x****g
发帖数: 51 | 1 Think too much, worry too much, why? for money and green cards? One's purpose
of working should foremost be gaining more knowledge and becoming a better
person, a person with strong and good characters.
If you need other people's ratings to gain confidence or finding
shortcomings, there's something wrong in your self-confidence and
knowing-yourself ability after ~30 years living in this world. You should be
able to know yourself in everyday ordinary small things you did, happened to
you, or b/ | x****g
发帖数: 51 | 2 If you realy think your manager is being unfair to you, there's even less need
to argue w/ them about your rating. You can only loose your status in their
mind if you come back with these issues. As far as I know, americans usually
just pack up and leave if they are unhappy with their managers. There's no
reason to act humble at work. My observation is that you loose more than you
gain if you do things like arguing about ratings, asking to initiate green
card process. What you do want to ar | m*****e
发帖数: 4193 | 3 You are living in an isolated island or not? Do you get paychecks and bonus
from your employer? Do you have a family to feed?
This has nothing to do with self-confidence. You get your ratings you deserve
and have good communication with your manager. Rating has direct impact on
your career.
Your comments may work for some people, but for most people (especially for
new graduates), what a pile of nonsense.
【在 x****g 的大作中提到】
: Think too much, worry too much, why? for money and green cards? One's purpose
: of working should foremost be gaining more knowledge and becoming a better
: person, a person with strong and good characters.
: If you need other people's ratings to gain confidence or finding
: shortcomings, there's something wrong in your self-confidence and
: knowing-yourself ability after ~30 years living in this world. You should be
: able to know yourself in everyday ordinary small things you did, happened to
: you, or b/
| x****g
发帖数: 51 | 4 On the contrary, I think it is important for the new graduates to prepare
themselves both psychologically and materially for high job mobility. I still
don't understand why people buy houses soon after getting a job? And why
raising a family while green card is still a distant future (if you really
intend to stay)? There is a chinese proverb 作茧自缚，as a foreigner,
especially a pretty discriminated group of foreigner, you don't want to live a
life as if you were in china when you first started wo | x****g
发帖数: 51 | 5 On the contrary, no body deserves to be treated like a slave, if you were,
pack up and leave, find a new job, good for you, bad for your old company. If
you have nothing to loose when it comes to changing jobs, then the company has
everything to loose if they treat you like a slave. I am sorry if I offended
anyone with kids or going to, it's just me that I believe for my kids to have
a happy childhood, with family relatives to visit, with friends to play with,
and free to play outside, not eve |
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