己的梦完全掌控的程度。你能创造任何脑中能想到的东
西，改变环境，甚至可以改变自己的外貌，和亚伯拉罕林肯聊天，或者飞跃大峡谷。
最早的清明梦的记载可以追溯到五世纪，是St.Augustine在公元415年写的一封信。另
一个著名的关于清明梦的记载来自于八世纪西藏喇嘛写的一本关于死亡的书。喇嘛记录
了一种专门的瑜伽，用来在梦境中保持绝对的清醒。这份古老的文件据说比我们现在所
知的要更加深入。
从人类做梦开始，清醒梦就已经存在了。“清明梦”这个词最早出现在Frederik van... 阅读全帖 |
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e****e
发帖数: 2740 | 10 【 以下文字转载自 Love 讨论区 】
发信人: evence (硬猫), 信区: Love
标 题: 大家有什么婚礼礼物可以推荐的?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 21 10:33:14 2012, 美东)
young white couples 20's
the bride's sister help me a lot when I first came to US, and they invite me
very formally with invitation card sent me 4 months before the marriage
date.
PS maybe sth not above $50 because I am still a student |
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c**4
发帖数: 1316 | 12 The magazines below are $.50 each or five for $2. I have subscriptions to
them and they come monthly or weekly (depending on the magazine/when it is
published). If you would like any of those listed, let me know. there're
back issues back to 2012/2013/2014/2015 and also current issues in 2016 for
all months.
if you would like to get any future issues, I can send future subscription
to your address at 15usd/ per year/ per magazine type. if u want some other
magazines, pls just ask and I can get i... 阅读全帖 |
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c**4
发帖数: 1316 | 13 The magazines below are $.50 each or five for $2. I have subscriptions to
them and they come monthly or weekly (depending on the magazine/when it is
published). If you would like any of those listed, let me know. there're
back issues back to 2012/2013/2014/2015 and also current issues in 2016 for
all months.
if you would like to get any future issues, I can send future subscription
to your address at 15usd/ per year/ per magazine type. if u want some other
magazines, pls just ask and I can get i... 阅读全帖 |
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c**4
发帖数: 1316 | 14 The magazines below are $.50 each or five for $2. I have subscriptions to
them and they come monthly or weekly (depending on the magazine/when it is
published). If you would like any of those listed, let me know. there're
back issues back to 2012/2013/2014/2015 and also current issues in 2016 for
all months.
if you would like to get any future issues, I can send future subscription
to your address at 10usd/ per year/ per magazine type. if u want some other
magazines, pls just ask and I can get i... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****m
发帖数: 1010 | 15 终于在龙年的第一天，我们结束了单身！ 虽然今天的天气不太好，但是丝毫不能动摇
我和LD结婚的决心。 我们风雨无阻的来到县政府，在法庭上当着一群陌生人的面说了
“yes, I do”......听别人说时没觉得什么，轮到了自己还真有点激动。 我只知道自
己一个劲儿的在傻笑。 当法官说“You may now kiss the bride”时，LD仍旧在那一
动不动的傻笑.....我hold不住了，直接冲上去给他一个吻，他才清醒过来。 我们就这
样结婚啦！
自己给做一顿新年的喜宴吧....
上菜咯.....
1) 三鲜饺子
2）小鸡炖蘑菇
3）兴国豆腐
4）腰果虾仁
5）蛋皮鱼卷
6）拌凉菜（白菜） |
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c***d
发帖数: 996 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 shopping 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: DoctorS (沙野博士), 信区: shopping
标 题: 高档HIFI DIY
发信站: The unknown SPACE (Fri May 23 13:57:54 2003) WWW-POST
针对ＨＩＦＩ发烧友
到ＨＩＦＩ 俱乐部转了一下，发现大家在讨论那些上千刀的音响设备.
其实留学生有的是时间,缺的是钱,如果确实发烧的话, 可以考虑DIY.
这个网站有一些DIY的极品.
