r****r 发帖数: 891 | 1 昨天第二次therapy. 这回仔细观察了下诊所的环境.两名接待员都是good looking
good manner的男生. DR. C和DR.S是附近声名显赫的Gay Couple,一个做心理咨询,一个
做牙医.
我说我累得很, 什么也不想说.DR.C.在一块白板上开始讲解他如何治疗病人. talk
talk and talk. When we get to a sensitive point that you feel hurt, we will
stop and talk about something else.
然后他列举了一堆"sensitive point", 说到abandonness,loneliness的时候,我觉得想
哭.碰到sensitive point了? 或者大多数抑郁的人都会觉得being abandoned and
lonely? 我还有guilt...还是说不出话来.
Take medicine...you will feel better and we will talk next week.
从诊所出来碰到tropical storm,雨好大风好 | w***a 发帖数: 1159 | 2 姐, 刚才跟你开玩笑. 笑了吗?
姐现实生活中每天也要把自己打伴得美美的, 要先爱自己, 才能爱别人.为什么要feel
guilty? You already bring home the big beacon,还要 be good mom. been a
working mom 在美国以经很难了, I think you are doing a wonderful job already.
牌友又是gay, 又没给他带绿帽,你不应该feel guilty. what have him contribute
to your marriage?
I feel I am like Dr. Phil now, ugh, and what can I say about marriage.
Anyway, 姐, 坚持吃药, 但别喝酒, , please. we all love you and
got your back. |
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