p*****g
发帖数: 172 | 1 haven't followed up all the emails, don't have time tojust have some feeling
of this topic
I transferred from University of Tenn to Columbia this fall semester
These are two completely different life styles,
the one in TN, very relaxed, lot of time for fun, but somewhat boring,
I can't see my future there, and the major is not what I want
the one in Columbia, very stressful, busy,i don't have enough sleep everyday
especially feeling pressured when considering the tuition I paid, but enjoyable
, | c*****r
发帖数: 127 | 2 Transferring to another school does not necessarily mean changing one's
major. Some people considering tranferring, like sysygut, is because
they love their major, and want to find a better place to indulge
themselves in what they love, not because they don't like their current
major and want to start a new career. I think that's one key difference
between you and sysygut in this discussion.
It is always easy to change when one is young and has no family concern,
but it is often hard to preserve
【在 p*****g 的大作中提到】
: haven't followed up all the emails, don't have time tojust have some feeling
: of this topic
: I transferred from University of Tenn to Columbia this fall semester
: These are two completely different life styles,
: the one in TN, very relaxed, lot of time for fun, but somewhat boring,
: I can't see my future there, and the major is not what I want
: the one in Columbia, very stressful, busy,i don't have enough sleep everyday
: especially feeling pressured when considering the tuition I paid, but enjoyable
: ,
| m********a
发帖数: 559 | 3 谢谢你的贴子.看的出来,你从这次转学经验中体会到了很多生活的
真谛.
人生是有阶段的,我一向用电子场理论来论证一个人一生的经历.人
一生应该有几个关键的跃迁,这样你才能够从一个低水平的徘徊上升
到一个高的阶段.
饭要一口一口吃,关键是自己要明白自己到底要什么.而这一点是很
难的.我大学毕业的时候,一个同学回了他自己的家乡,一个小地级市,
因为那里有他爱的人,虽然他得到了从大公司很好的offer.我当时特别
不理解他的作法,因为我觉得一辈子在一个小地方呆着是很可悲的.
而现在,我开始理解他的作法,虽然我自己不会那样.
人生的路是很漫长的.现在的社会机会很多,我们这一代人又很浮躁,
所以幸福与否,成功与否,只是一个相对的过程,或许只有等到我们老
了之后,回头审视,才能看清除自己一生是否真的做对.但是人生是
不可能象打游戏一样restart的,你的一生只能过一次.这一点也恰恰
是我悲伤和做决定的时候顾虑重重的原因.从这点上,我很佩服这个校
友.
我觉得很重要的一点就是你每次做一个决定,抛弃现在得到的东西,
到一个陌生的地方新开始的时候,都是一个痛苦的过程.在新的地方,
你一无所有,什么都要重
【在 p*****g 的大作中提到】
: haven't followed up all the emails, don't have time tojust have some feeling
: of this topic
: I transferred from University of Tenn to Columbia this fall semester
: These are two completely different life styles,
: the one in TN, very relaxed, lot of time for fun, but somewhat boring,
: I can't see my future there, and the major is not what I want
: the one in Columbia, very stressful, busy,i don't have enough sleep everyday
: especially feeling pressured when considering the tuition I paid, but enjoyable
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