http://passdiy.com/
例子:
Zen Lite (Amplifier)
Bride of Zen(Preamplifier) |
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T**********r
发帖数: 52 | 17 Future in-law wants to meet the bride. Lol. |
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n********e
发帖数: 41 | 18 楼主 看到 你 isDiffByOne 函数就知道你必然要超时
Leetcode免费给你用 就别挑剔了。凡事要先从自身找问题
你那个测试不是大数据
真正的大数据在这里：
start = "nanny";
end = "aloud";
String[] d = {"ricky","grind","cubic","panic","lover","farce","gofer
","sales","flint","omens","lipid","briny","cloth","anted","slime","oaten","
harsh","touts","stoop","cabal","lazed","elton","skunk","nicer","pesky","
kusch","bused","kinda","tunis","enjoy","aches","prowl","babar","rooms","
burst","slush","pines","urine","pinky","bayed","mania","light","flare","
wares","wom... 阅读全帖 |
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f***8
发帖数: 510 | 19 两个子，要么就是扯淡，要么就是你同学（所谓得四大牛人）太傻。
美国工作从来都是AT WILL，公司还生怕你不知道是AT WILL，OFFER会又特别一点反复
强调。
我老说过，在AT WILL得前提下，理论上什么都可以。具体上要做倒DONT BURN BRIDE。
即使拒OFFER，又人可以做倒让AMAZON说”if anything change on your side, let us
know", 有人可以被告状（虽然我觉得还是扯淡）,自己想想该怎么做把 |
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W***n
发帖数: 11530 | 20 Entry Level Field Engineer-Start Date January 1, 2017
American Bridge Company 3 reviews - United States
American Bridge Company
Job Title: Field Engineer
Location: Various Locations
Reports To: Project Manager
FLSA Status: Exempt
Summary
The Field Engineer position will be responsible for the procurement and
management of suppliers along with the supervision of field crews and
coordination between subcontractors involved with the construction of
various marine and Bride assignments.
Requirements... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****n
发帖数: 3 | 21 Los Angeles Times
More than miles apart
California newcomers must leap the stunning home-price gap. It makes some
think twice.
By Marnell Jameson
Special to The Times
March 27, 2005
When Erik Mellquist graduated from the University of Michigan in 2003 with
an engineering degree, he had a plan: Get married. Find a job. Buy a house.
The bride and the job proved the easy part. He and his fiancée, Emily, also
an engineering student, married three weeks after they graduated. About the
same time, Erik |
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p**********9
发帖数: 3463 | 22 for formal wedding,
男士穿正式西服，领带，
女士 cocktail dress, no white or cream coz the bride will wear white or
cream.
kids: boy, suits; girl: dress. |
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n********1
发帖数: 197 | 23 What's wrong with that? One of my friend married a white American boy. In
the morning of the wedding day, he dressed in the traditional Vietnam dress
and brought some packages of 馒头 and other thing and asked the brides
parents for the permission to marry their daughter. Of course they have to
take a pledge before god. The only thing missing is the pig head because it
is hard to get here. Your husband did it very right according to the
tradition. |
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c*******r
发帖数: 527 | 24 If you only want to talk about "the anchor baby". You are using the same
argument that GOP is using in attempt to overturn the birth right. It is
hugely a false propanganda considering that the poor families here are not
getting the freebies you are insinuating here. Yo are talking about the
illusion, a similar one that a lot of mail-order brides use to hypnotize
themselves that they would be taken care of here simply by their western
guys or the more sensible goverment.
And again, I bet that mo |
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i*********k
发帖数: 596 | 25 这些天一遍一遍地听这两首歌。
最喜欢第一首里的这句歌词。
In all that I've done wrong I know I must
have done something right to deserve a hug
every morning and butterfly kisses at night.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmC3rJR7E98
There's two things I know for sure:
She was sent here from heaven and she's
daddy's little girl.
As I drop to my knees by her bed at night
She talks to Jesus and I close my eyes and
I thank god for all the joy in my life
Oh, but most of all
For butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer;
sticking littl... 阅读全帖 |
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p**f
发帖数: 2610 | 26 不是较真,你觉得这个世界的基本规则是什么?
我觉得,想让一个人做他不想做的事情(或者说,让别人合作),威逼利诱是最常用的方法,
讲道理,引导如
果能行的通的话,不过是伪装的比较好的令一个层面的威逼利诱而已. 不好说哪个比哪
个更先进.
至于 bride这个说法, 是个贬义词. 讲道理也可以有很多贬义词,比如 mind
control,brainwashing. 在成人世界里,这些也不是理想的做法...对了,成人世界里,什
么是理想
的做法? |
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s***n
发帖数: 2366 | 27 http://www.npr.org/2012/06/20/155431944/asian-americans-on-the-
On Tuesday, the Pew Research Center released a study that found Asian-
Americans have surpassed Hispanics as the fastest growing racial group in
the U.S. Plus, the report showed that they're the highest earning and best-
educated. Host Michel Martin discusses the findings and the implications of
these demographic changes with three experts.
