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WaterWorld版 - 学校同事为何多爱说谎
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s*********2
发帖数: 5
1
现在一学校教书. 有一些事情不得其解. 比如一同事宣传其得到 NSF-CAREER. But
the NSF page does not show "CAREER" in that award. Is it true that all
CAREER awards must have "CAREER:" in front of the proposal title on the NSF
page? Well, since it is announced in the department page, I guess it must be
a real CAREER and the NSF page is a mistake.
I have observed similar things on other colleagues. For example, a couple of
times i asked (casually) about their submitted proposals, they always say "
yes it is funded", but a check on NSF page revealed these are lies.
I myself never lie to colleagues. These days, I start to think maybe it is a
good thing to hide weakness to your colleagues (although I am still not
sure what is the point of making obvious lies). What do you guys think?
f******g
发帖数: 343
2
you asked too much!

NSF
be
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a

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: 现在一学校教书. 有一些事情不得其解. 比如一同事宣传其得到 NSF-CAREER. But
: the NSF page does not show "CAREER" in that award. Is it true that all
: CAREER awards must have "CAREER:" in front of the proposal title on the NSF
: page? Well, since it is announced in the department page, I guess it must be
: a real CAREER and the NSF page is a mistake.
: I have observed similar things on other colleagues. For example, a couple of
: times i asked (casually) about their submitted proposals, they always say "
: yes it is funded", but a check on NSF page revealed these are lies.
: I myself never lie to colleagues. These days, I start to think maybe it is a
: good thing to hide weakness to your colleagues (although I am still not

s*********2
发帖数: 5
3
Well, maybe I should not asked at all. I did not ask in purpose, just
casually mentioned it during casual conversations. My limited observation is
that senior faculty tend to tell me their failure stories but I almost
always get (obvious) lies from junior colleagues.
f******g
发帖数: 343
4
YEs, because seniors got all, they do not need anything more. Juniors just
begin, they care a lot.

is

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: Well, maybe I should not asked at all. I did not ask in purpose, just
: casually mentioned it during casual conversations. My limited observation is
: that senior faculty tend to tell me their failure stories but I almost
: always get (obvious) lies from junior colleagues.

s*********2
发帖数: 5
5
What I am really curious is "what is the point of making obvious lies?"
People can easily find out the truth and will have the impression that he/
she likes to lie.
f******g
发帖数: 343
6
It is easy to find the truth, so why do you bother to ask?

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: What I am really curious is "what is the point of making obvious lies?"
: People can easily find out the truth and will have the impression that he/
: she likes to lie.

s*********2
发帖数: 5
7
Well. When you have a casual conversation with your colleague, you don't
necessarily always check everything before talk, right?. For example, you
heard your colleague won a grant in some program you are interested in, then
you may try to find out some details etc.
I start to think about this, as I notice quite a few of my junior colleagues
try to act very strong, confident, and aggressive. I myself do the opposite
and tend to complain to colleagues about my failures. I am wondering maybe
I should change....
f******g
发帖数: 343
8
In usa, do not talk about anything related to money with your colleagues.
remember colleagues are also competitors.

then
colleagues
opposite
maybe

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: Well. When you have a casual conversation with your colleague, you don't
: necessarily always check everything before talk, right?. For example, you
: heard your colleague won a grant in some program you are interested in, then
: you may try to find out some details etc.
: I start to think about this, as I notice quite a few of my junior colleagues
: try to act very strong, confident, and aggressive. I myself do the opposite
: and tend to complain to colleagues about my failures. I am wondering maybe
: I should change....

s*********2
发帖数: 5
9
Footlong: do you know the answer to
Is it true that all CAREER awards must have the word "CAREER:" in front of
the proposal title on the NSF page?
f******g
发帖数: 343
10
I do not know. I never ask anybody about his/her Grant. Most of time, just
tell jokes among casual talks. .
Or if relations are really great, talk about kids etc.

of

【在 s*********2 的大作中提到】
: Footlong: do you know the answer to
: Is it true that all CAREER awards must have the word "CAREER:" in front of
: the proposal title on the NSF page?

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