Copyright © 2012 National Public Radio®. For personal,
noncommercial use only. See ... 阅读全帖 |
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g*********9
发帖数: 3528 | 28 等请柬吧。。。。
要去的话，人头费cover，带不带小孩看请柬上说。3岁的如果点名要带也得照顾周全。
bride |
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r**f
发帖数: 444 | 29 我没参加过几次，瞎说一下。
礼物我都是给钱，不太熟的看婚礼的规格。一般是把那个饭钱给出来。一个人100左右
。不少于50。
孩子不到3岁有点小，真要看孩子会不会闹。
不当花童的话，打扮漂亮一点儿。一般dress就可以了。
bride |
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b****s
发帖数: 10197 | 30 人家邀请的是你和你老公, 不包括你家宝宝, 所以你要去的话, 是不应该带宝宝的.
bride |
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m*****O
发帖数: 3558 | 31 要是真心不想去就别去了
大多数婚礼一般都没啥意思
bride |
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n********h
发帖数: 13135 | 32 这个真心不懂。因为我参加的婚礼，都算是男方的朋友。 不知道BRIDE SHOWER这个东
东。一般是registry, 有比较CLOSE的直接说给钱，因为要毕业搬家，东西不好搬。
registry 有贵有便宜的。比较好的朋友，挑贵的买，不太熟的，可以挑便宜的。 |
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M******e
发帖数: 1437 | 33 不熟的同事就不要去了，尤其你已经为她的bridal shower 意思过了。
Bridal shower 是婚前女方好友的庆祝，如果你去参加婚礼，应该再给礼物的。
bride |
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t**o
发帖数: 1858 | 34 送过不用再送了吧，我们收过的请柬都会写，请不要把礼物带去现场噢。
宝宝1岁左右的带去过婚礼，她肯定是坐不住的啦，所以正式ceremony的时候，有一个
人要陪着她在外面溜达，也看什么样的婚礼，有些婚礼很多小孩，会在教堂留个地方给
小朋友玩。
我们给穿了小宝宝的礼服，如果正式教堂婚礼还是要跟大人差不多formal的吧，看
dress code了。
不过不很熟的朋友，就算被邀请也不是非得去啦，婚礼上新人很忙的，都不一定能注意
到谁去了。
bride |
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n*****a
发帖数: 112 | 35 同意，最好不要带孩子。有些人的婚礼都会明说不让带孩子，你要提前问了还好（好朋
友也许还行），要冒冒失失把孩子带上，人家不说，心里也肯定不高兴。要去就找人带
，end of the story.
bride |
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b*********e
发帖数: 85 | 36 我们一岁多去过朋友婚礼，ceremony带他在附近溜达就好，之后吃饭跳舞小朋友玩的很
high，好多bride轮流来带他去跳舞，我趁机大吃，嘿嘿 |
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g*********9
发帖数: 3528 | 37 看看这个电影就明白了：
father of the bride.
养个女儿，钱上门不要说了，出嫁时对老爹伤害太深。我参加过的几场嫁女儿婚礼，老
爹都是泪汪汪或醉醺醺的。老妈是真开心，老爹是真伤心。 |
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c******i
发帖数: 4091 | 38 I'm an Asian Woman and I Refuse to Ever Date an Asian Man
It has nothing to do with skin color. It has everything to do with
patriarchy. And guess what? More and more “racist”-against-Asian-men Asian
women are getting on the white boy bandwagon.
Jenny An
Aug 31, 2012 at 1:00pm | Leave a comment
I'm an Asian girl. I don't date Asian guys. Yep, I'm one of those that date
lots and lots of (mostly, but not always) white guys.
Why? It's simple: I'm a racist.
Yep, I said it.
And guess what? I’m not al... 阅读全帖 |
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k******s
发帖数: 237 | 39 上周末，奥巴马总统带着女儿玛利亚在华盛顿的政治和散文书店买书。
华盛顿——奥巴马总统从未踏足车臣崎岖的山区，但如果他翻开上周末自己购买的
小说中那本《生命如不朽繁星》(A Constellation of Vital Phenomena)，他便会被带
往那片暴力和悲剧不断的土地。在那里，无辜者被卷入战争的几率和战斗人员一样高。
或许，在今年波士顿马拉松比赛现场的爆炸案让车臣重返各大媒体的头版位置后，
奥巴马正寻求更深入地了解族裔流血冲突的根源。也可能，他是在思索自己同俄罗斯的
紧张关系。
不管怎样，相比于办公桌上那些满是图表的情报文件，这部小说能让奥巴马总统对
世界上冲突最残酷地区之一形成更为深切的感性认识。
“我想，身处他这个位置的人总是会接收大量事实和数据，”该书作者安东尼·马
拉(Anthony Marra)沉思着说，“但这部小说是关于经历、关于心理和灵魂的。”
阅读清单打开了一扇通往总统内心世界的难得的窗户，让外界得以窥见，除了那些
占据了他白天大部分时间的重复而平淡的简报外，这位总司令官可能还会想些什么。白
宫床头柜上的书会让总统放松心情、逃离烦心事或是得到灵感。有时，它们还... 阅读全帖 |
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A***u
发帖数: 3714 | 40 Google了一下，找到一堆List。求大家推荐，最好也有中文的翻译的，这样好教中文。
谢谢
http://www.fairytales.biz/list.html
List of Fairy Tales
A
Adventures of Chanticleer and Partlet
Aged Mother, The
Aladdin and the Wonderful Lamp
Ali Baba and the Forty Thieves
Alice in Wonderland
Angel, The
B
Bearskin
Beauty and the Beast
Beetle who went on his Travels, The
Bell, The
Blue Beard
Blue Light, The
Bright Sun Brings It to Light, The
Brother and Sister
Brother Lustig
C
Caliph ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********o
发帖数: 3030 | 41 Take your child to a playground everyday, play a board game (or weiqi :)
with them every night, zoo or other places every weekend, etc.
The parents who have to bride their children with material stuff most likely
don't spend time with them.
Your child will be the point of envy at school. |
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b*****j
发帖数: 1335 | 42 magazine names:
brides
allure
cosmopolitan
time
instyle
vogue
entertainment weekly
virology, |
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j*****g
发帖数: 7513 | 43 原来是这样！
The original "French White" Corningware was made of Corning's famous
pyroceramic glass, which could be used on the gas stove, put directly in the
freezer, put under the broiler right from the freezer, and oh yes, also
used in a microwave. And it was very unlikely to shatter if dropped. If you
pounded on it with a hammer and nail you might have gotten it to break.
When World Kitchens bought the license from Corning, they decided to halt
production of a line of cookware that would take anyt... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 44 By ANDREW JACOBS
BEIJING — Liu Yang, a coal miner’s daughter, arrived in the capital
this past summer with a freshly printed diploma from Datong University, $140
in her wallet and an air of invincibility.
北京— 刘扬是一位矿工的女儿，今年夏天怀揣大同大学新近颁发的毕业文凭和1000元
人民币来到北京时，眼前似乎没有战胜不了的困难。
Her first taste of reality came later the same day, as she lugged her
bags through a ramshackle neighborhood, not far from the Olympic Village,
where tens of thousands of other young strivers cram four to a room.
到达北... 阅读全帖 |
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z******i
发帖数: 721 | 45 Since China is a society ruled by Chinese Communist Party-actually ruled by
the head of CCP at different levels, NOT ruled by law, an offer or any
contract means almost nothing when the people in power change their mind.
How to protect your rights? No best answer. The only you can do includes:
1. Marry the CCP official's crippled daughter or son;
2. Or marry his direct relatives;
3. Bride him;
Your asking this question shows that you are too naive to be suitable to
return to China. Stay in the S... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******g
发帖数: 2976 | 46 很有意思， 但会不会走火入魔啊。。
---------------------------------------------
什么是清明梦？
清明梦(Lucid Dream)是指知道自己在做梦的梦，并且当意识到自己在梦里时，可以改
变梦境。通过练习，还能够对自己的梦完全掌控的程度。你能创造任何脑中能想到的东
西，改变环境，甚至可以改变自己的外貌，和亚伯拉罕林肯聊天，或者飞跃大峡谷。
最早的清明梦的记载可以追溯到五世纪，是St.Augustine在公元415年写的一封信。另
一个著名的关于清明梦的记载来自于八世纪西藏喇嘛写的一本关于死亡的书。喇嘛记录
了一种专门的瑜伽，用来在梦境中保持绝对的清醒。这份古老的文件据说比我们现在所
知的要更加深入。
从人类做梦开始，清醒梦就已经存在了。“清明梦”这个词最早出现在Frederik van
Eeden的论文《A Study of Dreams》,发表在1913年的《精神研究会学报》上。（他还
写了篇小说《The Bride of Dreams》）。从那以后，“清明梦”被主流接受。
进入清明梦的前骤
“我不做梦的。”你是否听别人这么说过？或者你自... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 638 | 47 All the benefit went to himself!
Who else got the benefits except those brided?
The government collected less duty tax, then it need to collect more taxes
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发帖数: 16092 | 49 The next day Bill Gates got married, the reporters
jokingly asked the bride Melinda Gates: " how
was Bill? " Guess what her answer was....
Microsoft |
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